Generated by All in One SEO v4.9.10, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. # United Families International ## Sitemaps - [XML Sitemap](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website. ## Posts - [Teaching Our Families- Free Societies Need Free Speech](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/teaching-our-families-free-societies-need-free-speech/) - The Challenge in a free society is not eliminating differences, but learning how to engage one another respectfully. - [The Truth About What Boys Need To Succeed](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-truth-about-what-boys-need-to-succeed/) - June 18, 2026 By: Christal Taggart When my boys were growing up, I sometimes joked about wanting to start a Tom Sawyer School for Boys. Instead of sitting at desks all day, students would learn math while building rafts, science while exploring the outdoors, and reading through stories that captured their imagination. Looking back, I - [Support For Fathers-How Families and Societies Make A Big Difference](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/support-for-fathers-how-families-and-societies-make-a-big-difference/) - June 8, 2026 By: Christal Taggart From time to time, as our children were growing up, my husband would sit down with each child individually. He would check in to see how they were doing emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually. Looking back, those conversations represented something important. My husband was intentionally creating time to connect - [On The Rise-Kids Turning To AI For Artificial Connection](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/on-the-rise-kids-turning-to-ai-for-artificial-connection/) - May 21, 2026 By: Christal Taggart When my children were teenagers, we would often pile into our 15-passenger van, and go somewhere as a family. That van was rarely quiet, and we eventually gave it a name: the "Van-O-Fun." It was filled with overlapping conversations, laughter, and the occasional raised voice. This was especially true - [A Look Inside Modern Culture and Declining Birth Rates](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/demographic-decline/a-look-inside-modern-culture-and-declining-birth-rates/) - May 6, 2026 By: Christal Taggart Since Thomas Robert Malthus published An Essay on the Principle of Population in 1798, societies have worried that a world with too many people would lead to disaster, famine, poverty, and disease. That idea has shaped what we believe about population for generations. However, today, the concern looks vastly - [Sparks Fly-How Modern Dating Gets Love Wrong](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/sparks-fly-how-modern-dating-gets-love-wrong/) - Sexual intimacy is designed to reinforce connection. It was never designed to objectively test compatibility. - [We Need to Bring Back Commitment Culture](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/we-need-to-bring-back-commitment-culture/) - January 29, 2026 By: Janina Glass Imagine you had a child (perhaps you do), and imagine that during every day of life with that child, you thought of them the way many people in our modern society think about their partners: constantly agonizing over whether to keep them around or let them go.“Is this really You cannot develop grit in something you are always halfway prepared to abandon. Humans develop through friction, not in spite of it. - [Social Implications of the Decline in Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/cohabitation/social-implications-of-the-decline-in-marriage/) - Marriage lays the groundwork to create successful relationships, and it's imperative we pass this message on to the generations to come. - [A Critical Investment-Supporting Mothers In a Climate of Individualism](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/a-critical-investment-supporting-mothers-in-a-climate-of-individualism/) - November 19, 2025 By: Erika Casamalhuapa The journey to motherhood is a significant transition in life for most women. From experiencing a changing body to caring for a new child, motherhood is a unique experience which requires a period of learning and creates a need for support. In a society that often devalues the role In a society that often devalues the role of motherhood, it's more important than ever for women to know how and where to find the help and support they need. - [Estrangement-How to Mend Disconnect in Family Relationships](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/estrangement-how-to-mend-disconnect-in-family-relationships/) - Learn about the causes of family separation and the importance of making amends. Discover techniques for healing and reconnecting with loved ones. - [Porn Addiction And Kids: An Urgent Battle Cry to Parents](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/porn-addiction-and-kids-an-urgent-battle-cry-to-parents/) - Gain insights into porn addiction and find out how parents can take proactive steps to explain dangers and set boundaries for their children. - [The New Scarlet Letter: ‘Bigot’—Branded for Speaking the Truth](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/the-new-scarlet-letter-bigot-branded-for-speaking-the-truth/) - Disagree with same-sex marriage or gender ideology? You're likely to be labeled a bigot. But is that label honest—or strategic? - [Suicide Risk in Parents of Disabled Children-What You Need To Know](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/suicide-risk-in-parents-of-disabled-children-what-you-need-to-know/) - Discover vital support strategies for parents caring for disabled children, from community resources to self-care tips for emotional resilience. - [The Dark Side of MAID: Why Canada's Euthanasia Laws Are Under Fire](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/uncategorized/the-dark-side-of-maid-why-canadas-euthanasia-laws-are-under-fire/) - Canada’s MAID law is expanding—but at what cost? Critics warn it's failing the vulnerable and replacing care with state-sanctioned death. - [Raising Boys, Saving Girls: The Fatherhood Fix for Boys in Crisis](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/raising-boys-saving-girls-the-fatherhood-fix-for-boys-in-crisis/) - Boys are in crisis—and it's hurting everyone. This article explores how fatherhood is the key to healing struggling boys and building a better future for all. - [Is the Abortion Pill Safe? What New Research Reveals About Mifepristone Risks](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/is-the-abortion-pill-safe-what-new-research-reveals-about-mifepristone-risks/) - Is mifepristone truly safe? Explore new research, personal stories, and what women need to know before choosing chemical abortion. - [Church and State in China: When Faith Meets Oppression](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/church-and-state-in-china-when-faith-meets-oppression/) - China's new religious restrictions and the China-Vatican deal raise concerns over faith, freedom, and government control. Join the call to prayer and action. - [The Tragic Irony of ‘Aborting for the Kids’](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-tragic-irony-of-aborting-for-the-kids/) - Can you be “pro-child” and support abortion? This article challenges the claim that abortion is an act of love for existing children. - [When Inclusion Hurts: Why You Should Avoid Social Transition](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/when-inclusion-hurts-how-to-help-your-child-accept-themselves/) - A critical look at gender social transition in youth, emphasizing evidence-based care, parental rights, and long-term well-being. What is the right choice? - [Colorado’s Kelly Loving Act Threatens Families and Silences Dissent ](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/colorados-kelly-loving-act-threatens-families-and-silences-dissent/) - The Kelly Loving Act threatens parental rights and free speech in Colorado. Learn how it could impact families—and how you can take action. - [Creating Families: Is There A Moral Dilemma With Alternative Methods?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/creating-families-is-there-a-moral-dilemma-with-alternative-methods/) - The ethics of IVF, surrogacy, and AI remain debated as technology advances. Learn about fertility options, legal restrictions, and moral concerns in modern families. - [Does Paid Family Leave Affect Birth Rates?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/uncategorized/does-paid-family-leave-affect-birth-rates/) - Does paid family leave increase birth rates? Explore how culture and values may matter more than financial support in shaping family decisions. - [Schools, Secrets, and Transgenderism](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/schools-secrets-and-transgenderism/) - Parents can lose custody over gender beliefs—learn how schools and laws are impacting parental rights and what you can do to protect your family. - [Safeguarding Against Pornography: Talk About It](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/safeguarding-against-pornography-talk-about-it/) - More and more are coming out against pornography. Despite this, pornography is more accessible than ever. What can parents do to protect their children? - [Top 5 Pro-Life States Versus Top 5 Pro-Choice States: How Do They Measure Up?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/top-5-pro-life-states-versus-top-5-pro-choice-states-how-do-they-measure-up/) - Discover how state abortion laws have evolved since Roe v. Wade's reversal. Our guide clarifies key definitions and ranks top pro-life and pro-choice states. - [Divorce: How Waiting Periods Can Benefit the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/divorce-how-waiting-periods-can-benefit-the-family/) - Divorce has become a common word in our day-to-day life. Learn how waiting periods can help prevent them in certain circumstances. - [Coercion at the United Nations Amidst the Devaluing of Traditional Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/coercion-at-the-united-nations-amidst-the-devaluing-of-traditional-families/) - Learn how the United Nations is a threat to the family unit and what some are doing to take a stand. - [Raising Thinkers: Encouraging Curiosity and Learning in Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/raising-thinkers-encouraging-curiosity-and-learning-in-children/) - Discover tips for fostering a love of learning in children, from connecting hobbies to education to encouraging a growth mindset and creative expression. - [Should Social Media Be Banned for Kids? Australia’s New Policy Push](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/should-social-media-be-banned-for-kids-australias-new-policy-push/) - Australia proposes a social media ban for kids under 16, joining global efforts to combat the mental health risks of excessive screen time for youth. - [New School Trans Policies in England Face Some Resistance](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/new-school-trans-policies-in-england-face-some-resistance/) - The UK’s evolving policies on gender education spark debate, focusing on safeguarding parental rights, and the treatment of gender confused children in schools. - [America Not Alone in Reproductive Rights Debate](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/america-not-alone-in-reproductive-rights-debate/) - Many think the controversial debate surrounding abortion is isolated to the US. The fact is, many other countries are struggling to come to a consensus. - [Equality in Marriage and Happiness](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/equality-in-marriage-and-happiness/) - Explore the importance of equity in marriage, highlighting the division of responsibilities, emotional well-being, and practical strategies for couples to enhance satisfaction in their relationship. - [Father’s Rights and How They Could Help Prevent Abortions](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/fathers-rights-and-how-they-could-help-prevent-abortions/) - October 21, 2024 By Linda Sulzen The BBC has reported that the abortion issue usually deals with the rights of the mother and the fetus and not the father. There are cases where fathers want a mother to get an abortion and she does not go through with it or where the mother gets an - [Stevie Nicks Releases Pro-Abortion Anthem ahead of U.S. Elections](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/stevie-nicks-releases-pro-abortion-anthem-ahead-of-u-s-elections/) - Explore the significance of Stevie Nicks's song "Lighthouse," as it delves into the emotional and political dimensions of reproductive rights. - [Building Bridges: The Quest for Religious Freedom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/uncategorized/building-bridges-the-quest-for-religious-freedom/) - Learn about initiatives for improving religious freedom and fostering understanding through education and community engagement. - [Be an Advocate for Your Child; Parents Rights in Education](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/parental-rights/be-an-advocate-for-your-child-parents-rights-in-education/) - September 23, 2024 By Linda Sulzen According to Fox News at the beginning of the 2024 school year top issues facing educational institutions include students protesting the Gaza war, AI bullying, policies regarding transgender students, school choice options and new rules in some states regarding religious practices in schools or book bans. This could seem Learn about your rights as a parent so you can be aware of what's going on in the lives of your children at school. - [Peer Pressure and Gender Dysphoria](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/peer-pressure-and-gender-dysphoria/) - September 16, 2024 By Rebecca Tingey In July of 2021, a twelve-year-old boy was found dead in his Oklahoma home, and it is believed the death was caused because he participated in the blackout challenge on TikTok. The challenge was to choke yourself until you black out, and then as you become conscious, a euphoric The increasing numbers of transgender youth is quite possibly connected to the friends they hang out with and their social media use. - [The New Danger to Your Child: "Smutbooks"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/the-new-danger-to-your-child-smutbooks/) - July 15, 2024 By Rebecca Heiner A few months ago, I noticed some posts on social media that had a similar theme. It got my attention because they were all referencing the same book title and cryptically referring to a specific part of the book, even going as far to list the exact page number. Smutbooks are gaining popularity, and it's important to your child that you understand the dangers involved. - [Fur Babies: The New Parenthood?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/fur-babies-the-new-parenthood/) - July 8, 2024 By Rebecca Heiner Recently I came across a popular social media account that posts weekly entertaining videos of their family. This young couple has two adorable daughters, and their content is centered around their daily adventures together. Their account is full of carefully crafted videos showing their two young children experiencing all With more and more couples opting for fur babies rather than actual human babies, it makes one wonder what that means for the future. - [Can LGBTQ Rights and Religious Freedom Coexist Peacefully?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/can-lgbtq-rights-and-religious-freedom-coexist-peacefully/) - July 3, 2024 By Rebecca Heiner As a young child, I was taught to show people kindness and respect, regardless of their beliefs. The golden rule “treat others the way you want to be treated” has long been a common theme throughout American culture and intricately woven into the tapestry of our societies. However, in Hope for reconciliation between the LGBTQ community and the religious community appears to be diminishing, but Rebecca reminds us there are some simple steps we can take to remedy that. - [Are you in Love with a Jerk?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/uncategorized/are-you-in-love-with-a-jerk/) - June 18, 2024 By Haley Cloward Have you ever been or are you currently in a relationship with someone who could be the one? Do you love the person you are with because you feel totally comfortable with them, and you both just get each other on the most intimate level? Does being together feel How can you avoid falling in love with a jerk? Follow the RAM model! - [The Ripple Effects of Divorce](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/uncategorized/the-ripple-effects-of-divorce/) - June 10, 2024 By Becky Tingey Have you ever dropped a pebble in a lake and watched the ripples move across thewater like concentric circles? The circles get bigger and bigger as they spread out. It is afascinating thing to observe. Ripples are a great metaphor for what happens in divorce. Divorceproduces a ripple effect Divorce affects more than just you and your spouse. Children are affected, communities are affected, and society is affected. - [Being the Powerful Influence in the Lives of Our Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/being-the-powerful-influence-in-the-lives-of-our-children/) - June 5, 2024 By Rebecca Heiner Part 2 of 2 During the height of the 2020 pandemic, when everyday felt like an apocalyptic fever dream, 13-year-old Ash Eskridge found herself struggling with depression. She turned to social media to help her through the long, empty days and found solace in the similar experiences of others. Read part two of our installment on how children are affected by social media influencers. - [Do We Know Who Is Influencing Our Kids?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/do-we-know-who-is-influencing-our-kids/) - May 27, 2024 By Rebecca Heiner Part 1 of 2 Social media and I have a love/hate relationship. There are some things I love about it, and more things I hate. But one thing is certain…it has become a significant part of our daily lives and culture. The pull of influence it has on everyone and everything it Do you know who and what is influencing your child? Children spend so much time on technology these days, it is important that parents get the right information to combat the dangers associated with technology use. - [Harrison Butker reminds us there is truth](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/harrison-butker-reminds-us-there-is-truth/) - May 20, 2024 By Rebecca Heiner If hearing the name Harrison Butker doesn’t immediately catch your attention, there’s a good chance you haven’t been paying attention to the news or social media within the past week. Butker, an NFL player for the Kansas City Chiefs, recently delivered a commencement speech to the graduates of Benedictine College, a Harrison Butker caused controversy through his commencement speech at a Catholic college. But was it really as bad as everyone made it out to be? - [The Most Valuable Yet Forgotten Job](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/the-most-valuable-yet-forgotten-job/) - May 14, 2024 By Rebecca Heiner Recently, I spent time sorting through old family photos with my 79-year-old mother. For the past year and a half, she has been battling pancreatic cancer. After aggressive treatment the doctors determined there was nothing more they could do, and she was put on hospice/end of life care just Motherhood's value is being forgotten and diminished everyday, yet there are some of us who still remembers its importance. - [Parenting with Empathy-Why It Matters](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/parenting-with-empathy-why-it-matters/) - May 6, 2024 By Rebecca Heiner On a hot, August day in 1971, a group of 24 male college students arrived at Stanford University to participate in a two week-long experiment. Very little was known about what would be expected, but they were promised $15 per day for their participation. Psychology Professor, Phillip Zimbardo, sought the participants How can we parent a more wisely and with a little more compassion? This article gives great tips as to how we can do just that! - [Show Up As a Parent](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/uncategorized/show-up-as-a-parent/) - April 22, 2024 By Annie Wood Recently an Idaho couple made the news regarding their ultrasound experience during thewife’s second pregnancy. They were told that their baby girl might have Turner Syndrome, anon-fatal condition that slightly shortens life expectancy down to mid 60’s to early 70’s.Women with Turner Syndrome can lead relatively normal and healthy We can't choose to end our unborn child's life just because of the challenges they will face after they are born, just as we can't abuse already born children for their trials. Life is valuable no matter what stage it is at or what that life will be like. - [How to Block Pornography on Your Kids’ Devices](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/how-to-block-pornography-on-your-kids-devices/) - March 26, 2024 By Kylie Self In the age where technology is ever-so-prevalent, it has been easier than ever for pornographic websites to bombard everyone with their content. You have heard of the pop-up ads, fake websites, and so many other ways that porn makes its way into our feeds, and it seems like there Technology has made its way into every aspect of our lives. As parents, it is our responsibility to protect our children from the traps waiting for them on the devices we give them. - [Drugs and Youth](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/drugs-and-youth/) - March 11, 2024 By Kylie Self There is a shocking prevalence of drug use in our youth. According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse, “10.9% of eighth graders, 19.8% of tenth graders, and 31.2% of twelfth graders” have used illicit drugs in the past year. These are astronomical numbers, with alcohol, nicotine, vaping, and cannabis being the As drug numbers escalate among our youth, its important that we become familiar with the affects. - [Making a case for online dating: a few tips, tricks, and a secret shortcut](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage-and-family/making-a-case-for-online-dating/) - March 4, 2024 By Annie Wood A few acknowledgements before we begin with this field guide. First, dating is a jungle. Second, this is not the dating scene from years gone by. Meeting people organically at the grocery store or post office is akin to hoping your laundry comes out of the dryer perfectly folded. - [The Importance of Femininity and Motherhood](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/feminism/the-importance-of-femininity-and-motherhood/) - February 26, 2024 By Kylie Self With the recent feminist movement, there have been demands for men and women to be equal. I agree with the concept that men and women should be treated equally, that women should be given the same opportunities as men, and that men are not greater than women, since that - [Greece Considers Legalizing Same-Sex Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/adoption-2/greece-considers-legalizing-same-sex-marriage/) - February 13, 2024 By Alexis Goodman February 15th will be an important day for the citizens of Greece. The nation’s parliament will be deciding if the merits to legalizing same-sex marriage are strong enough to oppose their heavily influential Orthodox church. If they acquiesce, they will be the first Orthodox Christian country to do so. At - [Gay Parents or Mother and Father?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/adoption-2/gay-parents-or-mother-and-father/) - February 5, 2024 Anonymous Since the ruling of Obergefell v. Hodges in 2015 was announced, homosexual couples around the country have been engaging in the act of marriage. And who could blame them when their next desire was to adopt children. Wanting to enlarge your family with children is not wrong at all. But as - [Porn's Effects on Women](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/uncategorized/porns-effects-on-women/) - January 23, 2024 By Kylie Self Pornography can be described as the depiction of erotic behavior (as in pictures or writing) intended to cause sexual excitement. Many people may view or participate in pornography, not knowing the numerous detrimental effects of it. Today, we will focus on the effects it has on women and their mental - [Targeting Immigrants: Barnevernet Norway’s Child Protective Services ](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/targeting-immigrants-barnevernet/) - January 15, 2014 By Brandy Burningham You show up in a new country with a new culture, new people, new laws, and completely new circumstances. After trying to get used to things and settling in you have your children taken from you. In Norway, immigrants are targeted more than Norwegian citizens when it comes to - [Barnevernet: Norway’s Child Protective Services Are Out of Control](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/barnevernet-norways-child-protective-services-are-out-of-control/) - January 9, 2024 By Brandy Birmingham What if your 19-month old son was taken away from you for being ½ a pound underweight (Hasan, 2019)? What if your 5-year old daughter was taken from you for telling her teacher about a dream she had about the Hulk (TRT World, 2018)? Sounds unbelievable right, but not - [Raise Tomorrow's Leaders With This Parent's Guide to Success](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/raise-tomorrows-leaders-with-this-parents-guide-to-success/) - December 18, 2023 By Amanda Henderson Fostering leadership skills in children from a young age is a crucial aspect of their development. As a parent, you have a unique opportunity to shape and influence your child's potential to become a leader. By recognizing and nurturing these skills early, you can set your child on a - [Norway as a Case Study: Letting Religious Freedom Slip Away ](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/freedom/norway-as-a-case-study/) - December 12, 2023 By Brandy Burningham We have all been taught throughout the years in freedom, liberty, and justice for all. Freedom to assemble and worship is a huge part of that, but not if you live in Norway. Norway has some major issues with interfering in the religious freedom of its citizens. Organizations with - [The Most Important Job That’s Overlooked: That of a Mother](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/the-most-important-job-thats-overlooked-that-of-a-mother/) - November 27, 2023 By Brandy Burningham You receive the Nobel Prize! You receive your PhD! You become CEO of a Fortune 500 corporation! All of these are amazing feats, but what if I told you your most important feat is that of being a mother. C.S. Lewis put it this way. He said, “Homemaking is - [The Legacy of a Grandparent](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/uncategorized/the-legacy-of-a-grandparent/) - November 20, 2023 By Chris Kiefer When my mom passed away earlier this year, she left a hole in all her family’s hearts – her children, her sons and daughters in-law, her grandchildren and great grandchildren, her siblings, and everyone in her life. But she also left a seed of love in each of those - [Erasing Motherhood – along with it, Womanhood.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/erasing-motherhood-along-with-it-womanhood/) - November 13, 2023 By Alexis Goodman This week, the state of Ohio voted to protect abortion rights, and gave it the height of protection when they voted to have that right enshrined in the state’s constitution. Now alongside the celebrated and long-standing inalienable rights such as “those of enjoying and defending life and liberty”, is - [Marriage and Fatherhood: The Path to Success](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage-and-family/marriage-and-fatherhood-the-path-to-success/) - October 31, 2023 By Chris Kiefer The following counsel is Part 2, and primarily directed to young men in their 20’s. Actively Prepare for and Seek Marriage If you want to invest in your greatest source of happiness and fulfillment, get married and have children. Do not cohabitate, and do not delay marriage. While you - [Marriage and Fatherhood: A Man’s Greatest Treasure](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/marriage-and-fatherhood-a-mans-greatest-treasure/) - October 23, 2023 By Chris Kiefer Part 1 Many young men today are looking for meaning and fulfillment in their lives. There are limitless options of where and how to find self-fulfillment and happiness. If that is you, I will speak to you today. If you want the most self-fulfillment and happiness in life, if - [The Contradiction of being Personally Opposed to Abortion, but Publicly Pro-Choice](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-contradiction-of-being-personally-opposed-to-abortion-but-publicly-pro-choice/) - October 14, 2023 By Brandy Burningham In talking with a relative she said something that I found very interesting. I asked her if she believes in abortion, which she said she does. She believes in a woman’s right to choose what’s best for her and her family. She then proceeded to say that she would - [What About Mom and Dad's Screen Time? ](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/what-about-mom-and-dads-screen-time/) - Parents often talk about how they need to regulate and limit their children's access to their devices, to social media, or just screen time in general. Many articles have been written in this age when social media has blown up, about how to help our kids cope and manage it. The problem is that not enough - [The Truth About Hooking Up And its Unintended, but Natural Consequences ](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/uncategorized/the-truth-about-hooking-up-and-its-unintended-but-natural-consequences/) - September 25, 2023 By Chris Kiefer It started out as a casual date. She met him on Tinder. She had been feeling depressed and lonely, and was just looking to have fun. They had a few too many drinks and they ended up at his apartment. She was not sure if she really wanted to - [Is OnlyFans an empowering choice for girls?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pornography/is-onlyfans-an-empowering-choice-for-girls-sexualization/) - September 18, 2023 Alexis Goodman Part 2 of 2 It was 1998 when the study made its first appearance in writing. It debuted in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology and caught attention with its intriguing title, “That Swimsuit Becomes You: Sex Differences in Self-Objectification, Restrained Eating, and Math Performance”. Four women had come - [OnlyFans and how it is slowly killing our daughters](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/uncategorized/onlyfans-is-slowly-killing-our-daughters/) - September 11, 2023 By Alexis Goodman Part 1 of 2 United Families International strives time and again to put a spotlight on the unheralded struggle’s men and boys face in society. This time though, I will be redirecting some attention to the ways in which women and girls are sorely mistreated. My analysis will not - [Science Is The Enemy Of Gender Ideology](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/science-is-the-enemy-of-gender-ideology/) - July 25, 2023 by Micol Collins The title of this article refers to quality science, the type that truly inquires and asks questions no one is at the moment allowed to ask. For example, questions about gender ideology. When courageous scientists use science to advance correct knowledge and understanding, we can end up discovering that - [Fatherhood: Teaching About God Since Ever](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/fatherhood-teaching-about-god-since-ever/) - July 21, 2023 by Micol Collins Children who grow up in homes with a father who practices their faith are more likely to attend church and continue on the same traditional faith as the father. A research study conducted over 40 years and with the goal of determining the factors that guarantee for the effective - [Traits of a Good Father](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/traits-of-a-good-father/) - July 14, 2023 by Micol Collins What do paternal leadership and authority mean? Social history provides us with a record of what paternal leadership and authority shouldn’t be like. Some of the earliest American records of such misinterpretations come from colonial records of family law: the practice of controlling a child’s complete financial and spousal - [What Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Stronger](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/what-doesnt-kill-you-makes-you-stronger/) - July 19, 2023 By Jamie Gordon Imagine that you are married with children, and your spouse becomes ill. Would you raise your children and care for your spouse the best you could? It is not easy to be a single parent, but it is even harder to take on the challenges of a single parent - [Domestic Violence and You](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/domestic-violence/domestic-violence-and-you/) - Lulu Martinez and Brittany Wethington No one wants to hear that someone has intentionally caused harm to a person, but every year at least six million cases of domestic violence are reported in the United States alone and this is not including the millions of cases that are suspected to go unreported each year. According - [My Childhood Abuse](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/my-childhood-abuse/) - June 28, 2023 The writer of this article wishes to remain anonymous. I am an adult survivor of childhood abuse. The effects of the abuse have stayed with me throughout my lifetime. My story is different from other survivors in some respects, but it is also the same—overwhelming emotional pain. I struggled with trying to - [A Different Kind of Love](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/a-different-kind-of-love/) - June 14, 2023 By Jamie Gordon The day was Thursday, April 16, 1998, a day that I had anticipated for a long time, it was the day that I would marry my best friend! It was the most amazing day, and then our married life began. We had ups and downs like any marriage, but - [Whatever The Reason?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/whatever-the-reason/) - May 30, 2023 by Micol Collins I was listening to my favorite music on the radio when an ad began streaming. The ad started telling the audience that it was okay to not like a particular flavor of ice cream, a job, etc. Quickly, it escalated to include the fact that it was not ok - [What Do Kids Want? Quality Time with Parents.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/what-do-kids-want-quality-time-with-parents/) - May 24, 2023 by Natalie Burr The rise of dual income households has led to less time spent with children. Parents spend an average of only three and a half hours a day with their kids. This time includes daily chores, making dinner, running errands, etc. My family is included in the dual income households. - [Motherhood: The Bedrock Of Society](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/motherhood-the-bedrock-of-society/) - May 9, 2023 by Micol Collins Note to the reader: in this post the term “anti-society” is intended to mean any practice and philosophy that undermines the existence and development of a healthy society. There I was. Changing another diaper. Exhausted beyond imagination and in the bitter galls of post-partum depression. I was feeling absolutely - [The Life That Could Have Been](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-life-that-could-have-been/) - April 7, 2023 by Abby Cherry We live in a world where thousands of lives that could have been, never have a chance. So many unborn babies are being killed before they could have a chance at life. Abortion is defined as the “deliberate termination of a human pregnancy.” There are many different reasons why - [Navigating Kids and Technology in a Modern World](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/navigating-kids-and-technology-in-a-modern-world/) - March 31, 2023 by Alexa Sanwo There were a lot of surprises I experienced when I had a baby. One was how frequently people asked me, “How long are you guys waiting until you get him a phone?” Technology is so integrated in our everyday lives. Children’s snow days are now virtual learning days. Many - [Gender is so simple a child understands, until that is, they’re taught otherwise](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender-is-so-simple-a-child-understands-until-that-is-theyre-taught-otherwise/) - March 24, 2023 by Tara Bleazard My first-grader jumped in the van after school, and before the seat belt even clicked, she quickly blurted out, “Charlie is actually a girl. Sara told me that they were twin baby girls when they were born, but that Charlie wants to be a boy, so their family told - [The Two Sides of the Pendulum](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/strongchildren-deserve-a-happy-and-healthy-home-strong-2-2-2/) - March 21, 2023 by Sydney Stratton Attending the United Nations has been one of my life's most interesting learning experiences. The UN has been so much more than I expected and it is incredible to have the opportunity to be here, learning and growing from powerful individuals with extremely different viewpoints than the ones I - [What do women really want?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/strongchildren-deserve-a-happy-and-healthy-home-strong-2-2/) - March 18, 2023 by Lexi Goodman From my disadvantaged position in the room, I could not see the speaker’s face, merely her monotonous voice that uttered sentences without any seemingly coherent thought. And although I couldn’t see the face behind the voice, I could imagine it. If it was like any of the other anti-family - [Learning From the United and Divided Nations](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/strongchildren-deserve-a-happy-and-healthy-home-strong-2/) - March 18, 2023 by Mylie Critchlow Being at the United Nations has been an overall unimaginable experience. With so many different cultures and backgrounds on every corner, I never know who I might have the chance of meeting. Whether it was the kind, Ethiopian woman in the elevator or the bold, Australian woman in the - [Children Deserve a Happy and Healthy Home](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/strongchildren-deserve-a-happy-and-healthy-home-strong/) - March 10, 2023 by Abby Cherry Facing the truth that you will never live under the same roof as both of your parents at the same time is something I wish no one in the world had to experience. Growing up, I was blessed to be raised in a home with a mom and a - [Empowering Families through Education](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/hope-for-breaking-the-poverty-cycle-2-2-2-2/) - March 10, 2023 by Shelby Allen The United Nations is full of a variety of people who come from different nations, speak different languages, and have different beliefs. It’s amazing to see so many people with all of these differences coming together working towards having a better future. However, the way we define what a - [UN Reality Check - Change Starts With You!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/hope-for-breaking-the-poverty-cycle-2-2-2/) - March 10, 2023 by Marinda Loertscher When I think of the United Nations, I think of world leaders coming together in an organized effort to shape better opportunities and circumstances for people around the world. This is what I expected when I came to the United Nations on the Status of Women conference, but I - [United at Heart](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/hope-for-breaking-the-poverty-cycle-2-2/) - March 9, 2023 by Dawsen Goodfellow Today I took my first steps into the world of policy and it happened to be at the 67th United Nations Commission on the Status of Women in the middle of Manhattan in New York City. Me, a simple BYU-I student from Southern Nevada is attending the largest conference - [A Fish in Different Waters](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/hope-for-breaking-the-poverty-cycle-2/) - March 9, 2023 by Jaren McClure The United Nations is a place that I only thought existed in dreams and movies, where people rigorously debate policy to change the world. That was my perception of the United Nations before I had the opportunity to experience it myself with United Families International. Some of those perceptions - [Hope for Breaking the Poverty Cycle](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/hope-for-breaking-the-poverty-cycle/) - February 21, 2023 by Alexa Sanwo People all over the world endure the struggles of not having enough. In 2018, there were 38.1 million people living in poverty in the United States alone. Poverty, of course, is terrible. People don’t get to choose whether they are born into a situation with or without money. The - [Raising Healthy Children Begins with Your Actions](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/raising-healthy-children-begins-with-your-actions/) - January 25, 2023 by Amanda Henderson Kids are like tiny sponges when it comes to absorbing information from all around them. Therefore, if they see the adults in their lives modeling healthy behaviors, they will do the same. As parents and role models, we have to help our children be their very best, and that - [This is a temporary post](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/father/this-is-a-temporary-post/) - So, what does this mean for our religious liberties that we might be taking for granted at the moment? While the bill was going through the rigamarole in the Senate, that very topic came up to the surprise of no one. And through what probably was like an intense tug-o-war of religious freedoms vs. same-sex - [Respect for Marriage Act, just not the traditional kind](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/same-sex-marriage/respect-for-marriage-act-just-not-the-traditional-kind/) - So, what does this mean for our religious liberties that we might be taking for granted at the moment? While the bill was going through the rigamarole in the Senate, that very topic came up to the surprise of no one. And through what probably was like an intense tug-o-war of religious freedoms vs. same-sex - [Setting the Record Straight on Hillary Clinton's Absurd Comparison](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/setting-the-record-straight-on-hillary-clintons-absurd-comparison/) - December 3, 2022 by Alexis Tarkalson These are the exact words from Hillary Clinton, delivered during an interview with PBS: “We have come along way on so many fronts but we are also in a period of time where there is a lot of pushback and much of the progress that has been taken for granted - [Children are in more danger than ever before](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pedophilia/children-are-in-more-danger-than-ever-before/) - November 29, 2022 by Alexis Tarkalson Last week, Washington Post published an article titled, “’Downstate’ is a play about pedophiles. It’s also brilliant.” The article, written by Peter Marks, does not go on to offer a glowing review of the play’s condemnation of pedophilia or pedophiles alike. No, Marks only offers admiration and positive accolades - [Happy Thanksgiving!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/ufi/happy-thanksgiving/) - November 22, 2022 by Alexis Tarkalson This week as we prepare to gather with family and friends, we also prepare to give some thought to the word 'gratitude' in recognition of this week's namesake, Thanksgiving. A great number of studies have been performed to show that engaging in any activity exercising gratitude can result in - [Welcome Baby Eight Billion!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/birth-rate/welcome-baby-eight-billion-population/) - November 19, 2022 by Alexis Tarkalson This last Tuesday the world saw its population officially reach eight billion. Reactions were mixed but unfortunately the loudest reactions were cries of dismay. The fear of overpopulation, climate change, and dismal conditions of the world were the prevailing backdrop for the articles covering this particular news update. The - [Canada Launches Million Dollar Pro-Abortion Initiatives in Jamaica](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/canada-launches-million-dollar-pro-abortion-initiatives-in-jamaica/) - November 14, 2022 by Angelina Gibbs Pro-Life Global In a shocking neocolonialist move, the Canadian government has given Jamaica CDN 9.8 million dollars, the equivalent amount of 1.12 billion Jamaican dollars, in order to fight against gender-based violence and advance sexual and reproductive rights. Canada’s move happened despite abortion being illegal in Jamaica and two-thirds - [Should We Be Concerned About "Gender-Affirming Care"?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/should-we-be-concerned-about-gender-affirming-care/) - November 11, 2022 by Mary Jones There has been a massive uproar on gender identity in the news lately. “Gender-affirming care”, a term used to describe giving puberty blockers and performing surgery on people who are confused about their gender, has become a scorching political subject, especially for young kids. So, I was curious to know what was - [Abortion: How are they actually done?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/abortion-how-are-they-actually-done/) - October 31, 2022 by Alexis Goodman Part 2 of 3 Now that we have covered the why’s of abortion, it becomes necessary to investigate the how’s. How is abortion performed? Who performs them? Are they dangerous? As reported by the World Health Organization, somewhere around 73 million induced abortions happen every year around the world. - [Abortion: Why Women Do it](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/abortion-why-women-do-it/) - October 26, 2022 by Alexis Goodman Part 1 of 3 A wise friend of mine once said, “Before we can ever know the how, we must first understand the why.” So, to put some pressure on this theory, we are going to adapt it to a real-life issue occurring around the world. Before we can - [Abortion: Women have a right to know the impact of abortion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/abortion-the-long-term-effects/) - November 8, 2022 by Alexis Goodman Part 3 of 3 It is naïve and optimistic to assert there are no long-term affects to abortion. All surgeries, particularly invasive ones, are capable of producing symptoms post-operation. Physical, mental, and social changes in a person’s life are warned to be a possible outcome, and to say that abortion is - [Social-Emotional Learning: A Global Initiative](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/social-emotional-learning-a-global-initiative/) - November 4, 2022 By Sharisa Masterson I never thought that I would see Ayn Rand’s Anthem paint the catastrophe that is brewing here in The United States of America. That we would slowly become a Marxist state set on indoctrinating our children to think and act as the state dictates; and punish parents for teaching their children - [How Can We Help Our Youth Feel Good About Their Birth Gender?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/how-can-we-help-our-youth-feel-good-about-their-birth-gender/) - October 28, 2022 by Christine Richey She was a new face, a young visitor. She was introduced to my daughter, who invited her to sit with our family in our pew at church. Immediately I noticed a difference in her versus other 18 year old girls. She looked unhealthy, and seemed very frail. I hurried - [Our Children and Their Future: Comprehensive Sex Education](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/planned-parenthood/our-children-and-their-future-comprehensive-sex-education/) - October 21, 2022 by Alexis Goodman The authors of comprehensive sex education (CSE) label the countries who accept their curriculum as “champions”. Champions are, “influential thought leaders, including politicians, celebrities, young people, religious leaders, and others from inside and outside the educational field, who believe in the importance of CSE”. The effects of CSE are said - [The Department of Justice is out of control!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/the-department-of-justice-is-out-of-control/) - October 19, 2022 by Alexis Goodman On August 9, 2022, the Department of Justice (DOJ) issued a subpoena to the grass-roots activist organization called Eagle Forum of Alabama (EFA). A group that only employs one employee full-time and one-part time, it is left to the mercy of the everyday citizen willing to set aside his - [Fascist or Just Conservative?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/giorgia-meloni-fascist-or-just-conservative/) - September 30, 2022 by Alexis Goodman The world is in an uproar over politics once again, and this time it's because they are looking at a shattered glass ceiling. Italy looks to appoint their first ever female Prime Minister, and normally that would be enough to deserve more liberal-leaning praise and adoration. Unfortunately, despite Giorgia - [Compromise is a negotiating tool- not a virtue](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/compromise-is-a-negotiating-tool-not-a-virtue/) - October 14, 2022 by Alexis Goodman It has become all too common that the American people no longer know when or how to compromise. I see it time and time again where individuals yield themselves to the enticements of tolerance and acceptance at the cost of who they are as a person. Neither tolerance nor - [J.D. Unwin was right. Monogamy matters.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/civil-unions/unwin-was-right-monogamy-was-right/) - October 11, 2022 by Alexis Goodman Popular culture and media is going to give you a hundred reasons why you shouldn’t stay with one person your whole life. “Monogamy is a myth,” they will try to tell you. It will be pounded into your head time and time again that people grow up and grow - [Can you be "Pro" Black Lives Matter and "Pro" Family?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/can-you-be-pro-black-lives-matter-and-pro-family/) - October 7, 2022 by Alexis Goodman Kanye West, an American rapper, has poked the hornets’ nest with his decision to wear a “White Lives Matter” T-Shirt to his Yeezy Paris Fashion Week. Reactions have been that he has gone too far, that there is no excuse for the shirt, and that it was ‘extremist behavior’. Despite the frenzied - [Daddy Issues](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/daddy-issues-and-their-effects-on-children-fathers-absence/) - September 23, 2022 by Alexis Goodman It is unlikely that you have ever heard of Ashley Fisher. This may be due to the fact that she hasn’t done anything to have her name cross your dashboard in neon lights, but she did write an interesting article about growing up without a father. It took her - [Is New York's Move to Decriminalize Prostitution Safe?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/is-new-yorks-move-to-decriminalize-prostitution-safe-what-it-will-do-to-sex-trafficking/) - September 23, 2022 by Alexis Goodman Sex trafficking is underwhelmingly represented in daily mainstream news as the tell-tale numbers continue to grow larger and larger. With victims hailing from every country regardless of gender, ethnicity, or socioeconomic background, this is a global pandemic that bears no prejudice. For example, Tenancingo, Mexico is what some consider - [I’m A Gun Owner from Uvalde County, TX. Let’s Talk Less about Rights and More about Responsibilities.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/im-a-gun-owner-from-uvalde-county-tx-lets-talk-less-about-rights-and-more-about-responsibilities/) - June 25, 2022 by Matthew Sailors Awakened, Violently No childhood nightmare ever shook me as did the atrocity that happened on May 24, 2022, in Uvalde, Texas. My family and I lived on a ranch in Uvalde County and enjoyed the peace and safety of the nearby communities. So I cannot imagine how earth-shattering the - [UN Secretary-General Claims Abortion Promotes Women’s Rights](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/adoption-vs-abortion-real-lives-real-stories-2/) - Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Print Friendly Like 0 [et_pb_section][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text] By Madison Jenkins Women are strong, smart, and capable of preventing pregnancy or taking responsibility for the consequences of sexual activity, to assume otherwise, is demeaning and anything but promoting equality. If they become pregnant and do not want to keep the baby, they are strong - ["Inevitability" and the Russian Renewal](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-articles/inevitability-and-the-russian-renewal/) - Carol Soelberg The headlines have been blaring the news: “Majorities Say Same-Sex Marriage is inevitable.” People who opposed same-sex marriage are “on the wrong side of history,” they claim. I’ve heard claims of “inevitability” before; history is laced with them. But I can think of no other more profound rebuttal to the “inevitable” way of - ["The Kitchen is a Torture Chamber..."](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-articles/the-kitchen-is-a-torture-chamber/) - What happened at the UN last week? The annual UN Commission on the Status of women is winding to a close and we wish you’d been there with us to experience some of the high moments and some outrageous and unnerving, yet revealing moments. Close to 7,000 women from around the world gathered for the - [What Does the World Owe You? The Human Rights Question](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-articles/world-owe-human-rights-question/) - Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Print Friendly Like 0 [et_pb_section][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text] I laughed when a colleague sent me a meme with a photo of an empty notepad that included the caption: “Here’s a comprehensive list of everything you’re entitled to and what the world owes you.” This colleague knew that I was part of a team representing - [Day 2: Who Is Imposing Their Culture On Africa?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/same-sex-marriage/day-2-who-is-imposing-their-culture-on-africa/) - The ambassador was formal and dignified as he welcomed me into his office.* Not wanting to waste even a moment of such an important man’s time, I immediately presented him with our gift of UFI’s UN Negotiating Guide and proceeded to show him how to use the electronic CD to benefit the delegates in his - [Day 5: Cross Your Fingers for Egypt](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/un/day-5-cross-your-fingers-for-egypt/) - By Joshua James Right now I’m sitting on a retro brown chair in the basement of the UN building, waiting for an event to end. Originally I sat down to finish a blog or two, but got a little distracted. The first distraction came when a woman from Mozambique passed by. “Are you getting Internet?” - [Day 3: A Rabbi, a Rapper, and a Radio Host](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/un/day-3-a-rabbi-a-rapper-and-a-radio-host/) - This was the title of a side event at the UN CSW. If that doesn't prick your interest, it gets better. Topic of discussion was "breaking the institutional barriers of cultural texts". The reconstructionist Rabbi, Alissa Wise,a Jewish feminist who has worked for planned parenthood, is reclaiming Jewish tradition supported by quotes from the Bible - [Fighting for Families: UFI and the United Nations](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-family/fighting-for-families-ufi-and-the-united-nations/) - Next week, the UN's Commission on the Status of Women will begin. What happens there will impact families the world over. Documents created by the United Nations create a lawmaking precedent that affect almost every country in the world. United Families International will have a team there, representing the family, for the entire 12 day - [UFI Stands For Proper Care For Mothers Around The World](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/environmentalism/ufi-stands-for-proper-care-for-mothers-around-the-world/) - After two weeks of intense work in the halls of the United Nations our UFI delegation has returned home. Although we are a bit beaten and bruised, our efforts helped ensure that the policies coming out of the Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) were truly positive for women, children, and families. Our efforts - [The Future Belongs to Stable Married Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-future-belongs-to-stable-married-families/) - First, the good news The teen birth rate in the United States fell two percent between 2007 and 2008, after rising for the two years prior. The birth rate for the year 2007, however, was an all-time high. This report from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention's National Center for Health Statistics gives us - [8th grader takes on euthanasia](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/euthanasia/8th-grader-takes-on-euthanasia/) - A few months ago we posted a video of 12-year-old Lia of Toronto giving an impassioned speech defending the sanctity of life against abortion. Well, a year older now, Lia is taking on euthanasia. Not only is her delivery perfect, she also delivers one of the most succinct, rational, and compelling arguments against euthanasia we've - [Parents: What rights did you sign away?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/parents-what-rights-did-you-sign-away/) - In the wake of the UFI Daily story regarding the State of Washington and the mother who lamented the fact that her high-school age daughter was given an abortion without her knowledge, I went to the Ballard High School website (Seattle, Washington) to take a look at their parental consent form. You should take a - [Forced Abortion in the U.S.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/sex-selection-abortion/forced-abortion-in-the-u-s/) - China has been involved in coercive abortion for years, driven primarily by a perceived need to enforce their appalling program known as the “one child policy.” But did you know that forced abortion is happening in the U.S. as well? Consider this case reported on last week by the Philadelphia Dailey News. Here’s a brief - [Rules of Fatherhood AND Motherhood](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/father/rules-of-fatherhood-and-motherhood/) - By Rachel Allison Parents never retire. Even though our children are adults they are never far from our thoughts, and even now we look for positive ways to influence them. My husband and I read the following article together and realized that we could improve our parenting skills. We discussed what we could do to - [Do Try This at Home: Good Critical Thinking](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/do-try-this-at-home-good-critical-thinking/) - Good Critical Thinking: Do Try This at Home “A good critical thinker always asks where the author is coming from, and why.” That was good advice from one of my recent “Family Studies” professors, as he urged us to carefully examine the research studies we were analyzing. Did the researchers use a random sample? Who - ["We are Family"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/adoption-2/we-are-family/) - Rebecca Mallory If you remember this great number 1 hit from "Sister Sledge" in the '70's, then that dates us both! (I always thought it was "The Pointer Sisters" who sang that. Nope!) We are family. Sometimes I sit in church looking at the congregation. Sweet and loving families behaving perfectly, and dressed in Sunday's - [3 Ways Gay Marriage Has Changed Canada](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/3-ways-gay-marriage-has-changed-canada/) - Diane Robertson In 2005, Canada quietly legalized gay marriage. Unlike the United States, there was never a fight or a court case, or really much ado about it. It just happened. And since then, we haven’t heard if gay marriage changed anything about Canada. Until now… Canadian citizen and daughter of a gay man, Dawn - [Religious Liberty--“the harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph.”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/religious-freedom/religious-liberty-the-harder-the-conflict-the-more-glorious-the-triumph/) - By Caitlin Woolbert “These are the times that try men’s souls. The summer soldier and the sunshine patriot will, in this crisis, shrink from the service of their country; but he that stands by it now, deserves the love and thanks of man and woman. Tyranny, like hell, is not easily conquered; yet we have - [What do you call someone who believes in equality?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/feminism/what-do-you-call-someone-who-believes-in-equality/) - by Erika Walker Feminism is defined as the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men. The belief in women’s rights and the pursuit for “gender equality” is what started the feminists movement. Three waves of Feminist Movement There have been three “waves” in the feminist movement. The - [The Nation Turned Upside Down](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/religious-freedom/the-nation-turned-upside-down-2/) - by Diane Robertson In the state of Oregon a husband can have extra marital affairs, leave his wife and children and have no legal consequences. His wife can claim emotional damage and suffering all day long, but she will never get any legal recourse. But if a baker refuses to make a wedding cake for - [Modern Academic Oppression](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/free-speech/modern-academic-oppression/) - by Gary Boyd Many students across America on probably every college campus, have wondered whether they might have received lesser grades than they felt they deserved; not due to their academic performance, but due to controversial views expressed by students over the duration of a college course. Many college courses tend toward ideological conflict, and, unavoidably, - [I’m Sorry; I Just Never Learned How to Fail](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/im-sorry-i-just-never-learned-how-to-fail/) - by Kelsi Shipley It’s loud and cold, but you don’t notice. Your son is playing in the state football championship game. He has worked relentlessly to be ready for this game. He’s been hitting the gym, attending practices, and has even missed hanging out with friends to be ready for tonight. You know how much - [The Baby Decline](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/demographic-decline/the-baby-decline/) - by Tashica Jacobson It is common belief that the world’s population is increasing, but the opposite is in fact true. While demographers don’t agree on what this fully means, for the human race, they do agree that it will have drastic consequences for generations to come. This decrease in the human population is called demographic - [Canadian Senate Legalizes Euthanasia](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/euthanasia/canadian-senate-legalizes-euthanasia/) - Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Print Friendly Like 0 [et_pb_section admin_label=”section”] [et_pb_row admin_label=”row”] [et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text”]Diane Robertson It’s hard to figure out liberal logic. Liberals will say that disagreeing with someone can tragically cause them to want to commit suicide, and therefore speech must be regulated. On the other hand, if the person who wants to commit - [Freedom Of Religion, Not Freedom From Religion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/freedom-religion-not-freedom-religion/) - By Erin Weist The state of Mississippi is preparing to enact a notable bill passed earlier this year by the state legislature. This “Religious Liberty Bill,” as it is described, was written as a result of certain events throughout the United States. Those events are described in the language of this bill as follows: “After - [A Universal Human Right](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/universal-human-right/) - by Erin Weist Many countries are increasingly antagonistic to religious belief and expression. For instance, since 2015 the Chinese government has been expanding control over religion and its adherents. In many provinces certain Christian denominations are illegal, while state-sanctioned churches are allowed to assemble and preach. But even these state-run churches are experiencing a crack-down. - [What Matters Most](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/what-matters-most/) - By Ashley Corbaley I do not live far from Houston and Hurricane Harvey hit much too close to home. As word that Harvey had turned from a tropical storm to a Category 3 hurricane, then a Category 4, panic spread throughout my town. I went to the store to find the shelves completely bare. Bottled - [Picture Perfect](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/picture-perfect/) - By Cathi Bond In today’s technological world we are bombarded with hundreds of images of ‘perfect’ men and women every day in all forms of media. Photo-laden social media sites like Facebook and Instagram can promote negative social comparisons. Typically on social media posts, everyone appears as if they have the best. life. ever! Keep - [Good, But Not Best](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/free-speech/good-not-best/) - By Diane Robertson Last week, a judge in Wisconsin announced that the court would rule that a Christian photographer could declare her faith-based intent not to take photos at homosexual weddings and not be prosecuted or chased out of business because she does not have a storefront. Given the current political climate and business freedom, - [An Entitled Generation](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/an-entitled-generation/) - By Cathi Bond It seems that the kids raised in today’s society are taught to think and act more entitled than ever before. Where has this come from, and why is so entrenched in our society? In her article entitled “Narcissistic Children and Teens: Does Your Child Act Entitled?” Janet Lehman, MSW states, “There are - [Will Marriage Change Down Under?