8 Traits of Teens Who Abstain From Sex

8 Traits of Teens Who Abstain From Sex

ufilogoFormer head of the National Institutes of Health and the American Red Cross, Dr. Bernadine Healy, writes on research conducted on teens who choose chastity before marriage.  The following is an excerpt from her latest article, click here to read the full story.

Kids who can make abstinence decisions do better in school, too, even when the comparison group was matched for social background and the desire to pursue education. Abstinent teens are far more likely to attend and graduate from college than those who are sexually active, based on an analysis of the NIH-supported National Longitudinal Survey of Adolescent Health by Robert Rector and Kirk Johnson, researchers at the Heritage Foundation. Seems obvious: less distraction and more time to study.

But maybe it’s more. The researchers identified eight personality and behavioral traits that were associated with both abstinence and academic achievement—traits that to some extent may be inborn but can also be taught and reinforced regularly at home and at school:

  1. Future orientation, with a focus on long-term goals
  2. Willingness to postpone current pleasures for larger future rewards
  3. Perseverance, as in the ability to stick to a task or commitment
  4. A belief that current behavior can positively affect the future
  5. Impulse control, including ability to control emotions and desires
  6. Resistance to peer influence
  7. Respect for parental and social values
  8. Sense of self-worth and personal dignity

The right kind of sex education of our young is really about more than sex. It’s about raising the kind of people we all want to be.

3 Comments
  • Shalese
    Posted at 17:39h, 12 January Reply

    I absolutely agree with this! It’s no mystery that those who abstain from sex have it much more put together as a general rule from what I’ve observed, especially within my own circle of friends and acquaintances. I think its sad how this is viewed as popular or “in” at our high schools, but quite honestly most kids have more respect for those who are strong in that area, even if they aren’t willing to publically admit it. I wish more of my peers could realize it; it’s the only way this trend could shift.

  • Anonymous
    Posted at 13:52h, 11 February Reply

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