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/will-marriage-change/) - By Erin Weist Australia is currently undergoing a national plebiscite (a postal vote) on whether or not to allow same-sex marriage. This is not a legally-binding vote but a means for public feedback on a certain principle: in this case, whether or not same-sex marriage should be allowed. (For more info about how this plebiscite - [Victims of the Opioid Epidemic: Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/victims-opioid-epidemic-children/) - By McKayla Skinner Recently I came across a CNN article entitled “The Opioid Crisis Took this 8-year-old’s Father Away” by Christina Manduley and Kimberly Berryman. The reporters highlighted the experience of an 8-year-old girl, Ava, who was awaiting the release of her father from an Ohio correctional facility. He was placed there due to his - [Couples Who Faced the Fire](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/couples-faced-fire/) - Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Print Friendly Like 0 [et_pb_section admin_label=”section”] [et_pb_row admin_label=”row”] [et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text”]By McKayla Skinner The recent wildfires in California remind us that life’s trials can challenge not only communities, but also couples. However, three accounts of couples who faced the fires illustrate the principles of unity, sacrifice, and hope. The first account is - [The current status of the same-sex marriage battle](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/same-sex-marriage/the-current-status-of-the-same-sex-marriage-battle/) - There are new disturbing developments within New England and Washington, D.C. and a new battleground has opened up in the state of New York. The current administration has made bold moves in direct defiance of the federal Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), and a new development has begun in contravention of California’s recent state Supreme - [YouTube deems Planned Parenthood exposure video in violation of its policies!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/youtube-deems-planned-parenthood-exposure-video-in-violation-of-its-policies/) - On June 24th, Live Action uploaded a video to YouTube which was removed by YouTube shortly thereafter for "violation of the YouTube Community Guidelines". No detailed explanation was provided and YouTube also give our account the Live Action account a "warning strike". United Families encourages you to watch the censored video by clicking on this - [OBAMA'S HEALTH CARE REFORM ENDANGERS FAMILIES AND LIFE AROUND THE GLOBE](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/obamas-health-care-reform-endangers-families-and-life-around-the-globe/) - UFI keeps vigilant watch of those issues around the world that affect the family. One such issue is developing in the United States. If US President Obama and the liberal majority in Congress have their way, health care provider choices will soon be obsolete. As promised, Obama is pushing through health care reform that will - [UNDERCOVER STUDENT VIDEO SHOWS PLANNED PARENTHOOD IN ALABAMA "BENDING THE RULES" OF MANDATORY REPORTING FOR SEXUAL ABUSE](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/undercover-student-video-shows-planned-parenthood-in-alabama-bending-the-rules-of-mandatory-reporting-for-sexual-abuse/) - BIRMINGHAM, June 30--A Planned Parenthood counselor in Birmingham was caught on hidden camera telling an alleged 14-year-old statutory rape victim that the clinic "does sometimes bend the rules a little bit" rather than report sexual abuse to state authorities. This is the seventh Planned Parenthood clinic implicated in a multi-state child abuse scandal involving the - [Update: Schwarzenegger signs bill honoring homosexuality](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/free-speech/update-schwarzenegger-signs-bill-honoring-homosexuality/) - Last week we told you to contact Gov. Schwarzenegger in opposition to a bill that would establish May 22 as "Harvey Milk Day," in honor of the openly homosexual politician. Yet, despite the objections of the people of California, Schwarzenegger signed the bill into effect Sunday night along with another bill recognizing all same-sex marriages - [New Live Action Video Exposes Planned Parenthood Distortions](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/1853/) - “A fetus is what’s in the uterus right now. That is not a baby. A baby is what is born at forty weeks. A fetus is what’s in your uterus right now,” says the Planned Parenthood counselor selling an abortion in the newest undercover video from Live Action. Watch the newest video to see Planned - [Roe vs. Wade’s 37th Anniversary…a Time for Regretful Reflection](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/roe-vs-wades-37th-anniversarya-time-for-regretful-reflection/) - 70 percent of women who under go an abortion say they wouldn't do it again if they faced another unwanted pregnancy, about 60 percent experience emotional distress, and 16 percent suffer from severe distress warranting professional psychiatric attention*. That story is rarely told. Last Friday, the anniversary of Roe v. Wade, that story was told--over - [The Pro-Life Movement is Gaining Steam](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-pro-life-movement-is-gaining-steam/) - For the first time since Roe v. Wade, the majority of Americans are pro-life. What's changed? And what will pro-life organizations do now that they have the people's support? To find out, make sure to catch the latest installment of Voice of the Nation. We'll tackle these questions and more with the help of Daniel - [Will Same-Sex Couples Save Marriage?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/proposition-8/will-homosexual-marriage-save-the-disintegrating-institution/) - “The traditional American marriage is in crisis, and we need insight,” one author has said. “If innovation in marriage is going to occur, it will be spearheaded by homosexual marriages.” It seems they're doing just that. Homosexual couples, the world over, have found an “innovative” way to make marriage happier and last longer. In fact, - [THREE Pro-Family Super Bowl Commercials](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/2257/) - The Super Bowl commercials are generally known for their slapstick comedy, sexual content and talking animals. 2010 was different because amid all this, there were not one, but three commercials that promoted pro-life and pro-family messages. Of course there was the Tim Tebow commercial, which was surprisingly tame on the pro-life message so many pro-abortion - [Meet the Team](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-family/meet-the-team/) - From left to right. Front row: Brenda Sanders, President of United Families Arizona; Heather Sanders, journalist extraordinaire; Joshua James, intern at UFI; Shellie Baird, also an intern at UFI. Back row; Marcia Barlow, UN expert; Michael Duff, President of United Families International. Take a good look at us. We may not be the best looking - [Gallup Poll: The More Educated are Abortion’s Greatest Supporters](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/gallup-poll-the-more-educated-are-abortions-greatest-supporters/) - So does that mean if you are against abortion (pro-life) that you must be “less educated “ or dare I say “less smart?” There are studies out there that claim that atheists and people who identify as “liberal” have higher IQ’s and thus go on to college, are more “educated” and successful in higher education - [In public schools, is it appropriate for the bible and other significant religious text to be available and used as an educational resource?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/in-public-schools-is-it-appropriate-for-the-bible-and-other-significant-religious-text-to-be-available-and-used-as-an-educational-resource/) - Let your voice be heard! Vote on the current UFI poll question - In public schools, is it appropriate for the bible and other significant religious text to be available and used as an educational resource? Click HERE and scroll to bottom of the page to cast your vote! - [90% stand for tougher laws on divorce](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/90-stand-for-tougher-laws-on-divorce/) - UFI asked people should it be harder to get a divorce and 90% say yes! New York is being pressured to do just the opposite. They are considering whether or not to ease up on their divorce laws. Currently, NY remains the only state in the US without a no-fault divorce law. California was the - [Let's Talk About Intimacy : Sex Education](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/lets-talk-intimacy-sex-education/) - By Marci Nelson When I was in the 8th grade, I borrowed a book from my school library. It was a romance novel and, having read a handful of novels by this author, I did not think twice about my choice. However one night while reading it before bed, I noticed that it was becoming - [Changes for Marriage Law in Latin America](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/changes-marriage-law-latin-america/) - By Elise Ellsworth On January 8, 2018 the Inter-American Court of Human Rights ruled that same-sex marriages should be recognized. This landmark ruling is binding precedent in Costa Rica and could do the same for other signatory countries, including Chile, Mexico, Honduras, Bolivia, Dominican Republic, Paraguay, and Peru. The judges in this case ordered that - [Education and Unions - A New Beginning for Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/free-speech/education-and-unions-a-new-beginning-for-families/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello friends, June was a momentous month at the Supreme Court. Following the Masterpiece Cakeshop ruling which held that baker and owner, Jack Phillips, could not be compelled to violate his religious beliefs, the Court struck down California’s Reproductive FACT Act, which forced crisis pregnancy centers to essentially advertise - [Education and Information at the UN](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/un/education-information-un/) - The UFI team had a very successful experience at this year’s Commission on the Status of Women (CSW). We had eight university students and four faculty join us in visiting representatives from over 50 countries, as well as attending and reporting on side and parallel events that covered a wide range of topics – some - [Two Huge Lies](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/free-speech/two-huge-lies/) - By Breaunna Stone Tori Black recently published an article on the United Families International blog that discussed how some individuals and groups silence their ideological opponent with a label. One of the most popular labels used today is “hateful.” In my few short years advocating for the family, whether it be at the United Nations - [Girls Allowed](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender/girls-allowed/) - By Ashley Corbaley Yes, girls can do anything boys can do. But does it have to be everything? October 11th is International Day of the Girl. This is an international day of observance set aside by the United Nations to share awareness for gender inequality and to support opportunities for girls. On this year's International - [The New Dr. Death's Marketing Scheme](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/euthanasia/the-new-dr-deaths-marketing-scheme/) - Australian right-to-die advocate Dr. Philip Nitschke is holding a workshop on voluntary euthanasia in Britain. “Dr. Death,” a moniker known to many Australians, sells euthanasia kits through his organization, Exit International, but he claims that no profit is made. Ironically, the doctor denies promoting euthanasia, despite having assisted in four suicides in Australia’s Northern Territory. - [My Parents drugged us](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/important-tips-for-raising-kids/) - Rachel Allison Seems that parenting tips abound, but this is one that every parent needs to be reminded of. This little piece has been around for years, but a new generation needs to see it. Enjoy and share! My Parents Drugged Us The other day, someone at a store in our town read that - [Reader Poll: “Is it helpful to the cause of religious freedom to have clergy and congregation participate in ‘Pulpit Freedom Sunday’?”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/polls/reader-poll-is-it-helpful-to-the-cause-of-religious-freedom-to-have-clergy-and-congregation-participate-in-pulpit-freedom-sunday/) - Here’s the question we asked UFI readers: “Is it helpful to the cause of religious freedom to have clergy and congregation participate in ‘Pulpit Freedom Sunday’?” Here’s how readers responded: 82 percent Yes 9 percent No 9 percent Unsure There wasn’t a huge response to this poll question and we suspect that it is because - [Texas Textbooks: Why the International Community Should Care](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/texas-textbooks-why-the-international-community-should-care/) - An article on Texas textbooks may not appear to be of interest to our international community. However, the world movement toward secularism and one world government may have just met its match. The great state of Texas, in a bold move, is taking on the international anti-religion and anti-family movement. Last Friday, the Texas State - [98% Say No To Same-Sex Adoption!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/adoption-2/98-say-no-to-same-sex-adoption/) - In responses to UFI’s poll question, “Should same-sex couples be allowed to adopt?” over 98% of our blog readers said “No.” As they say on a famous game show: “Good Answer!” Many individuals know intuitively how important it is that children have both a mother and a father. But, they don’t have the information to - [Where’s the Proof that Video Games Promote Violence?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/media/wheres-the-proof-that-video-games-promote-violence/) - Rebecca Mallory If you haven’t been bombarded with an endless litany of pros and cons concerning violent video games, guns, second ammendment rights, reasons why we need to “revamp” that dusty old constitution thing, etc., then you obviously live under a rock with no ties to the outside world. Inimical chatter is only getting louder - [What all Girls Should Know before Having Sex](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/what-all-girls-should-know-before-having-sex/) - Rachel Allison Dr. Miriam Grossman, M.D. worked at a campus counseling center for more than 10 years. The young women who came to her were in crisis. They were “working hard to fulfill their dreams: a college education, maybe grad school, a great career, and—at some point—a home, husband, and kids.” But they come to - [Reader Poll: “If your 14-year-old child had Olympic-quality talent, would you be willing to let your child move a thousand miles away to train with a top-notch coach and live with a wonderful, yet non-relative, family?”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/reader-poll-if-your-14-year-old-child-had-olympic-quality-talent-would-you-be-willing-to-let-your-child-move-a-thousand-miles-away-to-train-with-a-top-notch-coach-and-live-with-a-wonderful/) - Here’s the question we asked UFI readers: “If your 14-year-old child had Olympic-quality talent, would you be willing to let your child move a thousand miles away to train with a top-notch coach and live with a wonderful, yet non-relative, family?” Here’s how readers responded: Yes 16 Percent No 72 Percent Unsure - [Simple Steps](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/simple-steps/) - by Joseph Moore One night after arriving home from a school dance, I found my parents watching old movies together on the couch. As soon as they heard me come through the door, they moved to the kitchen to listen to my stories and adventures of the night. They listened intently, laughing at my jokes, - [Family Favorite Read Aloud](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/family-favorite-read-aloud/) - Nathalie Bowman Well, things got away from me this week as I began homeschooling and going back to school myself, so somehow I didn’t give myself enough time to create a thoughtful and meaningful “Part 1” to follow up last week’s post. Please forgive me - that will be coming next week. For today I - [A Woman Needs a Man Like a Fish Needs Water](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/feminism/woman-needs-man-like-fish-needs-water/) - Erin Weist As a woman in today’s world I often feel that there are certain principles I am supposed to embrace. One of those ideas I feel pressured to adopt is to say that fairy tales are ridiculous because the basis for most of the stories is that a woman NEEDS a man. When I - [The Case of the Disappearing Frenchmen](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/demographic-decline/the-case-of-the-disappearing-frenchmen/) - What will the population of France look like in 2050? Some Frenchmen might be surprised. By Suzie Trepanier My last name is Trepanier (tray-pin-yay). When pronounced correctly it is a beautiful French name. It is my married last name and although I have some French heritage, mostly my ancestors came from Scotland and Ireland (my - [Healing After Divorce](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/healing-after-divorce/) - Kristen Jan Cannon Forgive me for sounding a bit dramatic, but last year my life literally flipped upside down. After months of deliberation, professional help, and spiritual consideration, I made the decision to get divorced. We didn’t have children. We didn’t have to go to court. It was, as divorces go, pretty “smooth sailing.” It - [What Does the Royal Baby have to do with Pro-Life Sentiments?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/what-does-the-royal-baby-have-to-do-with-pro-life-sentiments/) - by Nathalie Bowman The birth and naming of Prince William and Kate’s newborn baby has been all over news. The happy occasion is creating a worldwide celebration. The world’s attitude towards Kate’s pregnancy and the birth of the royal baby has breathed new life into the pro-life movement as well. Steven Ertelt of lifenews.com suggests - [Mothers Shape History](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/mothers-shape-history/) - by Diane Robertson Many women today want to make a difference in the world—they want to be part of something important. To them that means doing well in school, going to a big name college and succeeding in their career of choice. Some women think it means traveling abroad or helping with a political cause. - [How My Family Fell Apart](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/how-my-family-fell-apart/) - Author's name with held by request On October 26th, 2013 a phone call changed my world forever and caused me to reevaluate just how much my family had been impacted by my parent’s divorce. “I have terrible news,” my father said--a phrase that would prove to be a gross understatement. The night before, my younger - [Why You Should Be a Consultant Parent](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/why-you-should-be-a-consultant-parent/) - By: Kristen Jan Cannon Do you ever think about how your parents raised you? What do you appreciate about them? What would you absolutely do differently? How much has your life course been influenced due to your parents’ parenting style? And how are you going to parent your children? Because surprisingly enough, becoming a parent - [The Power of Marital Intimacy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/the-power-of-marital-intimacy/) - by Nathalie Bowman Sexual intimacy in marriage has the potential to make or break a relationship. For many married couples, sexual intimacy takes a back burner to children, work, and all the demands of the modern lifestyle. However, if taken seriously and given conscientious effort, marital intimacy can be a couple’s greatest asset towards their - [Let's Talk About Intimacy : Porn Literacy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/lets-talk-intimacy-porn-literacy/) - By Elise Ellsworth Teenagers in Inner City Boston are now given the option of attending the pilot program of a “Porn Literacy” class in a program known as “Start Strong” in the Boston area. This class is designed to help students understand how pornography affects them and what they can do to be more literate - [Protecting Your Marriage Against Emotional Affairs](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/protecting-marriage-emotional-affairs/) - By Breaunna Stone A strong society relies on strong marriages. Ryan Andersons, Senior Research Fellow at William E. Simon, in a report on marriage and family stated: “Marriage is the fundamental building block of all human civilization…Society as a whole, not merely any given set of spouses, benefits from marriage. This is because marriage helps - [History of Abortion in the U.S. Supreme Court](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/24437/) - By Diane Robertson In the last week, a federal judge completely struck down an Indiana state law outlawing abortions based on the baby's race, gender, or disability. How, or why, was this conclusion reached, and what led to this action? Understanding the history of abortion laws in the United States lends understanding to what is happening - [Why I Will Always Protect the Freedom of Speech of Those with Whom I Disagree](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/will-always-protect-freedom-speech-disagree/) - By Miriam Merrill Freedom of speech may be guaranteed through the First Amendment to the United States Constitution, but that does not mean it comes easily. Domestically we find with more frequency that opposing sides call for the silencing of their disputant rather than sitting down to have civil conversations. This seems especially true on - [What Can We Do to Prevent Suicide?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/depression/can-prevent-suicide/) - By Christie Masters Just a few months ago our family lost a dear friend to suicide. Two weeks ago a family we know lost their youngest son. A few days later one of our family members called seeking comfort after finding out that his friend had killed himself, leaving his wife and two children in - [The Costs of War : Caring for Caregivers](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/freedom/costs-war-caring-caregivers/) - By McKayla Skinner The celebration of Veterans Day in the United States this last week gave all the opportunity to reflect on the many sacrifices of those who have served their country. Yet it is also important to remember the unsung heroes: those military caregivers who share in the cost of war. Recently the Rand - [Unexpected Motherhood](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/unexpected-motherhood/) - By Kimberly Williams Each year there are millions of unintended pregnancies. In 2013, I became part of that statistic, which changed my life forever. I had been casually dating a guy for 6 months. It was right before Christmas of 2012 that I decided to take a pregnancy test, never expecting it to be positive. - [Could the Supreme Court End Religious Freedom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/religious-freedom/could-the-supreme-court-end-religious-freedom/) - by Gary Boyd For many years, large numbers of Christians have put their religious belief to work through countless humanitarian projects at home as well as abroad. Though believers in Christianity, they have, to this point, taken the role of pacifism in the culture war. John Inazu, associate professor of law and political science at - [How Honest Are You?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/how-honest-are-you/) - by Rebecca Mallory "Honesty is the best policy" is a famous proverb written by Benjamin Franklin. Even Wikipedia says that "Honesty refers to a facet of moral character and connotes positive and virtuous attributes such as integrity, truthfulness, and straightforwardness, including straightforwardness of conduct, along with the absence of lying, cheating, theft, etc." Furthermore, honesty - [The Best Moral Code!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/wisdom-begins-with-fear-of-god/) - The following is an interview with Dennis Prager, a nationally syndicated radio talk show host, columnist, author, conductor, and public speaker. His insights on the importance of living our lives by the Ten Commandments makes this well worth the read... http://ldsmag.com/dennis-prager-why-the-10-commandments-are-still-the-best-moral-code/ - [Words from the Recently Engaged](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/words-from-the-recently-engaged/) - by Tashica Jacobson Two months ago I said "yes" to the biggest decisions of my life, and now both my fiancé and I are extremely happy. But with this one "yes" the wedding planning piñata blew up in my face, and now I’m wading through endless wedding planning, coordinating around everyone’s schedules, and counting down - [TECHNOLOGY TAKEOVER TIME](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/technology-takeover-time/) - by Vanessa Duersch Early settlers to the American continent were not privileged to have the high quality telephones, paper printing methods, medicine, transportation, or even the fancy internet abilities to watch HD movies on Youtube. The best conveniences that they could speak for was the switchboard, horse and wagons, hand-sewn clothing, alcohol as a painkiller, - [Pornography Negatively Impacts All Ages](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pornography/pornography-negatively-impacts-all-ages-2/) - By Natasha Rasaka Growing Up Babies grow up becoming terrible at two, leave for the very first day of school at five, and can read a book by age seven. Around 12 years of age the baby you used to have is really a young adult and could by now have developed a very dangerous - [Sex Education: What Is Being Taught to Our Children?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/sex-education/sex-education-taught-children/) - by Jackie Bowles Recently our school district invited parents to a Human Growth and Development (Sex Education) overview night. The presentation briefly stated the subjects that would be covered in the Human Growth and Development classes for grades 3-8. The summary was basically a one word overview for each day’s lessons, taught over a 3 - [Am I My Own Best Friend?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/depression/23807/) - by Erin Weist Listening to wise counsel this weekend I was reminded that relationships are at the center of our search for happiness-- our relationships with god, our relationships with our families, relationships within our communities, and (surprisingly) our relationship with ourselves. Often this last one seems overlooked in our search to better our lives - [Boys Will Be Boys & Girls Will Be Girls: A Mother’s Perspective on Teaching the Dependability of Gender to Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/boys-will-boys-girls-will-girls-mothers-perspective-teaching-dependability-gender-children/) - By Erin Weist A Mother’s Perspective on Teaching the Dependability of Gender to Children I’ve reviewed the literature: There are many conflicting studies—some purport transgenderism can be successful through social acceptance while others some that indicate gender dysphoria is a disorder of the mind (For extensive research on the subject please refer to this article - [Chinese Government Bans Children from Attending Church](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/religious-freedom/chinese-government-bans-children-attending-church/) - By Diane Robertson The Chinese have not had much religious freedom for more than a generation. But the communist-run government has recently made laws to restrict religious worship even further. Government officials in China have issued warnings to hundreds of churches stating that no child will be allowed to enter a church building or attend - [Released](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/released/) - Cinthia Jahnsen “We gain control of many things. But we had to let go of others.” - The Giver, Lois Lowry. Released: to be set free; let go; allowed to leave; set at liberty. - [Gratitude: A Matter of Character](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/gratitude-a-matter-of-character-2/) - Carol Soelberg I love November and December and that they bring with them a joyous season of “THANKS” and “GIVING”. With a grateful heart to each of you for your continued support in strengthening the families of the world, I offer a few personal thoughts on gratitude. One of the great influences in my life - [Pornography: Endangering Matrimony](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/pornography-endangering-matrimony/) - By Tashara Carnahan The Story Has Become Commonplace I couldn’t breathe. My world started to spin around me, frantically, closing me in at all sides. No, I thought, this can’t be happening. This can’t be real. My eyes burned from holding back the salty tears that threatened to fall at any second. How did I - [Is life so sweet and peace so dear?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/life-sweet-peace-dear/) - By Mekelle Solomon Late last week the President of Russia, Vladimir Putin, approved an anti-terrorist law. The law was a complete package of restrictions designed to “protect” against radical terrorist attacks. An anti-terrorist law sounds like a great idea right? Something that the whole country could support 100%. In response to this movement over 7000 - [Let the Pokémon GO Craze Strengthen Your Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/let-pokemon-go-craze-strengthen-family/) - By Candice LeSueur GET UP, GET OUT, AND EXPLORE! This is the message the new Pokémon GO app is promoting, emphasizing that you “get on your feet and step outside to...explore cities and towns where you live--and even around the globe” in order to catch as many Pokémon as you can. John Hanke, the mastermind - [Goodbye Old House](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/goodbye-old-house/) - By Shanci Christensen The door slammed shut as if it were shouting, “Goodbye old house!” I locked the door behind him and then stood in the kitchen with my hands shaking and my heart pounding. “Did I do the right thing?” I heard a noise behind me and turned to see my five-year-old son looking - [Where Do You Draw the Line on Abortion?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/draw-line-abortion/) - by Erin Weist I recently read this heartwarming story of Eliza McIntosh, a young woman who was lately crowned Ms. Wheelchair America, overcoming great odds and spending her time & energy encouraging others to live life to its’ fullest. Before birth she was diagnosed with a crippling disease, one that doctors predicted would leave her - [Thankfulness is Mindfulness](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/thankfulness-is-mindfulness/) - by Erin Weist Recently, I was reminded of a group of teenagers who reached out to my mom’s brother as a youth and with that small act of kindness drastically altered the life of their whole family for the better. I can say with assurance that my family, our children, and their children would not - [Senators Defeat "Draft Our Daughters"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/no-draft-daughters/) - by Diane Robertson Last week there was good news for the families of America. Several senators successfully eliminated a provision that would have forced women age 18 to 26 to be registered for selective service or the draft. The house passed a military bill last summer that included a “Draft our Daughters” provision. When the - [A Double-Header of Good News!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-family/double-header-good-news/) - UFI president shares with us the progress made at the recent United Nations Commission on the Status of Women. After years of not being able to substantively address “family” in UN documents, the dry spell has ended and “family” is back in a Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) Agreed Conclusions document! Even though - [A Promise is a Promise](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/a-promise-is-a-promise/) - by Elise Ellsworth What is marriage like when you reach eighteen years? My husband and I reached that milestone this past week. Eighteen years of fun dates, moonlight, romance, hand holding and batting our eyes…? Well, not quite. We have had our share of romance but also our share of troubles - cross-country moves, job - [Pedophilia on the Rise](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/pedophilia-on-the-rise/) - By Diane Robertson Between the breakdown of the family and wide-spread pornography usage, child sexual abuse seems to be on the rise with no end in sight. Even very careful and watchful people can be tainted by this scourge that is sweeping the earth. Recently, I learned that the doctor who delivered two of my - [The Pornography Thieves: Stealing My Daughter’s Innocence](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pornography/pornography-thieves-stealing-daughters-innocence/) - Lessons Learned From My Teenage Daughter’s Pornography Addiction The Author of This Article Wishes to Remain Anonymous As parents of a teenage son, my husband and I have been adamant about teaching him the hazards of pornography. This adheres to an urgency that exists for parents of growing young men to equip them with the - [Tolerance for me, but not for thee](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/free-speech/tolerance/) - by Alannah Hurley “Tolerance: a fair, objective, and permissive attitude toward those whose opinions, beliefs, practices, racial or ethnic origins, etc., differ from one's own; freedom from bigotry.” June 15th, 2017, a group of LGBT individuals disrupted an ex-gay conference to declare their discontent for the ex-gay members’ decisions to no longer practice homosexuality. In - [Sex Education at age 5](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/sex-education/sex-education-at-age-5/) - The United Nations Economic, Social and Cultural Organization (UNESCO) suggests that sex education is an entitled right to children of all countries and cultures starting at the age of five. The 98 page report that was released in June of this year is called International Guidelines on Sexual Education. This report proposes a universal plan - [Definition of the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/definition-of-the-family/) - By Breaunna Stone It seems that from the beginning of time, the family has been described as a mother, a father, and their children. In most cases, many remember the father as being named the breadwinner while the mother reared her children in the home. Today it is clear that many Americans’ mindsets have changed - [The Balancing Act](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/the-balancing-act/) - by Erin Weist I recently read a book written in 1955 by a woman who visited a quiet beach for a vacation alone for several weeks. She observed the world around her and recorded her thoughts as they related to her life, subsequently publishing them as Gift from the Sea. Anne Morrow Lindbergh was a - [Dad – A Girl’s First and Most Influential Love](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/dad-a-girls-first-and-most-influential-love/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Dr. Timothy Rarick Last September, on a Sunday afternoon, my wife and I were walking through “Speakers Corner” in Hyde Park, London. I was amazed by the number of men who were there passionately trying to convince the - [No, Religious Women are Not Brainwashed](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/no-religious-women-are-not-brainwashed/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Jenet Erickson When findings from the World Family Map exploring links between religion and family well-being were published in The New York Times last week, a strong reaction ensued. The study found that the happiest married women in America are - [The Sexual Ideologies Competing for the Hearts of Your Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/the-sexual-ideologies-competing-for-the-hearts-of-your-children/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black There are two ideologies vying for the hearts and minds of our children and families. One says that humans are sexual beings and that they should be encouraged to explore and express that sexuality any way - [More women are in the workforce than men. Should we celebrate or be concerned?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/more-women-are-in-the-workforce-than-men-should-we-celebrate-or-be-concerned/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. By Jenet Erickson for United Families International A recent report from The U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics lit up headlines across the nation: “Women now hold more jobs than men in the U.S. workforce.” Given the continued growth in service-industry - [How Extended Family Builds Resiliency](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/how-extended-family-builds-resiliency/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Sign up for the latest from United Families International here. Contributed by Tori Black With news of an imminent coronavirus pandemic filling the airwaves and internet, you may have missed an important discussion surrounding the health and future of the nuclear - [Families and Media: You Are What You Eat](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/families-and-media-you-are-what-you-eat/) - by Sarah Justensen When individuals consistently eat nutritious foods, they will promote their own health and wellness. Alternatively, when people have a diet consisting of primarily junk food, they will eventually find themselves dealing with health problems. As Anthelme Brillat-Savarin once said, “Tell me what you eat, and I will tell you what you are.” - [Polyamory and the Domino Effect](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/polyamory-and-the-domino-effect/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Kari McEvoy In 2013 Hans van Leeuwen of Leiden University set out to find just how powerful a domino chain reaction could be. Through a mathematical model, Leiden found a domino small enough to hold in your hand - [Sexual Integrity: the key to a happy life](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/sexual-integrity-the-key-to-a-happy-life/) - By United Families International United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Marie Walker To some, the word “chastity” may imply a prudish Victorian sensibility with an old-fashioned list of “thou shalt nots,” alluding to a double standard that over-emphasizes women’s actions and behaviors. “Sexual Integrity”, - [Demographic Decline – What’s Causing It, and How We Can Reverse It](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-articles/demographic-decline-whats-causing-it-and-how-we-can-reverse-it/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Wendy Wixom The following article is based on remarks presented by United Families International President, Wendy Wixom, at an online and in-person conference held in Hungary May 27-29, 2021 regarding “Demography and the Culture of Relationships between Couples.” - [The False Promise of Cohabitation](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/cohabitation/the-false-promise-of-cohabitation/) - By Ashlee Kendell Over the past 50 years, research has shown that the average increased risk for divorce, when related to premarital cohabitation, has not changed. We have 50 years of evidence indicating that cohabiting before marriage does not lead to longevity in marriage, yet the rates for cohabitation continue to increase. Why is that? - [Putting an End to Critical Race Theory – We Need Your Help!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/putting-an-end-to-critical-race-theory-we-need-your-help/) - By United Families International United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black Imagine with me the following conversation: What did you do in school today, Johnny? Oh, well, in math class we learned that racism guides everything we do as people and as a - [How Redefining Marriage Has Undermined the Rights and Wellbeing of Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/how-redefining-marriage-has-undermined-the-rights-and-wellbeing-of-children/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. By Katy Faust for United Families International A landmark custody dispute between same-sex “parents” is back in the news. In 2000, Lisa Miller and Janet Jenkins entered a civil union. Wanting to start a family, Miller and Jenkins turned to - [A Little Money goes A Long Way: What we did with yours](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/24614/) - Merry Christmas! As we celebrate this season of giving, I’m writing to let you know your support this past year was instrumental in providing many of the resources needed for 2017 to be a record-breaking year for UFI. We cannot thank you enough! Miracles are happening – yet we can only take advantage of them with - [Liberation through Education](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/liberation-through-education/) - By McKayla Skinner My grandmothers were deeply impacted by the world wars. One was left without a father for a time, as he was a prisoner of war, and the other was a military wife who sometimes lived on the brink of starvation during a famine. Though both lived in different countries, each was impacted - [Higher Teen Pregnancy Rates Among LGBT Youth](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/same-sex-attraction/higher-teen-pregnancy-rates-among-lgbt-youth/) - By Diane Robertson Teenwise Minnesota, a statewide organization that promotes the sexual health of young people, recently published a survey of teens 9th to 11th grade on teen pregnancy and sexual activity. For the first time, Teenwise asked the teens about their sexual orientation. The survey revealed some counterintuitive information: gay, lesbian, and bisexual teens - [Marriage Is Not About You, Whether You’re Gay or Straight](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/lgbt/marriage-not-whether-youre-gay-straight/) - By Hannah Gibson As humans, we all have a driving need to belong, to be loved, and to give love. This applies to all of us, straight or gay. For those who identify with the latter, I can only imagine how difficult it must be to feel attracted to somebody and be able to express - [I Witnessed Abuse and Didn’t Help. What Would You Have Done?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/witnessed-abuse-didnt-help-done/) - By Ailee Olsen In October of 2013, I was in a poor neighborhood of Malang (a small town in Indonesia) visiting friends at their home. As I waited outside their door, I looked to my right and saw a 7-year-old little girl named Isti*, whom I had become friends with in the weeks before. She - [Get Rid of Indecent Billboards in Your Community: Here’s How You Can Help Out](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pornography/get-rid-indecent-billboards-community-heres-can-help/) - By Elise Ellsworth A number of years ago, Times Square displayed a billboard featuring a number of backsides that were completely uncovered. The owner of the business on which the billboard was displayed—a church—decided to file suit to block the billboard display. A judge agreed and had the billboard removed. Unfortunately, this is not an isolated - [FAMILY: OUR GREATEST REFUGE DURING LIFE’S STORMS](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/family-greatest-refuge-lifes-storms/) - By McKayla Skinner Family is our greatest refuge during life’s storms. This timeless truth was proven once again during the recent devastating natural disaster in Texas, known as Hurricane Harvey. In tracking the headlines on the hurricane three accounts illustrated as many lessons to me about the importance of family: (1) families are worth protecting, - [The Nightmare of Neglect](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/the-nightmare-of-neglect/) - By Elise Ellsworth In recent years neglect and other forms of child abuse have been on the rise. These include the tragic 2016 case of a young Scottish boy, Liam Fee. Little Liam was subject to continual physical abuse, had been chained up or locked in a makeshift cage, tied up at night, and forced - [Courting Religious Freedom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/24594/) - Included in the landmark ruling of Obergefell v. Hodges, which legalized same­-sex marriage in the United States, were following words: “Finally, it must be emphasized that religions, and those who adhere to religious doctrines, may continue to advocate with utmost, sincere conviction that, by divine precepts, same-­sex marriage should not be condoned. The First Amendment - [Families and Addiction](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/health-care/families-and-addiction/) - By Ashley Corbaley When most people hear the word “addiction” they think of being dependent on a substance such drugs or alcohol. There are many substances to which people can be addicted. There are also behaviors that can be addictive. Sometimes we can be addicted to things that are not necessarily bad but, done excessively, - [Together at the Table](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/together-at-the-table/) - By McKayla Skinner When it comes to good health many Pediatricians will include family meals as part of their triage. This is not solely in honor of the maxim “Families who eat together, stay together,” rather it is built upon research findings that suggests that if a family eats at least 3 or more meals - [Old Enough](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/old-enough/) - By Tonya Cox I have a delightful 3-year-old granddaughter named Ellie. She is a girl that knows her own mind and is highly intelligent with an emotional awareness and vocabulary that rivals children many years older. She knows what she wants and often seeks to dictate those desires to her parents. Nevertheless, she does not - [UN Civil Society Comes to Utah](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/un-civil-society-comes-to-utah/) - Contributed by Tori Black, President of United Families International Following World War II, the United Nations was formed with the goal of establishing a world of safety and peace. Peace, however, is elusive. Even when we are free from the ravages of war, people live with the turmoil that results from natural disasters, poverty and - [Technology’s Threat to Our Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/technology/technologys-threat-to-our-children/) - By Marisa Higley As a child I lived a life almost completely without technology. I spent my time outside, climbed trees, played in the mud and dirt, jumped on the trampoline, and picked raspberries from our bushes. Every chance I had I was outside exploring. I rarely spent time inside the house. The only time - [The Biggest Predictor of Student Success? Home and Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-biggest-predictor-of-student-success-home-and-family/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black While many families were busy sending their children off to begin a new school year, I spent much of my time August 26 through 28 at the United Nations Civil Society Conference in Salt Lake City - [Make Some Noise](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/parental-rights/make-some-noise/) - By Tonya Cox I am a mother in California. My husband and I spent most of our family life raising our five children in here. Our youngest child is a senior in high school and our third California high school graduate. I cannot express how grateful I am that in a few months I will - [Bethlehem and the Gift of the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/bethlehem-and-the-gift-of-the-family/) - Contributed by Tori Black Every December for the last three years, I have participated in a community event in San Diego celebrating the season in inspired word and song. Every year is a witness of hearts and lives changed just by spending an hour and a half listening to adult, youth and children’s choirs sing - [Sacrificing the Wellbeing of Children: New York’s Legalization of Commercial Surrogacy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/sacrificing-the-wellbeing-of-children-new-yorks-legalization-of-commercial-surrogacy/) - By Katy Faust on behalf of United Families International Last year New York had a heated debate about overturning their decades-long ban on surrogacy enacted after the “Baby M” case where a surrogate did what mothers tend to do; bond with her baby and refuse to give her up. 2019’s legislative war over commercial surrogacy - [Same-sex Politics and the Lie of “Inclusivity”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/same-sex-politics-and-the-lie-of-inclusivity/) - By Tori Black Do you remember hearing as a kid, “Well, if you don’t…then, I won’t be your friend.” There’s a term for using that tactic: relational aggression. Some people learn early in life that threatening people with exclusion is a great way to attempt to get what you want. After all, no one likes - [Protecting Women's Sports](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender-identity-2/protecting-womens-sports/) - By Ashlee Kendell When I was in high school, basketball was my life and I spent a lot of time perfecting and honing those skills. To improve our game, my coach had the girl's team scrimmage the high school boys during practice. The boys were faster and stronger and my coach knew that playing against - [The Importance of Language in Defending Women's Sports](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender/the-importance-of-language-in-defending-womens-sports/) - By United Families International United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. On May 22, 2022, USA Today published an op-ed by former Connecticut high school runner Chelsea Mitchell. Mitchell is one of three young women who are challenging the Connecticut regulation which allows transwomen (biological men) to compete - [How Far is Someone Willing to Go to Defend Abortion?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/far-someone-willing-go-defend-abortion/) - By Erin Weist Recently, the state of Indiana has made headlines regarding changes to their abortion law. Governor Mike Pence, newly announced running mate for GOP Presidential nominee Donald Trump, signed into law restrictive measures that would prevent a woman seeking an abortion based on the fetus’ disability, gender or race. Clearly, the abortion law - [Day 3: Stay Alive Program Pushed at the UN](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/ufi-blog/stay-alive-program-pushed-at-the-un/) - Patty Liston of Reach the Children gave a wonderful presentation on the Stay Alive program in a side event today at the United Nations CSW. The information was well received and many African woman approached her later to ask how they can get this wonderful educational program in their villages. United Families International is also - [Day 4: The Shifty U.S. Delegation](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/ufi-blog/day-4-the-shifty-u-s-delegation/) - By Brenda Sanders I went to the meeting of the week, the “US Briefing” only to find Peggy Kerry (John Kerry’s sister) guarding the door. She said that I had to wait outside the building until 1pm and they would come and get me. She was very put off and asked how I even knew - [Examining the Connection Between Sex Ed and Abortion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/examining-the-connection-between-sex-ed-and-abortion/) - By Sharma Worthen Anderson “I sold abortions,” Carol Everett told the crowd. “How do you do that? It’s called sex education.” Everett, who owned and ran abortion clinics for many years before she became pro-life, said her abortion clinics carefully crafted a sex education program that encouraged young students to have sex, making them vulnerable - [Sex Selective Abortion: Where Have All the Girls Gone?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/sex-selective-abortion-where-have-all-the-girls-gone/) - Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Print Friendly Like 0 [et_pb_section admin_label=”section”] [et_pb_row admin_label=”row”] [et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text”]United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Camille Williams Recent reports that 132 villages in Northern India had not had a girl born during the previous three months appear to have been - [Adoption vs. Abortion: Real Lives, Real Stories](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/adoption-vs-abortion-real-lives-real-stories/) - By Jessica D'Addabbo Note: Names have been changed to protect the identity of individuals. My life has been directly impacted by the choice a woman made long ago to give birth to her child and place it up for adoption. This adopted child is my mother-in-law. Because my mother-in-law was born, she had a family - [Who Needs a Marriage License Anyway?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/cohabitation/who-needs-a-marriage-license-anyway/) - By Karin Waters Is a marriage license really necessary? People generally want to be happy, and when we see adult couples living together, they do seem happy. And if there are kids, they’re bound to be happy too, right? Think again. A report from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention stated that about one - [Arming Your Children and Homes Against Pornography](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/arming-your-children-and-homes-against-pornography/) - By Sarah Fairbanks When my son was about 8 years old, he quietly knocked on the door of our bedroom one night. We invited him in, and I could sense his unease. “Mommy, I think I did something bad.” The tears began to flow as we scooped him up and inquired over his supposed misdeed. - [The Real Cost of Abortion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-real-cost-of-abortion/) - By Katie Austin One of the most exciting and nerve-wracking experiences is when a woman finds out she will soon be a mother. Will the child be a boy or a girl? What will we call him, or her? What happens from here on out? Such were the thoughts running through the minds of Doug - [The Precarious State of Parental Rights](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/parental-rights/the-precarious-state-of-parental-rights/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Cristina Cevallos Calle In August 2013, 33 police officers and seven youth welfare officers forcibly entered the home of Dirk and Petra’s Wunderlich using a battering ram to break down the door. Then, violently pushing the couple aside, - [Keeping Our Children Safe from Harmful Agendas](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/keeping-our-children-safe-from-harmful-agendas/) - By Brittney Burgoyne The assignment seemed innocent enough. A certification to help teach kids technology safety was a no-brainer. How else would students learn to cautiously navigate the dangers of the internet? Jane, (name has been changed) a 6th grader in Utah, got the flu and had to stay home from school for a few - [Gender Identity Ideology – The Political Religion Distorting the Meaning of Sex and Gender](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender-identity-2/gender-identity-ideology-the-political-religion-distorting-the-meaning-of-sex-and-gender/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black It is no secret that the United Nations Human Rights Council has taken the lead in promoting policies and principles which are controversial at best, alarmingly dangerous at worst. In July 2020, United Families International spearheaded - [Gender Neutral Parenting?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/gender-neutral-parenting/) - By Chelsea Jones As a mom of three girls and one boy, seeing my son play with dolls and all things pink is no surprise. He’s outnumbered, so he’s frequently seen dragging a baby doll around in one hand and throwing a ball in the other. The children have a mix of dolls, building blocks, - [Gender Transitioning: Not Worth the Risk](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender-identity-2/gender-transitioning-not-worth-the-risk/) - By Ashlee Kendell Ellie and Nele were two young girls who identified as trans males and took testosterone to appear masculine. Ellie realized at the age of 14 that she was a lesbian. In addition, she was uncomfortable identifying as a woman. She said, “I wanted to be neutral and do whatever I wanted.” By - [Standing Up to UN Overreach at the Commission on the Status of Women](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-family/standing-up-to-un-overreach-at-the-commission-on-the-status-of-women/) - By United Families International The United Nations’ annual Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) recently concluded, and, true to form, the Commission continued its assault on the family, parental rights, the health and wellbeing of children, and religious liberty. CSW, in the words of its organizers, “is the largest annual gathering on gender equality and - [Equality and Fairness: Re-establishing the Common Good Through the Principle of Compromise](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/religious-freedom/equality-and-fairness-re-establishing-the-common-good-through-the-principle-of-compromise/) - Contributed by Tori Black In 1976, Ronald Reagan gave a speech to a deeply divided Republican Party addressing the challenge found in bringing together people with diverse perspectives and goals. Henry Olsen, a senior fellow at the Ethics and Public Policy Center, points out that Reagan understood that bringing these groups together would require “compromise - [Screen Time vs. Green Time](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/screen-time-vs-green-time/) - By Jillian Celmo A year ago our family made the decision to pull our oldest child out of public school and began homeschooling him. Zephyr was five years old and in Kindergarten. He had loved it so much but something changed after Christmas break, and our once happy boy was now miserable. The transition to - [The Courage of the Madonnas](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-courage-of-the-madonnas/) - By Nicole Smithson Across the country, from Maryland to California are 12 Madonna’s of the Trail. These are identical statues of a woman holding a child in one arm, carrying a rifle in another hand, and a toddler child clinging to her dress. These statues are located along a trail for pioneers to travel west. - [Video Games: Healthy Pastime or Pathway to Addiction?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/video-games-healthy-pastime-or-pathway-to-addiction/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Chelsea Jones In 1992, David* received his first video game system. His parents, like many others, were unaware of the potentially damaging effects of the emerging technology. David played his video game as much as he liked, with - [What Happens if Abortion is Codified?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/what-happens-if-abortion-is-codified/) - By Chelsea Jones No one expects secondary infertility, and yet, I am in the 10% who experience it. We (my husband and I) got pregnant with our first child in the first month we tried. This was not the case when we tried to get pregnant the second time. We endured three months of consecutive - [The Contempt at the Heart of "Family Planning" Policies](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-contempt-at-the-heart-of-family-planning-policies/) - Contributed by Tori Black On the day before the 2021 March for Life, the annual event that marks the anniversary of Roe v. Wade, the Supreme Court decision legalizing abortion, President Biden signed a memorandum reversing four years of pro-life actions by former President Trump. The memorandum will resume funding of abortion so women can - [Perpetuating Disunity: The Executive Order on Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/feminism/perpetuating-disunity-the-executive-order-on-gender-identity-and-sexual-orientation/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black After an inauguration speech calling for unity, President Joe Biden entered the oval office and proceeded to sign a raft of executive orders, one of which could not help but inflame passions in the country’s culture - [Canceling Cancel Culture – A Goal for 2021 We Can All Embrace](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/free-speech/canceling-cancel-culture-a-goal-for-2021-we-can-all-embrace/) - Contributed by Tori Black “How can you convince somebody that has never met you and the only thing they’ve ever seen of you is that three-second clip?” Mimi Groves was a freshman in high school when she posted a video celebrating her new driver’s permit, in which she used a racial slur: “I can drive.” - [The Indispensable Role of Dads](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-indispensable-role-of-dads/) - By Amy Chariton Growing up in a family with 9 kids – 8 girls and 1 boy – my dad did everything he could to meet our needs and to keep us safe. I remember when I was young, my dad would go around the house late at night after everyone was home to lock - [2020 – A Blessing of Thin Times and Places](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/2020-a-blessing-of-thin-times-and-places/) - By Tori Black When my father, an only child, passed away, it was time for my grandmother to relocate. She was 82 and living by herself in a rather remote location but now she was without my father to keep tabs on her. Her home was a one-bedroom cabin, and it was always neat and - [Twenty-seven Year-Old Babies: The Promise and Perils of Embryo Adoption](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/adoption-2/twenty-seven-year-old-babies-the-promise-and-perils-of-embryo-adoption/) - By Katy Faust Baby Molly was created in a petri dish in 1992, and frozen on October 14 that same year. 27 years later, she was transferred into the womb of Tina Gibson and born on October 26, 2020. Tina’s body had also been the warm receptacle for baby Molly‘s frozen sister Emma, just two - [Escaping the Trap of Alcohol Addiction](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/escaping-the-trap-of-alcohol-addiction/) - By Danica Winberg Michelle’s* bathroom door still has two holes in it. One hole is from her husband’s fist and the other hole is from the door hitting her head as it swung open when he punched it. After 8 hours of her texts and calls being ignored by her husband during his night out - [Defending Life at Home and Abroad – The Geneva Consensus Declaration](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/defending-life-at-home-and-abroad-the-geneva-consensus-declaration/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black Reproductive health. You would think those two words together would mean freedom from illness or injury when producing offspring. And sometimes that is exactly what is meant. More frequently, however, the term, “reproductive health” is a - [Fostering Resilient Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/fostering-resilient-families/) - By Stephanie Batty Everyone of every age experiences stress - it is an unavoidable and important part of life! It fosters adaptation and growth. We are tuned by stress much like a violin is tuned by fine adjustments made to its strings. Our ability to cope and adapt dictates whether we break or play beautifully. - [The Cohabitation Fallacy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/cohabitation/the-cohabitation-fallacy/) - By Deanne Ririe Shacking up was a term for cohabitation used in the 1940s. Over the years the expression has evolved to living together, sleeping together, moving in together, or hooking up. They are different expressions that mean the same thing; two unmarried people who are living together and having a sexual relationship. Although not - [The Amy Coney Barrett Confirmation: A Bright Spot of News in Challenging Times](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/supreme-court/the-amy-coney-barrett-confirmation-a-bright-spot-of-news-in-challenging-times/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Rebekah Applegate What does it mean to be a feminist? The answer to that question has changed over the course of history. Mary Wollstonecraft was one of the earliest feminists of the modern age. Of course, she did - [Keeping Abortion Viable by Keeping Women in the Dark](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/keeping-abortion-viable-by-keeping-women-in-the-dark/) - By Rebekah Applegate Are doctors required to give information to patients with which they disagree? I have a metabolic disorder called Phenylketonuria (PKU), which limits my protein intake. Recently I attended a conference to roll out a new drug that revolutionizes the lives of everyone with PKU. However, the pharmaceutical company described one terrifying statistic: - [The Gift of Unstructured Play](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-gift-of-unstructured-play/) - By Stephanie Batty I told my kids, "You have two choices: stay inside and clean or go outside and play." Not surprisingly, my children choose to go outside and play ninety-nine percent of the time, and I love it. Don't get me wrong, my kids have chores and things they have to do to help - [Gender Ideology and Your Child](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender-identity-2/gender-ideology-and-your-child/) - By United Families International Do we truly care about the health and the future of vulnerable children? This question came into stark relief last week during one of the U.S. Presidential Townhall discussions (Thursday, Oct. 15), where a presidential candidate, regarding young children, made this statement: “The idea that an 8-year-old or a 10-year-old child decides, ‘You - [Confused about gender confusion? You are not alone.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender-identity-2/confused-about-gender-confusion-you-are-not-alone/) - by Jill Palmer Recently a sweet 9-year-old girl was at my house. She is an incredible soul, who loves to play kickball, basketball, pickleball, well, anything with a ball really. Oh, and soccer, she loves soccer. She also loves to bake and wear skorts with tee-shirts all summer. She wears her hair messy in the - [Protecting Religious Liberty at the United Nations and How You Can Help](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/religious-freedom/protecting-religious-liberty-at-the-united-nations-and-how-you-can-help/) - Contributed by Tori Black 2020 is a big year for the United Nations; it marks 75 years since the United Nations system came into existence. This fall, in addition to the regular work of the UN General Assembly, there will be a commemoration of this anniversary with a special event theme: ‘The Future We Want, the - [The Unholy Ghost](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-unholy-ghost/) - By Kayla Mitchell My dad, a clinical psychologist, an outdoor adventurer, a popcorn enthusiast, and a harsh movie critic, is a parent with manic depression. Living most of his life with this struggle, my dad has come to know his depression intimately. He describes depression as a “sadness that permeates everything,” something that you cannot - [Cuties: Teaching - or Titillating? ](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pedophilia/cuties-teaching-or-titillating/) - Contributed by Tori Black I have three daughters. When they were young, I gave considerable thought to how I could teach them the meaning of womanhood. I tried to fill their lives with examples of compelling and independent women. I believe in the power of good literature, and literature translated to film, to impart important - [In Vitro Gametogenesis: the dystopian technology designed to dismantle reproduction and heterosexuality](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/in-vitro-gametogenesis-the-dystopian-technology-designed-to-dismantle-reproduction-and-heterosexuality/) - Contributed by Katy Faust on behalf of United Families International United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. The “Poly-Parent Households are Coming,” a recent OpEd from the New York Times tells us. The article’s author, Debora Spar, correctly identifies the underlying causes of the massive shift in - [Help UFI Stop United Nations Efforts to Undermine Religious Freedom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/religious-freedom/help-ufi-stop-united-nations-efforts-to-undermine-religious-freedom/) - By United Families International United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Early American philosopher and political theorist, Thomas Paine, held that “spiritual freedom is the root of political liberty.” He understood the special connection between the two freedoms: “As the union between spiritual freedom and political - [A Texas Victory for Parents and Children We Can All Celebrate](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/parental-rights/a-texas-victory-for-parents-and-children-we-can-all-celebrate/) - Contributed by Katy Faust on behalf of United Families International United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. In the midst of a global pandemic, widespread Black Lives Matter protests, and general national upheaval, some good news for parental and children’s rights went virtually unnoticed. In a - [Preserving Freedom and Women’s Sports](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/preserving-freedom-and-womens-sports/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Kari McEvoy Sports in the United States of America has brought opportunity and prosperity to many of its citizens. Women and girls, in particular, have enjoyed increased access to competitive sports since 1973 when Title IX, the Patsy - [Bare Branches: The Persistent Consequences of China’s One-Child Policy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/demographic-decline/bare-branches-the-persistent-consequences-of-chinas-one-child-policy/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Marie Walker In response to an article about China’s involuntary bachelors, often referred to as guanggun or “bare branches” because they fail to add fruit to their family tree, one person commented: “Who are you to stick your - [Supreme Court Co-opts Legislative Power and Redefines Womanhood](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender-identity-2/supreme-court-co-opts-legislative-power-and-redefines-womanhood/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Camille Williams On Monday, June 15, 2020, in the 6-3 ruling Bostock v. Clayton County, the United States Supreme Court abandoned standard methods of judicial reasoning, equality for women, and plain old common sense. Three cases in which employers - [You Can Never Get Enough of What You Don’t Need](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/you-can-never-get-enough-of-what-you-dont-need/) - by Tashica Jacobsen “You can never get enough of what you don’t need, because what you don’t need can’t satisfy you.” I first heard this statement in my family relations class as we discussed satisfying our children’s developmental needs. I knew that this idea applied to other aspects of our health like diet, but never - [Grief in the Time of Quarantine](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/elder-care/grief-in-the-time-of-quarantine/) - Contributed by Marie Walker During the COVID 19 pandemic, many people are surprised by a vast array of emotion, and by their body’s physical reactions to stress. Part of the reason for the severity of many people’s reactions is that they are dealing with several forms of grief without realizing it. Kristi Hugstad, host of - [Harvard Magazine’s Misguided Attack on Homeschooling](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/freedom/harvard-magazines-misguided-attack-on-homeschooling/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black It was my husband’s work schedule that proved to be the last straw. He had just started work as a pilot at a major airline, and, in the airlines, work schedules all depend on a complex - [One Blessing of Coronavirus Quarantine: Enforced Family Time](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/one-blessing-of-coronavirus-quarantine-enforced-family-time/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. By Jenet Erickson on behalf of United Families International I’ll never forget sitting amid a group of family scholars, community leaders and parents and hearing one stand and say, “What we need is just one night a week when families - [Emerging from the Crucible of the Coronavirus as a Stronger Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/emerging-from-the-crucible-of-the-coronavirus-as-a-stronger-family/) - Contributed by Tori Black Four weeks ago, I was skiing* down a hillside when my phone started dinging from multiple texts. The United Nations event that United Families International attends every year, and to which we bring university students eager to strengthen and defend the family, had just been canceled due to the coronavirus. Shutting - [Traditional marriage wins again in New Jersey!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/same-sex-attraction/traditional-marriage-wins-again-in-new-jersey/) - Another victory for traditional marriage yesterday! The New Jersey Senate voted 20 to 14 to reject the bill that would have legalized same-sex marriage in the state. The bill needed 21 votes to pass. You can watch clips of the impassioned Senate debate here. Shortly after the vote, homosexual rights groups Garden State Equality and - [Disaster at the Supreme Court](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/disaster-supreme-court/) - by Diane Robertson This week has been a blow to Constitutional rights as the Supreme Court has handed out rulings on several cases. The first, second, and tenth amendment have all been ignored, as justices tossed aside the documents they pledged to uphold in favor of their own political leanings. This article will focus on - [Seek and Ye Shall Find](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/seek-ye-shall-find/) - by Erin Weist Trying to write an article this weekend was difficult. I attended a funeral for a sweet 2-year old, mourning with her family and friends trying to grasp some meaning in this tragedy. I woke Sunday to news of a mass shooting in Orlando, Florida, likewise mourning for families and friends of over - [Forgiveness in the Midst of Trauma](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/forgiveness-midst-trauma/) - by Candice LeSueur All of us on the train huddled together in the middle section away from the windows hoping to not be discovered by whoever was putting us in danger. My friend and I desperately embraced each other in silence as we horrifyingly awaited our fate. I heard everyone gasp. When I turned my - [America--Lest we Forget](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/america-lest-forget/) - by Mekelle Tenney I’m from a small town in Southern Utah, population 300. The 4th of July celebration is a big deal and something that everyone looks forward to. The day starts with the flag raising and the national anthem. We then have the traditional hot cake breakfast and a parade down Main Street (it - [Bring Back Family Devotional](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/bring-back-family-devotional/) - by Diane Robertson A nation can never be better than its families. For much of the history of the United States beginning with the founding of the colonies, families devoted their lives to God. They did not all have the same religious beliefs, but they held strong religious beliefs. When the Pilgrims landed, they - [We Can Make America Beautiful Again](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/can-make-america-beautiful/) - by Erin Weist Yesterday at church my congregation sang the well-loved American patriotic hymn, “America the Beautiful.” (For those not familiar with the song the words are posted below.) A few of the lines stood out to me as incongruous with current events, both in this nation and around the world. The lyrics were originally - [Due Diligence, Freedom, and Property Rights](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/due-diligence-freedom-property-rights/) - Diane Robertson The Founding Fathers of the United States were keenly aware of the right to property and its connection to freedom. Before the Revolutionary war, the British would send troops over to the colonies and quarter them in the homes of the people. The people would then be forced to feed the British troops. - [Independence Day for Pioneers](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/independence-day-pioneers/) - by Erin Weist The month of July is an important one for the United States in remembering freedom from tyranny: Independence Day remembers our separation from the monarchy of Great Britain. But people in my state also celebrate a similar date in July. Utah celebrates July 24th as “Pioneer Day,” a celebration of the settling - [Be the Difference](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/be-the-difference/) - by Laura Friend I looked over at my 13-year-old daughter and felt that familiar well of love spring up from deep within my heart – my, she has grown into such a beautiful young woman, I thought to myself. We were on our way to see the play “Annie” as a special mother-daughter date. As - [A Bit of Good News for Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/bit-good-news-families/) - by Diane Robertson The fight to maintain the natural family, parental rights, decency, and a respect for life in a society inundated with media that preaches the opposite is a hard fight. It’s hard to convince people that the opinions they once held about family, marriage, sexuality, gender, and freedom anywhere from 50 to 10, - [Olympic-Sized Faith](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/olympic-sized-faith/) - by Christie Masters Whether expressing their faith by giving honor to God, declaring their identity to be in Christ, or in sacrificing their chances of winning to do what is compassionate and honorable, we can find a much needed inspiration in many of the athletes competing in the 2016 Summer Olympics. It has been - [Great Power From a Simple Act](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/great-power-simple-act/) - by Erin Weist From some of our earliest records of mankind we learn that people began to “call upon the name of the Lord.” (Genesis 4:26) Whether through fair times or famine, battle or prosperity, the history of calling upon God in supplication or gratitude is well-known in many different societies and civilizations. The world - [Iowa Challenges Separation of Church and State](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/iowa-challenges-separation-church-state/) - by Diane Robertson We all know the phrase “separation of church and state”. It was taught us in school and atheists use it all of the time to reprimand people for holding prayer at public events. Of course the intended meaning wasn’t the absence of religion in the public square, but that the government should - [The Chipping Away of Religious Liberty](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/chipping-away-religious-liberty/) - by Diane Robertson Religious freedom is being chipped away at one small bit at a time. As a result, the freedom in which people had to behave and speak has been changing. Years ago, private business owners could make their religion part of their business and the community respected that. Public officials and school employees - [Absolute, or Not?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender-identity-2/absolute-or-not/) - by Ashley Corbaley In September of last year Thai law professor and homosexual activist, Vitit Muntarbhorn, was appointed the first UN Independent Expert on sexual orientation and Gender Identity. There was and is great opposition to the Independent Expert’s position. On November 21st the UN voted 84-77 (with 17 abstentions) to “uphold the Human Rights - [When Laws Harm](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/when-laws-harm/) - by Diane Robertson What happens in the legislature and what happens in the courts ought to be very important to every one. Those are the places where laws are made and repealed. While not all laws affect everyone’s daily life, all laws have a profound effect on public opinion. Here are three instances where legislation - [Trouble in France](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/trouble-in-france/) - by Erin Weist Troubling news regarding abortion has come out of France in recent weeks. Last Wednesday the Senate voted in favor of a bill that allows for prosecution of those attempting to influence anyone seeking an abortion. Under this law, it appears that pro-life websites, for all intents and purposes, are now banned. The - [Preserving Religious Freedom for Our Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/preserving-religious-freedom-children/) - by Diane Robertson This week I received an email from Alliance Defending Freedom, a group of lawyers who defend religious freedom, that began thus: “Dear Diane, Do you ever wonder what the future will look like for your children and grandchildren? We live in a world where religious freedom for future generations cannot be assumed. - [A Thanksgiving Conundrum](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/a-thanksgiving-conundrum/) - by Diane Robertson Churches in Massachusetts this Thanksgiving face a conundrum for the first time: should they open their buildings up to the public to serve Thanksgiving dinner and risk up to $50,000 in fines or should they remain closed to the public to keep their status as a church safe? This past summer the - [Abortion and Assisted Suicide: The New “Universal Human Right”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/abortion-and-assisted-suicide-the-new-universal-human-right/) - “Your baby has no chance of life.” Those heartbreaking words were delivered to Siobhan Whelan following an ultrasound on January 4, 2010 whereupon she learned that her unborn baby boy was affected by holoprosencephaly, a congenital brain malformation that generally causes death before birth. Most infants with this condition that survive to delivery die during - [Good News and Challenges on the Religious Liberty Front](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/free-speech/good-news-challenges-religious-liberty-front/) - by William C. Duncan At the close of the U.S. Supreme Court’s recent term, the Court issued an important religious liberty decision and announced another decision was likely to come during the next term. The recent Trinity Lutheran decision involved a Missouri religious preschool that had applied for a grant from the state to upgrade its playground - [How Can Life Be More Beautiful?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/can-life-beautiful/) - By Erin Weist I first heard about United Families International several years ago and the message they were promoting immediately resonated with me in my role as a wife and mother. I feel privileged to write for UFI, offering my own perspective on social and political issues that affect families. The mission statement for United - [Religion’s Profound Influence on Families and Society](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/religions-profound-influence-on-families-and-society/) - By Jenet Jacob Erickson, United Families International New York Times’ executive director, Dean Baquet, exposed a profound contradiction when he said of journalists from major media outlets: “We don’t get religion. We don’t get the role of religion in people’s lives.” His assessment, of course, reflects not only the perceptions of journalists, but many cultural elites for - [What A Firefighter's Victory Means for Religious Liberty & Free Speech](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/free-speech/what-a-firefighters-victory-means-for-religious-liberty-free-speech/) - By Elizabeth Warner Kelvin Cochran rose from poverty to become one of the first African-American firefighters in his hometown before becoming the fire chief from the entire city of Atlanta. His story is a remarkable one, but in recent years he’s become better known for a legal battle that started with a book about his - [Jack and Religious Freedom Win!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/freedom/jack-and-religious-freedom-win/) - By Tori Black The June 4th, 2018 Supreme Court ruling in the case of the Masterpiece Cakeshop is welcome news. The heart of the dispute was about a religious business owner’s right to refuse service, not to an individual or minority group, but for an event that conflicted with his sincerely held religious beliefs regarding - [A New Year: Resolve to Protect Religious Freedom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/freedom/24628/) - “Houston, we have a problem.” A line made famous by the movie, Apollo 13, is one of the top movie quotes of all time. It was a monumental understatement for a perilous emergency that threatened the lives of the three men aboard the tiny craft hurtling through space. It takes a special kind of inner-strength - [A Judicial Paradox](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/non-discrimination/a-judicial-paradox/) - by McKayla Skinner In courts in the United States use the image of Lady Justice or the balance she carries, symbolizing fairness under the law. This icon is not only used in the United States but also in thirteen other countries. However, this iconic message of “fair and equal administration of the law, without corruption, greed, - [Do Playgrounds Have a Religion?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/do-playgrounds-have-a-religion/) - by Diane Robertson Another aspect of the doctrine of separation of Church and State is on trial at the Supreme Court, today, April 19, 2017. This is an important case for families because it affects government interaction with both education and religion. Some say school choice is at stake and others say religious freedom is - [Huge Win for Christian Business Owner](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/huge-win-christian-business-owner/) - by Diane Robertson Hurray!!! Free speech and religious freedom, for a business owner, won last week in a court in Kentucky! Those rulings are becoming fewer and farther between. Though the ruling will likely be appealed, one can always celebrate a win for freedom!!!! Should a gay or lesbian couple be forced to print t-shirts - [Caught in the Crosshairs](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/caught-in-the-crosshairs/) - by Diane Robertson Do you remember when gay marriage debates were happening all over and those who did not want it to become legalized would receive the question: How can my marriage affect yours? Since that time, married couples could probably come up with a specific answer or two. However, in the Canadian city of - [Hope for the Religious](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/religious-freedom/hope-for-the-religious/) - “Charged with discriminating against a gay couple, the owners of another Christian family-run business are being forced to shut their doors…Betty and her husband, Richard, are the owners of Görtz Haus Gallery in Grimes, Iowa. In 2002, they purchased the 77-year-old stone church and transformed it into a bistro, flower shop, art gallery and wedding - [Silencing Your Ideological Opponent with a Label](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/free-speech/silencing-ideological-opponent-label/) - by Tori Black Hate. Feelings of prejudice filling people with such animus and loathing that they are motivated to hurt, to harm, and to kill. With good reason we recoil from hate when we see it. Martin Luther King, Jr. changed the heart of a complacent country by exposing the hate that fueled America’s violent - [The Equal Rights Amendment – Symbolism vs. Substance](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/womens-rights/the-equal-rights-amendment-symbolism-vs-substance/) - Contributed by Tori Black Leap years are such an interesting phenomenon. The idea that there is this extra day once a year fascinated me as a child. I wondered if I would ever meet someone who was born on February 29th. It turns out one of my favorite comic operas features a leap day birthday - [Not If, But When: Arming Our Girls for Menstruation Mishaps](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/not-if-but-when-arming-our-girls-for-menstruation-mishaps/) - by KayLynn Wheeler We have all heard the terms shark week, Aunt Flo, and the crimson wave. Many of us hear these terms and know instantly that someone is referring to her period. Even the word period is slang for menstruation. Yet, even with the acceptance of period as mainstream language, there is still a - [Bella Thorne Became Bella Porn? A Research Response to an ex-Disney Princess](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pornography/bella-thorne-became-bella-porn-a-research-response-to-an-ex-disney-princess/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Joey Sheppard Bell Thorne hit stardom with preteens and young teenagers alike when she starred in the record-breaking 2010 Disney TV show Shake It Up. After parting ways with Disney, Bella quickly moved into more adult film content - [Lessons from Dumbledore: Standing Up to Anti-Science Activism](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/lessons-from-dumbledore-standing-up-to-anti-science-activism/) - By Tori Black In the first of the Harry Potter books, The Sorcerer’s Stone, the headmaster, Dumbledore, shares this bit of wisdom: “It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to our enemies, but just as much to stand up to our friends.” JK Rowling, the author of the Harry Potter series, is learning - [The Equal Rights Amendment – Not Dead and Still Dangerous](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/stay-at-home-mom/the-equal-rights-amendment-not-dead-and-still-dangerous/) - This image is from the Florida Memory Project hosted at the State Archive of Florida and is released to the public domain in the United States under the terms of Section 257.35(6), Florida Statutes. By Tori Black On her first day of work, Amelia Bedelia, the main character in the Amelia Bedelia children’s book series, begins her labor by baking - [Thanksgiving Food for Thought](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/thanksgiving-food-for-thought/) - By Tori Black Thanksgiving has always been one of my favorite holidays: a day to gather with those we love and focus on all that we have to be grateful for. It also tends to feel a little squeezed though: the four-day break that separates the costumes and candy of Halloween and the bright lights, music - [Preparing Children to Guard Their Hearts and Minds](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/preparing-children-to-guard-their-hearts-and-minds/) - By Eleah Boyd According to statista.com, there are somewhere between 500,000 and one million newly published book titles every year in the United States. With the cost-effectiveness of small print runs and digital book publishing, self-publishing is easier than ever. Anyone with an idea and a computer can disseminate his opinions far and wide. And they - [The Pernicious Effect of Pornography on Home and Society](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pornography/the-pernicious-effect-of-pornography-on-home-and-society/) - Contributed by Tori Black United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Author Mary Day Winn once said, “Sex is the tabasco sauce which an adolescent national palate sprinkles on every course of the menu.” Adolescents are highly responsive to novelty, they are impulsive, and more likely to - [Millennials’ Thoughts on World Congress of Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/millennials-thoughts-on-world-congress-of-families/) - By Deborah Wene The Ninth annual World Congress of Families was packed with people from all over the world who came together to talk about the importance of families, the threats that families are facing, and how to go about addressing those threats. In my opinion, it was more like a big family reunion than it - [Are You Making Your Child Not Want To Get Married?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/are-you-making-your-child-not-want-to-get-married/) - I have become increasingly alarmed by frequent comments I hear from young male adults and teenagers as they express fear about the thought of taking on the responsibilities of marriage and children. What has been most surprising is that most of these young men come from conservative, family-focused homes. As I pry deeper to understand - [I Don’t Want to ‘Unfriend’ You – But I Will If I Have To!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/media/i-dont-want-to-unfriend-you-but-i-will-if-i-have-to/) - OK – I admit it, I have a love-hate relationship with Facebook. I can’t imagine that I am the only one out there who feels this way. As I have gathered many friends from the seven states I have lived in, I am beyond thrilled to have a ‘one stop shop’ to catch up with - [What happened at the UN conference on women?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/family-planning/what-happened-at-the-un-conference-on-women/) - Carol Soelberg What do phrases like "gender transformers," "comprehensive sex education," or endless references to "contraceptive commodities" have to do with a priority theme of: "The empowerment of rural women and their role in poverty and hunger eradication?" Those are the questions that our UFI team asked themselves for the last two weeks (Feb. 27-March - [Time for “Hot Dogging it”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/time-for-hot-dogging-it/) - Clint Eastwood’s speech at the Republic National Convention sure made waves this past week. Like many others, I thought the timing of the speech and some of the content was a bit unusual – but there were some elements that I loved. I especially appreciated how candid he was about not having us believe that - [Warning: High Wind Advisory – Take Caution](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/warning-high-wind-advisory-take-caution/) - The warning, “take caution – high wind advisory” posted this past week in some of the western states was not an exaggeration. My neighborhood felt the force of the high winds that reached up to 97 mph. Most homes were damaged, electricity was out for up to 72 hours in some areas and countless towering - [What – Turkey Pot Pies for Thanksgiving Dinner?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/what-turkey-pot-pies-for-thanksgiving-dinner/) - The holiday spirit is once again in the air. It is impossible to think about the holidays without contemplating the importance of family relationships. No matter what situation we find ourselves in, we long to find peace and joy during this season, and most importantly to be with family. The passing of my dad and - [Hey You, Mom Over There – Did You Lose Your Mind?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/hey-you-mom-over-there-did-you-lose-your-mind/) - Do you ever have a moment when you shake your head and think, “Am I really seeing this?” Unfortunately, I tend to be having more and more of these moments as our society takes a nose dive into a moral abyss. I often catch myself viewing something that I honestly never thought I would witness, - [Today is United Nations Day - Why should I be concerned?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/today-is-united-nations-day-why-should-i-be-concerned/) - It is clearly marked on my calendar that October 24th is United Nations Day. Who knew? The United Nations website says that “This day marks the anniversary of the entry into force in 1945 of the UN Charter. With the ratification of this founding document by the majority of its signatories, including the five permanent - [Ten Characteristics of Successful Marriages](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/ten-characteristics-of-successful-marriages/) - Let’s be honest – marriage can be a wonderful experience, but anyone who has made their way out of the honeymoon phase has had a taste of reality, can attest that marriage takes patience and work! Then of course there are times when we think we have finally figured out how to have a - [Did you hear about the World Congress of Families?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/did-you-hear-about-the-world-congress-of-families/) - Diane Robertson The 7th World Congress of Families (WCF) convened in Sydney, Australia May 15 – 18. Founded by the Howard Centre for Family, Religion and Society in Rockford, Illinois, WCF seeks to combat the anti-family ideologies now dominating the Western world. WCF brings together international pro-family organizations and activists. Since 1997, WCF has become - [Have You Ever Considered Divorce – Even for a Second?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/have-you-ever-considered-divorce-even-for-a-second/) - By Teresa Kearl It isn’t uncommon to see a headline at the local grocery store magazine rack encouraging readers to question how satisfied they are in their marriage, or to watch a TV show that glamorizes one “finding themselves” only to quickly abandon a relationship that isn’t completely fulfilling. It is no wonder then that - [2015: Reflecting in Gratitude for One Significant Year](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/un/2015-reflecting-in-gratitude-for-one-significant-year/) - It has been my unique opportunity to serve as the Chairman of the Board for UFI for the past two years. The mission, history and talent within UFI are unlike any organization I have witnessed. The selfless dedication that consistently comes from every UFI volunteer is truly inspiring – and, coupled with the blessings of - [Comprehensive Sexuality and Gender Identity Education: Do You Know What Your Children Are Being Taught?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender-identity-2/comprehensive-sexuality-and-gender-identity-education-do-you-know-what-your-children-are-being-taught/) - A friend of mine confronted an interesting dilemma this year with her high school son. She lives in Utah which has some of this country’s most conservative sex education laws. As one of three states in the country with an “opt-in” provision, Utah teachers instructing courses with material related to sexuality and reproduction cannot proceed - [The Truth About Change Therapy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender-identity-2/the-truth-about-change-therapy/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black It has no teeth, but it is sending a message. In June of this year, the California Assembly passed ACR 99, a resolution that condemns so called “conversion therapy” and calls upon religious leaders and mental - [How Publishers and Librarians Are Pushing Gender Identity Politics on Your Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/how-publishers-and-librarians-are-pushing-gender-identity-politics-on-your-children/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black When I was little, I loved to have my mother read to me. I had two favorite stories that I requested over and over: The Little Red Hen and Little Black Sambo. Poor Little Black Sambo - [Family-friendly Corporate Culture – A Win for All](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/family-friendly-corporate-culture-a-win-for-all/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black If you watched the 2019 Oscars, maybe you saw the inspiring Nike ad, “Dream Crazier,” which was part of its “Just Do It” campaign highlighting female athletes breaking down barriers in sports. These women have often - [Don't Believe What You Hear: Money Isn't the Leading Cause of Divorce](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/dont-believe-what-you-hear-money-isnt-the-leading-cause-of-divorce/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Jenet Erickson, Sammi Trujillo and Jeff Dew We’ve all seen the headline: “Money is the leading cause of divorce.” In fact, it isn’t money itself, but disagreement about it that makes financial conflict the strongest predictor of divorce. - [UN Women – Redefining Gender and Erasing Women](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender/un-women-redefining-gender-and-erasing-women/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black “We are more than you, and essentially you need to learn how to become a bit more like us.” That was the message Katlego Kai Kolanyane-Kesupile, the Religion Fellow at OutRight International, delivered to heterosexuals attending - [The Unsuspected Bully](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/the-unsuspected-bully/) - By Laurel Bishop I let it happen to my kid because I didn’t recognize it. Throughout sixth grade, my son sat at his desk, the brunt of his teacher’s jokes and insults. The worst humiliation was the teacher’s direction to the other students to “not be dumb like Cody”. In retrospect, I realize how the - [Our Modern Culture War: LGBTQ Rights vs. Religious Liberty](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/lgbt/our-modern-culture-war-lgbtq-rights-vs-religious-liberty/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black Friday I opened up my newsfeed, and this is what greeted me: an account of a six year old girl traumatized by her teacher who insisted on teaching her students that there are no such things - [The Struggle Against Abortion – A “Herculean Endeavor”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-struggle-against-abortion-a-herculean-endeavor/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black Like me, you probably have many friends who share their opinions on social media about the important issues our families face. Even so, the current spate of articles, memes and heated discussions surrounding abortion have been - [SPLC: Blacklisting Pro-family Groups and Peddling Hate](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/defense-of-marriage-act/splc-blacklisting-pro-family-groups-and-peddling-hate/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black For the United Nations, May 15 marked 25 years of observing the International Day of Families. This day was created in 1995 to celebrate the importance of families as the “smallest democracy in society” and respond - [The Equality Act – Harming Children and Hijacking the Rights of Parents](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender/the-equality-act-harming-children-and-hijacking-the-rights-of-parents/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black How do you define discrimination? The Merriam-Webster dictionary says that it is being prejudiced or having a prejudicial outlook, action or treatment towards a category of individuals, such as racial discrimination. Discrimination has another definition, however. - [Gather the Women and Pray for Peace](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/gather-the-women-and-pray-for-peace/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Jenet Erickson At the recent United Nations’ Commission on the Status of Women in New York City, a short but powerful film premiered. Its focus was the irreplaceable influence of ordinary women’s efforts to secure peace after lengthy - [We Need Children Even More than They Need Us: Part 2](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/we-need-children-even-more-than-they-need-us-part-2/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Jenet Erickson The first article in this series focused on how societies benefit from an orientation toward nurturing children within families. As that article discussed, not only are children critical to the economic development of nations, but a - [Is Instagram Ruining Your Marriage?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/is-instagram-ruining-your-marriage/) - By Miriam Merrill Your Instagram account may be ruining your marriage. With the number of active monthly users reaching 1 billion, Instagram is more popular than ever. While there are millions of users in every age category, approximately 64% of users are unsurprisingly between 18-34. It seems innocent enough, but with the average age of - [We Need Children Even More than They Need Us](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/we-need-children-even-more-than-they-need-us/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Jenet Erickson When renowned Harvard sociologist Carle Zimmerman published his sweeping analysis of the rise and fall of great civilizations, he made a striking conclusion: The defining feature of civilizations at their peak of creativity and progress was their orientation - [Surrogacy: Babies on Demand and Motherhood in Pieces](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/surrogacy-babies-on-demand-and-motherhood-in-pieces/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Camille Williams Rachel’s cry of longing, envy and despair, “Give me children else I die” (Genesis 30:1) is echoed in our day by infertile couples, by same-sex couples, and by single men considering “family building” via surrogacy. Surrogacy - [The Equality Act – An Atrocity Against Women](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/feminism/the-equality-act-an-atrocity-against-women/) - Contributed by Tori Black On Tuesday, April 2, 2019, the House Judiciary Committee held a full committee hearing on HR5, the Equality Act. Sponsors and supporters of the act claim that it will extend civil rights protections based on sex, sexual orientation and gender identity. The Equality Act, however, does nothing more than make use - [Gender Identity Politics: Erasing Womanhood at the United Nations and How that Will Affect You](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender/gender-identity-politics-erasing-womanhood-at-the-united-nations-and-how-that-will-effect-you/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black “It depends on what the meaning of the word ‘is’ is.” That infamous statement came from the 1998 grand jury testimony of Bill Clinton. It was a slick parsing of words that the former U.S. president - [Men, Put Down the Remote and Help Your Families Succeed](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/father/men-put-down-the-remote-and-help-your-families-succeed/) - Fathers can give the best gift of all - it's not about presents, but presence. By Chimane Hess & David Puente In the 1970's a series of public service announcements aired that promoted strong families. Several of the ads focused on getting fathers to realize that their families wanted their time and attention. One of - [The United Nations and the Family: What does it have to do with you?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-family/the-united-nations-and-the-family-what-does-it-have-to-do-with-you/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black March 20, 2003, my family had joined my parents in Maui for a spring vacation. From our tiny, speck of an island in the middle of the Pacific, we watched as half a world away, American - [The Countercultural Institution of the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-countercultural-institution-of-the-family/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black In 1975, Tippi Hedren, the actress best known for her role in the Alfred Hitchcock horror film The Birds, visited a Vietnamese refugee camp in Sacramento, California. Hedren was the international relief coordinator with Food for - [The Equal Rights Amendment: Still a Bad Idea for Women and Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/the-equal-rights-amendment-still-a-bad-idea-for-women-and-families/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Teresa Hunsaker For many decades now we have witnessed the progress of the movement for ‘equality’ between the sexes. In fact, the debate has been going on for almost 100 years, starting with women's suffrage back in the - [The Reality of Abortion: Sacrificing the Future](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-reality-of-abortion-sacrificing-the-future/) - Contributed by Camille Williams Coincidentally, on January 22, 2019, the 46th anniversary of Roe v. Wade, National Geographic sent out an email titled in part “World’s largest child sacrifice discovered in Peru.” Of course, I clicked on the link. My husband spent two years in Peru as a missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ - [Drag Kids: Creating a Precedent for the Acceptance of Child Sexual Exploitation](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/drag-kids-creating-a-precedent-for-the-acceptance-of-child-sexual-exploitation/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Callie Black Hypothetically, if you came across a photograph of a young child posing next to a naked man, how would you react? My first reaction would involve alerting the authorities so the child could escape obvious abuse. - [The Enduring Nature of the March for Life](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-enduring-nature-of-the-march-for-life-2/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, Dr. Bernard Nathanson was an influential proponent of legalized abortion. He performed, by his own admission, 60,000 abortions during his career. He admitted to lying about how many abortions were performed before legalization and about how many women died from abortion. In his biography, he admits to - [The Question of Universal Daycare: What Long-term Studies Are Telling Us](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-question-of-universal-daycare-what-long-term-studies-are-telling-us/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, When I was around five, my mother returned to work. The memory of my life at home with her before she returned to the workplace was for many years tinged by a palpable sadness. I missed being at home with her. So when I started to have - [The Enduring Nature of the March for Life](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-enduring-nature-of-the-march-for-life/) - United Families International: Dedicated to informing you about the issues and forces impacting the family. Contributed by Tori Black January brings two marches to Washington D.C. and around the nation. This year, the two groups met on consecutive days. The Women’s March, held this year on January 19, first appeared as a protest following the - [China: Punishing the Faithful and Making Churches an Arm of the State](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/china-punishing-the-faithful-and-making-churches-an-arm-of-the-state/) - by Elizabeth Warner A cross, marking a church and symbolizing Christian faith, is burned mercilessly. Churches are demolished in an attempt to halt worship. Millions of Muslims are held captive and fed communist propaganda to cleanse them of their faith. This is China and the reality for the religious communities who call the country home. - [“Can We Not Talk About Sex Right Now?”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/can-we-not-talk-about-sex-right-now/) - by Ronde S. Walch “What class are you taking this semester?” I smile because I know where this conversation is headed when I reply, “Healthy Sexuality.” I am at lunch with three well-educated mothers in their thirties who excitedly launch into their own understanding of the physical, emotional, and meaning-making aspects of healthy sexuality, a - [Human Connections and Healing from Trauma](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/human-connections-and-healing-from-trauma/) - by Laura Waters Most human beings will likely encounter trauma at some time in their lives. In fact, researchers estimate that 70% of American adults have experienced trauma in their lives, and 20% of people in this category go on to develop PTSD.i Traumatic events can include various types of abuse, neglect, serious illness, domestic - [Love: The Greatest Motivation to Change](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/love-the-greatest-motivation-to-change/) - By Kaelie Lemmon As stated by Lao Tzu, “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” I discovered this profound truth in my teenage years. Although I had previously experienced small, nearly unrecognizable feelings of depression, my first stand-still, world-stopping moment occurred during my 8th grade year. At - [Parents: the First and Best Defense Against Pornography in Schools](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/parents-the-first-and-best-defense-against-pornography-in-schools/) - By United Families International “Mom, can I tell you something?” I happily said yes, I always enjoy hearing about my 11-year-old’s day. But I was not prepared for this: “There was a girl at school that received a three-week suspension, and the police were called because it could put her on the sex offender registry!” - [Medical Marijuana Done Right](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/drug-use/medical-marijuana-done-right/) - by Jenet Jacob Erickson This last week, Utah signed into law what some have called “the best-designed” medical marijuana law in the country. Crafting that law was not easy. In just a few years marijuana has become a key political issue across the nation. Utah was no exception. In June of 2017, medical marijuana advocates - [Pornography : The Real Monster in Your Closet](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pornography/pornography-the-real-monster-in-your-closet/) - By Alan Pastor Jamie was in middle school, or what I like to call the armpit of life. He hasn’t dated, kissed, or even held the hand of a girl; yet he’s on the Sex Offender Registry. He’s expressed to his therapist the fear of never having a relationship with a girl. The images keep - [China’s One-Child Policy and the Law of Unintended Consequences](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/chinas-one-child-policy-and-the-law-of-unintended-consequences/) - by United Families International China, a country who has never been reserved or timid about their “reproductive” regulations, has instituted a startling change in their population control policy. In a major reversal, China, rather than restricting parents from bearing children, is now moving toward requiring citizens to bear children. According to Steven Mosher, an expert - [Gosnell Movie Review](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/gosnell-movie-review/) - By Holly Jo Martin The makers of the movie Gosnell deliver a horrifying suspense movie that just happens to be true. At first it seems like it is a movie about a pill mill being run in an abortion clinic in Philadelphia. The movie is fast paced and exciting before it turns into something far - [The Future of America](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/freedom/the-future-of-america/) - By Marci Nelson In the United States, it is the days after the 2018 midterm elections. Exhale. We made it. Unfortunately not everyone is breathing a sigh of relief. Today, for example, my supervisor walked out of his office exclaiming “Our country’s going to pot!” A fed up Facebook friend posted “I hate this piece - [The Real Bullies in America’s Schools: State and National Teachers’ Unions](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/the-real-bullies-in-americas-schools-state-and-national-teachers-unions/) - This is the second in a series of exerpts from Standing Up to Goliath by Rebecca Friedrichs I used to tell people that teaching is the most fulfilling profession in the world, and it was. But thanks to union domination of our schools and their influence on local, state and national elections, my precious profession - [Gender Identity Wars: How Redefining Gender Hurts Women](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender/gender-identity-wars-how-redefining-gender-hurts-women/) - By Tori Levulis Black One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I arrived late to my P.E. class due to an early morning orthodontist appointment. The woman that oversaw several of the girls’ team sports was short – as in tiny. She took my “excused slip”, and tipped her head all the - [The New Comprehensive Sexuality Education that has Teachers Horrified and Parents Fighting Back](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/the-new-comprehensive-sexuality-education-that-has-teachers-horrified-and-parents-fighting-back/) - The following guest post is an excerpt from "Standing Up to Goliath" by Rebecca Friedrichs In 2013 a dear friend sent me a most shocking email message. She forwarded it from a young mother living in Northern California. The email’s subject was: The Latest Horror! The horror the young mother articulated was the fifth-grade sex education program at - [Assisted Suicide: Society’s Dangerous Embrace of Legalized Killing](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/euthanasia/assisted-suicide-societys-dangerous-embrace-of-legalized-killing/) - By Tori Levulis Black In 1993, I had my last child on my living room floor. On purpose! Disappointed with some aspects of my previous births, I did my homework and chose to have a homebirth with the help of a certified midwife. It was by far my best birth. Two competent, skilled women attended - [Employment and the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/employment-and-the-family/) - By Marci Nelson I grew up in a large family. My parents had four sons and four daughters, and we lived a very happy childhood where my siblings and I felt immense love and safety. For as long as I can remember, my dad has been a cemetery caretaker. This means that he mows, trims, - [Gosnell: The True Crime Story America Tried to Hide](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/gosnell-the-true-crime-story-america-tried-to-hide/) - A message from UFI: In 1984, former abortionist, Dr. Bernard Nathanson, released a groundbreaking film called The Silent Scream. The film took advantage of ultrasound technology to reveal the human reality of the fetus. When preparing women for abortion, abortion providers routinely refer to the fetus as a “glob of cells” and a “product of conception,” as - [Sex Robots: Coming Soon to a City Near You](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pedophilia/sex-robots-coming-soon-to-a-city-near-you/) - By Elizabeth Warner Cover image via National Center on Sexual Exploitation As a recent resident of Texas, I was appalled to hear about the proposed sex robot, or sexbot, brothel opening in Houston, Texas just a couple hours away from my home. While Houston’s mayor, Sylvester Turner, is fighting to keep the proposed business out of his - [The Transgender Agenda Threatening Your Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-transgender-agenda-threatening-your-children/) - By United Families International Back to School Summer bucket-lists are checked off, and proud parents are sending their kids on to new adventures as this school year starts. For many the first-day jitters consume child and parent alike. With my oldest I remember tearfully helping him find his classroom and looking back several - [Proper Care](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/proper-care/) - By Tonya Cox My husband and I recently celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary. We sent our son, the last child still living at home, to visit his grandparents while we snuck away for a week just the two of us. It felt amazing to leave all the daily cares behind and relish in each other’s - [A Heartbreaker of a Lie](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/a-heartbreaker-of-a-lie/) - A Heartbreaker of a Lie by United Families International I don’t watch much on TV these days, I have to admit that I’m a sucker for a good dance show. Lately, I’ve been enjoying NBC’s World of Dance. In the early episodes of this season, a group called Marissa & The Heartbreakers performed. While there were elements of - [Five Ways You Can Stop Human Trafficking Today](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/five-ways-you-can-stop-human-trafficking-today/) - By Miriam Merrill Did you know that approximately 15,000 people are trafficked in the United States annually? These horrendous statistics require great action on our part. Though it’s difficult to discuss, a little education can go a long way in the fight against human trafficking. Do you wonder where to start? Keep reading for five - [Parental Rights: Who controls the education of your child?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/parental-rights-who-controls-the-education-of-your-child/) - As your children return to school, it is important that parents know that many people, including high-level judges, believe you relinquish your right to control your child’s education the moment your child crosses the threshold of the school door. In a barely-noticed July ruling, a U.S. District Court Judge in Oregon ruled that a transgender - [Child Sexual Abuse: We Must Speak Up](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/child-sexual-abuse-we-must-speak-up/) - By Jessie Keller It Happens When 5-year-old Janie announced to her mom on the way home from a family picnic, “Michael made me play a game I didn’t like.” Her mother became concerned. Michael was Janie’s 12-year old cousin and had not been seen most of the afternoon. Janie went on, “He made me close - [Collaboration Through Councils](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/collaboration-through-councils/) - By McKayla Skinner Each school year is full of new firsts. For some, it may be the entrance into kindergarten, for others new teachers, or even a whole new school. With all the changes that come with a new school year, it can lead many family members feeling scattered and sometimes drained. How can your - [The 2018 UN Population Awards - A Study in Contrasts](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-2018-un-population-awards-a-study-in-contrasts/) - by Vincenzina Santoro “Abortion is a common occurrence – there are 56 million each year.” So said the President of the Guttmacher Institute, Ann Starrs, in her statement following acceptance of the UN Population Award in the institutional category. Founded as the research arm of Planned Parenthood but spun off a few years ago, Guttmacher - [Why is Gay Marriage Progressing Across the Globe?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/civil-unions/why-is-gay-marriage-progressing-across-the-globe/) - Diane Robertson Legalized same-sex marriage is making progress around the globe. Since the New Year, New Zealand, France, and Uruguay have legalized gay marriage. Great Britain is currently working on a law that would legalize gay marriage, and marriage is on trial in the Supreme Court of the United States. The nations in the world - [The Fight Against Love](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/the-fight-against-love/) - Mekelle Tenney Contained within the First Amendment are two religion clauses, the establishment clause and the exercise clause. The establishment clause ensures that Congress will not establish a federal religion and that Congress will not enact legislation that effects just one sect of religion. The exercise clause protects the individual’s rights to practice their religion. - [Defending Religious Freedom, the Two Main Battle Fronts](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/free-speech/defending-religious-freedom-the-varying-battle-fronts/) - Religious freedom is one of the most essential rights that a human being could be granted. It is the right to believe in what you choose to, to see the world the way you want to, without imposing it upon or harming those around you. All across the world, freedom of religion is under assault. - [Lend Your Voice](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/lend-your-voice/) - By Miriam Merrill In the self-centered world in which we live it is easy to forget that when we raise our voice with others amazing things can happen. We will often see posts on social media offering similar political opinions and we automatically assume that this opinion must be the majority. In reality, these opinions - [Where Have All the Fathers Gone?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/where-have-all-the-fathers-gone/) - by Courtney Aintablian Fatherless-ness: it is an epidemic. We see it in our schools, work places, churches – you cannot miss it. It has become the “norm” to see a mother raising her children on her own.. What has happened in our society? Have men lost their sense of responsibility to their children? Have women - [Scouting without a Compass](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/sex-education/scouting-without-compass/) - By Tori Black For many years my husband and I were volunteers with Boy Scouts of America. We served in packs, troops, crews and districts in a variety of positions. We helped youth develop virtues embodied in the Scout oath, law and motto as they worked on goals, performed service, and planned and participated in - [Small and Simple Seeds: How Families Benefit from Gardening](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/small-simple-seeds-families-benefit-gardening/) - By McKayla Skinner Some of the most significant changes in family life are brought about by small and simple things. Something you may have experienced in the past is the joy that come from planting and harvesting a garden. One article notes six little-mentioned benefits of gardening: stress relief and increased self-esteem, improved heart health - [It Is Personal](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/freedom/new-bill-removes-rights-and-freedoms-from-lgbt-citizens-in-california/) - By Tonya Cox I am a Rapid Eye Technician. Rapid Eye Technology is a technique used to assist people in identifying and releasing stress and trauma in their life as well as learn life skills for living happier, vibrant, and more peaceful lives. I work with clients all over the world that experience various kinds - [Best Job Ever: A Millennial Mother's Response to the New York Times](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/motherhood-new-york-times-response/) - Hello Friends, When I was young, Erma Bombeck was the definitive voice on motherhood. With wit and wisdom she managed to balance the absurd and sublime that distinguishes the life of a mother. She was one of the greatest humorists of her day, yet capable of great sentimentality as well because she understood the deepest - [Maintaining Mom and Me](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/maintaining-mom-and-me/) - By Ashley Corbaley Without a doubt the person I admire most is my mother. Since the very beginning she has constantly been my nurturer, my cheerleader, my support and my friend. She taught me everything I know. She gave me life. Everything that I am is because of her. My Mom and I have always - [Supporting New Mothers and Fathers](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/supporting-new-mothers-fathers/) - By McKayla Skinner Sometime after the birth of my third child I came across some family support organizations that help with the transition to parenthood. I had no idea there were so many resources or people experiencing similar things. All I knew was at discharge from the hospital, I had taken a survey and knew - [A Lifetime of Regret](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/a-lifetime-of-regret/) - By Suzanne Smith and LaRenda Sommers In the fierce debate that rages on the right to life versus the right to choose, one consideration has been ignored from the abortion platform; the devastating effect abortions have on women’s mental health. If we really care about women then we must address the undeniable connection between abortion - [Distracted Parenting](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/distracted-parenting/) - By Ashley Corbaley We all have seen it: a mom or dad busily scrolling or texting away on their cell phone on the park bench while their children are playing on the playground. Maybe from time to time we are even guilty of it ourselves. A few years ago the Wall Street Journal did a - [The Solution to Gun Violence No One is Talking About](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/24720/) - By Miriam Merrill Regardless of which side of the gun control dichotomy you fall on, I think we can all agree on one thing: lives are precious. As the nation tries to make sense of these recent tragic events, several alleged social and political culprits have been proposed all over social media and throughout news - [Who Has Your Back](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/parental-rights/who-has-your-back/) - Some people have your back When it comes to protecting the integrity of the family and traditional values, one entity at the United Nations stands out, and that is the Holy See. “Holy See” comes from the Latin Sancta Sedes, which means “Holy Chair” and refers to the seat of government of the Catholic Church. - [Love that Lasts](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/love-that-lasts/) - By McKayla Skinner Valentine's Day is an extra opportunity for us to show our loved ones just how much we care about them. Yet once the chocolates are gone, the dinner is eaten, and the flowers wilt, what helps love last? In considering this question, I turned to those whose love has lasted. The following - [Pornography and the People](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/anti-pornography-legislation/) - by Marci Nelson Pornography has become a hot topic in recent years. Many celebrities, including Terry Crews and Pamela Anderson, have spoken out on the dangers of pornography. Many non-profit organizations such as Fight the New Drug and Citizens for Decency are working to combat the dangers of pornography through education and legislation. It is - [Five Easy Ways You Can Advocate for the Family Today](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/five-easy-ways-can-advocate-family-today/) - By Miriam Merrill Most of us have a desire to advocate for families, but in the midst of frightening headlines and threatening policy proposals it is easy to feel overwhelmed and unsure of where to start. The good news is that there are many inexpensive and easy, yet significant, ways you can do your part - [Perfectly Normal](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/perfectly-normal-comprehensive-sex-ed/) - By Tonya Cox I am sure we can all remember the first time we had the talk about “the birds and the bees.” In my experience, most kids react with disgust at the very notion of sexual intercourse when it is first introduced. I know my children did. Nevertheless, having a healthy view of sexuality - [Growing Up on Social Media](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/growing-social-media/) - By Ashley Corbaley Take a picture, ask questions later. That is how many parents in the world are doing it these days. From potty training mishaps to awkward first dates, parents are taking pictures and videos of it all and then posting it on their social media. In the days before Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, - [The Law of Unintended Consequences](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/law-unintended-consequences/) - For those like us, who value the family, the inability to have a child is a heavy burden. Infertility is a very real challenge for many couples. In the US alone, one in eight couples have difficulty conceiving or sustaining a pregnancy. Many of you reading this may be dealing with or have dealt with - [Raising Kids in the Technological Age](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/raising-kids-technological-age/) - By Erin Weist We live in a new time. The generation raising children now is doing something absolutely new that no one in the history of the entire world has done before: They are raising children with unprecedented amount of information streaming into their homes at an unprecedented rate. I read this heartbreaking blog article - [Your Role in Defending the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/role-defending-family/) - By Marci Nelson I get it. You want to help, but you don’t think you can make much of a difference. You’re a college student, a mother, a father, a grandparent. You don’t have the money, the resources, or the time to get involved. We avoid watching the news because it makes us sad. We - [How to Make a Human](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/bioethics/how-to-make-a-human/) - How to Make a Human: The Startling Advancements in Embryonic Science and How They Could Affect Generations Yet Unborn By Elise Ellsworth On December 8, 2017, Amnesty International hosted a conference: “Crossing Frontiers: Moving the Boundaries of Human Reproduction.” “Building Embryo-Like Structures In Vitro” and “How to Make a Human” were two among many sessions - [Fathers: Doing More, Challenged More, Needed More Than Ever.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/fathers-challenged-needed-ever/) - By McKayla Skinner There are currently an estimated 70.1 million fathers in the United States. Most of them consider their role as a father as core to their identity. However, fathers face great challenges , as well as opportunities, as they decide what matters most for their families. Fathers are doing more, are being challenged - [Female](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender/female/) - By Breaunna Stone A few weeks ago I was scrolling through iTunes looking at what new songs were at the top of the charts. Keith Urban’s song “Female” stood out to me. I clicked the play preview and got goose bumps as I listened to the words: “When you hear somebody say somebody hits like - [Resolutions](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/resolutions/) - By Miriam Merrill The new year brings a chance to start fresh. A clean slate provides the opportunity to try new things, overcome old habits, and better ourselves. Finances, health, and education are all common Google search topics this time of year. But have you thought about adding "Strengthening Your Family Relationships" to your list - [Traditional Marriage : Our Duty to Defend](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/traditional-marriage-duty-defend/) - By McKayla Skinner Recently, Australia became the 26th country to legalize same-sex marriage, doing so by means of ballot and parliamentary action. Let us briefly review the context of the change, as well as three lessons that family advocates can learn from it. Since the turn of the century, Australia’s LGBT community has made 22 - [Added Bit of Magic](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/added-bit-magic/) - By Tonya Cox My son and his wife just had their first baby and he is thrilled with this new role. It is a privilege and responsibility he has looked forward to and he takes it seriously. In America there are a reported 72 million fathers! Most countries around the globe have a special day, - [Love and Fidelity](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/love-and-fidelity/) - By Tonya Cox “The behavior of a human being in sexual matters is often a prototype for the whole of his other modes of reaction in life.” ~ Sigmund Freud “It is an unprecedented time in the United States in the history of sexuality” claims the America Psychological Association from a study released four years - [We Need a Few Good Men](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/need-good-men/) - By Erin Weist News in the United States was recently inundated with scandals involving sexual assault. These subjects range through Hollywood celebrities, movie directors, politicians, high-profile doctors, and more. Most consist of women accusing men of assault, although there are a fair number of men doing the accusing as well. Quite often, though not always, - [Raising Kids That Can Work](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/raising-kids-can-work/) - By Tonya Cox Growing up as the oldest of six children, Saturday mornings consisted of family work. It was the day to deep clean our home and attend to the yard and every family member had their own assigned tasks. Family work became part of our family culture and is a value I passed down - [Strong Women](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/feminism/strong-women/) - By Breaunna Stone I have recently been listening to a podcast in which successful women are interviewed and they discuss their life experiences as business owners, public figures, social media influencers, wives, and mothers. Not all who are interviewed are wives and mothers but a good majority of them are. As I have listened to - [Yes, Your Choices Do Affect Others](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/yes-choices-affect-others/) - By Miriam Merrill Society boasts that you may choose do whatever you like as long as it does not affect others. As an advocate of freedom I agree that within legal bounds we are each allowed to make our own choices. However, we too often falsely claim certain actions “do not affect others” when, in - [Consider the Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/consider-the-children/) - By Elise Ellsworth On a trip to the Massachusetts, US, shore my husband and I found ourselves in a heated disagreement. The topic has of course escaped my memory, but a family trip had definitely gone sour. As the words of anger flew back and forth we noticed out of the corner of our - [Petition on the Right to Life in International Law](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/petition-right-life-international-law/) - We’re in the last few days of collecting signatures to present to a United Nations body that is setting up to issue legal commentary on an international treaty that excludes unborn children from a “right to life.” United Families International has joined with other groups to collect signatures that are going to be presented to these UN - [Breastfeeding Awareness Month - Who Knew?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/breastfeeding/breastfeeding-awareness-month-who-knew/) - Since August is National Breastfeeding awareness month… What? You didn’t know that? Well, it is and we at United Families International are firmly in the camp of thinking that breastfeeding is essential for the best health and development of babies. In honor of National Breastfeeding Awareness, we have compiled a list of studies that we - [Moral Questions About Abortion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/moral-questions-abortion/) - By Diane Robertson The modus operandi for today's abortion debate focuses on the humanity, or not, of the unborn. Some may argue that anytime between conception and birth the baby is not human and thus has no intrinsic value. By this logic there is no moral reason to support the developing life. On the other - [School Transgender Bathroom Rules Are Back](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/gender-identity-2/school-transgender-bathroom-rules-back/) - By Diane Robertson Hardly anyone can forget how in May of 2016, the Obama Administration made an announcement that under Title IX, all schools receiving any form of federal funding must allow students to use the gendered bathroom of their choice. The issue was in the news almost daily. There were two court cases concerning - [The Euthanasia of Hope](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/euthanasia/the-euthanasia-of-hope/) - By Miriam Merrill Euthanasia doesn’t grant patients the right to die, it gives doctors permission to kill, and the rate of killing is becoming more frequent. A recent news story announced new research that Euthanasia is responsible for 4.5% of all deaths in the Netherlands. The Netherland government website even refers to this practice, however - [What is Life?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/parental-rights/what-is-life/) - By Christie Masters I recently found myself reorganizing my bookshelf when one of my science books from college caught my eye: “What is Life?” by Erwin Schrodinger. The title gave me pause, especially with the tragedy of little Charlie Gard so fresh in my mind. What is life? Not the scientific, biological systems that make - [Join the Race for Virtue](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/values/join-race-virtue/) - One benefit of working with United Families is the opportunity we have to partner with other pro-family organizations. For instance, while at the United Nations, UFI has collaborated with Fight the New Drug to educate individuals and community leaders about the dangers of pornography, and last March we teamed up with Operation Underground Railroad in - [Parental Right in Dire Trouble: The Story of Charlie Gard](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/parental-rights/parental-right-dire-trouble-story-charlie-gard/) - by Diane Robertson By now, everyone knows the story of Charlie Gard. He was a very ill baby. His parents wished to transfer his care from the UK to the US. They had crowd-sourced over a million dollars for some experimental treatments. The Hospital would not let Charlie’s parents take him. Charlie’s parents petitioned the - [The Power of Teaching Children to Work](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/power-teaching-children-work/) - by Elise Ellsworth Many years ago, homeschooling pioneer, Dorothy Moore, described "a woman who was asked by a rehabilitation center to counsel men who had been classified as unemployable. They were not derelicts, Mrs. Moore reports, but instead, well-dressed and articulate. As the woman worked with these men, though, 'she discovered a common denominator. None - [A Path to Defunding Planned Parenthood](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/path-defunding-planned-parenthood/) - by Diane Robertson Planned Parenthood is the biggest abortion provider in the United States. They kill over 300,000 unborn babies each year, and they have been caught illegally selling body parts of unborn babies. So, here at United Families International, we can only celebrate when on July 25th, the US Senate voted 50/50 to open - [They, It and Identity](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/they-it-and-identity/) - by McKayla Skinner Recently, BBC News published an article entitled Canadian Baby ‘First Without Gender Designation’ On Health Card. The article talks about a non-binary transgender person (neither completely male or female) known as Kori Doty (originally a female), who gave birth to a baby in November of 2016. Ms. Doty has gone to great - [Our Home School Journey](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/home-school-journey/) - by Diane Robertson As a parent of many children, I have run the gamut of affordable school choices. I started my kids in public school. Dabbled for a couple years in home schooling, tried out a renowned charter school and ultimately pulled my kids out formal schooling for good and brought them home. When I - [Transgender Laws Hurt Real Women](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/feminism/transgender-laws-hurt-real-women/) - by Alannah Hurley Recently, a transgender boy who identifies as a girl, joined an all-girls track team, competed in state competitions, and came in first on multiple times during these competitions. “Andraya Yearwood, is the boy and his success knocked out other top contenders who are authentic girls. Yearwood has undergone no cross-sex hormone treatments in - [Positive Trends in the Pro-life Cause](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/positive-trends-pro-life-cause/) - by Miriam Merrill Abortion headlines seemingly dot newspapers more than ever. Oregon is preparing to sign the most radical pro-abortion bill in the United States, making tax- funded abortions free with no informed consent and no parental consent or notification for minors required. Sex-selective abortions would also be legalized. At the same-time, pro-abortion groups in - [If It Looks Like a Duck...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/looks-like-duck/) - by Diane Robertson Michelle Cretella, M.D. and president of the American College of Pediatricians declared that affirming children’s wishes to live as the opposite gender is child abuse. “Today’s institutions that promote transition affirmation are pushing children to impersonate the opposite sex, sending many of them down the path of puberty blockers, sterilization, the removal - [Stepping Outside My Comfort Zone](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/un/stepping-outside-comfort-zone/) - United Families International was privileged to have university students accompany us to the Commission on the Status of Women. Madisen Busenbark shares what she learned while at the United Nations. It’s been nearly 4 months now, and I still can’t get it off my mind. The Big Apple. The city so nice, they named it twice. - [Fostering Freedom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/fostering-freedom/) - by Christie Masters This 4th of July marked the first time I have had the privilege to participate in our community’s annual parade. The early morning saw our historic downtown quickly fill with the different groups that would be walking (or riding) down the long streets crowded with families and friends. There were tiny girls - [At the Click of a Button](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/family-planning/24201/) - by McKayla Skinner The Nurx app (Pronounced New RX) and others like it, promote birth control at the click of a button, without the personal assistance of a pharmacist or a visit to the doctor’s office. Nurx offers birth control such as: the pill, patch and ring, as well as the abortion pill Plan B - [Parenting: Five Better Ways to Communicate](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/parenting-five-better-ways-communicate/) - by McKayla Skinner Parent-child communication is often challenging. Across time and culture almost all parents have had to confront contention in their homes, and most have realized that they needed to change the communication patterns in their family. As a young mother with three children under four years of age, I too have tried - [Punishing Speech is Not the Answer](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/punishing-speech-not-answer/) - by Diane Robertson Free speech has been under attack for many years now. Any speech deemed offensive is being punished and those punishments are being cheered from all sides of the political spectrum. It seems that Americans no longer comprehend freedom of speech. The Bill of rights states that Congress shall make no law that - [Redefining Reality](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/redefining-reality/) - by Diane Robertson By redefining consensus as fact, conformity as diversity, and violence as tolerance a new progressive movement has succeeded in stifling speech in America and other Western Nations. When an individual or group attempts to publicly speak truth in opposition to the progressive consensus, they react with anger, name calling, and sometimes violence. - [All About Love?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/all-about-love/) - by Erin Weist Sometimes the question comes up among traditional marriage supporters about how to defend marriage in the face of those who invoke statements such as, “love wins,” or “people can’t help who they love,” or “it’s all about love.” Indeed, that would be tough to argue against. Who doesn’t support loving each other? - [Wrongful Birth?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/wrongful-birth/) - by Breaunna Stone Many people proclaim themselves to be “pro life,” or “pro choice.” I claim to be both. I am pro life in the sense that I believe that a new life is created at the time of conception, and that every life created, has the right to live beyond life inside of the - [Welcome to the Asylum, Eh?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/welcome-asylum-eh/) - by Diane Robertson The Canadian senate just destroyed science, sanity, freedom of speech, freedom of the press, and freedom of religion. They passed the most ridiculous anti-freedom law yet to hit the books of a western nation. In a vote of 63 to 11, the senate added “gender expression” and “gender identity” to Canada’s Human - [Off the Grid](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/media/off-the-grid/) - by Alannah Hurley Recently, I did what some would call unfathomable, what some wish they could do, and what some have already done – I quit social media. At first it was hard not having that constant entertainment at my fingertips, but it also felt as though a burden had been lifted. I’m not as - [Want Empowered Women? Empower Men](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/father/want-empowered-women-empower-men/) - by Miriam Merrill The world continues to advocate for female empowerment but fails to acknowledge the irreplaceable role fathers have in contributing to the movement. I consider myself a strong woman. For my 13th birthday I received a thick book called “Women Making America” filled with stories of women throughout history that made our nation - [What Fathers Need to Know](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/fathers-need-know/) - by Diane Robertson We need fathers. The politically correct modern notion that as long as a child seems loved and cared for, then it won’t matter who raises the child is just wrong. Children need fathers. Society needs fathers. Mothers need fathers. For years fathers have gotten a bad rap. They are often portrayed as - [Worth the Wait](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/worth-the-wait/) - by Alannah Hurley “I made a decision to choose abstinence for my life and I stayed true to that commitment. When I was 15 years old, I made a decision that I wanted to save sex for one man only and that was my future husband. Choosing abstinence was one of the best decisions I ever - [KEEPING THE FAMILY SECRET](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/keeping-family-secret/) - by Peggy Sturgill We were very good at keeping the family secret when I was growing up. To the outside world, we looked like a normal, happy family, much like the Cleaver family in “Leave It to Beaver.” No one suspected there was a monster living in our house. This monster was alcoholism, and we - [What Did We Say "Yes" To?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/sex-education/what-did-we-say-yes-to/) - Guest post by Tina Mann I recently attended a meeting at my local middle school to discuss the upcoming sex education classes. After reassuring the parents of the district’s policy to teach abstinence-based classes, which sounded like a positive approach to me, the teacher played several videos of teens dealing with relationship and pg-style sexual - [Giving Too Much of What Looks Good](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/giving-much-looks-good/) - Guest post by Paola Zorrilla Soto Working parents, unresolved conflict between adults, divorce, separation, stepfamilies, two homes, addictions, long-awaited child, an only child, only grandchild, the oldest child, the youngest child, neglect, abuse, overcompensating a child for different reasons, lack of good parenting skills, and so on. Here is a list of common family situations, - [A Win for Conscience](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/a-win-for-conscience/) - by Diane Robertson Physician assisted suicide (PAS) proponents in the state of Vermont pushed for officials to interpret the PAS law to require all doctors either to counsel terminally ill patients or to refer them for counseling about assisted suicide. The state health department made counseling or referral for PAS an official policy for all - [Creating a Family Culture](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage-and-family/creating-family-culture/) - by Alannah Hurley The birth of my daughter was the most beautiful thing I could have ever experienced. My little gift from heaven took her first breath on that day and now it is, and forever will be, one of my favorite occasions to celebrate. I celebrated joyfully on that day and have made it - [Conversion Therapy: Do You Have a Choice?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/parental-rights/conversion-therapy-choice/) - by Erin Weist Last year, Feb. 2016, several American groups filed a complaint with the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) against a therapy group claiming to treat unwanted same-sex attraction. The complaint, brought by the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR), the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), and the Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC), suggested that this - [The Best Decision You Can Ever Make](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/best-decision-can-ever-make/) - by Elise Ellsworth “I know a good urologist you could visit.” After a few children my husband got this advice from a young male friend. And I must admit that as I embarked on marriage I had adopted the prevailing opinion at my university that having children too soon or having too many were detrimental - [Newsflash: Only Women Breast Feed!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/newsflash-women-breast-feed/) - by Diane Robertson La Leche League fills a needed service for new breast feeding mothers. According their website, La Leche League helps mothers to breastfeed through mother-to-mother support, encouragement, information, and education, and to promote a better understanding of breastfeeding in the healthy development of the baby and mother. They lend a needed service to - [The Attack on Monogamy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/the-attack-on-monogamy/) - by McKayla Skinner CNN recently published an article entitled Rethinking Monogamy Today, challenging the centuries long pattern of monogamy in marriage. Instead of couples choosing to “break up, cheat or just ‘settle” when they have sexual differences, the article suggests an alternative that encourages couples to be “informed,” break social stigma’s, and try extramarital relationships, - [Standing Out from the Crowd](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/free-speech/standing-out-from-the-crowd/) - by Breaunna Stone Ever since my experience at the United Nations at the 2017 Commission on the Status of women, I have found a voice inside of myself that is more outspoken and boisterous than it has ever been before. Whether it is on social media, at a family gathering, or just at the grocery - [Love or Career: Does It Have to Be Either-Or?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage-and-family/love-career-either/) - by Ashley Corbaley Recently I saw a movie in which a man and a woman who were hopelessly in love with each other decided to break up because they chose to pursue their careers instead of their relationship. They tried to follow their dreams while dating and found it difficult and so they chose to - [Don't Be Duped](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/un/dont-be-duped-2/) - United Families International was privileged to have university students accompany us to the Commission on the Status of Women. Allie Gillespie shares what she learned while at the United Nations. Abraham Lincoln once said, “The problem with internet quotes is that you can’t always depend on their accuracy.” Ok, so we all know that this isn’t - [Fighting a Scourge](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pornography/fighting-a-scourge/) - by Alannah Hurley Pornography is now easier than ever to access. It is available at the click of a button for adults, teens, and children. However, some states, parties and governments are beginning to see the dangers of pornography and are taking steps to increase awareness of those dangers and to protect people from them, - [The "Busyness" Problem](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage-and-family/the-busyness-problem/) - by Christie Masters If you are too busy, you may, like me, look longingly at your garden as you drive away, again, wishing for more time at home. The weeds in that badly neglected garden seem to mock our desire for rest and peace as they grow defiantly taller, a visible accusation of our busy - [Too Costly?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/too-costly/) - by Alannah Hurley Because of technological advances, expecting mothers are now able to tell before birth if their child will have Down syndrome. “The abortion rate in the United States for babies with Down syndrome, sometimes known as trisomy 21, is about 50 percent and is likely to increase as prenatal testing becomes more available. - [The Highest of Arts](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/the-highest-of-arts/) - by Carol Soelberg In 1983 when my mother, Janet Andersen Ray, was Arizona’s Mother of the year, my seven sisters accompanied her to the Waldorf Astoria in New York City, New York for the American Mother’s National Convention. I stayed home having just given birth to my precious daughter AmyLyn. My mother kindly assured me - [Enough and More](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/enough-and-more/) - by Diane Robertson I read this great article last week. I hope it goes viral. It describes feelings I have often felt. “What if I never really amount to anything when I grow up—beyond mom and sister and wife? But these people in my primary circle of impact know they are loved and I would - [If You Want to Help Children, Then Help Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage-and-family/want-help-children-help-marriage/) - by Dr. Jenet Jacob Erickson If there is anything the last four decades have taught us, it is that marriage matters in the lives of children. In 1960, five percent of children were born to an unmarried mother. By 2014, that rate had increased to 41 percent and with it the reality that many children - [Me, myself and I](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-family/me-myself-and-i/) - United Families International was privileged to have university students accompany us to the Commission on the Status of Women. Kadee Taylor shares what she learned while at the United Nations. It's All About Me I’ve struggled to find words for what I learned by attending the United Nations. The Commission on the Status of Women - [California Wants Your Kids: Part 2](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/california-wants-kids-part-1/) - by Diane Robertson Part two of a two-part series examining California’s overreach into the lives of children and families and the rights of parents. The main problem with California’s SRC 41 is that it removes full on decision making about children from the parents and gives it to the state, schools, and medical professionals. It - [No Time for Hiding](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/un/no-time-hiding/) - United Families International was privileged to have university students accompany us to the Commission on the Status of Women. Miriam Blaser shares what she learned while at the United Nations. My time at the United Nations was unforgettable. I experienced so much that will forever change me. I believe my biggest take-away can be summed in - [The Mean Side of Social Media](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/media/mean-side-social-media/) - by Erin Weist I follow several family-oriented groups on social media. These groups encourage support of mothers, father, and children, as well as strong bonds between husbands and wives. If you’ve spent any time on social media you’ll know what a battleground it can be. People, on what appear to be two opposite sides of - [California Wants Your Kids: Part I](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/california-wants-kids-part/) - by Diane Robertson Part one of a two-part series examining California's overreach into the lives of children and families and the rights of parents. Californians and parents beware!! In a move to curb the opposition, State Senator Pan, author of the now infamous SB 18 has moved much of the language, and added more, to - [Be the One](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-family/be-the-one/) - United Families International was privileged to have university students accompany us to the Commission on the Status of Women. Breaunna Stone shares what she learned while at the United Nations. As we walked into the side event, it was visible we didn’t quite fit in. We looked a little bit different than everyone else, and in - [A Chance at Life](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/a-chance-at-life/) - by Candice LeSueur I am the fourth of six children in my family. We all joke about how my parents’ third child, the sister just older than me, was a fierce one. My mom thought she would be finished with having kids after her, but I’m so glad she decided to let me come and - [What About the Children?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/adoption-2/what-about-the-children/) - Name withheld I recently came across a letter written by a woman who was raised by lesbian parents. In this letter, her thoughts are directed to a Supreme Court justice, and she goes onto explain to him that redefining marriage in society will ultimately fail to protect the rights of a very important population in - [Where Does This All Lead?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/where-does-this-all-lead/) - United Families International was privileged to have university students accompany us to the Commission on the Status of Women. Andy Gongora shares what he learned while at the United Nations. My main purpose for coming to the UN was to learn about and become more exposed to the ideologies that are threatening the family. As a - [Collision Courts](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/collision-courts/) - by Diane Robertson For years, the LGBT community has been seeking to make sexual orientation and transgenderism part of non-discrimination laws that were written during the civil rights movement. They have been successful in several states and cities across the nation, and have been the source of frustrating law suits and penalties for small business - [We're All Human](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/prostitution/were-all-human/) - United Families International was privileged to have university students accompany us to the Commission on the Status of Women. Elizabeth Warner shares what she learned while at the United Nations. While at the Commission on the Status of Women, I met so many amazing and passionate people. Some were passionate about human rights, some about - [You Are Enough. You Are Not Alone](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/un/enough-not-alone/) - United Families International was privileged to have university students accompany us to the Commission on the Status of Women. Emma Zuniga shares what she learned while at the United Nations. I remember the first time I went to the United Nations. It was a little over a year ago, I was nervous and didn’t know - [California Stifling Pro-life Speech](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/california-stifling-pro-life-speech/) - by Diane Robertson About the same time the State of California charged David Daleiden, the man responsible for releasing undercover videos of Planned Parenthood selling baby parts, with 15 felonies, the United States Congress dismissed an Obama administration rule that prohibited the states from defunding Planned Parenthood. After Daleiden released the videos in 2015, several - [Make It Count](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-family/make-it-count/) - by Candice LeSueur Attending the 61st Session of the Commission on the Status of Women (CSW 61) at the UN this past week was an unforgettable experience for me, as well as one I definitely had not expected. Back in high school, I was lucky enough to travel to New York City with a group - [Ethics and the Three Person Baby](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/bioethics/ethics-three-person-baby/) - by Erin Weist About 2 weeks ago, BBC News produced an article titled, “Three-person baby license granted,” reporting about a fertility group in Newcastle that has worked to create a procedure that is intended to overcome a specific genetic defect. A noble goal, to be sure. In fact, who could say no to a procedure - [Millennial Advocates](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/un/millennial-advocates/) - Nine university students accompanied the United Families team at the United Nations for the Commission on the Status of Women. They shared with us some of their impressions while working at the UN. Each student had a unique perspective. We are grateful for the enthusiasm and energy they bring to the work we do promoting - [The Puzzle of Gay Loneliness](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/same-sex-attraction/puzzle-gay-loneliness/) - by Cathi Bond Loneliness is an emotion that causes one to feel empty or have the perception of being alone, like when a college freshman feels lonely even when surrounded by roommates and fellow students. Earlier this month, Michael Hobbes, a gay writer, pondered why gay “marriage” hasn’t cured gay loneliness among gay men. Hobbes - [Truth, Lies and Defunding Planned Parenthood](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/truth-lies-defunding-planned-parenthood/) - by Elise Ellsworth While Congress is hotly debating the American Health Care Act there are many Americans who remain unaware that the act contains language which could be the undoing of America’s biggest abortion provider, Planned Parenthood (originally HJ Resolution 43). Over the last few weeks there has been a flurry of half-truths promulgated by - [The Agenda](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/the-agenda/) - by Diane Robertson There’s an alarming new agenda showing up in liberal circles. It’s coming under two separate guises: women’s rights and children’s rights. Both have the same goal to remove childcare from the parents and give it to the government. I first noticed this in December when California SB18 was introduced. This bill will - [UFI at the UN: Family as the First Defense Against Human Trafficking](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/ufi-un-family-first-defense-human-trafficking/) - by Angela Fallentine The 61st Commission on the Status of Women at the United Nations is underway in New York and the United Families International team is on the ground attending and monitoring events. The theme for this year’s CSW is “Women’s Economic Empowerment in the Changing World of Work” and while many events have - [Grateful Motherhood](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/grateful-motherhood/) - by Christie Masters “No one told me that it would all happen at the same hallowed time: Mothering is at once the hardest and the holiest and the happiest.” Ann Voskamp Several years ago, my two oldest daughters and I joined a women’s book study group. The theme of the book, and the thread that - [Motherhood Is Not a Burden](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/motherhood-not-burden/) - We're handing YOU the mic! No matter how small you think your voice is, as a mother, never before has your voice had the opportunity to be heard like it is now. Right now, at the United Nations there’s a pretty fierce battle over motherhood taking place. Let’s not let anyone marginalize motherhood. Don’t let - [A Unique Relationship](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/a-unique-relationship/) - by Tashica Jacobson I’ve recently found a station on the radio that plays that old country music that I grew up on. One song that they play frequently is If You’ve Got Love by John Michael Montgomery. One verse in particular stands out to me it is: Now there's nothing like a real good friend - [Be a Part of UFI at the UN](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/part-ufi-un/) - by Diane Robertson It’s that time of year again. The UN’s Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) is in session now until March 25th. CSW is inundated with liberal voices pushing for unfettered abortion, comprehensive sexual education, and working women. Current UN documents suggest that motherhood is not needed and that children are a - [Oh, No You Don't!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage-and-family/oh-no-dont/) - by Cathi Bond In a 2016 survey, 72% of teenagers reported feeling an urgency to check and immediately respond to text messages and social media notifications from their friends. They found it almost impossible to resist the impulse to check the pings or to post; experiencing FOMO (fear of missing out). According to Quorum Insurance, - [Supreme Court Drops Transgender Bathroom Case](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/supreme-court-drops-transgender-bathroom-case/) - by Diane Robertson This week the Supreme Court sent their transgender school bathroom case back down to the 4th Circuit Court of Appeals. The Supreme Court stated: “The judgment is vacated, and the case is remanded to the United States Court of Appeals for the Fourth Circuit for further consideration in light of the guidance - [A Healing Choice](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage-and-family/a-healing-choice/) - by Cathi Bond No one is perfect. We all make mistakes…therefore, we all need forgiveness. It’s our nature to help others, but sometimes we intentionally or carelessly disappoint and hurt too. Forgiveness is a process, not an event, which can be challenging when our hurt is deep. “Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for - [UFI at the UN: Fighting for the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-family/ufi-un-fighting-family/) - by Breaunna Stone Based out of New York City, and Geneva, Switzerland, the United Nations is a headquarters where countries come together to discuss and make decisions on international policy that ranges from the sanctity of life, to water quality, to economic policy. The documents and language that are debated and written inside the UN - [What They Really Want](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/what-they-really-want/) - by Diane Robertson The organizers for the Women’s March, held in January, have organized another event for March 8th—“A Day Without a Woman”. The organizers are suggesting that women around the world “take the day off, from paid and unpaid labor, avoid shopping for one day (with exceptions for small, women- and minority-owned businesses), or - [A Snub or a Reset?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/a-snub-or-a-reset/) - by Elise Ellsworth President Trump recently revoked Obama era federal guidelines instructing schools to let transgender students use bathrooms and other facilities which aligned with their gender identity. Many saw this revocation as an intentional snubbing of those in the LGBT community and their rights. But President Trump’s team made interesting comments accompanying the revocation - [Here's One for the Boys](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/23867/) - by Candice LeSueur I remember very distinctly when I realized how great it was to be a girl. I was 16 and was learning, as women, we have attributes that make us unique from men: among a wide array of countless traits, we have a great capacity to empathize with others, to nurture, love, and - [Motherhood is Joyful!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/motherhood-is-joyful/) - by Diane Robertson Once upon a time society approved of motherhood. Young women were encouraged to bare and rear children. Getting married and starting a family was sought after and expected. That’s not true today. In a high school class, my daughter was told she had to choose a career. She said that ultimately, she - [The Morphing of a Movement](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-morphing-of-a-movement/) - by Tashica Jacobson The feminist movement was started by women who wanted equal treatment. Their initial efforts focused on improvement for women in regards to education, employment, and the right to vote. The movement then expanded to equality for everyone regardless of sex, race, age, or disability. Today this demand for equality has now turned - [Death on Demand](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/death-on-demand/) - by Diane Robertson The Arizona, Connecticut, Hawaii, Indiana, Maryland, Massachusetts, Mississippi, Missouri, Nebraska, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, Pennsylvania, Utah, and Wyoming state legislatures are all currently considering bills to legalize assisted suicide. California, Colorado, Montana, Oregon, Vermont and Washington state have laws allowing physician assisted suicide. It’s the new legislative move sweeping the - [A Legacy or a Loss?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/euthanasia/a-legacy-or-a-loss/) - by McKayla Skinner Two years ago, my Grandmother passed away due to Alzheimer’s. In her final months, she chose to embrace life even though she had persistent health challenges. Something that once was a fear for her became realized, and she decided to not let it impede her joy. Her example left a legacy of - [Understanding Stepfamilies](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage-and-family/understanding-stepfamilies/) - by Jennifer Johnson Try to put yourself in the following situation, paying particular attention to how you would feel: You are in a classroom and the teacher says that you are going to have a competition, with a bag of mini Snickers candy bars on the line as the prize for the first place team. - [We Help - It's Part of Who We Are](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/we-help-its-part-of-who-we-are/) - by Diane Robertson The news and social media have been flooded with opinions about Muslims, refugees, and immigration. I am not an expert on immigration law. I do not know enough about the war-torn countries that many families and individuals are fleeing to form an opinion on the safety of refugees from those nations. But, - [Imperfections](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage-and-family/imperfections/) - Tashica Jacobson The other morning I was holding my sleeping son, who currently is getting over a bad case of baby acne, and found myself fixated on one of the particularly large bump on his face. I was resisting the urge to scratch it off his face when I realized that while I had a - [Ubiquitous](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pornography/ubiquitous/) - by Cathi Bond There is a never ending stream of soft pornography creeping into our daily lives. It is no longer a matter of if you and your children will encounter hard core porn, but when. This multibillion dollar industry permeates all forms of media. With internet access in our pockets and purses, it’s imperative - [A Mighty River of People](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/mighty-river-people/) - by Diane Robertson My 17 year old daughter and I had the wonderful opportunity to join with thousands upon thousands of people in Washington D.C. on Friday to march for the lives of the unborn. Men and women came from all across the nation to form a mighty river of people-- people of goodwill and - [Parents and the Community: A Sex Ed Collaboration](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/parents-community-sex-ed-collaboration/) - Guest post by Tiffany Anderson and Audrey Edwards When was the last time the birds and bees got together to talk? Our personal sexuality is a big part of our individual identity. Our bodies were made for the amazing purpose of creation. This wonderful power was also designed to be enjoyable. Learning about this natural - [Keeping Abusers at a Distance](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/keeping-abusers-distance/) - by Elise Ellsworth Every parent’s nightmare is the discovery that one of their children has been sexually molested or abused. However, 1 in 5 girls and 1 in 20 boys will become victims of childhood sexual abuse. How can you outsmart molesters and keep your child free from the damaging and lifelong consequences of abuse? - [Worth Marching For](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/worth-marching-for/) - by Diane Robertson There was a March for Women last Saturday. I did not pay too much attention to it, but it got me thinking about a different march. The March for Life is scheduled just 6 days after this other march. As a woman and a mother, I feel no need to march for - [It Starts With Two](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/it-starts-with-two/) - by Tashica Jacobson “All this because two people fell in love” is the quote on my grandparents photo wall. While I have heard this saying multiple times, the full impact of it never settled in until I saw their wall with photos of each of their seven children’s families with 46 grandchildren, 96 great grandchildren, - [What About Boys?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/what-about-boys/) - by Cathi Bond After having two gifted daughters with exceptional language skills, I recognized right off when our third child, a son, was going to need extra help to learn to read. I explained to him that when he learned to read, the entire world would be his oyster! Boys can be rowdy, noisy, messy, - [Equal Protection Under the Law?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/equal-protection-law/) - by Diane Robertson Telescope Media group is a small couple owned business in Minnesota that makes small promotional films or commercials for local events. The company is Christian based and Christian in purpose. Their website advertises the purpose of the company as follows: “Telescope is based on this reality: ‘God’s goal at every stage of - [Being Mean...Not!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/values/being-mean/) - by Christie Masters The relativism that permeates our culture makes a demand of each one of us: “Be tolerant!” Tolerance has become the crux of what is moral, and to be in open disagreement with the beliefs or lifestyle of another person is considered the ultimate immorality. Relativism declares that there is no “truth”, no - [Propaganda, Pollution and Gender Dysphoria](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/propaganda-pollution-gender-dysphoria/) - by Diane Robertson One does not have to look very far to realize that there has been a global increase in gender dysphoria in children. In recent years, parents have been caught publicly parading their child’s “transformation” from one gender to another. Last year, the UK published statistics that noted a more than ten-fold increase - [Expectations](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/23796/) - by Tashica Jacobson January first: It’s that time of year again. The start of a new year, the start of a new beginning. And with it comes reflection on the previous twelve months and resolutions for the next twelve. While these goals are good and prompt us to work towards the things we want, there - [Avoiding Jerks](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage-and-family/avoiding-jerks/) - by Jennifer Johnson As a little girl, my favorite movie was Father of the Bride. This movie, starring Steve Martin, Diane Keaton, Martin Short, and others, tells the story of a father accepting the idea of planning, and carrying out a wedding. I would come home from school each day and watch this movie all - [California's Assault on Parental Rights](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/californias-assault-parental-rights/) - by Diane Robertson California State Legislature is at it again. This time, they are considering taking the right of parents to make decisions for their children and giving it fully to the state. Introduced on the Senate floor on Dec 5th, SB 18 would, “establish a comprehensive framework that governs the rights of all children - [The Good News About Electronic Devices](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/good-news-electronic-devices/) - by Tashica Jacobson Electronic devices are everywhere today. Many families own a TV, computer, laptop, and tablet, with each member also having a personal phone. A 2015 survey found that 90% of households in the United States have three or more devices that connect to the internet, and that the average household has 5.2 connected - [Making the Holidays Memorable](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/making-holidays-memorable/) - by Christie Masters Recently some dear friends were sharing with me that some of their best Christmas celebrations have been when finances were tight. The husband went on to say that one season he had a job that kept him extremely busy and money was no issue. They spent thousands on presents that year, and - [Redefining Pronouns Means Redefining Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/redefining-pronouns-means-redefining-family/) - by Diane Roberson Think for just a moment. What is the first thing you notice about a person as well as the last thing you forget about them? The answer for pretty much everyone is gender. In fact, gender for humans is much more pronounced than for almost any other species on the planet. The - [Vulnerability Hangovers](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage-and-family/vulnerability-hangovers/) - by Jennifer Johnson A couple of months ago, I had the opportunity to attend a shame and vulnerability workshop. While there, a woman a couple rows behind me put into words a concept that I think we have all experienced but do not have a name for. Have you ever openly shared personal information with - [It Takes Two](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/it-takes-two/) - by Tashica Jacobson It’s been nine long months and I am ready for this baby to come. Throughout these months, though, I have learned many different things; some lessons probably relate to the majority of pregnancies, but some are unique to myself, and some probably shouldn’t be shared publicly. While I’m not ready to jump - [Reaching Out](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/reaching-out/) - by Ashley Corbaley “Family, like branches in a tree, we all grow in different directions, yet our roots remain as one.” – Unknown During the holiday season one thing I think about more than anything is my family. I feel especially grateful to be spending Christmas with my family and extended family across the country - [Tips for New Parents](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/tips-new-parents/) - by Erin Weist I was thinking today about things I’ve learned about children since first starting out over 10 years ago. I was embarrassed to think about how little I knew back then and the mistakes that I made as a mother, but I hoped I could share a few simple tips that might help - [Defending without Offending](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-family/defending-without-offending/) - by Ashley Corbaley "Those who stand for nothing fall for anything." -Alexander Hamilton Families are the fundamental unit of society. Everything good and bad in this world can boil down to the family. In today’s society the family is being attacked at every corner. Good family values seem to be a thing of the past - [A Happier Way to Live](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/happier-way-live/) - by Jackie Bowles In light of the upcoming Thanksgiving season, I have been thinking about the power of gratitude. I have seen so many blessings happen in my own life for being grateful. Frequent displays of gratitude seem to bring more goodness into our lives. In fact, studies show that gratitude really does help you - [A Shining Light in This Present Darkness](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pornography/shining-light-present-darkness/) - by Christie Masters Pornography is one of the greatest enemies of love in our time and its effect on relationships is devastating. The statistics on pornography are astounding, and its availability online has made it like a great darkness that threatens to blanket our nation and world. I recently counseled a young lady who was - [Step Aside and Turn It Off](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/step-aside-turn-off/) - by Diane Robertson Sometimes, it’s best to step aside, turn it off, quit watching, or just stop paying attention. After the US elections, all media outlets emerged with pictures and videos of people rioting, crying, and venting their emotions. Social media was full of people defending their stance or their candidate. Much of it looked - [The Secret to a Happy Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/secret-happy-family/) - by Ashley Corbaley "All happy families are alike." –Leo Tolstoy What does it mean that happy families are all alike? What makes a happy family? Parenting author, Charlotte Latvala shares six secrets for a happy family: Create Traditions Traditions do not have to be grand to be meaningful. Richard Eyre the coauthor of The Happy - [Is Marriage a Right?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/is-marriage-a-right/) - by Erin Weist Following a petition and protest by thousands of Mexican citizens standing against redefining marriage in Mexican law, a proposal to legalize same-sex marriage was shut down last week as the Commission on Constitutional Matters voted against the measure 19-8. The National Front for the Family (Frente Nacional Por La Familia-- link - [Thank You, Veterans!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/freedom/thank-you-veterans/) - by Jennifer Johnson I am proud to say that I am the granddaughter of military veterans. My maternal grandfather served overseas during the Vietnam War, and my paternal grandfather would have deployed overseas during the Korean War were it not for health and family situations that prevented him. Growing up, year after year, I attended - [Looking Back, Planning Ahead](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/looking-back-planning-ahead/) - by Diane Robertson I started keeping a personal blog in the early days when blogging was still popular in 2007. I was a young mother with 5 small children and they were and are the topic of that blog. Those 5 young children aren’t so small anymore. Five more little ones have followed with one - [Taking a Holiday Breather](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/taking-holiday-breather/) - by Ashley Corbaley It’s the holiday season, a favorite time of the year for many people. While this is a wonderful season, it is also one of considerable stress for some families. Walking into the store the day after Halloween I was bombarded with Christmas music and everything red and green. Signs promised that black - [Train up a Child](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/train-up-a-child/) - by Erin Weist Earlier this week I had the experience of being mocked on social media. If you’ve spent any time online this is not a revelation, the internet can be a brutal place to experience the full attack of opinions clashing with one’s own. However the tone and topic of the experience surprised me. - [Date Night](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/date-night/) - by Tashica Jacobson Life tends to get hectic from time to time for pretty much everyone; and when it does, it is easy to put some of the things that appear unnecessary on the back burner to deal with when life slows down again. Date night is one of those practices that is often sacrificed - [Home for the Holidays: 5 Tips for Making the Holidays more About Family This Year](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/home-holidays-5-tips-making-holidays-family-year/) - by Elise Ellsworth A favorite childhood memory of mine was my Great-grandma Leuthold’s annual Christmas gathering in Sherwood, Oregon. Nostalgic smells and a crackling fire greeted us warmly as we entered the gathering place. Aunts milled in the kitchen catching up and checking on the food while the men congregated watching sports in the family - [Supreme Court to Hear Transgender Bathroom Case](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/supreme-court-hear-transgender-bathroom-case/) - by Diane Robertson The Supreme Court of the United States has agreed to hear the transgender school bathroom case coming from the 4th Circuit Court-- G.G. v. Gloucester County School Board. The ACLU sued the Gloucester County School board in behalf of a student for protecting the privacy and safety of everyone by reserving restrooms - [Family Power](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/family-power/) - by Ashley Corbaley “The issues of power, control, and hierarchy are important in families. Issues regarding power are at the root of many family problems”- Richard Miller Issues regarding power are important in families and are often the source of many family problems. Why is that? I think that in life, power is something that - [The Same-Sex Marriage Debate is Far From Over](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/sex-marriage-debate-far/) - by Erin Weist Same-sex marriage has been in global news this week and it appears that many throughout the world are still unsettled regarding the growing acceptance of this new trend. Grenada is currently seeking to revise its constitution, introducing several bills through referendum, but has received negative feedback regarding a gender equality bill - [Living the Debt Free Life](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage-and-family/living-debt-free-life/) - by Mekelle Tenney Last year the “American Household Credit Card Debt Study” showed that the average American household credit card debt is $15,762. They also found that the average household auto loans average out to $27,141. Currently only 20% of Americans are debt free. Many people do not see this as a bad thing. In - [Transgender Bathroom Mandate in the Courts](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/transgender-bathroom-mandate-courts/) - by Diane Robertson A couple of years ago, President Obama quietly changed Title IX by adding transgender to the law. Last Spring, the Obama administration stated that all schools that did not allow students to use locker rooms, bathrooms, and sports teams according to the gender with which they identified, would lose all federal funding. - [The Marriage Sacrifice](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/the-marriage-sacrifice/) - by Ashley Corbaley “When you make the sacrifice in marriage, you're sacrificing not to each other but to unity in a relationship” –Joseph Campbell It is probably not a secret to most people that marriage requires sacrifice. Most things that are good in this life require sacrifice. It has been said that marriage requires 50 - [War Reaches Us All - What Will You Do?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/war-reaches-us-will/) - by Erin Weist Beginning this week thousands of migrants are being evacuated from camps in the port city of Calais, France. The number of refugees camped in this area commonly referred to as “The Jungle” has swelled over the years, ranging anywhere from 6,000-9,000 people, the majority coming from Africa, Afghanistan and the Middle East. - [Fanning the Flames](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/fanning-the-flames/) - by Laura Friend A few weeks back I sat in my sister-in-law’s living room enjoying the company of extended family. My nephew and his wife sat close together, holding hands, and radiating that, “young couple in love” feel, which brought a smile to my face. My husband came and sat next to me, or rather, - [Where is the Outrage?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/where-is-the-outrage/) - by Diane Robertson Have you ever wondered where is the outrage? When the president mandated that through Title IX all schools receiving any federal funding had to allow students to use the bathrooms, locker rooms, and sports teams according to self-proclaimed gender identity, there was definite concern and mild outrage. And then the topic essentially - [Dinnertime!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/dinnertime/) - by Ashley Corbaley I recently watched an advertisement that had a powerful message. This video began with ten married couples that were asked the question: “If you could have dinner with anyone living or dead who would you choose?” After several moments of deep thought, each person answered. The interviewees chose people such as: Marilyn - [How Do We Strengthen the Family on a Global Scale?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/strengthen-family-global-scale/) - by Erin Weist Men and women from around the world are visiting Quito, Ecuador this week for a United Nations conference called ‘Habitat III’ which brings global groups together to create plans for future urban development. The document being prepared will ultimately guide planning in sustainable development throughout the entire world for the next 20 - [Ambiguous Loss](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage-and-family/ambiguous-loss/) - by Jennifer Johnson When a family member or friend passes away, there are societal and/or religious rituals that we go through to mourn the loss of this person. These rituals are accompanied by an outpouring of love and support for those closest to the deceased. But what about those times when something significant is lost - [For a Moral and Religious People](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/moral-religious-people/) - by Diane Robertson Following the ratifying of the US Constitution, John Adams rightly foretold, “Our Constitution was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other.” Citizens of the United States are getting ready to cast their votes for the next president. The scene drawn out - [Working Together](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/23623/) - by Ashley Corbaley “We often miss opportunity because it’s dressed in overalls and looks like work.” -Thomas A. Edison Growing up, Saturday morning was clean the house day. Other days in the week my brother and I took turns doing certain tasks such as taking out the garbage, doing the dishes, sweeping and vacuuming. When - [It's Almost That Time Again](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/its-almost-that-time-again/) - by Tashica Jacobson With the start of October we are now in the last quarter of the year, which always seems like the busiest part of the year. Cold weather is setting in making last minute yard and house work a must and preparations for the two biggest holidays have started. These two holidays, Thanksgiving - [The Top Six Reasons Women Cannot Replace Men](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/top-six-reasons-women-cannot-replace-men/) - by Elise Ellsworth In my last article I indulged in a little uncalled for husband bashing - to which my husband turned a partially blind eye. I felt bad about this - my husband has saved my bacon in numerous situations, including watching the kids on a moment’s notice so that I can finish procrastinated - [Living in Enemy Territory](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/living-enemy-territory/) - I don’t often give parental advice. On the whole, I feel like all your children really need is you, and there are as many ways to be a good parent as there are parents. However, children are growing up in an age where they are inundated with pornography. They are being sexually exploited. Many are - [Making Marriage Work](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/making-marriage-work/) - by Ashley Corbaley My wedding day was the best day of my life so far. Since that day there have been many good days and bad days and in-between days. There have been tears and laughter, joy and sadness. Some days have been sunny and others full of rain. Of course marriage isn’t always easy, - [Do You Have Time for Little Things?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/time-little-things/) - by Erin Weist Driving home from a family dinner tonight my husband taught me a great lesson. As we began our drive, a light-hearted argument commenced about what to listen to on the radio. Since it was Sunday I had turned it to classical, orchestral music. There were several cries of “No more classical, please!” - [Too Much Homework?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/too-much-homework/) - by Jackie Bowles Recently a 2nd Grade teacher, Brandy Young in Texas, went viral with her new “No Homework Policy” at Godley Elementary. Ms. Young says, “After much research this summer, I'm trying something new. Homework will only consist of work that your student did not finish during the school day. There will be no - [Family Traditions](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/family-traditions-2/) - by Whitney Ireland It’s almost October and ads for Halloween costumes and decorations seem to be popping up everywhere. Soon children will be running from house to house dressed up as ghosts, ninjas, princesses, pirates and more as they fill their pillow cases with candy. Then it will be Thanksgiving with a turkey feast and - [Comfort Zone](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/the-family/comfort-zone/) - by Ashley Corbaley For as long as I can remember Eleanor Roosevelt’s famous saying: “Do one thing every day that scares you” has been my personal motto. I had the quote pinned to my corkboard in my bedroom growing up. I wrote it in school binders and notebooks. It was the first thing I stuck - [It's Human Nature](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/its-human-nature/) - by Mekelle Tenney “It’s human nature!” This popular saying is often used to justify behavior. Human nature, or men in the state of nature, was a topic that we studied and debated a great deal in college. And it is something that I have been thinking a lot about lately. The state of both our - [Pornography's Slippery Slope](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pornography/pornographys-slipper-slope/) - by Kindsey D. Smith Suzie looks down, fighting back the tears as her mind processes what her husband George (names have been changed) had just said. “I’m done being a father and I’m done being a husband” is something that Suzie never thought she would hear when she and George married seven years ago. Why - [Replacing the Irreplaceable](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/father/replacing-the-irreplaceable/) - By Ashley Corbaley When I was younger I accidentally broke a very special family heirloom. After several failed attempts to fix the precious heirloom, I decided to replace it. The replacement, however splendid or similar to the original, did not and could not replace the broken heirloom. It simply did not hold the same value - [If You Don’t Know Where to Begin, Build Relationships](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/dont-know-begin-build-relationships/) - by Christie Masters Not too long ago, while worrying about one of my children and wondering how to approach her and attempt to solve a problem, the two words “build relationships” were like a whisper to my heart. Every time the worry tried to take over, these two words were the answer. You see, I - [Lagging Behind](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/cohabitation/lagging-behind/) - by Whitney Ireland It seems that we are constantly hearing about how far the U.S. lags behind other industrialized nations in education. After testing more than 510,000 students in 65 countries and economies on maths, reading and science, the 2012 Program for International Student Assessment (PISA) administered by the Organisation for Economic Co-operation and Development - [You Got a Friend in Me](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/you-got-a-friend-in-me/) - by Ashley Corbaley What is a friend? It’s someone who knows you, cares about you, and supports you. A friend is someone you trust and who will never leave your side – a person who knows all of your weaknesses but loves you anyway. Friendships are special. They require effort from both involved to form - [Respect the Gentlemen, Please!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/values/respect-gentlemen-please/) - by Jennifer Johnson When was the last time that you saw a meme or commercial that portrayed men doing something ridiculous, and you laughed because it was a “boys will be boys” scenario? How about the insurance company commercial during the Olympics that showed a man trying to high jump into the swimming pool, but - [Mother Knows Best](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/mother-knows-best/) - by Elise Ellsworth “FATSO.” With indignation, I poke my head out the door. Again, “fatso.” “He shouldn’t be calling him a fatso,” I tell my husband. “I know,” says my husband, completely nonplussed. It is hard to sit and write at the computer - kids keep wandering through the room. “They should be in bed,” I - [Who Is My Neighbor?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/who-is-my-neighbor/) - by Erin Weist Creeds from religious organizations throughout the world include a call to action: one that puts words into deeds, changing individuals and changing communities for the better. These actions usually revolve around the principles of love, kindness, respect, understanding, and empathy. So whatever your religious persuasion or denomination there is a pull to - [Family Bonds](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/family-bonds/) - by Tashica Jacobson Family members have a responsibility to each other; and as each member fulfills his role the whole family benefits. There are many benefits that come from having a close relationship among spouses, and between parents and children. When children have a good relationship with both parents they are less likely to engage - [More Government Take Over of Health Care in the Name of “Rights”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/bioethics/government-take-health-care-name-rights/) - by Diane Robertson The US federal government continues to push what it calls “transgender rights” on the American people and the American people continue to fight back. The Obama administration has come out with regulations for all hospitals that receive any federal funding and their physicians and staff. The new government regulations require doctors - [Does Praise of Another Diminish You?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/praise-another-diminish-2/) - by Erin Weist I was listening to a speech recently about the merits of fathers in a society. The speaker started by saying he didn’t want to marginalize the work and importance of women & mothers, but he wanted to focus at this time on men and their own important role. I was struck - [The Best Teachers](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-best-teachers/) - by Mekelle Tenney It’s back to school season. Over the next two weeks kids will start going back to school. Education is one of those things that everyone both agrees and disagrees on. I don’t think anyone would argue that education should not be a priority in our country. The disagreement arises when we - [Couple Connections](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/couple-connections/) - Studies show that simple things, such as sharing a TV show with your spouse, improves your marriage. By Jackie Bowles Recently, I had the privilege of participating in a graduation ceremony and accepting my very own diploma. This proved the end of a challenging time for my family and I, having to manage as a - [Confusion: Coming to a School Near You](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/confusion-coming-school-near/) - by Diane Robertson The Charlotte, North Carolina school district has established new guidelines concerning transgender students that will mostly go into effect when school starts Aug. 29th. The guidelines said to prevent bullying are definitely confusing. How is this Confusing? First of all, teachers and staff are required to call transgender students by their preferred - [We Are Ruled by the Family, Not By the U.N.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/ruled-family-not-u-n/) - by Erin Weist Once again a non-legislative bill introduced by the UN has worked its way into a country, not by the voice of the people but through unelected, unaffiliated bureaucrats with no sense of ownership or investment in the outcome. Panama, however, is showing them that they will not accept this ruling by an - [Invest in What You Love](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/invest-in-what-you-love/) - by Mekelle Tenney We’ve all heard the cliché “the family that plays together stays together”. Normally I don’t buy into cliché’s. But I make an exception for this one, because it’s true. I believe that families have specific needs in order to create life long bonds. And having fun together is one of those needs. - [“It’s not the Destination, it’s the journey”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/not-destination-journey-missy-franklin-three-time-medalist-olympian/) - by Cinthia Jahnson “It’s not the destination, it’s the journey” Missy Franklin, three-time medalist Olympian. In 1992, at the Barcelona Olympic games Derek Redmond tore his hamstring during the 400m race in the Olympics. He was a promising athlete and many thought he would medal in this race. When his hamstring tore, he was determined - [Science, Gender, and Gender Dysphoria](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/science-gender-gender-dysphoria/) - by Diane Robertson I was once asked that since there are many kinds of birth defects then wouldn’t it be reasonable that a person could be born with the outward sexual organs of one gender and the brain of another thereby making them a true transgender? I can understand that questioning since may transgender people - [Patchwork Families – Loving by Choice](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/patchwork-families-loving-choice/) - by Laura Friend Family Life Educators, Claudia and David Arp, describe blended families as “patchwork” families. The analogy is apropos. My husband’s grandmother, Anna Laura Tuttle Friend, lived to be 101 years old. Amidst the challenges of raising a large family during the depression and subsequent World War II, Anna learned to quilt by hand - [Right-to-Life Instead of Right-to-Abort](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/right-life-instead-right-abort/) - by Erin Weist Abortion and the rights of the unborn children have been under debate in Ireland recently. The 8th amendment of their constitution ratified in 1983 provides legal protection for a child in the womb. Thousands attended a rally recently to celebrate the 8th amendment after the UN ruled that Ireland violated human rights - [Boy or Girl? Is there really such a big difference?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/boy-or-girl/) - by Tashica Jacobson The past 5 months has given us additional stressors, anxiety, sweet moments, and tons of excitement. While these could be the emotions of any typical month, ours are amplified because we are expecting a baby, and have started to share the exciting news with family and friends. And just as university professor, - [Praise Their Efforts](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/praise-their-efforts/) - By Candice LeSueur According to a Columbia University survey, 85 percent of American parents feel it is important to tell their kids they are smart. It seems honorable, but is praising your children for their intelligence really the smart thing to do in the long run? Research has shown that praising children for their effort - [A Reason for Pro-Life Doctors](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/reason-pro-life-doctors/) - by Diane Robertson Years ago while living in Toronto, Canada, I found out that I was pregnant. But things were not going right. It was obvious the pregnancy would end as an early miscarriage. I went to a doctor. The doctor, upon finding out that I already had three children wanted to refer me for - [Am I Not Good Enough to Live?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/not-good-enough-live/) - by Jennifer Johnson On a field trip bus ride I overheard some friends debate the controversial topic of abortion. One friend’s personal comment made the topic real for me. This friend is gifted, smart, one of the most capable people I have ever met. Yet before his birth his parents were told that he would - [Loved by two](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/loved-by-two/) - By Lizzy Sabin When we’re young we’re encouraged to find our niche in life. Our personal form of self-expression to help us process hard moments and emotions, which everyone faces. When my teenage mind could no longer handle the things I was experiencing I chose to write and I usually wrote about the trials my - [Bringing Refuge to Refugees](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/bringing-refuge-refugees/) - By Candice LeSueur A few months ago, I was informed a family had moved from Haiti into our area and needed help learning English. They were not living in the most ideal of circumstances and, therefore, fled their native country and arrived here via asylum. It wasn’t hard to feel compassion for the four children - [Home school. Is it for you?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/home-school-is-it-for-you/) - By Cinthia Jahnsen Have you ever thought of homeschooling as an option for your child’s education? My kids go to public school right now and I have loved their teachers. However, I do not love how much teachers seem to be losing their authority on how and what they can teach. Just the other day - [The Power of Conversation](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/the-power-of-conversation/) - Photo: vhines200/Creative Commons By Candice LeSueur I excitedly was able to check another thing off my bucket list this last weekend as I flew out to see my friend in San Francisco, a city I have been dying to visit. As she and I were strolling down Valencia Street Friday evening, trying to decide where - [Calamity for Parental Rights in Scotland](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/calamity-parental-rights-scotland/) - By: Diane Robertson Parents who do you think is best qualified to listen to, advise, and help your children? Would you name a doctor, a teacher, or a social worker, or do you believe that listening to, advising, and helping your children is your primary responsibility? Most parents I know, feel like they are best - [Waste Not. Want Not.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/environmentalism/waste-not-want-not/) - Food waste in America By Cinthia Jahnsen Ok. Here’s the deal. I think we all love going to an all you can eat buffet. What can be better than endless amounts of delicious food with as many helpings as you wish, plus amazing mountains of dessert at your fingertips? I loved buffets as a kid - [E-Cigarettes. A shocking look into who is the main users are and it’s harmful effects](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/e-cigarettes-shocking-look-main-users-harmful-effects/) - By Cinthia Jahnsen Every night around 9pm, my husband and I rush around the house to shut all the windows. It reminds me of Mary Poppins when the cannon goes off at the neighbor’s house and everyone goes to their “posts” to prepare for the incoming blast. (If you haven’t seen Mary Poppins, it’s a - [“In the course of human events”, The United States must stand with Britain.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/course-human-events-america-must-stand-britain/) - by Christie Masters With the recent and surprising vote by the citizens of Britain to leave the European Union, it brings to mind the powerful first passage of the Declaration of Independence. This may seem cheeky, to bring up the very document that declared the independence of the American Colonies from England in 1776, but - [A Key to Happiness](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/a-key-to-happiness/) - By Candice LeSueur It has been said that if you want to see where our society currently stands on the social spectrum, look to the popular TV shows that are being aired. I haven’t watched very much television at all the past few years, so I decided to do my research to see what - [Who has the instructions on what to teach our children? Parents role in sex education.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/sex-parent-isnt-easy/) - By Cinthia Jahnsen The stork. An angel. Maybe a baby factory. A train. “Mom, where do babies come from?” Could this be one of the most dreaded questions that a parent is faced with? I was really worried about this topic of conversation when my kids became old enough to wonder about their bodies and where - [The Marriage Incentive](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-marriage-incentive/) - by Tashica Jacobson There are many benefits that come from marriage. The couple, the children and even society is influenced by marriage. In a study of unhappily married couples, those who stayed together were happily married five years later. (Waite, 2002). While there may be difficult times in a marriage and sometimes divorce is necessary, - [3 Things to Remember When Teaching Children About Sex](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/3-things-remember-teaching-children-sex/) - By Candice LeSueur I once heard a story about a girl who became pregnant and could not understand why. When she discussed her situation with her therapist, she said, “I didn’t even kiss him. So how could this have happened to me?” It was learned that this young woman’s mother taught her that if she - [Sugar. Oh Whats in a Name…](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/drug-use/sugar-oh-whats-name/) - By Cinthia Jahnsen Is sugar really as harmful as some make it sound? The answer is "yes." Agave nectar, brown rice syrup, high fructose corn syrup, dextrose, evaporated cane juice, glucose, lactose, malt syrup, molasses, sucrose. Do any of these sound familiar? Sometimes sugar is disguised as other names such as these. I don’t know - [Thank you, Dad](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/thank-you-dad/) - by Annalise Jarman Father's Day is Sunday, and I'd like to take this opportunity to write about my own father. My dad is quiet, studious, and detail-oriented. He can come across as pretty serious and stern. He likes things a certain way. So he might not sound like the type that would do well with - [The Importance of Fathers](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/the-importance-of-fathers/) - by Diane Robertson When I was a child, I wanted to be just like my dad. If he asked for mustard on his sandwich, I asked for mustard on mine. If he liked watching Star Trek, then so did I. It really didn’t matter what it was, I thought my dad was the greatest and - [Are We Living in a Rape Culture?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/living-rape-culture/) - by Christie Masters The understandable and warranted outrage against a California judge who recently gave a rapist a lenient six month sentence has brought the terminology “Rape Culture” to the headlines of news articles. There has been a public outcry and a petition circulating to have Judge Aaron Persky removed from the bench for his - [Paying for Free Stuff with Our Freedom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/paying-free-stuff-freedom/) - by Rebecca Mallory “Everyone should be required to take economics and civics!” If I had a dime for every time my dad said that to one of his 9 children, I’d be rich. My dad was an economics and math major in college which unfortunately, didn’t completely transfer to all his offspring. Not sure I - [Tolerating the Rape Culture](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/tolerating-rape-culture/) - by Diane Robertson Early on the morning on Jan. 18 two men riding bikes on the Stanford University campus spotted a man raping an unconscious woman. The man later identified as Brock Allen Turner, a student and swimmer at Stanford University, ran away when he saw the bike riders. The men tackled him while a - [How dangerous can one moment be?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/how-dangerous-can-it-be/) - by Cinthia Jahnsen I live in sunny southern CA where pool and beach season can be anytime from March through October, depending on mother natures temperament. As I drive around I always see signs out (huge signs) that say “Prevent Drowning, Alway Watch the Water.” Well, being apart of a community who goes to the - [Loving Our LGBT Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/loving-lgbt-children/) - By Candice LeSueur It is common for heterosexual parents to feel disappointment, anger, shock, or guilt when their child “comes out.” All other family members may initially have feelings of disbelief or denial as they come to terms with a new reality that becomes a significant stressor in their family. This event is arguably more - [Bullying? Look to the home life.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/bullying-look-home-life/) - by Tashica Jacobson The small town of Dietrich, Idaho is in shock over the recent events that transpired between football team members. Last October three boys shoved a coat hanger up another team member’s rectum. This instance was not isolated and came after a long series of bullying behaviors. The town is divided over the - [Gorilla Shot or Boy Saved?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/gorilla-shot-boy-saved/) - by Mekelle Tenney On Saturday a four year old boy fell into the gorilla enclosure at the Cincinnati Zoo. The boy was dragged into a mot by a 450 lbs. silverback gorilla named Harambe. In order to rescue the boy the zoo had the gorilla shot. I’m sure you have heard all about the incident. - [When the Government Claims Power Over Truth](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/government-claims-power-truth/) - by Diane Robertson “’Do you remember,’ he went on, ‘writing in your diary, “Freedom is the freedom to say that two plus two make four”?’ ‘Yes,’ said Winston. O’Brien held up his left hand, its back towards Winston, with the thumb hidden and the four fingers extended. ‘How many fingers am I holding up, Winston?’ - [2 Reasons Young Adults today are Delaying Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/birth-rate/2-reasons-young-adults-today-delaying-marriage/) - By Candice LeSueur The median age of marriage in the United States has risen subtly in the past several decades. In 1970, the average age to wed was 22 and crept up to 27 in 2010. These statistics aren’t sitting too well for those who are growing impatient as they long to marry and start - [Greater Love Hath No Man Than This](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/greater-love-hath-no-man/) - by Erin Weist “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13). In the United States we celebrate Memorial Day today, the last Monday in May, as a time to remember those from our armed forces who have died. Whatever country you reside, whatever culture - [Right to Live](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/right-to-live/) - By Ally Fife Recently, a woman in her twenties who had suffered sexual abuse as a child, was given a lethal injection at her own request to die. Her psychiatrists and doctors all felt it was in her best interest that she be allowed to choose this eternal sleep, despite the fact that she was - [Capitalism 1, Forced Minimum Wage Earners 0.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/capitalism-1-forced-minimum-wage-earners-0/) - by Rebecca Mallory Well that was quick! I never planned such a quick follow up to my post on this subject just a few weeks ago. But no sooner did the government kowtow to the demands of minimum wage lobbyists than the free market took over, as it always does, and now we’re - [The Yes to Sex App and the Problems of Promiscuity](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/yes-sex-app-problems-promiscuity/) - by Diane Robertson Every now and then I think of my grandparents and great grandparents and what society must have been like for them. Things were different back then. People married younger and the divorce rate was under 15%. Babies born to unwed mothers was under 10%. And while unwed pregnancies were around 20%, 50% - [Monkey see, Monkey do](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/monkey-see-monkey/) - Sexual content and violence on TV and the potential effect it has on our kids. by Cinthia Jahnsen We all have been there. The awkward moment where we feel that what we are watching on television, or at the movies is not appropriate for our kids. (OrUS for that matter) We all have our favorite TV - [Good Begets Good](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/good-begets-good/) - by Erin Weist There is a saying that my husband and I use regularly in our home that we’ve learned from having kids: sleep begets sleep. As naive parents we thought that if our baby or toddler missed a nap it would make him extra tired so he’d sleep really, really well that night. More - [Working with Unreasonable People?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/working-unreasonable-people/) - by Annalise Jarman You have probably heard that every family has at least one crazy person, and if you don’t think your family has one, it’s probably you, right? The saying makes me laugh, but it’s kind of true. At the very least, we will all have to work with someone at some point who - [Give me that Old Time Religion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/give-old-time-religion/) - by Mekelle Tenney The other day my mom and I came across an old applique pattern from 1905. The pattern was for dish clothes and there was a girl performing a different chore for each day of the week. One day was washing, one was ironing, another dusting and so on. What caught my attention - [The Science of Gender](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/23178/) - by Diane Robertson On social media, I have read one too many times that saying humans are born as either male or female is not science, rather it is just an opinion. So am I going to quickly go over the science that is taught in basic biology. This is the science that defines - [Respectful Dialogues: Starting with Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/respectful-dialogues-starting-family/) - by Candice LeSueur As I watch and listen to opinions being thrown at each other, declaring their stances on presidential candidates or the newly-passed laws associated with gender identity and marriage, I feel a sense of uncertainty polluting the air of our society. I can’t help but wonder how many effective conversations are actually - [Tolerance is Eradicating the Sexes](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/tolerance-eradicating-sexes/) - by Erin Weist Just like most weeks, I read a lot of news articles this past week. And, to be blunt, many of them were frankly frightening. Most of these articles were surrounding transgender issues. Gender identity, while still a fledgling area with insufficient basis of scientific knowledge, has become a political battering ram. - [Stand your ground, even when it’s moving…](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/stand-ground-even-moving/) - by Christie Masters Have you ever felt like you were still on the sea even after returning to land? My daughter and I recently arrived home from a four day cruise for her graduation trip and this is exactly what we are experiencing. Standing at the stove making breakfast, it felt as if the - [That’s Offensive!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/free-speech/thats-offensive/) - by Rebecca Mallory Being offended seems to be the modern day mantra for anyone without a spine these days. Political correctness has become a growing and festering fungus in almost every college and university, society, city, and country. What began as a futile attempt to be inclusive to everyone and make everyone equal, which will - [Yesterday’s Common Sense and Sanity is Today’s Bigotry and Racism](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/yesterdays-common-sense-sanity-todays-bigotry-racism/) - by Diane Robertson The day before yesterday a man changing in front of a bunch of girls was called indecent exposure and was against the law– today it’s called inclusiveness and compassion. The day before yesterday, women used women’s bathrooms and locker rooms and men used men’s, and no one questioned the sanity of this - [What will your obituary say about you?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/will-obituary-say/) - By Cinthia Jahnsen A few days ago, a woman shared a few obituaries with me. She apparently really enjoyed reading obituaries and thought I would enjoy listening to a few. One obituary was about a woman who had died in August of 2008. It said that her “presence will not be missed by many, very - [Watch Therefore…](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/watch-therefore/) - by Erin Weist This morning my husband made an interesting observation. We were busy in the bustle of trying to get ready to leave the house to go to church (someday I’m sure I’ll understand why this is such a Herculean effort that takes an inordinate amount of time!) and reminding our children to stay - [Should the Government Conduct Psychological Research on School Children?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/government-conduct-psychological-research-school-children/) - by Diane Robertson Parents if you haven’t thought about homeschooling yet, this just might provoke it. The senate recently passed a bill– S. 227 or SERTA (Strengthening Education Through Research Act)—that will allow the federal government to conduct academic research on the psychological make-up of children in the public schools. Parents, students, and even local - [Do You Have on Your Perspectacles?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/do-you-have-on-your-perspectacles/) - by Erin Weist I have 5 young children and my life revolves around them. It is a beautiful, wonderful life that I never even imagined and I am continually struck by these blessings in my life. But sometimes, it’s hard. Sometimes, it’s stressful. Sometimes (ok, most of the time) it’s loud and chaotic. And those - [“Sticks and Stones May break my bones…”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/sticks-stones-may-break-bones/) - By Cinthia Jahnsen A look into bullying, its effects and how we can help. We have all heard the phrase, “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me.”. I remember saying that to kids who were teasing me or saying hurtful things as a kid. But the truth - [Privacy and Safety for my daughter? You better believe I care!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/transgender/privacy-safety-daughter-better-believe-care/) - by Diane Robertson When Target decided to allow men into women’s restrooms, favoring the comfort of the LGBT community, something unusual happened. People were upset. And despite being called bigots and hateful and homophobic, they stood their ground. Why? Well, unlike gay marriage, this has hit people in a much more personal way. Who one marries, people - [“Please Pass the Stress.”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/please-pass-the-stress/) - A look into the importance of a balance of activities in the lives of our children. by Cinthia Jahnson “Hurry up! We gotta go! We’re gonna be late!!!” These gentle but firm (perhaps loud) words tend to escape my mouth every time my children and I are in a hurry to make it to our - [Don’t Want Family? Fine. Just Deal With Loneliness Instead.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/birth-rate/dont-want-family-fine-just-deal-with-loneliness-instead/) - by Elise Ellsworth Family life can be a burden. A proliferation of more articles have been written about those who forego marriage in favor of unconnected lifestyles: “I Just Don’t Want a Child.” “The Child-free Life.” “10 Reasons You Don’t Have to Get Married.” “Why Marriage is a Raw Deal for Men.” And many, many - [SEX sells-- are YOU buying?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/sex-sells-are-you-buying/) - by Mekelle Tenney What happened to your standards America? What happened to your morality? I am both amazed and disgusted at our entertainment today. Amazed that we can’t find anything other than sex to write and joke about and disgusted that we are entertained by it. Whenever I have the radio on I have to - [Can You Change the Direction of Your Local Government](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/can-you-change-the-direction-of-your-local-government/) - by Erin Weist I just spent the last month fulfilling duties as a state county delegate. What that means in my state is that I research candidates running for both the Senate and House of Representatives in my districts in the state of Utah and vote on who I think should be on the ballot - [Families are Struggling--Symptoms are Worldwide](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/families-are-struggling-symptoms-are-worldwide/) - The following is taken from the UFI Alert dated April 6, 2016. http://www.unitedfamilies.dreamhosters.com/default.asp?contentID=773 The following questions were asked a German couple who are well acquainted with what is happening to family values in Germany/Austria and Switzerland. Reading their responses to the following questions, it is apparent that families throughout the world are facing the same struggles. Because these - [Minimum Wage, Maximum Unemployment?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/minimum-wage-maximum-unemployment/) - by Rebecca Mallory Who Wants to Be a Millionaire?” Remember that show? They should do a remake: “Who Just Wants to Take Home What They Did Five Years Ago?” There never seems to be enough at the end of the month. If you live in a free capitalist society, you can always be assured that - [Religious Doctors and Hospitals Safe for Now](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/religious-doctors-and-hospitals-safe-for-now/) - by Diane Robertson With all the talk of equality and who can use what bathrooms and who has to give service to certain people and who can deny service to an entire state and whose conscience matters or whether the state or the federal government determine what people can publicly think or believe and who - [Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Pee](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/speak-now-or-forever-hold-your-pee/) - Kathryn (Simmons) Cook My husband and I sat back in silence for a moment. The title read, “New Bathroom Rule: It’s Worse Than We Thought”. Washington State’s Human Rights commission enforced a law that makes it legal for people to enter into any public restroom or locker room that coincides with their stated gender identity - [National Day of Silence--Keep Our Children Home](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/national-day-of-silence-keep-our-children-home/) - On Friday, April 15, high schools (and many middle schools) across the country will be hosting the LGBT movement's annual "Day of Silence." During this all-day event, student activists and even school officials encourage students to be silent for the entire day as a sign of solidarity with the international LGBT movement. Students are encouraged - [Importance of Rituals](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/importance-of-rituals/) - by Keely Tanner Is there a birthday, an anniversary or a meaningful day coming up between you and your significant other? Some of us look forward to these celebrations. But if the truth were made know, we would realize that there are many who dread them! Why? Perhaps because of expectations not realized? Too often - [There is Hope – It’s in Strong Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/there-is-hope-its-in-strong-families/) - By Diane Robertson Last week was a difficult week with many foreboding, sad, and evil events taking place in the United States and around the world. On Wednesday I woke to a Facebook post written by Glenn Beck that detailed 10 things that happened the day before. He wrote: It is open season on our - [Get The Conversation Going in Your Community](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/get-the-conversation-going-in-your-community/) - by Mekelle Tenney This election has me more depressed and concerned for our country than usual. I try my best to do my part as a citizen. I vote, stay informed on the issues, and try my best to learn about my country, its history, and its government. But as a young mother I find - [A Book Review: The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/a-book-review-the-seven-habits-of-highly-effective-people/) - by Annalise Jarman I recently finished listening to The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey on audiobook. It is a well-known self-help book on how to have healthy interpersonal relationships. The basic concept is that in order to have healthy relationships with others, one must first have a healthy foundation of character - [Put Your Phone Down: How Technology Negatively Impacts Face-to-Face Communication](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/put-your-phone-down-how-technology-negatively-impacts-face-to-face-communication/) - By: Miriam Merrill and Susan Liufau Jane’s phone alerted her to a new message in her email inbox. She picked it up off the white linen tablecloth and clicked a few buttons not noticing the dejected look on her husband’s face. After checking the message, Jane put the phone back down and looked up at - [Faithful In Fighting for Religious Liberty](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/protecting-religious-freedom/) - By Jackie Bowles Recently I have been reading about my ancestors, John and Priscella Alden. After experiencing persecutions for their religious beliefs in England, they decided to sail on the Mayflower, crossing the ocean to find a place where they could worship freely. They fought hard for their beliefs and for their freedom. Are we - [The Most Masculine of Roles: Husband & Father](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-most-masculine-of-roles-husband-father/) - by Erin Weist I listened to a talk today by an apostle of my church about “the highest of masculine roles: husband and father.” In a world that constantly pushes the normality of immorality, adultery and other purely selfish forms of living, it was highly refreshing to hear a man-- a husband, father, and grandfather-- - [Be Where You Are](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/be-where-you-are/) - by Tashica Jacobson A favorite Buddha quote states “be where you are; otherwise you miss your life.” This can apply to many different things in our lives, but for now let’s look at it through the lens of technology and electronic devices. The advancements in these is dramatically changing the way that members of society - [Measuring Family Growth in the Garden](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/measuring-family-growth-in-the-garden/) - By Ally Fife In this fast paced world of digital dependency, finding ways to have meaningful family time without spending a fortune is rare indeed. To also find something to do that is worthwhile and provides skills to the participants is too much to hope for. There is, however, a task that can not only - [American College of Pediatricians: Gender Ideology Harms Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/bioethics/american-college-of-pediatricians-gender-ideology-harms-children/) - by Diane Robertson In a bold yet compassionate medically sound move, the American College of Pediatricians (ACPeds), in eight clear statements, has proclaimed that modern gender ideology harms children. They affirmed that the chromosomal markers of gender, XY and XX, are genetic markers of health and not genetic markers of a disorder. Those “who identify - [Supreme Court Shake-up Why should I care?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/supreme-court-shake-up-why-should-i-care/) - By Jackie Bowles February 16, 2016 brought the unexpected death of US Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia. He was a well-respected and the longest serving Supreme Court Justice, being nominated in 1986 by Ronald Reagan. Justice Scalia became known for his outspoken comments on cases dealing with moral issues such as religious freedom, abortion and - [Three Keys to Better Relationships](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/three-keys-to-better-relationships/) - by Keely Tanner Have you ever wondered how you could make your relationships better? Are there things that we, as individuals, can be doing to make our relationships stronger? One thing that we should consider is “What changes can I make?” Too often we think of what others are doing wrong and what they can - [How Connecting With Deceased Ancestors Can Help Your Family Today](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/how-connecting-with-deceased-ancestors-can-help-your-family-today/) - By Elise Ellsworth... After I started staying home with my first baby I found myself bored. Used to juggling a baby and legal books and living in a haze of continual exhaustion I suddenly had the rare luxury of an abundance of free time. And so I stumbled across an unlikely hobby to fill my - [Abortion... is it really necessary?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/abortion-is-it-really-necessary/) - By Jackie Bowles Recently, I was asked to work on a project about abortion. I hadn’t really put too much thought or attention to this subject before. Nor had I considered the methods of abortion, the impact of this practice throughout the world, the effects it has on a mother or the pain the fetus - [Money: The root of all marriage problems?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/money-the-root-of-all-marriage-problems/) - By Tori Perez Numerous studies have told us that the number one cited cause of divorce is finances. But why? Of all things in marriage to argue about, why is money the game changer? 1) It isn’t. Money isn’t actually the game changer. What’s really happening much of the time is that money issues are - [Are “Sexual Rights” Legitimate?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/are-sexual-rights-legitimate/) - by Christie Masters I had thirty seconds to tell a room full of delegates at our recent County convention why they should vote for me to be a delegate to the State Convention. Standing in line, nervously awaiting my turn, I had listened to those who went before me; we were all just everyday folks - [In God We Still Trust](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/in-god-we-still-trust/) - by Mekelle Tenney On July 30th, 1956 President Eisenhower signed a law declaring “In God We Trust” as our national motto. In regards to that act he made the following statement, “In this way we are reaffirming the transcendence of religious faith in America’s heritage and future; in this way we shall constantly strengthen those - [Only 48% of Generation Z Report being Heterosexual](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/birth-rate/only-48-of-generation-z-report-being-heterosexual/) - by Diane Robertson The Innovation Group released survey results that compared responses of Generation Z (ages 13 to 20) to those of the Millennial generation (21-34) about gender and sexuality. The results suggest that fears parents and others have had about comprehensive sexuality education, sexually explicit media, and laws that support and promote homosexuality are - [The dangers of Comprehensive Sexuality Education](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-dangers-of-comprehensive-sexuality-education/) - by Jackie Bowles It may sound good at first, but do the research to really understand all facets. We’ve all had to endure “Sex Ed” at one point in our lives with its embarrassing movies and uncomfortable topics. Back in the day, while there was still concern for its curriculum, it was innocent enough - [Two Universal Ideals from the Declaration of Independence](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/two-universal-ideals-from-the-declaration-of-independence/) - by Erin Weist I have recently been studying about the time of the American Revolution, the founding of the United States, the signing of the Declaration of Independence and the glorious creation of the United States Constitution. I’m sure there are similar fascinating and eye-opening principles behind the creation of countries all over the world, - [Is Chastity About Controlling Women?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/is-chastity-about-controlling-women/) - by Teralynn Nordgren I've come across this idea – that chastity is about controlling women – a few times in the past year. The first was last summer when ESPN's Bomani Jones said that chastity was stupid on the popular TV channel, and then on Twitter added, among other things, this statement: “I believe the - [Unemployment – No Jobs or No Qualified Applicants?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/unemployment-no-jobs-or-no-qualified-applicants/) - by Rebecca Mallory The government boasted unemployment at 4.9% last month which, if you did five minutes of factual research, would discover that 4.9% is probably unrealistically low. Experts say that with those who are now among the “I give up looking” crowd, numbers are actually much higher. This issue has intensified over the past seven - [Doing Good in the World: Crisis Pregnancy Centers](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/doing-good-in-the-world-crisis-pregnancy-centers/) - by Diane Robertson Two Community Crises Pregnancy Clinics in Florida are saving lives, changing lives, and helping communities one person at a time. These clinics offer pregnancy testing, ultrasounds, professional counseling, clothing and other material services, maternity homes, transition homes which teach personal disciplines and life skills, drug abuse treatments, and anything the women need. - [The Power of Date nights](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/the-power-of-date-nights/) - by Jackie Bowles Being a mother of young children, I know how hard it is to squeeze in that weekly date night. I definitely could use one every week, but the logistics of actually putting the plan into action is hard. It can be difficult to find a babysitter or figure out a cheap activity - [Seek By Prayer and Supplications, With Fasting](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/seek-by-prayer-and-supplications-with-fasting/) - by Erin Weist “And I set my face unto the Lord God, to seek by prayer and supplications, with fasting,” (Holy Bible, Daniel 9:3). Many nations around the world are tormented by wars. Others are tormented by governmental policies from within. Still others are tormented by the plagues of modern permissiveness. There is destruction, - [How important is Forgiveness? And where do you begin?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/how-important-is-forgiveness-and-where-do-you-begin/) - by Tashica Jacobson “Now what do you say…” was a common phrase heard in my home growing up. With eight children somedays I’m sure my mom felt like she was always breaking up a fight or encouraging someone to apologize. It wasn’t just that my mom was hoping to ensure peace in the house, when - [Cries of the Innocent](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/cries-of-the-innocent/) - by Mekelle Tenney We are right in the middle of the Presidential primaries. The American people have a lot of decisions to make. We have to decide what issues are the most important to us. Trying to find a candidate who totally aligns with all of our views is hard. We may have to give - [South Dakota Governor Vetoes Student Privacy Bill](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/south-dakota-governor-vetoes-student-privacy-bill/) - by Diane Robertson “In the absence of values, confusion reigns” Bob Trent The new way to be enlightened, progressive, and well, completely mainstream is to believe and accept that gender is fluid, that some people are born with the physical manifestations of one gender but the brain of another, and that some people are naturally - [Overbooked Crisis--Any chance I can get a Babysitter?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/overbooked-crisis-any-chance-i-can-get-a-babysitter/) - By Jackie Bowles As young teenagers, my sisters and I started a babysitting service. We called ourselves “Three Sisters Three Sitters”. I remember babysitting all the time. Sometimes each of us had 3 different jobs on a given day. People knew they could always get one of us to babysit. Not only was I able - [Parental Vigilance, Not Political Activism](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/peaceful-compromise-not-political-activism/) - by Erin Weist Citizens in Australia have been dealing with a politically-motivated scheme trying to force its way into their schools. The program, entitled “Safe Schools Coalition,” seems useful at first glance. Its focus is on teaching anti-bullying messages. However, as parents read more detail about the program they became alarmed at its overly-sexualized message. - [Link to the Past to Strengthen the Now](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/link-to-the-past-to-strengthen-the-now/) - by Ally Fife When I was pregnant with my third child, my in-laws sent me a 500 page, hardbound journal written by my husband’s great great grandmother. Her name was Hannah Jane, and I became obsessed with her over the course of my pregnancy. She was amazing! I read the journal through, then went back - [Who Really Cares?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/who-really-cares/) - by Rebecca Mallory Much has been pontificated about charitable giving and whose responsibility it is to take care of the poor and less fortunate. Who is more effective at caring for the poor? Is it the private individual who feels compassion and a duty to give back? Or the government who's often forced- paternalism compels - [Parents Teach Your Children History or Suffer the Consequences of their Ignorance](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/parents-teach-your-children-history-or-suffer-the-consequences-of-their-ignorance/) - by Diane Robertson Parents if you want your children to maintain their rights under the Constitution of the United States, you must teach your kids history and a love of freedom. You cannot expect this to be taught in school. About 100 years ago, John Dewey brought progressive ideas into education. How history was taught - [Everything Worthwhile Requires Sacrifice](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/everything-worthwhile-requires-sacrifice/) - by Tori Perez It’s been a tough couple of weeks as a mother. When one person gets sick then everyone gets sick and when mom is sick it feels like everything gets thrown off. Or maybe I’m just thrown off because I’m sick. At any rate, it’s one of those times in life (this seems - [Utah Parents: This one is for you!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/utah-parents-this-one-is-for-you/) - Your Children Need You to Speak Up Today HB 246, "Reproductive Health Amendments," is a Comprehensive Sex Education (CSE) bill that would not be good for Utah students. This bill will be presented in the Utah House Education Committee tomorrow, Tuesday at 4:10 p.m. Over the next 24 hours, the Utah House Education Committee members - [I Didn't Always Want to Be a Mom: This is How I Came to Love It!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/i-didnt-always-want-to-be-a-mom-this-is-how-i-came-to-love-it/) - by Erin Weist When I was a teenager I didn't think much of being a mom. In fact, that thought process continued as I grew into a young adult, attended college, lived overseas, held full-time jobs and basically became an adult. Looking back it’s silly that I didn't even once consider my own mother and - [The Shocking State of Sex Education in Ontario and What it Means for the Rest of Us](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/the-shocking-state-of-sex-education-in-ontario-and-what-it-means-for-the-rest-of-us/) - by Elise Ellsworth Kids in Ontario have been learning things a little differently this year. There has not been as much time for the basics of reading, writing and arithmetic as the schools have a new challenge: sexual re-education from kindergarten on up. The area’s new sexual education program, Fully Alive, is one of the - [The Lasting Impact of Your Vote](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/the-lasting-impact-of-your-vote/) - by Mekelle Tenney Last week Justice Antonin Scalia unexpectedly passed away. He was appointed to the U.S. Supreme court by President Ronald Reagan in 1986. He was 50 years old and the youngest justice on the court at the time. He was well known for his sarcastic remarks. Earlier last year during the Obamacare ruling - [In Memory of Antonin Scalia](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/in-memory-of-antonin-scalia/) - by Diane Robertson Here at UFI, we are very saddened at the sudden passing of Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia. He was a champion of both the U.S. Constitution and the family. As a husband to Maureen, father of 9, and grandfather to 28, Justice Scalia leaves behind a great posterity and great legacy. Justice - [Are You Giving the LOVE your Companion NEEDS?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/are-you-giving-the-love-your-companion-needs/) - by Keely Tanner Everyone is different in their expressions of love. You might express your love and feel it in a different way than your significant other or others in your family. This is okay because everyone is different, even in expressing and feeling love for someone. What is going to be helpful to you - [After the Wedding, #marriageadvice](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/after-the-wedding-marriageadvice/) - by Erin Weist I attended the wedding reception of my cousin’s daughter over the weekend. She was a glowing bride, he was an ecstatic groom, everything was perfect. It was about a dozen years ago when I enjoyed my wedding day. Since then my husband and I have experienced joy, heartache, trust, betrayal, tears, fears, - [What Are the Great Moral Issues of Our Time?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/what-are-the-great-moral-issues-of-our-time/) - by Christie Masters Senator Bernie Sanders has undergirded his presidential campaign with the declaration that “Income inequality is the great moral issue of our time...” Other political leaders also push free health care, free education and gender equality as the utmost in moral importance. But what are the greatest moral issues of our time? What - [Socialism – The Big Lie](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/socialism-the-big-lie/) - by Rebecca Mallory It’s not often that a UFI reader will ask me to write about a particular subject. I got a phone call from someone a few days ago who lamented that he was “trying to have an open mind about socialism but after doing some research, just felt like it would never work.” After - [Health and Safety For Abortion Too](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/health-and-safety-for-abortion-too/) - by Diane Robertson On March 2nd, the United States Supreme Court will hear a challenge to a 2013 Texas law requiring abortion clinics to maintain basic health and safety standards, and abortionists to maintain admitting privileges to nearby hospitals. The law also bans abortions beyond 20 weeks gestation. Those challenging the law argue that it - [Tech-Tethered--Held captive by technology?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/tech-tethered-held-captive-by-technology/) - by Jackie Bowles A few weeks ago I attended a family reunion. Getting everyone together is very hard to accomplish. As the week progressed, it was interesting to see the interactions between various family members or should I say a lack of interaction. Most were endlessly distracted, glued to their phones, keeping Facebook up to - [Resolution No. ## (Template for a Resolution to define Pornography as a "Public Health Crisis")](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pornography/resolution-no-template-for-a-resolution-to-define-pornography-as-a-public-health-crisis/) - Recognizing and finding that pornography is a public health hazard leading to a broad spectrum of individual and public health impacts and societal harms. Pornography is creating a public health crisis and therefore its harms are beyond the capability of the individual to address alone. Rather, efforts to prevent pornography exposure and addiction, to educate - [Is Pornography a Public Health Hazard?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/is-pornography-a-public-health-hazard/) - by Erin Weist One legislator’s proposed resolution in Utah has been receiving national attention. This resolution would declare pornography to be a public health hazard. The summary of this resolution states it “recognizes the need for education, prevention, research, and policy change at the community and societal level in order to address the pornography epidemic - [Should Abortion be the Answer to the Zika Virus Outbreak?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/should-abortion-be-the-answer-to-the-zika-virus-outbreak/) - by Teralynn Nordgren The Zika virus has fueled the debate about abortion in some of the most pro-life countries in the world. I understand the fear that is behind this debate. The thought of life with a child who is likely never to gain independence and who will require extra care for her entire life - [The Government is my Shepherd, I Need Not Work](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-government-is-my-shepherd-i-need-not-work/) - by Mekelle Tenney We can learn a lot about the American people from election results. Monday marked the start of the 2016 Presidential primary election. I have been listening to analysists discuss the results of the Iowa caucus all day. They have compared voter turnout to previous years, voter turnout between parties, demographics of voters, - [When the Courts don't Defend Churches, the Law, and Employment Rights](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/when-the-courts-dont-defend-churches-the-law-and-employment-rights/) - by Diane Robertson As a member of a Church that hires many people to do a multitude of things from computer programming to custodial to cook and expects everyone to adhere to the Church’s standards of conduct in public and in private, I worry when I read that a judge has decided that this is - [Where’s the Bonus Coming From](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/wheres-the-bonus-coming-from/) - by Tashica Jacobson A common phrase heard over and over during my schooling was “married individuals are happier, healthier, and make more money.” This can seem hard to believe as my husband and I experience the struggle to pay bills and survive the tension of weekly budgets. However the financial benefits of marriage are proven and - [True Empowerment Comes from Choice](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/true-empowerment-comes-from-choice/) - by Erin Weist I attended a series of workshops this weekend designed for the women in my area. We learned about the power of good music in our homes. We learned about the power of serving other people. We learned about the power of an educated mind. But mostly I learned about the power of - [Fear Not](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/fear-not/) - By Ally Fife Fear: (verb) To feel a painful apprehension of some impending evil; to be afraid of; to consider or expect with emotions of alarm or solicitude. Having several children with anxiety, talk of fear and trying new things can cause any number of emotions and reactions. But teaching our children and ourselves to - [Life Isn't Fair](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/life-isnt-fair/) - by Rebecca Mallory All of us, at one time or another, are brought to our knees because of unexpected events. Trials and tribulation hit each of us whether we're rich, poor, short or tall, young or old. We all have them. These moments often jolt us back to reality in reflection of what is truly - [Protecting the Guilty...Again?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/protecting-the-guilty-again/) - by Diane Robertson More than 150 years ago, the good people who helped their fellow men in bondage escape slavery, would be prosecuted if caught. Around 70 years ago in Europe, the good people who helped Jews escape capture from the Nazi regime and almost certain death in concentration camps, would, if caught, be prosecuted - [Understanding Filters in Communication](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/understanding-filters-in-communication/) - by Keely Tanner Good communication is an important aspect in our everyday lives. Developing good communication skills can be a pain. Communication for some just comes naturally. And then there are some who struggle with it all their lives. Is it a skill that should be worked at and intentionally developed? Absolutely! How often have - [What is the Most Effective Form of STD Prevention?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/what-is-the-most-effective-form-of-std-prevention/) - by Erin Weist *The opinions expressed in this article are mine alone. Each individual reserves the right to live and choose as they best see fit. I have seen a few articles recently touting the need for greater national exposure to the HPV vaccine, a series of shots given meant to prevent the spread of - [The Results Are Out: Children Need a Married Mom and Dad](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-results-are-out-children-need-a-married-mom-and-dad/) - by Elise Ellsworth About a year ago I noticed that a bird had built its nest above my neighbor’s garage. It was the most uniquely situated of any I had ever seen. I commented on the nest. My neighbor responded with something like, “Oh, that stupid, stupid bird.” I wondered what she meant. She explained - [Abortion--and the War still Rages!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/abortion-and-the-war-still-rages/) - "Largest Movement of Social Reform Since the Civil Rights Movement" - Be a Part! Since Roe v. Wade, over 58 million abortions have been performed in the United States. Planned Parenthood alone has been responsible for over 7 million abortions - more than any other abortion provider in the U.S. In 2015, they performed 323,999 abortions, or roughly 900 - [From Freedom to Tyranny--Are we there yet?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/from-freedom-to-tyranny-are-we-there-yet/) - by Diane Robertson In the name of equality and fairness for LGBT people, the government of the United States is removing the long-standing freedom and rights to speech, religion, conscience, and control of personal property and private businesses. A New York appellate court ruled that Robert and Cynthia Gifford of Liberty Ridge Farm are not - [The Needs of Women Verse Men in a Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/the-needs-of-women-verse-men-in-a-marriage/) - by Keely Tanner Have you ever wondered “what is it that my husband really needs?” Or “What can I do to understand my wife?” These are questions that committed wives and husbands ask themselves all the time. Now we may not know all the answers and everyone is different, but we all have needs in - [Can You Help Society With a Family Night?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/can-you-help-society-with-a-family-night/) - by Erin Weist Last week Dr. Daniel Mark, an Orthodox Jew and visiting fellow of the Department of Politics at Princeton University, spoke at a private Christian university emphasizing the need for “a family ethic in society.” Dr. Mark is also a faculty member at Villanova University in Pennsylvania where he teaches political theory, philosophy - [Washington State’s New Bathroom Policy: Exchanging Reason for Madness](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/washington-states-new-bathroom-policy-exchanging-reason-for-madness/) - by Christie Masters A new bathroom policy has Washington State residents in an uproar, and I happen to be one of them. For sixteen years my husband and I have raised our son and five daughters here. Six children, among millions of others, that can no longer use public restrooms, locker rooms or dressing rooms - [Is It Really About Guns?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/is-it-really-about-guns/) - by Rebecca Mallory They're back at it again! Stretching the truth about guns. For decades some politicians and others in our society have been trying desperately to render the second amendment to the constitution, and even the constitution itself, useless and old-fashioned. Why is that? Do they truly care about the dangers of guns or - [Strong Families will end Poverty](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/strong-families-will-end-poverty-2/) - by Diane Robertson During a panel discussion on poverty at Georgetown University, President Obama, and Harvard sociologist Robert Putnam chided Christian religious organizations for focusing too heavily on “divisive issues” such as abortion and gay marriage. The New York Times reported that President Obama, “chided religious organizations for sometimes focusing too heavily on issues like abortion - [Education in the Home](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/education-in-the-home/) - by Keely Tanner Parents have so much to consider and to think about as they raise their children. One important decision involves how their children are educated. Yes, the schools we choose play an important part of their education process, but without the educational process in the home, the school and it's teachers are stifled. - [What Legislation Could Be Passing While You Sleep?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/what-legislation-could-be-passing-while-you-sleep/) - by Erin Weist Coming up this month my state is reconvening for the second session of the state legislature. It is a great time to get educated and involved, these weeks before they meet. It gives me a chance to study upcoming bills, discover proposed issues, contact my state representatives and express my support or - [Fostering Relationships--Are They worth the Effort?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/fostering-relationships-are-they-worth-the-effort/) - by Teralynn Nordgren Several years ago, my dad and I visited a friend who had been a highschool teacher and was like a mentor to my older brother and me. We visited him that evening wanting to talk to him about our religion – not to force it on him, but simply hoping that our - [Not Happy with Current Affairs? Four Goals you Should Consider](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/not-happy-with-current-affairs-four-goals-you-should-consider/) - by Mekelle Tenney Looking back on 2015 I think it’s safe to say that America has some areas of improvement. The year was marked with riots in Ferguson and Baltimore, the redefining of marriage, terrorist attacks, and the awarding of "the woman of the year" to a man. Yes, it is safe to say America - ["Starbucks & Sinners – The Making of Martyrs, Why Moral Superiority is Flawed Character"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/starbucks-sinners-the-making-of-martyrs-why-moral-superiority-is-flawed-character/) - by Tori Perez This post was originally published 11/17/2015 on subtlesphere.com - Click here for the full article. My social media accounts exploded twice recently over two separate but equally insignificant events: the color of Starbucks cups, and a minor policy change in a major world religion that has preached the same doctrine for decades. I have no - [One More Resolution](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/one-more-resolution/) - by Tashica Jacobson If the end of the holiday season wasn’t enough to remind me that the year had ended, then the endless talk of improvement, health goals, and ads for exercise equipment would alert me to the fact that a new year had just begun. This is what the new year does. It starts - [Religious Neutrality is Not a Solution](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/religious-neutrality-is-not-a-solution/) - by Erin Weist Over the weekend, a member of the Supreme Court of the United States drew fire for comments regarding religious freedom in the U.S. Justice Scalia, whose dissent over the court’s majority rule in the case of Obergefell v. Hodges which essentially legalized same-sex marriage in this country, spoke at a Catholic high - [Should Emotional Suffering Trump the First Amendment?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/in-which-emotional-suffering-trumps-the-first-amendment/) - by Diane Robertson Apparently in Oregon, hurt feelings have become a matter of politics and law. Or rather, the hurt feelings of people who have sexual relationships with other people of their same gender. If you’re just a regular person with regular hurt feelings and problems, Oregon law and legal processes won’t take care of - [Religious Liberty--The Harder the Conflict the more Glorious the Triumph](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/religious-liberty-the-harder-the-conflict-the-more-glorious-the-triumph-2/) - By Caitlin Woolbert “These are the times that try men’s souls. The summer soldier and the sunshine patriot will, in this crisis, shrink from the service of their country; but he that stands by it now, deserves the love and thanks of man and woman. Tyranny, like hell, is not easily conquered; yet we have - [What Can You Do to Change the World? These People Are...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/what-can-you-do-to-change-the-world-these-people-are/) - by Erin Weist A few months ago we wrote about the World Congress of Families that convened in Salt Lake City, Utah and focused on issues that affect families and family relationships. I was fortunate enough to attend several of the lectures and am thrilled that they are now available online. There are so many - [Using Title IX to Remove Choice](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/using-title-ix-to-remove-choice/) - by Diane Robertson We’re at that time of year where seniors in high school are making choices about what they want to do after graduation. Many are preparing for college, the military or some sort of training beyond high school. My oldest daughter, is there now. In November she quickly filled out an application to - [January 17, 2016 – Mark it on Your Calendar](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/january-17-2016-mark-it-on-your-calendar/) - by Elise Ellsworth January 17, 2016 marks the thirty-third anniversary of a unique holiday – Sanctity of Human Life Day. This now almost-forgotten holiday, always falling on the third Sunday of January, was originally designated by President Ronald Reagan to coincide with another important day in the history of our nation - January 22nd – - [The Spirit of Christmas Can Stay All Year](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/the-spirit-of-christmas-can-stay-all-year/) - by Erin Weist I have long loved the feeling of the spirit of Christmas. There is something different, something magical, something special in the air. Among Christian nations the month of December is a special one. Christmas time is when we celebrate the birth of the Son of God onto the earth. It is a - [Who Needs a Father?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/who-needs-a-father/) - By Patrick Williams "You're one of the good guys!" This is one of the things my father wrote in a birthday card to me some years ago that I never will forget. Nothing makes you feel like a man than such validation from the man you look up to. Just as in this instance that - [Depression Is Real](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/depression-is-real/) - by Ally Fife My daughter, who is attending college, called me after a particularly trying day to inform me that according to her psychology professor, depression isn’t real. Apparently it can be controlled by changing our perspective of things.I immediately called him a loser under my breath before my daughter reminded me that everyone can have - [Abortion is About Ending Life](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/abortion-is-about-ending-life/) - by Diane Robertson It’s time we start being honest about abortion. Many debate about when life begins. Yet, for all intents and purposes, abortion is not about when life begins because abortion is not about ending a nonviable pregnancy. Sometimes when an egg is fertilized, it does not grow into a baby. When that happens, - [Exchanging Chaos for Peace](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/exchanging-chaos-for-peace/) - By Christie Masters Last year the holidays were a blur. My first thought the day before this Thanksgiving was to slow down and take everything in, enjoy each moment and not feel rushed- and then I realized the entire year had gone by in a flash. Busy schedules with a crisis thrown in here or - [What the CDC Says About the Next Generation](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/what-the-cdc-says-about-the-next-generation/) - by Erin Weist I ran across some interesting statistics on the Centers for Disease Control website about teens and it seemed like important information to share. These statistics come from studies done from 1991-2013 as part of a Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance and cover both high school (9th-12th grade) and middles school age kids. The - [Women Against ISIS!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/women-against-isis/) - By Kay Hill It is my belief that we women can be one of the biggest factors in the fight against ISIS. Our wonderful troops are fighting on one end, but we women can fight on the other end too — before our youth join ISIS! We can use one of the same means that - [Many Hands Making a Difference!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/un/many-hands-making-a-difference/) - At United Families International, we are so grateful for our volunteers and college interns. They help carry the load of researching social science for our Family Issues Guides, writing articles for our UFI Blog, and posting daily current news articles to World Family News, as well as advocating at the UN and state legislatures. Plus, - [Just Wait Twenty Years](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/just-wait-twenty-years/) - by Tashica Jacobson My biggest shock when telling people of my recent marriage is the negativity that comes in response to this life event. They want to know if I am happy, and when I respond in the affirmative they respond with “just wait…” Just wait for whatever they think will give me a reality - [Surprise, Surprise, STDs on the Rise](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/surprise-surprise-stds-on-the-rise/) - by Diane Robertson Promiscuity has consequences. Since the 1960’s people have been trying to avoid the consequences by destigmatizing sexual choice. Social and school programs have been set up to support children born without a married mother and father. Free medical care is available to the poor. Comprehensive sex education that teaches children promiscuity has - [Debunking the Dangerous Myths of Sexual Education.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/debunking-the-dangerous-myths-of-sexual-education/) - by Jessica Westfall It's not new news that there are explicit sexual education programs being implemented throughout the western world. It's hard as a parent to know what to do. In May, Toronto held a boycott against the curriculum, almost 35,000 students didn't go to school in protest. While parents know the information is too soon for - [Why I'm Christian but Want to Celebrate Hanukkah](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/free-speech/why-im-christian-but-want-to-celebrate-hanukkah/) - by Erin Weist I am not Jewish but when I found that the celebration of Hanukkah began yesterday evening (the 6th of December) I was prompted to search more regarding the history and symbolism of this Jewish holy holiday. My own Christian roots are inseparable from those of the Jews, my personal religious beliefs entrenched - [Scrooges past, "Scrooges" present](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/scrooges-past-scrooges-present/) - by Mekelle Tenney My daughter is five months old today! This will be her first Christmas. Yesterday I took her with me to do some Christmas shopping at the mall. As we walked in and out of the different shops and boutiques I was observing the atmosphere, the shoppers, and the new “norms”. I found - [Safe Zones and Just Deserts](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/safe-zones-and-just-desserts/) - by Rebecca Mallory Imagine this little scenario. Your 17 year old son comes to you with a notebook in hand. "Mom and dad, I have some demands I'd like to review with you. First, I'm done doing chores around the house. House work is just too menial for me and it makes me feel sad. I will - [Parents, Protect Your Teen's Time!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/parents-protect-your-teens-time/) - by Diane Robertson Parents need to be aware of the heavy expectations that are heaped upon high school kids today. I have 3 High School children and I have been worried about all that is required of them. I’ve had to step back and look at what is most important for them as they grow - [Saint Martin revisited: not half a cloak but half a fortune](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/birth-rate/saint-martin-revisited-not-half-a-cloak-but-half-a-fortune/) - by Vincenzina Santoro On November 11th the Christian calendar marks the celebration of St. Martin of Tours. He is best remembered for sharing half his cloak with a freezing beggar he met along the road. The saint is usually pictured in military garb, sitting on a beautiful white horse, gallantly and majestically slicing the garment - [Fleas, even they can be a good thing](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/fleas-even-they-can-be-a-good-thing/) - by Jessica Westfall Last week was Thanksgiving, my favorite holiday. I love Thanksgiving not only because of the pumpkin pie and time with family, I love the focus on gratitude. There is so much in life to be thankful for! I want to share this exert from The Hiding Place by Corrie ten Boom. This is a true story - [Why Abstinence Works and How to Make It Work for You](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/why-abstinence-works-and-how-to-make-it-work-for-you/) - by Elise Ellsworth Would you want to participate in an activity which made it more likely you would be depressed? Commit suicide? Live in poverty? Fail in school? Have an unhappy marriage? Contract uncomfortable diseases? These are some of the outcomes that have been linked to having sex before marriage. Yet, each year millions of - [Boy or Girl? Don't decide. Part 3](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/boy-or-girl-dont-decide-part-3/) - by Jessica Westfall The book, Unnatural Selection by Mara Hvistendahl, outlines the history of population control, abortion, and sex selection from a pro-abortion standpoint. Using this information, I will outline 3 issues regarding this movement: recurring ideas, unrestrained parental control, and the power of unique life. These issues were separated into three different blog posts, this is - [It Could Never Happen Here’](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/it-could-never-happen-here/) - by Ally Fife Nazi’s didn’t start out by killing Jews. But eventually they killed millions and the average German had allowed themselves to be drawn into the lie. Somehow, the hope of a stronger Germany helped them believe in Hitler. He convinced them they needed to give up their rights in order to be secure. - [Real Equality and the Houston “Bathroom Bill”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/real-equality-and-the-houston-bathroom-bill/) - by Teralynn Nordgren On November 3rd this year, residents of Houston turned down the Houston Equal Rights Ordinance (HERO), also known as “The Bathroom Bill”, in a landslide vote. The next day, transgender activists began their response. Since then, hundreds of online articles have been written accusing those who opposed the bill of fear-mongering, ignorance, - [Boy or Girl? Don't decide. Part 2](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/boy-or-girl-dont-decide-part-2/) - by Jessica Westfall Editor's notes: See Part 1 of this series here The book, Unnatural Selection by Mara Hvistendahl, outlines the history of population control, abortion, and sex selection from a pro-abortion standpoint. Using this information, I will outline 3 issues regarding this movement: recurring ideas, unrestrained parental control, and the power of unique life. These issues - [With all that is wrong---There is so much that is Right](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/with-all-that-is-wrong-there-is-so-much-that-is-right/) - by Mekelle Tenney It’s easy for us to get caught up in all that is wrong in this world. Last week our Friday night was met with reports of terrorist attacks in Paris where over 200 people were killed. ISIS continues to make the news with acts of terror, torture, and death.Here in America we - [Can you Replace Fear with Love?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/can-you-replace-fear-with-love/) - by Erin Weist Last week a series of attacks by Islamist extremist groups took over news waves as death tolls rose and reports of the gruesome destruction left in the wake of these cowardly terrorists grew by the hour. First, these attacks in Lebanon were reported Thursday evening. Foreign sympathy for the plight of displaced - [Trying to Replace the Basic Unit](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/trying-to-replace-the-basic-unit/) - Tashica Jacobson Basic, while typically thought of as simple or easy, it is the most crucial to an outcome. For example basic math, which is elementary material is what makes up our ability to solve calculous and trigonometry problems. Replacing that basic understanding with something else will never contribute to the solving of a more - [Boy or Girl? Don't decide. Part 1](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/boy-or-girl-dont-decide-part-1/) - by Jessica Westfall The book, Unnatural Selection by Mara Hvistendahl, outlines the history of population control, abortion, and sex selection from a pro-abortion standpoint. Using this information, I will outline 3 issues regarding this movement: recurring ideas, unrestrained parental control, and the power of unique life. These issues will be separated into three different blog posts, this - [War or Peace?-Resolving Family Conflict on the Front Lines](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/war-or-peace-resolving-family-conflict-on-the-front-lines/) - by Christie Masters There is something serendipitous about the household being in a bit of turmoil when writing an article on conflict resolution. Peacemaking is constantly being discussed. When I asked my twelve year-old what she thought was the best way to resolve an argument, her answer surprised me. “You have to get to the - [Hanging with the Haters: Four Days at the World Congress of Families IX](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/hanging-with-the-haters-four-days-at-the-world-congress-of-families-ix/) - By Carol Rice Haters are gonna hate, and there I was, unbeknownst to me, smack dab in the middle of “them.” When I took the single seat a few rows back from the rope and just to the right of the camera/sound booth, I had no idea who I was sitting with. The day's opening - [How To Tell If YOU Are Cheating](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/how-to-tell-if-you-are-cheating/) - By Patrick Williams In his book Drawing Heaven Into Your Marriage, H. Wallace Goddard presents a list of things to look for in your interactions with others. He suggests that there is a progression of infidelity rather than things just happening out of the blue. The following is a list of how things can progress from seemingly - [LGBT non-discrimination laws: What am I really protecting?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/lgbt-nondiscrimination-laws-what-am-i-really-protecting/) - by Melissa Hinkson After more than a year of battling what has been dubbed the “bathroom bill” Houstonians showed their overwhelming opposition to the Houston Equal Rights Ordinance (HERO) bill Tuesday night in the polls. This was a major win for those who are concerned with public safety – especially for the public safety of - [Don't Undermine Your Child's Greatest Assets](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/dont-undermine-your-childs-greatest-assets/) - by Jessica Westfall I have always been drawn to the behaviorist approach. The ability to support good behavior and ignore or punish bad behavior and get desired results sits well with me. However, I have been reading Punished by Rewards by Alfie Kohn, and he fights all my comfortable ideas. He asserts that rewards and punishments - [Hope for the family amid anti-family hate](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/hope-for-the-family-amid-anti-family-hate/) - by Mekelle Tenney Last week my husband and I attended the World Congress of Families in Salt Lake City Utah. It was the 9th Congress held since the organizations founding in 1997. With over 3300 in attendance the Congress is the largest pro-family gathering in the world. World Congress of Families is dedicated to the - [Feeling small? Getting involved Can have a BIG impact!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/feeling-small-getting-involved-can-have-a-big-impact/) - by Erin Weist The World Congress of Families was held in Salt Lake City last week. Amid mild protests from pro-LGBT groups, over 3,000 attendees from around the world gathered to support pro-family speech and activism. Rather than being “anti-LGBT” the conference focused on what has been dubbed the “natural family” or the traditional family. - [Give me Life](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/give-me-life/) - by Brittany Stohlton Our day-to-day actions are preceded by choices, and those choice-based actions are always followed by consequences. Each day in the news there are reports of child abuse, abandonment and death. When the life of a child is at stake, parents, doctors and child experts do everything in their power to protect and - [An Egalitarian Marriage, with Mom Staying at Home?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/an-egalitarian-marriage-with-mom-staying-at-home/) - by Teralynn Nordgren If any of you are fans of J.R. Tolkien, then you are likely familiar with The Hobbit. My husband loves The Hobbit – the book and the movies. While I am not as avid a fan as he is, I have seen the movies, and there is a quote in one of - [Are Children “Scary”?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/are-children-scary-2/) - With World Congress of families in full swing this week, this is a subject that was researched two years ago. Things have not changed...unfortunately. Attempting to scare people is part and parcel of the Halloween season, but the “zero-population growth” folks have really kicked it into gear the last few weeks. “Scary stories” abound, especially - [Euthanasia--"alive" and destroying a friend near you](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/euthanasia-alive-and-destroying-a-friend-near-you/) - by Jessica Westfall This summer, Laura, a healthy 24-year-old Belgian woman used euthanasia to end her life. Since childhood she has believed, “Life, that's not for me” and has wanted to die. Other treatments, like counseling, could help her but since a doctor mentioned euthanasia, that is the only “treatment” she wants, death. This is - [Controversy with WCF? Really?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/controversy-with-wcf-really-2/) - by Erin Weist Despite local and national opposition the 9th World Congress of Families (WCF) will be held this week in Salt Lake City, Utah, the first time a meeting of this group has been held in the United States since it began in 1997. Gatherings of both faith and family-promoting groups such as Focus - [Are You Available?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/are-you-available/) - By Patrick Williams Are we overly-available to the rest of the world? Think for a moment. How hard is it for someone to get a hold of you? How quick are you to drop everything to respond to a text or check on an update someone sends to you through one of your social media - [The Home--building competence and character](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-home-building-competence-and-character/) - by Tashica Jacobson Studies, opinions, social science, commonly known facts, and psychology have all shown and continue to show that the single most influential factor in an individual’s life is the family structure that they grew up in. It affects their behavior, education, career choices, relationships, religious values, and eventually the formation of their own - [Personal Conviction or Government Control?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/personal-conviction-or-government-control/) - by Mekelle Tenney Human nature never fails to produce threats to freedom. Strong convictions are a necessary defense against governments, groups, institutions, and individuals who seek dominance over others. Conviction is merely a firmly held belief or opinion. I believe some of the strongest convictions are produced by religious beliefs. As I was scrolling through - [Drugs – What is the cost to society? Part 3](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/drugs-what-is-the-cost-to-society-part-3/) - by Jessica Westfall It is interesting to be look at views supporting decriminalization verses tough drug laws. I am encouraged by the views Mr. Hari's shared in his TED talk. It has better helped me see a drug addict as a person, a person in need of help. I have more compassion than I had - [Bungling or Brilliant? How to talk with your kids about sex](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/parental-influence-and-the-importance-of-conversation/) - by Christie Masters When my children were very young, I answered questions like “Mommy, where do babies come from?” with a comfortably undetailed, “They are a gift from God”. This worked until one of my young daughters wanted to know if she would be given a baby even if she didn’t want one. It became - [The Constitution does not require states to give up their definitions of marriage.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/constitution-does-not-require-states-to-give-up-their-definitions-of-marriage/) - Only by ignoring their story could one assume that the Pilgrim Fathers did not come to this country for religious freedom. by Mary Jane Fritzen When visiting Plymouth Colony in Massachusetts one Thanksgiving Day , I studied Of Plymouth Plantation 1620-1647, by William Bradford, a Pilgrim leader. Another delightful book about the Pilgrims by the - [In The Darkness](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/in-the-darkness/) - by Ally Fife Earlier this month, under the cover of darkness, the statue of the Ten Commandments on Oklahoma Capitol grounds was removed quickly and without fanfare. The Oklahoma Supreme Court ruled that it must be removed because it violated religious rights of those who don’t believe in the Bible. Knowing people would protest it’s - [World Congress IX: Salt Lake City. Plan to Attend!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/world-congress-ix-salt-lake-city-plan-to-attend/) - [Contention Begins With Me](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/contention-begins-with-me/) - by Rachel Mallory Remember that sweet song most of us learned when we were young that stated "Kindness Begins with Me"? Well, through lots of personal experience, I've learned that the opposite is also true. Contention also begins with me, even when it doesn't. Realizing this has brought me great inner peace. Hear me out on - [Drugs – What is the cost to society? Part 2](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/drugs-what-is-the-cost-to-society-part-2/) - By Jessica Westfall Last week Johann Hari's views on drug legalization and human connections were explored, let's look at an opposing side. Addiction psychiatrist from Arizona, Dr. Ed Gogek, has written a book titled, Marijuana Debunked. While Gogek focuses on marijuana he asserts this is the start to decriminalization of all drugs and wants to stop - [A Call to Action for Women](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/a-call-to-action-for-women/) - by Erin Weist Recently, a leader for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints spoke out in plea to women everywhere to stand strong in their faith and their calling as women. President Russell M. Nelson spoke in Salt Lake City, Utah in a worldwide broadcast to members of his faith, pleading, “We need - [What We Take for Granted](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/what-we-take-for-granted/) - In the wake of the shooting in Oregon where a gunman asked his victims about their faith before shooting them, many Americans are examining the issue of religious freedom. What is religious freedom? What is is worth? In today’s UFI alert, Dawn Frandsen reviews the integral role that Religious Freedom played in America’s heritage and - [Does Your Child Need Kindergarten?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/does-your-child-need-kindergarten/) - By Beckie Mann Remember kindergarten? The bright sunny classroom full of toys with a piano in the corner, naptime on little mats, the cute furry classroom mascot, and memorizing the Gettysburg’s address for the school’s President’s Day picnic. Oh, wait. That was a movie, (Kindergarten Cop). But, I didn’t attend kindergarten, so it’s all I’ve - [Bonding, Learning, Becoming...never too late](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/bonding-learning-becoming-never-too-late/) - by Becky Mann Most Saturday afternoons you will find my youngest son and me at the laundromat. While the machines are doing the heavy work, you will hear me reading to my son. You may recognize Jules Verne, Louis L’amour, or J.K. Rowling. My fifteen year-old is long past Dr. Seuss, not that we don’t - [Planned Parenthood--Today's Auschwitz](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/planned-parenthood-todays-auschwitz/) - by Diane Robertson All of the videos about Planned Parenthood have come out publically. Many people have seen them. Congress has investigated. Some states took Medicaid funding away from Planned Parenthood because of this illegal practice. And now, judges are stepping in. After some states defunded Planned Parenthood, Planned Parenthood and others sued. In Utah, - [Legalizing Drugs – What are the ramifications?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/legalizing-drugs-what-are-the-ramifications/) - by Jessica Westfall Part 1 This is the first of a three part series exploring the debate around legalization of marijuana and decriminalization of all drugs. “Everything you think you know about addiction is wrong” is a TED talk by Johann Hari. It has become pretty popular, it's been viewed over 2.9 million times since it's - [Feds Will Control Curriculum, Competency and Credentialing](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/feds-will-control-curriculum-competency-and-credentialing/) - by JaKell Sullivan The federal government has absolutely no constitutional right to control curriculum, but they’re doing it anyway. In a 2011 video for the Whitehouse’s Learning Registry, Steve Midgley, the Deputy Director of Education Technology for the US Department of Education, says that the Learning Registry “makes federal learning resources easier to find, easier - [The Job of the Working Mom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-job-of-the-working-mom/) - by Mekelle Tenney I recently became an official stay at home mom. My husband and I had our first child three months ago. About three weeks before our daughter was born I clocked out for my last day of work…well my last day of work at the office. I had decided well before I ever - [“Because I Was Raised That Way”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/because-i-was-raised-that-way/) - By Deborah Wene Have you ever looked at a couple and wanted to be them because they seem to have the perfect marriage? Many teens experience this. Growing up, I had this perfect marriage in mind and hoped that I would someday find the right person to live the dream with. What exactly makes a - [Planned Parenthood Myths Busted!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/planned-parenthood-myths-busted/) - by Diane Robertson The truth about Planned Parenthood came out as Cecil Richards testified in front of Congress. She had to admit certain myths circulating, some for years, are false. Myth 1: Abortion is only 3% of the business Planned Parenthood does. Cecil Richardson admitted that abortion is actually 86% of their business. Myth - [Cohabitation and Children’s Well-Being](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/cohabitation-and-childrens-well-being/) - By: Deborah Wene Families and cultures around the world have different views on cohabitation and there are some who do not see anything wrong with it. A couple of years ago, my older sister decided to cohabitate with her then boyfriend of 2 years. Prior to her decision of cohabitation, she had a 5-year-old daughter with - [One Simple Way to "Be One" with Your Spouse](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/one-simple-way-to-be-one-with-your-spouse/) - by Erin Weist I read some wonderful advice a few weeks ago regarding marriage relationships. (I wish I could find the reference but you know how fast information moves online...a few weeks ago might as well be decades, so good luck finding the link.) But regardless of where it came from it was sound advice. - [When an Aborted Baby Lives](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/when-an-aborted-baby-lives/) - by Jessica Westfall The allegations against Planned Parenthood have stirred up a frenzy of commentary online. I want to address one issue that has been gaining more and more of the spotlight. That is when an aborted baby lives. I had no idea this could happen or how often it does happen, but according to - [This Most Important Election, Character Matters](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/this-most-important-election-character-matters/) - by Rebecca Mallory We hear it every four years. "This is the most important election of our lifetime!" I contend that that somewhat trite statement will never prove more true than in 2016. Never before has the very fabric of America been shredded and torn apart as we have seen in the last 10-20 years. The - [The Need for Parental Rights](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/the-need-for-parental-rights/) - By Diane Robertson Parental rights in the United States are under attack. Among imposing state and city laws, to federal regulations, to over-zealous social workers, many parents are finding that their right to educate, discipline, teach independence, and decide what is best for their children’s health and medical care is being infringed upon. Some of - [The World at Your Fingertips](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-world-at-your-fingertips/) - by Mekelle Tenney Did you know that 76% of Americans reported that they only read one book in 2014? Did you also know that currently Americans only spend 7 minutes of their leisure time each day reading? Now the important question, do you think these statistics are alarming? A French novelist once said that - [Born or Unborn – They Matter Too](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/born-or-unborn-they-matter-too/) - By: Deborah Wene I was born in a very small town, in a small country with not many resources to help pregnant women. Many women gave birth along the road, on their way to the field or markets, most of which ended up dying because of lack of care. When my mother was pregnant with me, - [Parenting is Love and Love is Service](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/parenting-is-love-and-love-is-service/) - by Erin Weist Parenting is hard. Anyone who disagrees has probably never been a parent. But it is beautiful and worthwhile and honorable and gut-wrenchingly fulfilling at the same time. Let me explain with an example. This has been a tough week in our house, parenting-wise. I have found myself repeatedly at odds with - [Relationship Misconceptions](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/relationship-misconceptions/) - By Jessica Westfall Dr. John Van Epp puts an interesting twist on a well beloved and known fairy tale. Ellie was an orphan who was ignored and unloved by her step mother and sisters. She meets and marries a man in a very short time. This man had heaped praise and attention, something she has - [Freedom to be a Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/freedom-to-be-a-family/) - by Ally Fife The ideal home is one in which we feel comfort when we enter; where we can let go of the problems of our day and feel safe and loved. Such is not the case for the 90,000 Burundi refugees who have left their homes in terror, sometimes walking for a month - [Boundaries Between Society and Government](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/choice/boundaries-between-society-and-government/) - by Annalise Jarman The other night I finished reading the book “Boundaries: When to Say Yes and How to Say No” by Doctors Henry Cloud and John Townsend. The book is about how to stand on your own, how to be separate and know what is your responsibility versus others’ responsibility. It is about owning - [Choosing Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/birth-rate/choosing-children/) - Elise Ellsworth In the last number of years a good amount of material has been published about the rewards of parenting. Are parents truly happier? Is parenting worth it? Many of these articles highlight the downsides of being a parent. Dirty diapers. Crying babies. Bulging tummies. Tyrranical teenagers. Authors (often childless) tell us that parents - [Separation of Sex and State](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/separation-of-sex-and-state/) - We at United Families appreciate all who advocate for the traditional family. The more voices, the more we like it. Blogger Matt Walsh is one of those advocates. Some of his blogs ring so true to our cause we at United Families pass them around and make comments…most of them lamenting the fact that we - [Seeing the World with New Eyes](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/seeing-the-world-with-new-eyes/) - Laura Lofgreen describes how motherhood has brought her new perspectives on life and helped her to see more clearly the love of her own mother. We hope you find her words helpful as we have, and please feel free to pass them along to others who might benefit from reading her perspective. I realized something. - [Self Interest vs. Human Life](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/self-interest-vs-human-life/) - Brianna Geddie Sacrifice: “to surrender or give up, or permit injury or disadvantage to, for the sake of something else.” Selfish: “Devoted to or caring only for one’s self; concerned primarily with one's own interests, benefits, welfare, etc., regardless of others.” Abortion has been a very controversial topic in our society for a long time. Representing United Families International at the United Nations, Jenny Cooper points out that around the world, it is “estimated that 160 million females are “missing” because of sex-selective abortion. Their lives - [The Adoption Option](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-adoption-option/) - Mary Pearson According to The American Life League, between the years of 1973-2011, 54.4 million abortions were performed. That might not seem like a big number but when compared with the population of Italy, 61 million, it doesn’t seem like such a small number anymore. Women of all ages and background have abortions. Karen is - [Yes, We Can End Abortion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/yes-we-can-end-abortion/) - “I think we have deluded ourselves into believing that people don't know that abortion is killing. So any pretense that abortion is not killing is a signal of our ambivalence, a signal that we cannot say yes, it kills a fetus.” – Faye Wattleton, former president of U.S. Planned Parenthood Abortion is one of those - [Sex Indoctrination and Loss of Childhood Innocence](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/sex-indoctrination-and-loss-of-childhood-innocence/) - Rachel Allison If there is anyone living on this planet that isn’t aware of the chaos, confusion and even madness that is encroaching nearer and nearer to our homes and families, I would love to know where they are living and how they are keeping it all at bay. Where is the wholesome value-based environment - [Cohabitation: A Menace to Society?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/cohabitation/cohabitation-a-menace-to-society/) - Ashley Barber & Whitney Mackley For better or worse, cohabitation is becoming an increasingly common choice in the world today. What does it mean to cohabit? Oxford Dictionary defines cohabitation as the act of living together and having a sexual relationship without being married. Between 1974 and 1994, the percentage of couples who cohabitated before - [Stand Strong for the Traditional Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/stand-strong-for-the-traditional-family/) - Linda Ash It took years for our American Forefathers to recognize that the King of England wasn’t the all knowing, all caring solution to their health and well being…quite the contrary. He was too far removed from what they stood for and what their values had become as an independent, hard-working, God-worshipping, freedom-loving people. Hence - [House Ends Tax Payer Funding for Abortion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/house-ends-tax-payer-funding-for-abortion/) - Diane Robertson Last week on the 41st anniversary of Roe v Wade, thousands of people braved the cold and marched in Washington to protest abortion. On Tuesday, Jan 28th, the U.S. House of Representatives voted 227-188 to end all federal funding for abortions. One portion of the bill, known as the Hyde Amendment, prohibits federal - [The "Silent Majority" Speaks Up](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/same-sex-attraction/the-silent-majority-speaks-up/) - Editor's note: A huge rally in support of traditional marriage was held on Tuesday, January 28. United Families Utah representatives, along with five interns, participated. We wanted to share some of their experiences and insights - including their reaction when protestors from the gay lobby peppered them with glitter bombs. By Annalise Harker The showing - [Non-Discrimination 101: A Simple tool for Combating Proposed Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity Laws](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/same-sex-attraction/non-discrimination-101-a-simple-tool-for-combating-proposed-sexual-orientation-and-gender-identity-laws/) - Nondiscrimination laws sound like a good idea. But they’re not. They give special “rights” to some people at the expense of others. They harm our First Freedoms of Speech and Conscience, and our right to make a living. With the passage of these unfair non-discrimination laws, courts would be compelled to recognize some individual’s rights - [I wonder what their children think?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/i-wonder-what-their-children-think/) - Aubrey Walton Imagine with me for a minute; you’re back in 4th grade. You’ve just gotten off the bus after a long day at school. Perhaps you were ignored by your best friend today; or yelled at by your teacher. Perhaps you were picked on in the school yard, or laughed at for dropping a - [Growing through Misunderstandings](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/growing-through-misunderstandings/) - Sarah Alldredge Our little family had quite the experience last night while gathered around the dinner table. My husband and I were in the throes of a marital spat, and our daughter’s expression of frustration with us created the perfect segue from dinnertime to a family emotion-processing event. I felt defensive, my husband was visibly - [Eating an Elephant](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/eating-an-elephant/) - Rebecca Mallory We moved this past week. From a house we had lived in for over 15 years. It had a ton of storage, which probably sounds great to most of you. But guess what you do with a lot of storage? You store. It brings to mind the old George Carlin routine about the - [There is a Time and a Season…](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/there-is-a-time-and-a-season/) - Rachel Allison In wars past, I visualize men and more recently women in battle armor, fighting to defend our country and the freedoms of those they love and hold dear. There are many different kinds of battles and many different kinds of wars; all of which bring visions of destruction, the wounded and the dying. - [The Marriage Debate…More than just Gay Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/the-marriage-debatemore-than-just-gay-marriage/) - There is much discussion as to whether or not the gay community should be able to marry. It’s one of the hottest debates of the day, and has given all involved in the deliberation opportunity to take a good look at marriage; what it represents, its significance in society, its merits and how it should - [“Quitting” Your Marriage: Bad Idea](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/quitting-your-marriage-bad-idea/) - Elisabeth Clonts & McKenzie Wallentine Attending a university is a way for people to increase their knowledge and better their lives. Going to college for the first time can be scary because of the new experience, and the unknown reality of what the future holds. A person intends to use their knowledge gained for the - [Deliberate Patience Overcoming Looming Fears](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/deliberate-patience-overcoming-looming-fears/) - Marlene Hinton Against doctors’ suggestions that Ilene would require institutionalized medical attention, a mother’s earnest patience and love keep the family together. Ilene’s daily ways invite her family to learn compassion and to delight in her life regardless of the challenges. She was six years old, stick thin, and non-communicative except for the fluttering of - [Stable Marriages Make Stable Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/stable-marriages-make-stable-children/) - Diane Robertson This happens to be National Marriage Week. February 7th to 14th each year has become a “collaborative campaign to strengthen individual marriages, reduce the divorce rate, and build a stronger marriage culture, which in turn helps curtail poverty and benefits children.” While many argue that their version of marriage cannot possibly affect others’ - [Does Everything Have to be About Sex?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/same-sex-attraction/does-everything-have-to-be-about-sex/) - Ann Bailey I don't blame the Olympic luge teams for being frustrated – and disgusted. You dedicate your life to a sport and pay the incomprehensible price that must be paid to get to the Olympics and then you’re used as a pawn of the gay lobby. According to the New York Times: The Canadian - [The Deadly Results of Totalitarianism](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/the-deadly-results-of-totalitarianism/) - Maddi Gillel There are a few more terms we need to identify under the umbrella title totalitarianism: Tyranny – A government in which a single ruler is vested with absolute power; the office, authority, or jurisdiction of an absolute ruler; absolute power, especially when exercised unjustly or cruelly; use of absolute power; extreme harshness or - [Teach Your Children Before Others Teach Them](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/sex-education/teach-your-children-before-others-teach-them/) - Brittany Halstead & Chantelle Paramore Connors favorite class each day was gym. He looked forward to the class because instead of doing school work he could play with his classmates. On this particular day however, the teacher had different plans; a guest speaker would be talking to them today. After a short introduction, the speaker - [Something good happens to a baby’s brain when](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/something-good-happens-to-a-babys-brain-when/) - Marlene Hinton Something very good happens to a baby’s brain when parents are close, attentive, communicative, and nurturing with their children—an effect that continues on through life. During the critical, earliest stages of a child’s life, they learn to trust, respond to and return love, and understand how it feels to be loved. A sense - [The “Trust” Issue](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-trust-issue/) - Kristi Kane Have you ever seen a house or building being demolished? It takes very little time to do. But to build a home or a building requires so much: a lot of money, labor, materials, building permits, inspections and time. The finished product can take three months or three years depending on the size - [Sy Mao’s Advice for Growing Rice (and Children)](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/sy-maos-advice-for-growing-rice-and-children/) - Rice is the most important crop in the world. These tips will help you raise your rice properly. Growing rice is challenging but not impossible. It takes patience, care, and a tremendous amount of work. Even though rice adapts to many environments, it needs plenty of sunshine, water, and nutrients to thrive. Rice comes in - [Why Should a Woman be More Like a Man?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/feminism/why-should-a-woman-be-more-like-a-man/) - Elise Ellsworth “Why can’t a woman be more like a man?” This is the famous lament of Professor Henry Higgins in the movie, My Fair Lady. Thoroughly discouraged by his inability to understand women, Professor Higgins sings this tongue-in-cheek melody about how the world might be a better place if women became more like men. - [Who’s it Really Hurting Anyway?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/media/whos-it-really-hurting-anyway/) - Cameron Conyers Deadly Affairs, Deadly Women, Beauty Queen Murders, Southern Fried Homicide, and Wives with Knives. These are all names of popular television shows that are readily available, day or night, for young adults, children, and families to view. Whatever happened to wholesome shows like I Love Lucy, The Brady Bunch, Leave it to Beaver, - [Religious Liberty Laws and Gay Rights](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/religious-liberty-laws-and-gay-rights/) - Diane RobertsonToday gay rights and religious liberty are at odds. To promote their legal agenda, the gay rights movement has often and frequently equated itself to the civil rights movement. But are homosexual people really facing the same issues that the African-Americans faced previous to the civil rights movement. Does it really behoove government to - [Land of the 47th Most Free and Home of the Weak?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/land-of-the-47th-most-free-and-home-of-the-weak/) - Rebecca Mallory Did that headline sink in? Yup. It was announced this week that America now has the 47th most free press in the world. What about the First Amendment to the constitution declaring Freedom of Speech and of a Free press? It's being completely trashed by the government and public education attempting to rewrite - [Godlessness and Destroying Families: the Fertile Soil for Totalitarianism](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/godlessness-and-destroyed-families-the-fertile-soil-for-totalitarianism/) - Maddi Gillel Why do weakened/destroyed families and the destruction of a belief in God allow a totalitarian government to flourish? It tears down the walls of defense and strength that these institutions provide. The following are some of the goals of Communism for the United States: Continue discrediting American culture by degrading all forms of - [Divorce Isn’t Declining; Marriages Are.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/divorce-isnt-declining-marriages-are/) - Matt Carter In our society we often follow what is going on in the lives of celebrities. From the fight that Justin Bieber had with a DJ to Miley Cyrus breaking up with Liam Hemsworth. There is something always happening with celebrities, and far too often it is celebrity couples getting divorced. For example not - [Parents’ devotion a source of courage for mother and daughter facing daily adversity](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/parents-devotion-a-source-of-courage-for-mother-and-daughter-facing-daily-adversity/) - Born with congenital double kidneys, Debbie McNaughton faced frequent high fevers and infections growing up—she was a constant concern for her parents, who moved her to their room to fully attend to her at night. When her fever would spike, her mother would wipe her forehead with a cool cloth as her father held her - [Welcome to Child Protective "Of Our Own Jobs" Services](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/welcome-to-child-protective-of-our-own-jobs-services/) - Rebecca Mallory “Hello. I’m from the government. I’m here to help.” Is anyone as fed up with government trying to “help” as I am? Last week’s blog post recounted the horrific story of Justina Pelletier who has been cruelly taken from her parents by doctors and a government who, of course,knew better. Thank heaven - [2014 the Dirty Dozen List](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/2014-the-dirty-dozen-list/) - Rachel Allison A good friend of mine is fighting Agenda 21. Another friend is educating neighbors and friends on our Constitution and its guaranteed freedoms. My neighbor down the street shelters dogs in need of a good home. I learned years ago, that there aren’t enough hours in the day or days in the week - [My Latest Shower Debate](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/aids/my-latest-shower-debate/) - -Holly Gardner The internet and I have a love/hate thing going on. It got me through junior high, high school, college, job hunting, Sunday lesson planning, worry-wart mothering, hobbies, genealogy, my Pinterest phase… I mean, I am an internet fan! Good, wonderful, informative, uplifting, uniting, blessed things can come from the internet! But the internet - [Discovering self-worth in a visual-centered world](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/discovering-self-worth-in-a-visual-centered-world-2/) - In a media age that bombards youth with images of what they should look like and gives false importance to outer beauty, it can be challenging to instill in young minds a true sense of inner strength and beauty. How can fathers and mothers compete with the seemingly endless flow of lies that lead to - [The "Fix" that is Forgotten](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/cohabitation/the-fix-that-is-forgotten/) - Ann Bailey One third of all women living in the countries that comprise the European Union have experienced some form of physical or sexual violence since the age of 15. This according to a new survey based on interviews with 42,000 women. That’s a staggering number and the study attributes this scourge to “domestic violence.” - [Because I'm Happy!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/because-im-happy/) - Rebecca Mallory Yes, despite the yucky stuff bombarding us each day, I AM happy! And since March 20, 2014 is the "International Day of Happiness", what better subject to write about? You need to watch a great youTube video by Pharell Williams that is sure to make you smile. Just can't listen to that - [The War We Must Win](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-war-we-must-win/) - Rachel Allison Four sons, one son-in-law, and five grandsons are reason enough to be concerned about the plague of pornography that is so available on our computers, “smart” phones, tablets, and every other devise that can access the internet. Because of the availability, addictions can be developed and fed almost any time and anywhere. Several - [Kitchen in Every Home: How a Utah Case Stands Poised to Alter the Structure of Marriage Law in Every State](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/kitchen-in-every-home-how-a-utah-case-stands-poised-to-alter-the-structure-of-marriage-law-in-every-state/) - Elise Ellsworth On April 10, 2014, the 10th Circuit will hear the case Kitchen v. Herbert, a case challenging Utah’s Amendment 3 constitutional ban on the marriage of same-sex couples. This follows the holding in the United States District Court for the District of Utah that found the state’s ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional. The - [Hollywood's best isn't good enough](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/aids/hollywoods-best-isnt-good-enough/) - Kristi Kane Do you ever look forward to the weekend because you know an outstanding movie is coming out? I haven't felt that way in a very long time. The 86th Academy Awards which took place on the first Sunday of this month, left me feeling as nauseated as I have been for the past - [Through being loved I learned to love](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/adoption-2/through-being-loved-i-learned-to-love/) - At age eight, Amelia Belchior woke up in her home in Marromeu, Mozambique to learn that her mother had passed away—a short 15 months after losing her father. She and her two-year-old brother were left without parental love and guidance. In the orphanage system, they learned to gain confidence in household work; however, in Amelia’s - [CSW and Sexual Rights](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/csw-and-sexual-rights/) - Diane Robertson The Commission on the Status of Women (CWS) is a functional commission of the United Nations Economic and Social Council (ECOSOC). Each year delegates from 45 countries meet at the U.N. headquarters in NY to formulate concrete policies on women worldwide. Volunteers from United Families International just spent the past week in NYC - [Face to Face with Radical Feminists](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/face-to-face-with-radical-feminists/) - The United Nations process provides a startling contrast to anyone familiar with the legislative process at the state or federal level. There are no elected officials or constituents, there is no constitution, little accountability, and everyone seems to be doing whatever they want. One of our UFI team members calls it “institutionalized chaos.” Yet the - [Healthy Choices Include Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/cohabitation/healthy-choices-include-marriage/) - Stephanie Hubbard Over the past four years I have lived the typical college lifestyle. I thrived on ramen and macaroni, pulled several all-nighters and amazingly functioned on little sleep. Not only did I endure the physical deprivations to my health, but also withstood the psychological stress associated with college life. Anyone who has gone to - [Don't get mad. Get the camera!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/dont-get-mad-get-the-camera/) - Young children are naturally curious as they grow and learn to explore the world around them. Their investigative minds may see the wonder of flour being spilled onto the kitchen floor for finger drawings or discover in Mom’s makeup bag a new set of art tools for the bathroom sink or mirror. As adults, we - [What Can I Do?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/what-can-i-do/) - Diane Robertson There are many people out there that want to help with the fight against radical feminism, the sexualizing of children, and the destruction of religious freedom but do not know what to do. They do not even know where to begin. If you are that person, you are not alone. Be assured, this - [Feminist No More](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/feminism/feminist-no-more/) - Tashica Jacobson I used to consider myself a feminist. I have always thought that I could and should be able to do pretty much whatever a boy could. Even when it comes to dating I always offer to pay for myself and I have even straight out told guys not to open my door. Recently - [Finding the Blue Bird](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/finding-the-blue-bird/) - In 1908, Maurice Maeterlinck published the play, “The Blue Bird: A Fairy Play in Six Acts.” The story is about a young boy Tyltyl and his sister Mytyl who receive a quest from the Fairy Berylune to find the blue bird of happiness for a sick child. To help them in their search, the Fairy - [The Price of Citizenship!?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/civil-unions/the-price-of-citizenship/) - The role of the Supreme Court in checks and balances is to stop acts of the President, laws of Congress or of states that break a rule in the Constitution. One rule of the constitution is found in the first amendment of the Bill of Rights which states, “Congress shall make no law respecting an - [Myth Buster: Men earn more than women for the same job](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/feminism/myth-buster-monday-men-earn-more-than-women-for-the-same-job/) - “Women make only 77% of what men earn for equal work.” The percentage in statements like this changes from year to year, but the misperception doesn’t. People deeply vested in feminism still try to convince the population that women are suffering from workplace discrimination. Perhaps the most thought provoking and logical challenge to this mindset - [Does Freedom Matter To Families?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/does-freedom-matter-to-families/) - Maddi Gillel On a fairly regular basis, we hear the phrase “we’re losing our freedoms.” Do we understand what that means? Do our eyes glaze over? Do we ask ourselves ‘okay, so what do we do about it’? Let me give you just a few examples of what’s going on right now in our country. - [Why Fight for Religious Freedom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/why-fight-for-religious-freedom/) - “We must respect other religions, even as we respect our own. Mere tolerance thereof is not enough.” -Ghandi Why Religion and Religious Freedom is Important Close your eyes and imagine for a moment that you have, somehow, lost the use of your arms, or legs, or eyes. How would that feel? What would it be - [Considering the standards by which we measure our parenting](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/considering-the-standards-by-which-we-measure-our-parenting/) - Last weekend I found myself sleeping on a grass field under the stars. Living in west Los Angeles, it’s a rare opportunity to see the stars between nights blanketed in ocean fog or the dimming effect of the city lights. But on this night, flanked by sleeping Boy Scouts scattered across a grassy field, clusters - [When Children No Longer Matter](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/when-children-no-longer-matter/) - Diane Robertson How would a community respond if their school district or school allowed adults to come into the school and walk around naked? What if there was a naked day at the school where adults were allowed to come and parade nude around the school, but parents were allowed to opt their children out - [Marriage: A Reflection After Fifteen Years](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/birth-rate/marriage-a-reflection-after-fifteen-years/) - Elise Ellsworth Next week my husband and I will celebrate fifteen years of marriage together. Our marriage has weathered the births of seven children, four college degrees, eleven moves (four of them cross-country), job losses, being hit by a tornado, too many emergency room trips to count (we have six boys) and a host of - [Modern-Day Slavery: One Man's Story](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/our-rescue/) - Rebecca Mallory What if you could be a hero and save an innocent child from the jaws of evil right now? I'm going to tell you how. Early this morning I was driving home and was listening to the Glenn Beck program. My ears perked up when he mentioned the name of a friend of - [Helping our children to become the best version of themselves through work](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/helping-our-children-to-become-the-best-version-of-themselves-through-work/) - Kristi Kane Recently I was reviewing my year's posts on Facebook. One of the things I'd written was during Christmastime, and it said, “I never want to ask my children to do another chore again. I can't handle the whining and complaining, so I think I'll sell all of their Christmas gifts and hire a - [You Never Existed...Or Did You?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/you-never-existed-or-did-you/) - Alicia Alley and Erica Arguello Take a minute and think about the one person you enjoy spending time with; maybe it’s your wife, your husband, your mom or dad, a close friend, or a sibling. Now think of why you enjoy spending time with them. Is it because they make you laugh, help you feel - [Parenting: A Couple Effort](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/birth-rate/parenting-a-couple-effort/) - Diane Robertson As a stay at home mom of 9 children, I get many people asking me the question, “How do you do it?” My answer is simple. I do not do it alone. I am a stay at home mom of many children only because I am married and my husband and I have - [Make Your Child Addiction Resistant](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/make-your-child-addiction-resistant/) - Ann Bailey There is a surprising way to strengthen your child’s resistance to addiction – take consistent family vacations. They don’t have to be elaborate and expensive vacations either. But the vacations do need to be yearly and they need to put your family together for at least a week. Jeff Murdock, family therapist at - [FREEDOM THROUGHOUT HISTORY -WHAT DOES IT TAKE](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/freedom-throughout-history-what-does-it-take/) - Maddi Gillel There is consistency and warning of great men throughout history - from Cicero to leaders in the 20th century – of what it takes to preserve freedom and what it takes to destroy it.. I believe we must head their warning for I cannot imagine my children and grandchildren growing up in an - [Pornography, Boiling Water, and You](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/pornography/pornography-boiling-water-and-you/) - Jennifer Luu & Jessica Madrid In today’s society, many of us have grown up hearing the parable of the Frog and the Boiling Water. So for just a moment, picture if you would, a frog placed into a pot of boiling water, the frog will hop immediately out of that pot due to the high - [Babies Don't Keep](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/babies-dont-keep/) - Liz Mackay It was a typical Monday morning with children to awaken and help prepare for the day, lunches to pack, laundry to oversee, vacuuming to start. As I moved forward to accomplish these needed tasks, my two youngest children kept coming up and petitioning me to play a game with them, or to build - [Common Core: Removing Creativity](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/common-core-removing-creativity/) - Diane Robertson Many parents across the nation are wary, worried, and bemused by the new Common Core standards. An important part of Common Core is the standardized testing. To prepare students for the tests, school administrators are enforcing strict instruction for much of the school day. One such school, the Harley Avenue Primary School in - [Why Capitalism is Crucial to your Child's Future](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/why-capitalism-is-crucial-to-your-childs-future/) - Rebecca Mallory No doubt you've heard the recent debates over capitalism. It is the American way and has been since its inception. Recently, however, many speak of capitalism in disparaging terms; that it is somehow unfair, that it promotes greed and robs the very worker that propelled certain businesses to success. It is so frustrating - [A Waste of Talent](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/a-waste-of-talent/) - Maryn Holladay My husband subscribes to Bloomberg Businessweek. This magazine and I have a good thing going on. Like weekly clockwork: the magazine arrives, I thumb through, I focus on a fascinating article or two (or six), and a few minutes (or… longer) later, I feel rather amazed at the ingenuity of some of my - [There is always hope. (Suicide prevention)](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/there-is-always-hope-suicide-prevention/) - Kristi Kane A year ago last April, our community was left struggling after a teenage boy in my daughter's school (one who she knew personally and was friends with) took his life. A dark shadow cast itself on all who knew him. I found myself thinking, “His prom was just last night. What happened? Why - [To my everyday mother](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/to-my-everyday-mother/) - [vimeo 92773428 w=500 h=281] To my everyday mother from - [Good News!!!!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/good-news/) - Diane Robertson Monday morning the Supreme Court finally came out with a ruling on the case of Town of Greece v Galloway. This case had the potential to end all forms of public prayer throughout the nation. In a 5 to 4 ruling with the justices divided on the usual liberal/conservative lines, the court ruled - [A Legacy of Strength](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/a-legacy-of-strenth/) - Jessica Sabin Gloria Steinem, one of the leaders in the modern feminist movement, once said. “We need to remember across generations that there is as much to learn as there is to teach.” So today we must ask ourselves, “What will the women who come after me learn from my generation?” “What is it that - [Happy Mother's Day: Enjoy some great videos!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/happy-mothers-day-enjoy-some-great-videos/) - [youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKc2-hEsbOQ&w=560&h=315] [youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQ4TPn8hjxI&w=560&h=315] [youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-a95v5zoQk&w=560&h=315] [youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HB3xM93rXbY&w=560&h=315] - [DOES ANYONE WANT A WORM?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/does-anyone-want-a-worm/) - Maddi Gillel There are two stories I would like to tell you about: one is about my 7 year old grandson, and the other is about me when I was in the 3rd grade. My grandson, James, likes to walk off moping and saying “Everybody hates me.” I know the song that has this phrase - [Obama Administration Includes “Transgender” in Title IX](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/obama-administration-includes-transgender-in-title-ix/) - Diane Robertson In 1972 federal law makers came up with a law known as Title IX that prohibits discrimination in education based on sex (gender). The idea behind the law was that any educational program receiving federal funding had to apply the programs to both boys and girls. In April 2014, the Obama administration decided - ["SOAP" and other Four-Letter Words"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/soap-and-other-four-letter-words/) - Rebecca Mallory What's the big deal with using four-letter words, swearing, etc? And who the heck (is that bad??) gets to decide what swearing is anyway? At age 7, I remember doing dishes with my older sister, Jean, who coaxed me into yelling "fanny!" at the top of my lungs for which I received a tasty bar of gold - [Mending the Unraveled Family: Forgiveness and Its Restorative Power](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/mending-the-unraveled-family-forgiveness-and-its-restorative-power/) - Elise Ellsworth Years ago in a class on family relationships someone asked the students what they liked about their childhood family. There were many varied responses but we all paused for a moment when one respondent offered a unique response - “forgiveness.” Most families have their share of fights, mistakes, grievances and yes, even those - [Civics 101: Would you pass the test to become a United States Citizen?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/civics-101-would-you-pass-the-test-to-become-a-united-states-citizen/) - Kristi Kane The United States is a melting pot. I learned that years ago in United States History class. We have immigrants from just about every country in the world. Most are from Europe (like my ancestors), some are from Africa, some from Central and South America, some from Asia, some from Canada. My paternal - [Marriage Chaos and Judicial Fiat](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/marriage-chaos-and-judicial-fiat/) - Diane Robertson Last June the Supreme Court made two rulings on same sex marriage : United States v. Windsor (DOMA) , and Hollingsworth v. Perry (Proposition 8). In the case of DOMA, the Supreme Court ruled that the US government could not withhold federal benefits from legally married same sex couples because it interfered in - [The ‘Gay’ Love Story Does Not Have a Happy Ending](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/aids/the-gay-love-story-does-not-have-a-happy-ending/) - Maddi Gillel Have you noticed that often, in our society, things are not as advertised, reported, or perceived? There is usually more to the story than a casual observation.-few subjects more so than the gay lifestyle. The following is a link to a testimonial of this: http://barbwire.com/2014/05/17/love-story-happy-ending/ - [Not about Adult Needs – It’s about Children!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/father/not-about-adult-needs-its-about-children/) - Caitlin Woolbert & Alera Saul The legalization of same sex marriages has become one of the most polarizing political debates in American history, perhaps more so even then that of abortion rights. No one thinks women’s reproductive rights are unimportant regardless of the side you’re on; it’s time we recognize Gay Rights are not simply - [More on the “Price of Citizenship”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/more-on-the-price-of-citizenship/) - Diane Robertson Just how far will government and government agencies go to enforce complete acceptance of gay marriage from everyone? The story of the Washington State based florist, Barronelle Stutzman illustrates the measures taken to enforce someone to accept and participate in gay marriage. In March of 2013, Baronelle Stutzman, owner of Alrene Flowers, refused - [School's Out For Summer!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/schools-out-for-summer/) - Rebecca Mallory Do you think Alice Cooper was forewarning us about Common Core with that annoying song, incessantly repeated every May by school kids across the fruited plain? I wonder how our parents would have reacted when they yelled at us to, "Turn that horrid music down! You shouldn't be listening to that trash anyway!" - [Do children need to be enrolled in pre-school/pre-K programs in order to be competitive and successful in school?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/do-children-need-to-be-enrolled-in-pre-schoolpre-k-programs-in-order-to-be-competitive-and-successful-in-school/) - While enrollment of children in pre-schools and kindergarten is for the most part optional, “early learning” advocates and the daycare lobbyists continue in their efforts to make preschool mandatory. These folks insist that pre-K programs promote “school readiness” and if you want your child to have the greatest opportunity for success in school– you must - [Civics 101: Would you pass the test to become a United States Citizen, part 2](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/civics-101-would-you-pass-the-test-to-become-a-united-states-citizen-part-2/) - Kristi Kane Two weeks ago, I wrote my first blog on Civics 101. It consisted of the first 25 questions (out of 100), for the “Civics flash cards for the naturalization test.” In today’s blog, you will be quizzed on questions 26-50. People who would like to become legal citizens of the United States of - [From frustration to Hope: Shift your parenting paradigm"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/from-frustration-to-hope-shift-your-parenting-paradigm/) - Nathalie Bowman Let's face it: Parenthood can be stinky at times. It doesn't always look like we think it should. I remember the day my first child was born, 20 years ago. A daughter. She was the most darling thing on the planet. (If you have children, you've felt the same, right?) I looked into - [Poll: What Is Morally Acceptable?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/poll-on-moral-acceptability/) - For the past 12 years Gallup has been conducting a poll on moral acceptability in America. Gallup published the 2014 results on May 30th. This year’s findings are a disturbing indication of the break down in the general morality of the American public. Contraceptives are largely accepted as moral by nearly all Americans. Additionally between - [Genderally Crazy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/sexual-orientation-2/genderally-crazy/) - By Ann Bailey Have we gone mad or are we just genderally crazy? I have to wonder after all the recent headlines I’ve been reading. Check these articles out. 1. HHS board rules transgender Medicare recipients can seek coverage for sex-change surgery Now tax-payers will be required to pay for a man or a - [A Meal that Mattered](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/a-meal-that-mattered/) - Jenica Ostler My mother worked hard to be an attentive and thoughtful woman. While I lived in her home I watched her make decisions time and time again based on what she had observed would make others happy. Many of these decisions were made in the kitchen. She enjoys cooking and showed her love to - [Are You In?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/9663/) - Kimberly Bigler It was a cool, crisp September night as my husband and I drove to a small town in southeast Idaho. Our cheeks were stained with tears and quiet sobs filled the car. Although we had only been married six months, we found ourselves contemplating: “My needs are not being met. I am unhappy. - [Making the Most of Mistakes](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/making-the-most-of-mistakes/) - Nathalie Bowman Yesterday morning, as we were getting ready for church, my three-year-old daughter climbed up onto the counter in the bathroom where I was putting on my lipstick. In her sweet little voice, she told me her lips were dry, and before I knew it, she had the container of coconut oil open, dipping - [Fathers are Necessary and Honorable](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/fathers-are-necessary-and-honorable/) - Diane Robertson Fatherhood is noble. Despite the fact that popular movies tend to make fathers out to be stupid or incapable, mothers, children, and society need fathers. Mothers need fathers present. When I had my first baby it did not take me long to realize just how much my little daughter needed her father. Having - [What are You Worth?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/what-are-you-worth/) - Rebecca Mallory I don't understand art. I mean real art. I can look at the Mona Lisa or a Rembrandt and think it is beautiful and interesting, but I marvel that a piece could cost millions of dollars. I realize it's my own ignorance, and you may be aghast at my apparent lack of couth. - [THE INVISIBLE WOMAN-WHEN ONLY GOD SEES](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-invisible-woman-when-only-god-sees/) - Maddi Gillel In her story, “The Invisible Woman”, Nicole Johnson likens the mother’s role to that of the builders of the great cathedrals. She reminds us that those builders made great sacrifices to build a cathedral ‘they would never see finished.’ Though their individual efforts were ‘invisible’ to the world, their actions were ‘fueled by - [Living or Dead Love?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/living-or-dead-love/) - Nathalie Bowman Think about the last time you were out and about in a public place, perhaps at the grocery store, park, mall, library, church, museum….. Did you notice any mothers and their children? What were these families doing? What were the interactions like between mother and child or the interactions between siblings? Have you - [Executive Order for Non-Discrimination](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/executive-order-for-non-discrimination/) - Diane Robertson President Obama announced plans Monday to sign an executive order that would add homosexuality and transgender as a protected class for the employees of federal contractors. With ENDA stalled in the House, the President decided to act unilaterally to make this part of the law. The President will not immediately sign the order - ["Collaborating with Madness"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/sexual-orientation-2/collaborating-with-madness/) - "Policy makers and the media are doing no favors either to the public or the transgendered by treating their confusions as a right in need of defending rather than as a mental disorder that deserves understanding, treatment and prevention." Now that's the statement of a very brave man because he just delivered a fatal blow - [A Careful Watch](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/a-careful-watch/) - Holly King Mom and Dad loved getting to know our friends, and in the case of my sisters and me, they especially liked getting to know the boys we were spending time with. Oftentimes, my dad would offer summer jobs to our friends. My dad owns a small business as an arborist. His crew of - [Cohabitation: Marriage Suicide?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/cohabitation/cohabitation-marriage-suicide/) - Jennifer and her boyfriend had lived together for more than four years before they were married. She and her husband had a lavish wine-country wedding. The wedding was attended by the couple’s friends, families, and two dogs. Less than a year later, she was looking for a divorce lawyer. Jennifer said, “I spent more time - [Living Love: It starts with You!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/living-love-it-starts-with-you/) - Nathalie Bowman "Mommy, let's paint it purple!" my daughter exclaimed as we were playing at a school playground on a Saturday morning. She handed me an imaginary paintbrush and pointed to where I should paint. Together, we "painted" the metal bars. We were princesses, painting our castle purple. It was a joyful morning, playing with - [Waiting on Another Religious Liberty Case at the Supreme Court](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/waiting-on-another-religious-liberty-case-at-the-supreme-court/) - Diane Robertson We live in an age of entitlement. People believe they are owed things by the government or others. Unfortunately, we live in an age where the government typically agrees with this attitude of entitlement. Regardless of the desires and convictions of anyone else, many people feel what they want is most important and - [Me? Start a Business? How?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/me-start-a-business-how/) - Rebecca Mallory You've heard it said a million times: "There are two kinds of people. Those who make it happen and those who sit back and watch it happen." That is so true! I asked some people this past week what they would love to see in this blog. One mother of four boys said, - [Common Core: Ushering in Sodom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/common-core-ushering-in-sodom/) - Roseann Salanitri on June 25, 2014 in Faith & Family, Last year I wrote an article entitled “Resurrecting Sodom”[i]. In it I chronicled seven events in our nation’s history that I believed were leading us down a path that would end at Sodom’s front door. The advent of Common Core State Standards has made it advisable to revisit - [Civics 101: Would you pass the test to become an American Citizen? (Part Three)](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/civics-101-would-you-pass-the-test-to-become-an-american-citizen-part-three/) - Kristi Kane What are two rights of everyone living in the United States? Freedom of expression, freedom of speech, freedom of assembly, freedom to petition the government, freedom to worship, the right to bear arms. What do we show loyalty to when we say the Pledge of Allegiance? - [Marriage and the "Living Love" Potential](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/divorce/marriage-and-the-living-love-potential/) - Nathalie Bowman (Note: this is the second in a three part series. Click Here for the introduction of Living Love, and here for Part 1: It starts with you) Have you ever driven on the freeway through pelting rain? Where I live, it doesn't rain like that very often, and when it does, - [Win at the Supreme Court](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/win-at-the-supreme-court/) - Diane Robertson Monday morning in the west, we awoke to the good news that the Supreme Court actually sided with Hobby Lobby and Conestoga Wood!! These companies and other companies that can show “closely held” religious beliefs can opt out of the HHS contraceptive mandate. A win for religious freedom—yes! A sweeping win for religious - [Stink-Bug Fudge: Now Approved for all Appropriate Audiences](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/stink-bug-fudge-now-approved-for-all-appropriate-audiences/) - Samantha Anderson When my grandpa, Leland, was 10 years-old, sugar was hard to come by, so sweets were particularly special. On one occasion, Leland was left alone while his parents were preparing to entertain company. Seizing this opportunity, he decided to make fudge in order to surprise his parents when they came back. So he - [Feminism & Diversity](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/feminism/feminism-diversity/) - Emily Bleazard America is based upon the principle of equality. We all want to be treated with the same respect as the next person. The feminist movement stemmed from that pure idea of equality and yet society holds such a negative attitude towards feminism. Generally, Americans tend to be on board with civil rights and - [Religious Freedom and Knowledge](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/religious-freedom-and-knowledge/) - Diane Robertson In a speech at Independence Hall on the Fourth of July, Vice President, Joe Biden, declared that gay marriage is “the civil rights issue of our day”, stating that it is, ”clear that you should be able to marry whoever you love — period.” Accusing the Founding Fathers and signers of the Declaration - [Junior's Achievement](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/juniors-achievement-2-of-3-in-a-series-of-entrepreneurial-adventure/) - (2 of 3 in a Series of Entrepreneurial Adventure) by Rebecca Mallory It's been two weeks since you started your own business, right? Or perhaps you've been waiting patiently for the "how to's" in launching your teen into entrepreneurial success. You're in luck, because today, we're going to start that process. You may not even - [The Rope of Good Intention](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-rope-of-good-intention/) - Nathalie BowmanAudrey was a happy go lucky child with a vivid imagination and loved making other people happy. She had dreams and talents galore-or at least she thought she did. As she grew up, she began to focus on the things she liked most. She wanted to be a cheerleader more than anything. She knew - [More than two Parents: Not so New and Not so Enlightened](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/more-than-two-parents-not-so-new-and-not-so-enlightened/) - Diane Robertson In 2013 California made it legally possible for children to have more than two parents. More states will surely follow suit. The diversity-in-family-structure-loving-liberals think this is enlightened. They’re working hard to bring society out of the dark ages of Married mother and father families into the “Brave New World” of many parents. Except - [Let’s talk politics, without talking politics.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/lets-talk-politics-without-talking-politics/) - by Holly GardnerEvery day, as I drive around running errands and visiting family, I see campaign sign after campaign sign on every stinking corner and in a lot of front yards. It’s an election year and the races for State Representatives, State Senators, School Superintendent, and even Governor are not hard to miss. In election years - [The Unthinkable: Not for Your Child](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-unthinkable-not-for-your-child/) - Having to live through sexual abuse as a child is one of the hardest things to have to deal with, and can really impact a child’s life. To have an uncle that you thought loved you so much but then to realize that he loved you too much, and then to have your father loving - [Let It Go...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/let-it-go/) - Nathalie Bowman Letting go of the Rope of Good Intention and letting love in can be a challenge, but it can be done, and it will be freeing for both the parent and the child! The following are four ways to begin letting go of the rope, and letting love in your family and your relationships - [No Religious Exemptions](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/no-religious-exemptions/) - “ Diane Robertson "President Obama’s overreaching executive order is the latest example illustrating that the very government that the Constitution charges with protecting religious freedom is now the primary threat to religious freedom. The administration has brazenly bypassed Congress and declared that the only religious non-profit organizations it will do business with - [THE FUNDING OF ABORTION (YOU’LL BE SURPRISED)](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-funding-of-abortion-youll-be-surprised/) - by Maddi Gillel Simple lines of black and white and right and wrong have been blurred. The old institutions are not what they used to be and the new organizations are, many times, also suspect. I am well aware that there have been what is known as ‘shake downs’ in the U.S. in - [Grab a Hold of Inspiring Parenting](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/grab-a-hold-of-inspiring-parenting/) - Kids don't come with an instruction manual, but there are some simple tips to help all of us become more effective parents. Nathalie Bowman Any parent who has joyfully welcomed a baby into their family knows the feeling of excitement and love that comes with seeing their child for the very first time. The wonder - [Joining the 21st Century](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/joining-the-21st-century/) - Are your beliefs regarding marriage as being one man and one woman really so prehistoric? Diane Robertson If you believe that marriage should not be redefined or perhaps that children need both their mother and their father, then it is possible you have been told to “come into the 21st century”. I have heard such - [No Good Document Goes Unpunished](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/no-good-document-goes-unpunished/) - Wouldn’t it be great if the United Nations would adopt a resolution recognizing that “the family is the natural and fundamental group unit of society?” Laura Bunker That is exactly what happened a few weeks ago in Geneva. In observance of the 20th anniversary of the International Year of the Family, the UN Human Rights - [Same-Sex Marriage: Harmless or Harmful?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/same-sex-marriage-harmless-or-harmful/) - Which parent - mom or dad - would you like to do without? Is same-sex marriage as harmless as its proponents claim? April Poulter and Jessica Widenhouse Have you ever sat on a high balcony of an auditorium while attending a play, or stood in the nosebleed section of a baseball stadium while watching a - [Fill the Love Bank with Play](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/fill-the-love-bank-with-play/) - by Nathalie Bowman It was a beautiful Sunday afternoon. Dinner was over and my husband and I remained at the table, enjoying a conversation without the noise of the family. I glanced out the window and watched three of my sons and my daughter play on the trampoline. There was an intense battle going on - [Federal Courts on Same Sex Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/civil-unions/federal-courts-on-same-sex-marriage/) - Tuesday, Utah became the first of many states to make an appeal to the Supreme Court to review its marriage laws. by Diane Robertson The 10th Circuit court overturned marriage laws in Utah and Oklahoma in the past two months. The 4th Circuit overturned Virginia’s laws last week, and the 6th Circuit court will hear - [But wait! There's More.... 3 of 3 Starting Your Own Business](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/but-wait-theres-more-3-of-3-starting-your-own-business/) - Rebecca MalloryCalling all entrepreneurs and enthusiastic creative people! It's finally time to put all the suggestions of our last two blog posts into practice and start that business. Just to recall our advance preparation, we've learned to put some pretty basic, but tried and true principles into practice:Be 100% honest in all your dealings,Be frugal - [Principles that Impact](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/principles-that-impact/) - Maddi Gillel Principle- a comprehensive and fundamental law, doctrine, or assumption-a rule or code of conduct-a habitual devotion to right principles—a distinguishable ingredient that exhibits or imparts a characteristic quality. Virtue-strength-conformity to a standard of right-moral excellence-beneficial quality or power-strength/courage- a capacity to ayt – chastity especially in a woman. Value – degree of excellence - [The Truth About Porn](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-truth-about-porn/) - By: Kristen Jan Heimuli It’s a $57 billion a year industry worldwide; $12 billion right here in the U.S. Its revenue is larger than all combined revenues of professional basketball, football, and baseball franchises. It transcends the combined revenues of ABC, CBS, and NBC networks. With over 372 million web pages, it takes up 12 - [Religious Freedom: A Human Right](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/religious-freedom-a-human-right/) - by Diane RobertsonIn the United States, there has been a battle of words and ideas that has extended to the legislatures and into the court houses. Many people have felt called upon to fight the battle for religious freedom. These people want to be able to worship in their homes, in their businesses, in their - [Learning from the Past](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/learning-from-the-past/) - Uni - [Is there ever a time when I can't legally end the life of my unborn child?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/is-there-ever-a-time-when-i-cant-legally-end-the-life-of-my-unborn-child/) - There are nine states in the U.S. where it is legal to end the life of an unborn child up until the moment of birth. Most people in the U.S. assume that abortion is available to women only under limited circumstances and time frames. But this info-graphic, created by "On-line for Life," reveals a very - [Grandmother’s Wisdom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/grandmothers-wisdom/) - by Nathalie BowmanLast week my grandmother passed away peacefully in her sleep. She was almost 92 years old. Grandmothers have wonderful life lessons to share.The wisdom of Grandma Nielsen:Gambling is NOT allowed. One year, when I was 16 or 17, one of my favorite cousins was surprised I didn’t know how to play poker, so - [Debating Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/debating-marriage/) - by Diane RobertsonAs the many marriage cases move through the court system supporters of marriage often find themselves in conversations in which they must defend their stance on marriage and family. This can be a very stressful conversation. Even the best and smartest debaters risk losing friends, isolating family members, or becoming victim to harsh - [You Might Be a Racist…](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/you-might-be-a-racist/) - by Rebecca Mallory Do you believe in the constitution, individual rights, adhering to and obeying the law of the land? If so, you might well be a racist. Yup. You could be a bigot, homophobe racist. You’re labeled simply for your core beliefs in rugged individualism and personal responsibility. If you’re patriotic and still get - [IT IS NOT COOL TO BE A FOOL!!!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/it-is-not-cool-to-be-a-fool/) - Maddi GillelWe have all known those in life and in cinema who were naturally fools, deliberate fools, and fools by default. Napoleon Dynamite is a funny movie. My husband and children and I have had our share of laughs at some of the lines and situations in this movie. It is only the fact that - [Male, Female, Etc.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/male-female-etc/) - Kristen Jan Heimuli The popular phrases, “It’s a boy!” and “It’s a girl!” are now outdated, old-fashioned themes for baby showers everywhere.Gender has moved from two types to over 50. In fact, as of February of this year, Facebook has provided a list of 58 gender options users can select from when creating their Facebook account. - [Your Life of Happiness](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/your-life-of-happiness/) - Nathalie BowmanLet’s face it. We live busy lives. Run here. Run there. Drop off the kids. Pick them up. Pick up dinner, put the kids to bed, wake them up, get them to school, and do it all over again. When does the routine end and life begin? Do you ever feel like you could - [Consequences of a Sexually Desensitized Society](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/consequences-of-a-sexually-desensitized-society/) - Tashica JacobsenIn a review of many scholarly journals studying negative effects on youth, sexual promiscuity and early sexual activity, are listed as a risk factor along with drug use, delinquent behavior, and violence. However, society is now changing its standards, and is actually encouraging what once was considered (and still is) a risk factor. The - [Attentive to Habit](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/attentive-to-habit/) - My father wanted me to be as well prepared for life as I could be. He was attentive and took time to correct misconduct when needed. He was home enough, and I was into mischief enough, that it seemed I was in “the doghouse” throughout my childhood. He was not austere but was simply unable - [A Personal Stand Against Child Abuse](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/a-personal-stand-against-child-abuse/) - The article was shocking. It was a story of a mentally handicapped boy who was seen being pushed by his father while at a local school. Officers took a closer look into this situation and found that the boy “smelled of urine and feces.” He was unable to lift his head and looked severely malnourished. - [Is the "Ideal" for Real?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/motherhood-2/is-the-ideal-for-real/) - If you could create the ideal home for your family, what would that look like? What would it include? By Nathalie Bowman Think about this question in terms of the physical ideal if you’d like, but more importantly, think about the environment you’d like to create. What is the feeling in your home when you - [5 Myths of Marriage All Millennials Need to Know](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/5-myths-of-marriage-all-millennials-need-to-know/) - I'll bet you’ve heard that half of all marriages end in divorce and that most marriages are unhappy. In fact we are so used to hearing this that, of course, we all believe it. Most of us probably believe that, while this is not the case in their family or in their circle of friends, - [You're Being Manipulated](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/youre-being-manipulated/) - By Rebecca Mallory Whoever invented the DVR deserves every dime they get. I hope they made millions because that is the greatest invention in years. I can't even remember when I last watched a television commercial. Heavenly. I would even be so bold as to say that commercials do not influence me a bit. I - [Too Many People...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/too-many-people/) - The next time you think that everyone else sees the world as you do, remember the following. http://freedomoutpost.com/2014/08/30-population-control-quotes-show-elite-truly-believe-humans-plague-upon-earth/ - [Keep it REAL](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/child-abuse/keep-it-real/) - Kristen Jan Heimuli Picture this: your significant other comes to pick you up for a romantic date. It's obvious they took forever to look good just for you. You can see enthusiasm all over their face when they get to your front door. Meanwhile, all you can think about is how they don't compare with the - [Endurance](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/birth-rate/endurance/) - Diane Robertson Experiencing the birth of my own ten children has taught me something about pain and endurance. When I had my first baby, I was not prepared for the pain. The earlier pains of labor crippled me and brought tears to my eyes. The second time, I was able to - [In the Garden](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/in-the-garden/) - Evan Crockett I remember working in the garden with my father. As a boy, it was hard to see beyond the seemingly unpleasant task at hand—the physical labor required get the job done. He often asked for my help in tilling the dirt at the beginning and end of the season, teaching me to plow - [The Perils of Online Infidelity](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/the-perils-of-online-infidelity/) - Many argue that an emotional affair isn’t the same as a traditional sexual affair since there is no physical intimacy going on, but marriage counselors and psychologists tells us it can be equally as devastating. By Hailey Terry and Brittony Schmitt When a couple gets married they don’t think about infidelity sneaking in and wreaking - [Is the Ideal for Real: Peaceful Parenting](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/is-the-ideal-for-real-peaceful-parenting/) - Nathalie Bowman This is the second in a three part parenting series. Read Part 1 here. Peaceful parenting…..what kind of thoughts come to your mind as you read those words? Do you ever “lose it” with your children, then afterwards, you wonder where that came from and why you did it? Several years ago, I - [A Rational Basis for Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/a-rational-basis-for-marriage/) - Diane Robertson We live in a time that many refer to as an “age of entitlement”. There are books and papers written about parents hassling teachers to give their children higher grades, or bosses talking about parents calling them up to tell them they have to hire their kids. We hear how the rich, the - [What, Me Worry?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/diane-robertson/what-me-worry/) - Rebecca Mallory Anybody out there old enough to remember the old MAD Magazine icon Alfred E. Neuman? Every issue donned his face with the same goofy look of complete oblivion to life. Not a care in the world. That goofy face should have donned the cover of one of the greatest books ever written on - [LIFE’S MAPS AND COMPASSES](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/lifes-maps-and-compasses/) - Maddi Gillel Have you ever been trying to get somewhere, such as in a different city, state, or country? Did you have a map? Did you speak the language so that you could ask? We’ve all been in this situation. Some of us are born with a compass in our heads, some are born without - [People With Abilities](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/people-with-abilities/) - Kristen Jan Heimuli In all the debates and conversations regarding civil rights it is easy to focus primarily on the struggles of race or gender. And while those struggles have been extremely profound, we tend to forget about a very special population-the last population to have received equal rights. They too fought hard for their - [Is the Ideal for Real: Positive Discipline Parenting](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/is-the-ideal-for-real-positive-discipline-parenting/) - A debate is currently raging over appropriate forms of discipline. So what might "appropriate" discipline look like? By Nathalie Bowman This is the final piece in a 3 part series. Read Part 1: Is the “Ideal” for Real? and Part 2: Is the Ideal for Real: Peaceful Parenting Children over generations of time have been - [Confusion in the Courts](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/same-sex-marriage/confusion-in-the-courts/) - Too many courts; too many rulings on marriage. How do you make sense of it all? By Diane Robertson Conflicting court rulings in Louisiana has left the state confused. At the beginning of the month federal district Judge, Martin Feldman ruled that Louisiana’s marriage law was constitutional and that the state need not recognize same - [How does a same-sex marriage harm your heterosexual marriage? Here's how.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/same-sex-attraction/how-does-a-same-sex-marriage-harm-your-heterosexual-marriage-heres-how/) - The happy "same-sex family" is more often than not built upon the back of a destroyed mother/father heterosexual family. In the same-sex marriage debate, how often have you heard this snarkily-delivered question: "Well, how does a same-sex marriage harm your heterosexual marriage?" With the obvious answer to be: "Of course, there isn't any harm..." But - [Starting with Breakfast](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/starting-with-breakfast/) - Mom had a special way of making a task seem less daunting when I was growing up. Her deportment was kindness, shown through soft and encouraging words, through quiet acts of service, and through her genuine belief in our ability to do hard things. Every Saturday was a work day on our small farm. Dad - [Freedom for Women?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/freedom-for-women/) - Nathalie Bowman It seems silly to bring this up. After all, women are more free in this day and age than in any other time in history. But has the “freedom” of women really made them more free? The Women’s Liberation movement freed women’s bodies (“the bikini meant new freedom for women” was a quote - [Gay Marriage Back at the Supreme Court](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/gay-marriage-back-at-the-supreme-court/) - Diane Robertson Behind closed doors, the justices on the Supreme Court are considering taking gay marriage cases from five states: Utah, Oklahoma, Virginia, Indiana, and Wisconsin. The Justices put these cases at the top of their schedule. All five states had either their marriage amendment or laws over turned by the lower federal circuit courts. - [Determining Good, Better, or Best](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/determining-good-better-or-best/) - Rebecca Mallory It was a crisp fall day nearly 20 years ago that I was frantically driving a carpool of girls to their mandatory dance class for all company performers four days a week right after school. Among them was my daughter, Brooke who was in the fourth grade and was a talented dancer. We - [DO I HAFTA?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/do-i-hafta/) - Maddi Gillel Yes, you hafta !!!!! How many times have we as parents, heard this from our children when we ask them to clean their rooms, practice the piano, mow the lawn, take out the trash? This article is for you parents who need some encouragement to keep on and also to provide you some - [Born to "Stand for the Family"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/born-to-stand-for-the-family/) - Nathalie Bowman Yesterday was a normal day. OK, it was not normal, it was my birthday! But I did the routine thing and took two of my teenagers and three other teens to school 25 minutes away. On the way home, I did something out of routine. I turned on the radio. And I heard - [Supreme Court Dismisses Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/supreme-court-dismisses-marriage/) - Diane Robertson A week ago I wrote about how gay marriage was back at the Supreme Court. I did not expect that just a week later, the Supreme Court Justices would have dismissed all marriage cases. In a move like Pontius Pilate, the Supreme Court washed their hands of it saying to the lower courts, - [Pornography and its impact on parenting](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/pornography-and-its-impact-on-parenting/) - Pornography is seeping into family life in a myriad of unexpected and devastating ways. by Allison Cook Ninety-seven billion. This was the total revenue made in 2006 off of pornographic websites worldwide (Getting Serious, 2010). In 2005, 56 percent of all divorce cases involved one party having an obsessive interest in pornographic websites (Skinner, 2011). - [Sanctity of the marriage bed](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/cohabitation/sanctity-of-the-marriage-bed/) - Nathalie Bowman The sexual revolution has promoted the sexual relationship to be purely physical, and the more freedom to have more partners, the better. Why wait until marriage? 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Has it made America safer and more inclusive? Absolutely not. Spineless, thin-skinned, and over-sensitive are - [PATRIOTISM AND CITIZENSHIP](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/religion-2/constitution/patriotism-and-citizenship/) - Maddi Gillel If everyone were the kind of citizen you are, would the country be better or worse? Does it make any difference? YES !!!! When we stand up for our country and defend it in word and deed, it inspires others to do so and courage is built. We become more and more pro-active - [Three New Words](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/cohabitation/three-new-words/) - Nathalie Bowman We live in a world in which thousands of years of traditional, assumed gender roles are being turned upside down. Many questions about human sexuality and gender are being asked that have never been asked before, and new vocabulary is being developed by those who wish to redefine man-woman marriage and gender roles. - [The Wheately Conference: The Supreme Court Decided, Now What?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-wheately-conference-the-supreme-court-decided-now-what/) - Diane Robertson Yesterday I had the unique opportunity of attending a 4 hour long conference hosted by the Wheately Institute and titled: Family is Crucial: Views from Law and Social Science. Sherif Girgis, Ryan T. Anderson, Mark Regnerus, and Jenet Erickson spoke. These speakers have all vested a lot of time and resources to help - [Captured Moments—Cherished Memories](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/captured-moments-cherished-memories-2/) - By Rachel Allison Several years ago my husband traveled through France where he met a family who had just recently moved ten miles out of town. This meant that the family’s two teenage daughters had to be driven to town each morning for school, and then picked up each afternoon for the drive back home. - [The Choice My Mother Didn’t Have To Make](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/the-choice-my-mother-didnt-have-to-make/) - Each life matters and the loss of any human life diminishes our own. By Kristin Wahlquist It is impossible to calculate the value of a life; things learned, people touched, and memories created. Each life is both incredible and irreplaceable. Every life begins when two microscopic cells unite. Although these special cells cannot be seen - [Women as Breeders?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/adoption-2/women-as-breeders/) - Nathalie Bowman As same-sex marriage becomes legal across the country, same sex parenting is entering the picture now more than ever. What is the long term effect on children raised in the LGBT world? What of the women who are used to grow babies and sell them to same-sex couples? Although some gay couples have - [5 Tips for Mothers](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/5-tips-for-mothers/) - Diane Robertson This is part one of a three part series on parenting. I have been reading through some new and very interesting research that is being conducted on mothering and fathering. I am going to start from a personal view as a mother of ten (amazing) children. Next I will focus on the biology - [Ebola and Other Deadly Diseases -101](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/education/ebola-and-other-deadly-diseases-101/) - Rebecca Mallory What makes me qualified to write about Ebola? Not a thing. But, I've listened to the news ad nauseam. Does that count? So here's my take. I know it's a deadly disease that is highly contagious and that mortality rates are reported between 50-70%. Not good. So should we quarantine someone with the - [THE WORK ETHIC](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/the-work-ethic/) - Maddi Gillel Have you ever heard of this phrase? This is one of the most important phrases in a person’s life and in our culture – it would make a huge difference in a person’s life and in our culture if it were present in ‘both.’ Here are some quotes by famous men (and not - [Are Mothers “Full and Equal Participants in the Economy”?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/are-mothers-full-and-equal-participants-in-the-economy/) - Nathalie Bowman Over the past few days, there has been an uproar among conservative Americans surrounding President Obama’s speech on October 31 at Rhode Island College. After he opened with a few jokes, mentioned going trick-or-treating with Michelle because his girls “are too old” and spent a few minutes extolling the virtues of his administration’s - [Only Women Can Mother](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/adoption-2/only-women-can-mother/) - Diane Robertson New Research being conducted on the differences between mothering and fathering has found that children need to the complimentary parenting styles from both genders. Jenet Erickson, research sociologist and author for the Deseret News, presented research that is being conducted, and not yet published, during the Wheatley Conference. She has given me permission - [So what are You doing to be Happy?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/so-what-are-you-doing-to-be-happy/) - by Samantha Shelley Happiness researcher, Kate Bratskeir lists 10 things that are proven (BY SCIENCE, GUYS!) to make us happier: 1. Happy people surround themselves with other happy people. Joy is contagious. People are four times more likely to be happy in the future with happy people around them. 2. Happy people try to be - [Make the Choice](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/make-the-choice-america/) - Mekelle Tenney Over the last 50 years the fertility rate among Americans has dropped from 3.65 to 1.89. The rate of households with one child or more under the age of 18 has also made a significant drop from 48.8% to 32.3%. In 2010 only 30% of high school girls and 40% of high school - [Something Wicked this Way Comes...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/something-wicked-this-way-comes/) - Contemporary sex education prepares young men and women not for the fullness of friendship, intimacy and love, but for casual relationships and recreational sex. A 1962 fantasy novel, later made into a Disney movie, borrowed its title from Shakespeare’s Macbeth: “Something Wicked This Way Comes.” It was the story of a traveling carnival who arrived - [A Universal Threat](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/marriage/a-universal-threat/) - What happens to a marriage when a spouse finds out their partner is involved in pornography? By Brianna Hawke Experts tells us that “…upon discovering their partner uses pornography, many women question whether their partner loves them or is still committed to them and the relationship, that both men and women see online sexual activity - [What Can Fathers Do?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/what-can-fathers-do/) - Nathalie Bowman “Dad, wanna play catch?” The morning was beautiful, the mountain air was crisp and clean, and playing catch with dad was the order of the day. We grabbed our mitts & ball from the camp trailer and off we went to throw the ball back and forth. There was not much conversation, of - [Only Men Can Father](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/sexuality/abstinence/only-men-can-father/) - Diane Robertson New Research being conducted on the differences between mothering and fathering has found that children need to the complimentary parenting styles from both genders. Jenet Erickson, research sociologist and author for the Deseret News, presented research that is being conducted, and not yet published, during the Wheatley Conference. She has given me permission to - [Mom Shame](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/family/adoption-2/mom-shame/) - Rebecca Mallory We thought there was pressure raising our four girls during the 80's. All four girls are now very busy wives and mothers but believe me, my life was cake compared to theirs. In the 80's my diaper bag said "Safeway" on it. 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Yet society, with the help of government, has successfully began to change the very ideals that - ["One Nation under Godlessness"...ya think?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/life/abortion/one-nation-under-godlessness-ya-think/) - My husband is a judge. On a weekly basis he sees youth in his court who are delinquent, unmotivated, and often times defiant. These young men and women are most often accompanied by a frustrated parent. At some point in the conversation my husband asks the parent, “While you were growing up did you attend - [Read Aloud Family Classics](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/parents/child-development/read-aloud-family-classics/) - Nathalie Bowman As parents in this generation, many of us experience technology battles daily. Video games, ipads, computer time, and smart phones all battle for our children’s attention. With games, music, the internet, and all kinds of things to keep kids occupied, more and more families are choosing technology over books. 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[National Survey on Women's Right to Privacy and Safety- Cross Tab](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/surveys/national-survey-on-womens-right-to-privacy-and-safety-cross-tab/) - [National Survey on women's right to privacy and safety RESUlts: Smart Charts](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/surveys/smart-charts/) - [et_pb_section admin_label=”section”] [et_pb_row admin_label=”row”] [et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text”] [/et_pb_text][/et_pb_column] [/et_pb_row] [/et_pb_section] - [UFI, Australia, and the World Congress 2013](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/about-ufi/un-work/ufi-australia-and-the-world-congress-2013/) - [et_pb_section admin_label=”section”] [et_pb_row admin_label=”row”] [et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text”][vc_row css_animation=”” row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern”][vc_column][vc_column_text]May 23, 2013 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: “Families are the rampart against tyranny!” is as true today as it was six years ago when I first heard it at the beginning of the first World Congress of Families I ever - 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[Tennessee](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/tennessee/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/tennessee-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Tennessee [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [South Dakota](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/south-dakota/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/south-dakota-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] South Dakota [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ - [South Carolina](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/south-carolina/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/sc-flag.png” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] South Carolina [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ - [Rhode Island](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/rhode-island/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/Rhode-Island-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Rhode Island [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ - [Pennsylvania](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/pennsylvania/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/Pennsylvania-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Pennsylvania [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Oregon](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/oregon/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/oregon-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Oregon [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Oklahoma](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/oklahoma/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/oklahoma-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Oklahoma [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Ohio](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/ohio/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/ohio-flag.png” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Ohio [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [North Dakota](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/north-dakota/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/north-dakota-flag-1.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] North Dakota [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ - [North Carolina](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/north-carolina/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/north-carolina-flag.png” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] North Carolina [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ - [New York](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/new-york/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/new-york-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] New York [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ - [New Mexico](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/new-mexico/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/new-mexico-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] New Mexico [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ - [New Jersey](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/new-jersey/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/new-jersey-flag.png” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] New Jersey [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ - [New Hampshire](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/new-hampshire/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/new-hampshire-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] New Hampshire [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ - [Nevada](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/nevada/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/Nevada-Flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Nevada [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Nebraska](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/nebraska/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/nebraska-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Nebraska [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Montana](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/montana/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/Montana-flag.png” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Montana [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Missouri](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/missouri/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/missouri-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Missouri [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Mississippi](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/mississippi/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/Mississippi-flag.png” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Mississippi [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Minnesota](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/minnesota/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/minnesota-flag.png” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Minnesota [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Michigan](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/michigan/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/michigan-flag.png” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Michigan [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Massachusetts](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/massachusetts/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/massachusetts-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Massachusetts [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Maryland](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/maryland/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/Maryland-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Maryland [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Maine](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/maine/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/Maine-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Maine [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Louisiana](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/louisiana/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/louisiana-state-flag.png” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Louisiana [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Kentucky](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/kentucky/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/kentucky-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Kentucky [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Kansas](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/kansas/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/kansas-flag.png” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Kansas [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Iowa](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/iowa/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/Iowa-Flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Iowa [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Indiana](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/indiana/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/indiana-flag.png” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Indiana [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Illinois](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/illinois/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/illinois-flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Illinois [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - [Hawaii](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/get-involved/your-state/hawaii/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” next_background_color=”#ffffff” module_class=”sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ use_background_color_gradient=”on” background_color_gradient_start=”rgba(44,61,80,0.84)” background_color_gradient_end=”rgba(0,0,0,0)” background_color_gradient_direction=”90deg” background_color_gradient_overlays_image=”on” background_image=”https://www.unitedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/Hawaii-Flag.jpeg” background_position=”top_center” custom_padding=”0px||150px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”150px||” custom_padding_phone=”75px||0px” bottom_divider_style=”asymmetric”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_margin=”50px||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||” custom_margin_phone=”” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”0|0px|0|0px|true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.10″ text_font=”||||||||” header_font=”Poppins|800||on|||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font_size=”80px” custom_margin=”||20px” custom_padding=”151px|||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”70px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_text_shadow_style=”preset3″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”0.03em” header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”0.05em”] Hawaii [/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#FFFFFF” _builder_version=”3.17.2″ max_width=”8%” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”||0px”][/et_pb_divider][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ use_custom_gutter=”on” gutter_width=”1″ module_class=”buttons_sub_header” _builder_version=”4.9.10″ width=”100%” - 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[Divorce](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/issues-and-answers/divorce/) - [vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_column_text] The UFI Divorce Family Issues Guide What are the Common Causes of Divorce? For the last four decades, societies have been participating in a great social science experiment regarding divorce. The end result has been disposable marriages and shattered lives. 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Box 2630, Gilbert, Arizona85299-2630 (480) 632-5450 Office / (480) 892-4417 - [Site Map](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/site-map/) - [vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column width=”1/2″][vc_column_text][wp_sitemap_page only=”page”][/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/2″][vc_column_text][wp_sitemap_page only=”post”][/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row] - [UFI Addresses United Nations General Assembly](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/about-ufi/un-work/ufi-addresses-united-nations-general-assembly-calls-upon-commission-to-address-family-issues/) - [vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_column_text]Dear Friend of the Family, Opportunity often presents itself to those who are observant, vigilant and prepared. Thomas Christensen, a longtime member of the Governing Board of United Families International, seized upon a golden opportunity last week while attending the Commission for Social Development (CSD) at the United - [UFI, Allies Work With Kosovo For Freedoms](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/about-ufi/un-work/ufi-allies-urge-kosovo-to-constitutionally-assure-freedoms-for-citizens/) - [vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_column_text]Dear Friend of the Family, The newspaper headline — “Don’t Let Our Nation Be Destroyed!” – confirmed my hope that our pro-family coalition team’s efforts in Kosovo last week were bearing fruits! Our message was getting through! At United Families International, we are committed to protecting - [Fathers Matter! Discussed at the UN](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/about-ufi/un-work/fathers-matter-discussed-at-the-un/) - [vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”grid” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_empty_space height=”34px”][vc_column_text] From the Desk of Laura Bunker: June 12, 2014 People everywhere seem to know deep down that Fathers really matter. This became clear to us during a UFI parallel event at the recent UN Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) where Dr. Timothy Rarick, Professor in the Department - [Rio+20: "The Longest Suicide Note in History"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/about-ufi/un-work/rio20-the-longest-suicide-note-in-history/) - [vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_column_text]June 21, 2012 The media will tell you that the Rio +20 Sustainable Environment Conference began on Wednesday, June 20, with world leaders converging on Rio de Janeiro, but for the pro-family world the drama ended in the days prior. It ended with the completion of the outcome - [Countries Manipulated by the Media](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/about-ufi/un-work/countries-manipulated-by-the-media/) - [vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_column_text]March 20, 2013 Countries Manipulated by the Media Late on Friday, the UN negotiating room erupted in cheers as anti-family activists welcomed the adoption of the “Agreed Conclusions” for the Commission on Status of Women (CSW) 57th session. Two weeks of intense negotiations had produced a document that - [UN Treaty Hurts Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/about-ufi/un-work/un-treaty-hurts-families/) - [vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_column_text]December 5, 2013 From the Desk of Laura Bunker: As I write this, a fierce wind is blowing outside, whipping the snow in circles, and driving it through the holes in our window screens. Yet I am able to sit by the fireplace and write in peace. Home - [What Happens at the UN Hits Home](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/about-ufi/un-work/what-happens-at-the-un-hits-home/) - [vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_column_text]February 20, 2014 From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Some people may think the United Nations is far away and disconnected from their life and their family. But what happens at the UN does not stay at the UN. It influences families and policies across the world - [Sign the World Family Declaration!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/about-ufi/un-work/sign-the-world-family-declaration/) - [vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_column_text]March 12, 2014 Sign the World Family Declaration! 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It has been an interesting and often disheartening journey to see all the consequences of the legalization of same-sex marriage play out almost exactly as - [Patriotism: The Love That Holds a Nation Together](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/patriotism-the-love-that-holds-a-nation-together/) - My father was a retired Army colonel who served from World War II through the Vietnam era, dedicating more than three decades to military service. During those years, he faced moments that nearly cost him his life—sacrifices he rarely spoke of but never regretted. Years later, as I walked through Washington, D.C. with my husband - [Ordinary Men, Extraordinary Love: Why Fatherhood is Built on Micro-Moments](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ordinary-men-extraordinary-love-why-fatherhood-is-built-on-micro-moments/) - Ordinary Men, Extraordinary Love: Why Fatherhood is Built on Micro-Moments This Father’s Day, United Families International honors fathers around the world for their irreplaceable role in the lives of their children, families, and communities. While we often celebrate the major milestones of fatherhood—first steps, graduations, weddings, and achievements—it is often the small, everyday moments that - [What Happens when Women Leave Their Faith Behind?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/what-happens-when-women-leave-their-faith-behind/) - You can tell a lot about a building by watching its foundation. Cracks in the paint may be cosmetic. A broken window may be repaired. But when the foundation begins to shift, everything above it is affected. For generations, women have been a foundational force in religious life. As increasing numbers step away from organized - [Who Knew? Men have Rights, Too](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/who-knew-men-have-rights-too/) - The famous quote “Women hold up half the sky” (attributed to Mao Zedong) is a good reminder of the essential contributions of women to society. But what happens when the other half of the population “holding up the sky” is forgotten and often maligned? Boys and men have been forgotten and are falling behind in - [Oh, the Irony… A Tribute to an Exceptional Mother and Leader](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/oh-the-irony-a-tribute-to-an-exceptional-mother-and-leader/) - Each year, a nation sets aside a day to honor and celebrate the person who arguably has the most profound influence on our lives—our mother. And yet, this past March at the Commission on the Status of Women, despite the intense efforts of UFI and the broader pro-family coalition, we couldn’t keep the anti-family juggernaut - [Who Is Raising Your Children? Parenting in the Age of Outsourcing](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/who-is-raising-your-children-parenting-in-the-age-of-outsourcing/) - As a society, we regularly speak of putting children first, but are we really doing that? Between long work hours, busy schedules, and the pull of screens, more and more of the day-to-day work of parenting is slipping into other hands. Does this align with the “putting children first” ethos? This piece takes a closer - [Speech, Therapy, and the Constitution: The Stakes Behind the Court’s “Conversion Therapy” Ruling](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/speech-therapy-and-the-constitution-the-stakes-behind-the-courts-conversion-therapy-ruling/) - The Supreme Court’s decision on Colorado’s “conversion therapy” ban isn’t just legal theory—it gets at a simple, human question: what should be allowed in a conversation between a counselor and a client? By drawing a line between medical treatments and “talk therapy,” the ruling highlights concerns about fairness, free speech, and whether the government can - [Radical Feminists are “Back on their Heels”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/radical-feminists-are-back-on-their-heels/) - Dear UFI Friends: We want to begin with a giant “thank you” to all of you who made donations to help finance UFI’s efforts at CSW this year. As always, we can’t do what we do without your support at other critical times throughout the year! We wanted to provide a report on UFI’s recent - [Partial Truths: What the Abortion Industry doesn’t say](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/partial-truths-what-the-abortion-industry-doesnt-say/) - In today’s culture of competing “expert” voices, partial truths often shape public perception. This article examines claims surrounding abortion—particularly the abortion pill—and asks whether important risks and realities are being minimized while powerful organizations profit. You decide if the public is being given the full story. Protecting women and the unborn, Wendy Wixom, President United - [The Quiet Cost of Profanity](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-quiet-cost-of-profanity/) - Profanity is everywhere—on the field, on our screens, in politics, and sometimes even in our own homes. Because it’s so common, we rarely stop to ask what it’s doing to us. But what if the words we casually speak and hear every day are quietly shaping our emotions, our reactions, and even the culture inside - [Our 50+ Advocates are ready. Are you with them?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/our-50-advocates-are-ready-are-you-with-them/) - Dear Friends, In just a few weeks, the UN Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) will begin in New York City. As the most highly attended UN commission of the year (6000+ attendees), it is a whirlwind of activities and competing ideologies, where the fundamental role of the family and dignity of life are - [Is More Really Better? Polyamory and the Fight for the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/is-more-really-better-polyamory-and-the-fight-for-the-family/) - A long-time UFI staff member reminded me of an experience she had back in 2002. She had been invited to attend a seminar sponsored by the Williams Institute at UCLA. The topic: “The future of the LGBT movement.” The Williams Institute is arguably the top advocacy think tank in the country, doing research on all - [A Dangerous Trend: Teens Using AI for Mental Health Support](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-dangerous-trend-teens-using-ai-for-mental-health-support/) - Artificial Intelligence (AI) continues to be in the spotlight. AI is driving the upward trajectory of the stock market, impacting the job market, sucking huge amounts of electricity as AI data centers are being built around the country, and causing significant societal change.. Rebecca Heiner shares some important information regarding AI and our children and - [Preparing the Next Generation to Lead](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/preparing-the-next-generation-to-lead/) - Dear UFI Supporters, At United Families International, we believe the family is the bedrock of civilization. To protect it, we must work at every level—from the halls of global power to the hearts of the next generation. Because of your support, this past year has been one of incredible international impact. We recently returned from Uganda, - [Celebrating Faith, Family, and Freedom this Holiday Season](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/celebrating-faith-family-and-freedom-this-holiday-season/) - Christmas invites us to slow down and reflect on the religious and personal beliefs that shape who we are and how we live. It is the season centered on family, faith, and the gift of love made manifest through the birth of Jesus Christ. This sacred time reminds us of the importance of honoring and - [The Strongest Pro- life Statement Ever Made by a U.S. Administration: Abortion Is a Violation of Human Rights](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-strongest-pro-life-statement-ever-made-by-a-u-s-administration-abortion-is-a-violation-of-human-rights/) - The long-standing debate over “reproductive rights” in the U.S. State Department’s human rights reports has been a lightning rod for political conflict. Now, a recent diplomatic cable from the current administration isn't just seeking to remove a section; it’s deploying a new foreign policy. This is a historic reversal which will impact international diplomacy and - [Don't Just Talk About Change.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/dont-just-talk-about-change-fund-it/) - Dear Friends of UFI, On this Giving Tuesday, we ask you to look ahead. What kind of world will the next generation inherit, and what voice will they have in shaping it? At United Families International (UFI), we aren't waiting for the answers—we are actively building a future where the family is strong, protected, and empowered. Your - [Grateful For Strong Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/31739/) - Grateful For Strong Families As we gather with loved ones to reflect on gratitude this Thanksgiving, United Families International wants to express our heartfelt appreciation for you. Thank you for standing with us in defending family, faith, and freedom around the world. Your support empowers parents, strengthens marriages, protects the rights of children, and builds - [Feminists Explain Things to Me](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/feminists-explain-things-to-me/) - A simple remark about the purpose of life—procreation—was all it took to ignite a firestorm online. Within hours, critics labeled the speaker backward and out of touch. But the backlash wasn’t just about one actor’s opinion—it reflected a growing intolerance for views that challenge feminist orthodoxy. In today's article, Alexis Tarkalson explores how a movement - [Standing with the persecuted!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/standing-with-the-persecuted/) - As religious persecution continues to escalate across the globe, the protection of religious freedom and freedom of speech has never been more critical. These fundamental rights form the foundation of human dignity and peaceful coexistence. Today we share a fabulous article by Cristina Cevallos that gives greater understanding regarding Religious Freedom and religious persecution around - [“Conversion Therapy” laws reach U.S. Supreme Court](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/conversion-therapy-laws-reach-u-s-supreme-court/) - What happens when the state tells counselors and therapists which identities are acceptable—and which conversations are forbidden? The Supreme Court case Chiles v. Salazar shines a light on “Must Stay Gay” laws that silence therapists and restrict free speech. Get up to speed on a case that is going to impact freedom of thought, parental rights, freedom - [Women’s Influence in the Home: Beneficial or Political Propaganda?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/womens-influence-in-the-home-beneficial-or-political-propaganda/) - “From Nazi Germany to Trump’s America: why strongmen rely on women at home” has to be one of the most bizarre articles to come across my on-line feed in years (and that’s saying a lot!). The premise of the article is that motherhood (particularly stay-at-home moms), marriage, and family are just tools to be utilized - [“Unmuted:” The Pro-Family Legacy of Charlie Kirk](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/unmuted-the-pro-family-legacy-of-charlie-kirk/) - This last week has been a hard one for the United States. With devastating news after devastating news, the country seems to be in a perpetual state of turmoil, grief, and uncertainty. United Families International was particularly stunned to hear about the appalling death of a fellow defender of the family: Charlie Kirk. The loss - [Broken Families: A Clear Path Toward the Legitimation of Abortion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/broken-families-a-clear-path-toward-the-legitimation-of-abortion/) - Over the years, I’ve spoken with many women who chose abortion, and what strikes me most is how often their stories begin long before pregnancy. They speak of home life marked by uncertainty and instability - fathers who walked away, mothers who struggled alone, and many times, families that failed to form at all. When - [Does Religion Matter? How Faith and Religion Create Healthy Societies](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/does-religion-matter-how-faith-and-religion-create-healthy-societies/) - Disrespecting religion seems to be a favorite pastime for not a few people. That behavior often leaves me thinking: “If they only knew…” Religion is indispensable to flourishing societies, providing a moral framework, a sense of meaning, and guides how people live and relate to one another. Even those who might not want to participate - [Tradwives — Trend, Threat, or Timeless Truth](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/tradwives-trend-threat-or-timeless-truth/) - From gingham aprons to Instagram-perfect sourdough, the “tradwife” trend is lighting up social media feeds—and stirring up serious debate. With millions of views on TikTok and Instagram, this old-fashioned ideal of womanhood is either being celebrated as empowering or slammed as harmful. But is there more to the movement than just pretty aesthetics and vintage - [Unmasking Gender Ideology How Activism Is Rewriting Medicine, Science, and Childhood](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/unmasking-gender-ideology-how-activism-is-rewriting-medicine-science-and-childhood/) - In Part Two of Alexis Tarkalson’s fascinating interview with the trusted Dr. Quentin Van Meter, we go deeper into the heart of the transgender movement—exposing how ideology is rapidly dismantling the integrity of science and medicine, in favor of political agendas. Dr. Van Meter takes on the myth of "common" intersex conditions, debunking the - [What the Supreme Court Just Decided—And Why It Matters to Your Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/what-the-supreme-court-just-decided-and-why-it-matters-to-your-family/) - In a time when our foundational freedoms are increasingly challenged, staying informed about the latest U.S. Supreme Court rulings isn't optional—it is essential. These rulings don’t just interpret the Constitution—they shape public policy, influence how future laws are written, and ultimately impact the freedoms we cherish. From religious liberty to family rights, the Court has - [Trading the Real for the Imaginary](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/trading-the-real-for-the-imaginary/) - Once again, we at United Families feel the need to alert you to a challenge that very possibly will be impacting your family - if it hasn’t already. Artificial Intelligence (AI) with its capability to bless our lives, or create chaos and destruction, seems to be front and center more each day. Rebecca Heiner shares - [Losing Young People to Gender Ideology: A Conversation with Dr. Quentin Van Meter (Part I)](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/losing-young-people-to-gender-ideology-a-conversation-with-dr-quentin-van-meter-part-i/) - Have you ever wondered what’s really happening behind the headlines on gender transitions in children? In a compelling interview with UFI’s Alexis Tarkalson, pediatric endocrinologist Dr. Quentin Van Meter shares eye-opening insights from decades of experience—raising serious concerns about the medical, psychological, and ethical implications of transitioning young people. This is not just another - [Vanishing Generations: The Crisis Few are Talking About](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/vanishing-generations-the-crisis-few-are-talking-about/) - It’s hard to believe that the world is experiencing a population “implosion” rather than “explosion,” but it is happening. The notion of falling fertility runs counter to the onslaught of public messages we’ve all received over the years. The question becomes: How do we encourage marriage and child bearing? It’s up to each one of - [Human 2.0 or Human Lost? The Hidden Cost of Transhumanism (Part 2)](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/human-2-0-or-human-lost-the-hidden-cost-of-transhumanism-part-2/) - In Part 1, we exposed how quietly and rapidly transhumanism is advancing—not just in laboratories and tech forums, but into the fabric of everyday life. From brain chips to gene editing, the march toward “Human 2.0” is being celebrated as progress. But what if this so-called evolution comes at the expense of something far more - [Human 2.0 Is Here—And You Didn’t Even Notice (Part I)](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/human-2-0-is-here-and-you-didnt-even-notice-part-i/) - For many years, I operated off the assumption that a “transhumanist” was referring to someone like this man who believes he is a reptile - and takes drastic steps to make himself appear the part. As time has gone on I have come to realize that “transhumanism” is something much more troubling and dark; something - [Hollywood Once Again Misses the Mark: Normalizing Prostitution](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/hollywood-once-again-misses-the-mark/) - Once again, our wonderful UFI staff is bringing to your attention some very important information. If you haven’t taken the time to look at UFI’s quizzes, you really should this week. This week’s quiz on the “hook-up culture” is particularly hard hitting. Rebecca Heiner discusses yet another blight on society (prostitution) and the efforts being - [Putting Children First and Meaning it!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/putting-children-first-and-meaning-it/) - Today, we’re discussing a topic that stirs strong emotion in many people - for many reasons. But it’s one that UFI won’t shy away from as each one of us must examine how we’ve structured our lives and whether or not we truly do “put children first.” Cristina Cevellos outlines some compelling reasons why adults - [The U.S. delegation Outrages Radical feminists](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-u-s-delegation-outrages-radical-feminists/) - Going into CSW 69 (2025), we at UFI were curious to observe the differences in attitude and impact of the Trump Administration’s US delegation upon the entire CSW process. We are here to report there definitely was a difference! The most recent of many surprises from the U.S. delegation was in the final hours of - [Six Thousand Feminists Converge on New York](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/six-thousand-feminists-converge-on-new-york/) - Thirty Years Later, the “Gender” War Continues as Six Thousand Feminists Converge on New York Beginning on Monday, March 10, over 6,000 feminists, many of them self-described “radical feminists,” will descend upon the UN complex in New York to attend the annual Commission on the Status of Women (CSW). And, UFI will be there! We’ve - [Has Adultery gone Mainstream?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/has-adultery-gone-mainstream/) - In spite of the increased societal acceptance of things like premarital sex, “hook-ups,” cohabitation, and the LGBT lifestyle, the high percentage of people who disapproved of adultery remained constant - for decades. But about 10 years ago, that changed. In this week’s Issue Update, Rebecca Heiner gives us insights into this relatively rapid and startling - [Religion and the California Wildfires](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/religion-and-the-california-wildfires/) - We join you in being relieved and grateful that the wildfires that have devastated California seem to be under control. As the post-mortem on the cause of the fires continues, Cristina Cevallos puts forth the thesis that the cause of the fires stems, in part, from religion – yes, religion. It’s an intriguing thesis and - [The ERA Debate Reignited Fact, Fiction, and the Fight to Stop It - Again](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-era-debate-reignited-fact-fiction-and-the-fight-to-stop-it-again/) - From its introduction in 1923, to its continued push for ratification today, the ERA represents a battleground for deeply held beliefs about the roles of men and women, the limits of government, and the principles that make our nation strong. So why is the ERA still being pushed, and what’s at stake for those who - [Mars, Venus, and the Case for True Equality](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/mars-venus-and-the-case-for-true-equality/) - Creating “equity” in all aspects of society seems like such a great idea. But, do we fully understand what we may be asking for? Alexis Tarkelson explores that question - along with “equity’s” companion piece, “parity.” Reaching full parity requires taking opportunities and resources from one group of people and giving them to another and - [Unpacking the U.S. Supreme Court Case on Transgender Medical Care](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/unpacking-the-u-s-supreme-court-case-on-transgender-medical-care/) - The “transgender medicalization” debate continues to heat up. Last week, the British government changed a “temporary ban” to an “indefinite ban” (which more than likely means “permanent ban”) on the use of puberty blockers for minors experiencing gender dysphoria. A week earlier, the U.S. Supreme Court held oral arguments on a case that will have - [The Divorce Rate is Falling, but That’s Not the Whole Story](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-divorce-rate-is-falling-but-thats-not-the-whole-story/) - divorce - marriage - divorce rate - marriage rate - divorce rate is falling - Cristina Cevallos - - [A vehicle for change, powered by you](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-vehicle-for-change-powered-by-you/) - What if you felt you had an answer that could alleviate much of the chaos and turmoil in communities and nations? Would you “work your fingers to the bone” to educate and share what you understand? Would you try, and try again, to influence laws and policies, both in your own country and around the - [Gratitude and Its Surprising Effects!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/gratitude-and-its-surprising-effects/) - United Families has, for years, wanted to share information in the form of quizzes. Thanks to Emily Judkins, a wonderful colleague and volunteer, quizzes have become a reality. Take the quiz, below, and learn how “living a life of gratitude” can change your life! We at United Families International hope that you have a wonderful Thanksgiving - [Welcome to the 4B Movement: Where women shave their heads and swear off men in protest](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/welcome-to-the-4b-movement-where-women-shave-their-heads-and-swear-off-men-in-protest/) - The last few weeks of the political and cultural scene have been crazy - for all of us! It continues to be a time for humility and reflection on how to best resolve the challenges and move forward. Today, Alexis Tarkalson tells us about a movement that is, shall we say, less than helpful in - [The Battle Over Human Rights](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-battle-over-human-rights/) - From the Desk of Wendy Wixom: The term “human rights” is bantered about regularly within the UN system; cries such as “Women’s rights are Human Rights!” “Abortion is a human right!” are a constant. Navigating these ideological minefields is always a challenge. Cristina Cevallos explains some of the history and nuance of Human Rights. Read - [What you need to know about IVF](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/what-you-need-to-know-about-ivf/) - IVF is more common today than ever before. Not only has technology advanced to help infertile couples conceive, the definition of married couples has also changed, demanding the need for IVF for more couples to fulfill “their” dreams of becoming parents. Many view IVF as an answer to increase shrinking populations – which can be debated. - [A New UN - Governing the World and You](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-new-un-governing-the-world-and-you/) - For over 47 years United Families International has been defending the family, parental rights, life and religious freedom at all levels of policy. Our efforts continue yet become harder and harder as woke ideologies and agendas become stronger in promoting their anti-family narratives and policies. But with you, our families, and the future of humankind - [Babies with Price Tags: Is Surrogacy a Good Thing?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/babies-with-price-tags-is-surrogacy-a-good-thing/) - In a world where the boundaries of modern technology and personal desire constantly shift, the practice of surrogacy raises profound ethical questions that demand our attention. While many look at surrogacy as a path to build a family, it also calls for a conversation about the commodification of women and children. Are we, in our - [Olympic Controversy Refocuses at Your Child’s School](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/olympic-controversy-refocuses-at-your-childs-school/) - Now the Olympics, the world’s most elite sporting event, has concluded we are all left with some challenging and provocative questions to consider and resolve. How do we, for sports purposes, identify what constitutes a man or a woman? Is it chromosomes? Is it external body parts? Is it testosterone levels? Does kindness, tolerance and - [“I do not understand why they kill women’s boxing:” The Paris Olympics and the IOC’s Blatant Disregard for Fairness in Women’s Sports](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/i-do-not-understand-why-they-kill-womens-boxing-the-paris-olympics-and-the-iocs-blatant-disregard-for-fairness-in-womens-sports/) - Face shining with sweat and breathing heavily, she turns slowly in the arena and fans her arms up and down, to get the crowd’s attention. Then, pointing to herself, she raises her arms and forms two x’s in quick succession. Svetlana Staneva, Bulgaria’s female Olympic boxer, seemingly sends the message: “I am a woman, Lin - [Urgent! Protect your child by July 15](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/urgent-protect-your-child-by-july-15/) - The above graphic provides more details: The Deadline to Protect Your Child is July 15 You have a remarkable opportunity to protect your child – and their school – from the Biden administration’s Title IX rules implementation - new rules and regulations that expand the definition of the word “sex” to include “gender identity.” These - [Providing a Choice to the Women of the Bronx](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/providing-a-choice-to-the-women-of-the-bronx/) - You may recall each spring UFI takes a group of college students to the UN Commission on the Status of Women. While in New York City, we divided the rather large group of students and visited two different Pregnancy Resource Centers – one in the Bronx and one in Brooklyn. While our experiences were different, - [Will you comply with new Title IX regulations?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/will-you-comply-with-new-title-ix-regulations/) - Under Biden’s new Title IX rules, which take effect August 1, 2024, so-called “protections” become all but that for women and anyone who is heard disagreeing with the gender identity ideology assaulting our society. United Families International is a part of two Title IX Coalitions that have been trying to bring awareness to, and minimize - [Legalizing abortion up to the moment of birth](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/legalizing-abortion-up-to-the-moment-of-birth/) - From the Desk of Wendy Wixom: With summer in full swing, you might think those that push anti-family and anti-life initiatives would take some time off, but no such luck. The abortion issue continues to heat up ahead of the U.S. election for the fall. Numerous states have abortion bills (for and against) in play. - [Fidelity Before Pride](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/fidelity-before-pride/) - June is upon us and it’s a month filled with lots of patriotic (Flag Day on June 14) and family holidays. Happy Father’s Day to the wonderful men in our lives! We don’t know what we’d do without you and we don’t ever want to find out! It’s also a month that’s been taken over - [Letting the term “spouse” move toward extinction?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/letting-the-term-spouse-move-toward-extinction/) - As I’ve read and listened to all the controversy surrounding “trad wives” and NFL player Harrison Butker’s commencement address, I noticed that one thing is rarely mentioned - how these various family structures and women working outside the home impact children. It’s almost as though children aren’t a part of this equation! It should go - [Time Sensitive message: Are Children a Blight or a Blessing?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/time-sensitive-message-are-children-a-blight-or-a-blessing/) - Are Children a Blight or a Blessing? During the last week of April, 2024, media outlets around the world ran stories on the U.S. Centers for Disease Control new report stating the U.S. fertility rate has dropped to a startling 1.62, the lowest rates in almost 50 years – some say a century. For those not - [What’s really at stake in the abortion pill case before the Supreme Court](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/whats-really-at-stake-in-the-abortion-pill-case-before-the-supreme-court/) - Comedian Bill Maher has a tendency to say, “the quiet part out loud.” Recently, while addressing the topic of abortion with guests on his show, Maher acknowledged that abortionis (or "kind of is") murder, but then he condones it anyway. Leading us to conclude murder is acceptable as long as it is in the service of population control. Bill - [College Students and Professors are Threatened at the UN](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/college-students-and-professors-are-threatened-at-the-un/) - As we move into the final week of the two-week meetings for the 68th session of the UN Commission on the Status of Women (CSW), we are happy to share some of the challenges and the successes. UFI was honored to have as part of our team: 16 students, five professors, and 11 staff, volunteers - [The UN works to accelerate the redefinition of “s*x"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-un-works-to-accelerate-the-redefinition-of-sx/) - The annual UN Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) is upon us. Starting next week, about 35 UFI staff, students, professors, and volunteers will be converging upon the streets of Manhattan and speaking boldly in promotion and defense of the family. We are honored to have such a great group! Activities for this year’s - [How Three F Words Can Connect Your Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/how-three-f-words-can-connect-your-family/) - On the last day of January, some version of the headline: “Mark Zuckerberg Apologizes to Families” was blasted across media. What made the circumstances even more unique and unexpected, was the founder of Facebook and the social media empire Meta Platforms delivered his mea culpa during a U.S. Senate hearing about the impact social media - [Do you want to solve the world’s most pressing social problems?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/do-you-want-to-solve-the-worlds-most-pressing-social-problems/) - “It is no secret that the vulnerability suffered by our peoples—insecurity, crime, abuse, abandonment of the elderly, orphaned children and violence—causes enormous imbalances and obliges us to spend millions on institutional policies that in the end can do no more than manage those ills.... If we wish to address the causes, we must look at the - [Empty Chairs at Your Family’s Table?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/empty-chairs-at-your-familys-table/) - A new year is upon us, and we are jumping with both feet into the upcoming pro-family/pro-life challenges ahead. We start out by sharing a troubling trend on social media, and in culture in general - that of young people (and some not so young) who conclude their lives are better if they cut off - [Celebrating Pro-family Wins with You!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/celebrating-pro-family-wins-with-you/) - Dear Friends and Supporters of the Pro-family Movement, My tenure as Chairman of the Board of United Families International has now reached the ten-year mark. Over that past decade, I’ve come to see that the pro-family movement is like one great orchestra of organizations, individuals and families who are passionately committed to defending the family, - [Don’t let the Pro-family voice be shut out at the UN](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/dont-let-the-pro-family-voice-be-shut-out-at-the-un/) - December 12, 2023 Dear Friends of the Family: Each year, life seems to bring to us some good, some crazy, and some hard things. While reviewing the year for United Families International (UFI), we are so grateful for the many wonderful things that have happened this year, and the blessings we recognize. UFI has a - [Giving & Gratitude go together.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/giving-gratitude-go-together/) - To the friends of United Families International: Today is “Giving Tuesday.” The day when non-profits approach their supporters for funding to keep their organizations functioning. When I think of this day, two things come to mind – not only “giving,” but “gratitude.” First, giving Yes, we need and welcome whatever funds you feel you can - [Am I Contributing to Someone's Suicide?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/am-i-contributing-to-someones-suicide/) - This week’s Issue Update goes a long way toward dispelling the pernicious myth that if parents and society don’t validate transgenderism and pass laws supporting “gendering affirming care” we will all be guilty of causing a “trans” person to commit suicide. Joy Godwin, who also brought us an excellent perspective through her article “My Intersex - [Divorce: A Cause for Celebration?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/divorce-a-cause-for-celebration/) - Although the topic of today’s Issue Update might seem bleak, there really is a cause we can celebrate - that of couples who make a commitment to their marriage and determine, early on, they will make it work, rather than toss it aside and get a “new one.” Those solid marriages abound, and that is - [The Dark History of Population Alarmism](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-dark-history-of-population-alarmism/) - July 25, 2023 A lot of narratives we hear, today, seem to be on repeat. One of those that's been repeated for years, centuries actually, is concern about growing population and its impact on humanity's sustainability. This narrative naturally allows for a variety of ideologies to flow and take root in people’s consciousness – and - [Population Alarmism Myths and a Look at What the Future Might Hold](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/population-alarmism-myths-and-a-look-at-what-the-future-might-hold/) - August 8, 2023 While the latest research once again shows the best predictor of happiness and a meaning-filled life is to be married with children, the population alarmists continue their false narrative that the world is overpopulated and bearing children is bad for the planet and a raw deal for women. Although there is much data to - [The Pedophile Pride Movement](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-pedophile-pride-movement/) - It’s a dark world and we often struggle with bringing you information that we know is going to be hard for you to read. Today’s Issue Update is definitely one of those times. As we all watch the rapid disintegration of the remaining cultural and social prohibitions surrounding sexual behavior, I am often asked: “What - [When Drugs Kill Rather than Cure](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/when-drugs-kill-rather-than-cure/) - It’s hard to imagine how ending the life of your unborn child, from the privacy of your own home, could be perceived as a positive thing. But pro-abortion groups definitely do and they were very unhappy, last month, when the 5th Circuit stepped in and ruled against the FDA for having relaxed requirements for the - [27 Countries speak boldly in support of the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/27-countries-speak-boldly-in-support-of-the-family/) - From the Desk of Wendy Wixom: Lest you think you are quite alone in your commitment to the importance of the family to individuals and to society, it is with pleasure we share the words of 27 countries from around the world. These 27 UN member states align themselves in common cause as the - [Men's Lives Matter](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/mens-lives-matter/) - August 22, 2023 Over the last few weeks, you may have seen a host of articles and videos about how the suicide rate in the U.S. has taken a relatively large jump in the last year (2022 being the most current year for complete data). According to the CDC, the total number of suicides for - [Freedom and Equality Win the Latest Supreme Court Rulings](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/freedom-and-equality-win-the-latest-supreme-court-rulings/) - Many of us take for granted the opportunity to live out our religious beliefs - to pray when we want to pray, to worship as we believe we should worship, and to support those things we believe are defined by God. However, many are finding current societal and social trends are creeping in and infringing - [Father's Day or "Fatherlessness" Day?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/fathers-day-or-fatherlessness-day/) - June 14, 2023 In a time when men are unfairly denigrated and diminished and “patriarchy” is thought by some to be one of the most egregious evils, we welcome the celebration of Father’s Day and the opportunity to honor men, especially those who honor their role as a father. Once again, we share with you - [Four Reasons Why You Should "Like" the HomeFront Project!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/four-reasons-why-you-should-like-the-homefront-project/) - Hello Friends: We’d like to introduce you to the new Facebook Page for our initiative “The HomeFront Project!” The HomeFront Project - and its counterpart HomeFront Kids - provides tools that will help you learn about, and then discuss, some of the most important topics directly affecting our families. The topics covered include feminism, sexuality, marriage/family, life issues, religious freedom, - [My Intersex Sister](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/my-intersex-sister/) - May 30, 2023 This week we have a unique opportunity to be taught about a genetic disorder commonly referred to as “intersex” – through the words of Amy’s sister. In a time when there are so many confusing messages about things like: “a third sex,” “transgender,” "non-binary," and "gender dysphoria,” we appreciate this family’s willingness - [Prostitution or “Sex Work”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/prostitution-or-sex-work/) - May 16, 2023 One of the phrases often heard, or debated, at the United Nations is “sex work,” a.k.a. prostitution. What is the impact of normalizing and legalizing prostitution? Is this really just another potential career path for women? In this week’s Issue Update, Cristina Cevallos shares stories, studies, and background to deepen our understanding - [Happy Mother's Day!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/happy-mothers-day/) - May 12, 2023 Last week I shared with you the anti-mother/anti-family attack being made on Motherhood and the beautiful speech given by one of our writers, a former UFI intern, at the UN's Commission on the Status of Women this past March. If you missed it (which you shouldn't), she shares her change-of-heart story about - [Mother’s Day is Controversial](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/mothers-day-is-controversial/) - May 2, 2023 In the UN world, Mother’s Day has been controversial for a couple of decades, with the CEDAW compliance committee, back in the early 2000s, telling the country of Belarus to get rid of Mother’s Day because it perpetuated “negative stereotypes” and Armenia to combat the stereotype of “women in the noble role - [Huge Victory at the UN!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/huge-victory-at-the-un/) - Huge Victory at the UN! Pro-Family Countries Hold their Ground against Western Bullies On April 14, few people were aware of the intense drama playing out in the halls of the United Nations. The Commission on Population and Development, or CPD, was in its final hours. After more than three weeks of negotiations, at 10:30 - [Our “You Can Sue Me Later” Society](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/our-you-can-sue-me-later-society/) - April 4, 2023 From the desk of Wendy Wixom: Our last Issue Update filled you in on our recent experience at the United Nations' Commission on the Status of Women meetings. As noted previously, we didn't think we were going to have a CSW event this year, and last minute, the opportunity became available to host - [“That Image Will Haunt Me”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/that-image-will-haunt-me/) - Report on the Commission on the Status of Women (CSW67) The first in-person UN Commission on Status of Women (CSW), since the onset of COVID, finished up in the early morning hours of Saturday, March 18. The negotiated outcome document or “Agreed Conclusions” was gaveled down around 5 a.m. Saturday morning and many of the - [Billion-dollar, baby-selling industry](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/billion-dollar-baby-selling-industry/) - Most of us are familiar with a couple who has experienced infertility and then had their lives blessed through assisted reproductive technologies. We often speak of this in terms of “a miracle of our modern age,” but could it also be true that there is a dark side to assisted reproductive technologies - some moral - [Ending Suffering by Ending the Sufferer](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ending-suffering-by-ending-the-sufferer/) - To many my father came across as a serious, unapproachable Army Colonel. Yet, within this admirable leader was a kind-hearted teddy bear. During the last five years of his life, this 6'2" gentle giant, dealt with multiple health problems boiling down to his final 18 months bedridden and withering below 100 pounds. At the time, - [Idaho is Doing Something about Porn](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/idaho-is-doing-something-about-porn/) - Idaho is Doing Something about Porn A Tool for Parents to Protect Their Children When being interviewed, Senator Kevin Cook of the Idaho Senate was asked about his proposed anti-pornography legislation, “What is something you wish the critics of this bill would better understand?” His response was immediate. “I wish they would better understand - [Creating “Shields not Swords” in the Fight for Rights](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/creating-shields-not-swords-in-the-fight-for-rights/) - By Alexis Tarkalson A UN Independent Expert, given the responsibility to provide protection against discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity (SOGI), has been asked to put together a report for the United Nations on two seemingly irreconcilable spheres: one of freedom to exercise religious beliefs and one of freedom from discrimination based on - [Top 10 Wins and Challenges of 2022](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/top-10-wins-and-challenges-of-2022/) - Dear friends and supporters of United Families International, As 2022 ends, it can best be said that it’s been “quite a year”. On the pro-family front, it truly has felt like a roller coaster with so many ups and downs. As you read these, I hope you’ll get a sense that the team at UFI - [Will America End Up a “Godless Nation”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/will-america-end-up-a-godless-nation/) - December 20, 2022 At this time of year, when Christians around the world celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ, it is an appropriate time to contemplate the importance of religion, all religions, in our lives. Perhaps it is the perfect time to commit, or recommit, to living our religion to the best of our ability. - [Don't know what SEL is? Your child is counting on you to find out.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/dont-know-what-sel-is-your-child-is-counting-on-you-to-find-out/) - December 13, 2022 “How did you gain a healthy identity, manage your emotions, achieve goals, develop empathy for others, establish and maintain strong relationships, and make responsible decisions?” asks Ashley Movius. “The logical answer is that your parents likely guided your behavior and experiences in these areas.” But today, there are others that think they need to - [UFI Addresses United Nations General Assembly, Calls Upon Commission to Address Family Issues](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-addresses-united-nations-general-assembly-calls-upon-commission-to-address-family-issues/) - UFI Addresses United Nations General Assembly, Calls Upon Commission to Address Family Issues Dear Friend of the Family, Opportunity often presents itself to those who are observant, vigilant and prepared. Thomas Christensen, a longtime member of the Governing Board of United Families International, seized upon a golden opportunity last week while attending the Commission for - [UN Treaty Hurts Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/bailey-un-treaty-hurts-families/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: As I write this, a fierce wind is blowing outside, whipping the snow in circles, and driving it through the holes in our window screens. Yet I am able to sit by the fireplace and write in peace. Home is truly a shelter from the storm. As we look - [What Happens at the UN Hits Home](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-what-happens-at-the-un-hits-home/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Some people may think the United Nations is far away and disconnected from their life and their family. But what happens at the UN does not stay at the UN. It influences families and policies across the world and close to home. That is why United Families International is - [Women Abusing Men: The Victims You’ve Not Heard About](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/women-abusing-men-the-victims-youve-not-heard-about/) - November 15, 2022 Helping all family members to flourish is a mainstay of the mission of UFI. Yet, with the singular and intense focus within the United Nations system, academia, and in western culture, on improving the lives of “women and girls,” it becomes easy to ignore the challenges faced by the male members of - [Your vote matters! Don’t waste it!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/your-vote-matters-dont-waste-it/) - Tips for Cutting through Election Rhetoric We are now one week from the critical 2022 United States’ election day. If you or someone you know needs encouragement and information to vote, then this issue is for you. Don’t hesitate to pass it along to others that might be interested in this information as well! Does - [Mexico City Spotlights the Strength of the Pro-family Effort](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/mexico-city-spotlights-the-strength-of-the-pro-family-effort/) - October 18. 2022 Sometimes, one can feel very lonely in our efforts to celebrate, promote, and defend the family. It can be intimidating when cancel culture comes stalking or peers point fingers of shame in our direction. But you, we, are not alone in this effort and, during the first weekend in October, we saw - [Deciding if a Religious University is Religious Enough.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/deciding-if-a-religious-university-is-religious-enough/) - October 4, 2022 As I read today’s issue update, I was reminded of the United Nations Special Rapporteur on Freedom of Religion and Belief. Mr. Ahmed Shaheed, in his 2020 report to the Human Rights Council, chose to ignore his mandate to promote and protect religious liberty and claim that states (countries) should impose their - [Your Kids Need to Hear It from You, First!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/your-kids-need-to-hear-it-from-you-first/) - Fall is the time of excitement and curiosity as children head back to school. It’s can also be a time of great concern for parents who might wonder what disturbing ideologies are being taught to their children. Our children are bombarded with troubling messages not only at school, but on social media, television, billboards, and - [Getting Past the Myths of “Gender-Affirming” Care](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/getting-past-the-myths-of-gender-affirming-care/) - European countries that pioneered “gender-affirming” care for individuals who identify as transgender are now pumping the brakes. Within the last couple of years, Sweden, Finland, France, and now Great Britain are realizing that what has been touted as the best approach for treating gender dysphoria, may actually not be the best method after all. Winston Churchill once said, “Those that fail - [Decline to Sign! School Choice in Arizona has made great strides, but there’s still work to do!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/decline-to-sign-school-choice-in-arizona-has-made-great-strides-but-theres-still-work-to-do/) - August 31, 2022 School Choice in Arizona has made great strides. But there’s still work to do! The Arizona legislature recently signed into law groundbreaking legislation, HB2853, that will give parents greater control over their students’ education. The law expanded Arizona’s very effective and popular Empowerment Scholarship Account (ESA) program, making it available to ALL - [Today’s Parental Battleground: Gaining Empowerment for Our Children’s Education](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/todays-parental-battleground-gaining-empowerment-for-our-childrens-education/) - Interestingly, Religious Freedom and Parental Rights are usually the top two concerns of individuals who are interested in the pro-family effort. Today’s Issue Update addresses how parental rights have been steadily eroded over the last few decades, but then provides hope as we are witnessing an awareness and a shift toward reversing that trend! The - [Women and Girls Need Your Help.  Protect Title IX!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/women-and-girls-need-your-help-protect-title-ix/) - This past June, “in celebration” of the 50th anniversary of Title IX, the US Department of Education released their proposed changes to Title IX regulations – changes that would dramatically alter the future for women and girls in federally funded activities and programs. One of the most profound impacts would be found in schools. Their - [Is the Supreme Court an ally in the defense of religious freedom?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/is-the-supreme-court-an-ally-in-the-defense-of-religious-freedom/) - July 26, 2022 Some say “the sky is falling” when it comes to the future of religious freedom. But is it? Yes, religious freedom is clearly under attack. There are legislative actions, executive orders, and government regulations pending that threaten religious freedom and our conscience rights. At the same time, states, federal government and the - [Move past misleading slogans to engage in respectful conversations](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/move-past-misleading-slogans-to-engage-in-respectful-conversations/) - July 12, 2022 Since the Dobbs decision and the overturn of Roe v. Wade there has been much written expressing support and gratitude that the debate on abortion has been returned to the states. At the same time, you've probably read and heard plenty of incorrect information as individuals express outrage at the Dobbs decision. - [Are You Part of Today’s Counterculture?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/are-you-part-of-todays-counterculture/) - Pro-family types are usually a rather staid bunch; so it’s odd to think of ourselves as “counter-culture.” Today, Shannon Wixom shares some great thoughts on this cultural shift and a simple formula for helping young adults lay the groundwork for a successful life – it’s striking in its simplicity. And, if you are looking for more ideas - [It mattered to me: The legacy of Title IX](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/it-mattered-to-me-the-legacy-of-title-ix/) - June 7, 2022 By the time I was old enough to really engage in sports, and especially by junior high and high school where sports really mattered, Title IX was already in place and the opportunity for women’s sports was well established. While I am too young to remember or experience not having an equal - [It’s time to define “woman” in the law](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/its-time-to-define-woman-in-the-law/) - May 25, 2022 Dear supporter of the family: We begin by offering our sincere condolences to the families in Uvalde, Texas. Such unspeakable evil should never be apart of children's lives and we as a nation must recommit to protecting our young people. As an organization, United Families is committed to helping families be stronger - [ Roe v. Wade Overturned: Will It Happen?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/roe-v-wade-overturned-will-it-happen/) - May 10, 2022 While preparing this article, the media went wild with breaking news about a leaked Supreme Court draft regarding the case Dobbs v Jackson Women’s Health Organization, a decision which has the possibility of overturning Roe v. Wade. Liberals are enraged with Justice Altio's draft and conservatives, although highly concerned about the politics that - [False Narratives: “The Lies We Tell Ourselves”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/false-narratives-the-lies-we-tell-ourselves/) - April 27, 2022 Elon Musk and his purchase of Twitter has dominated the news cycle. Why the energy and the angst? One simple answer: Narrative and who controls it. Learn more about false narratives and what you can do to combat them. Be Bold, Wendy Wixom, President, United Families International False Narratives: “The Lies - [What does abortion have to do with “Climate Change?”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/what-does-abortion-have-to-do-with-climate-change/) - April 12, 2022 Highlights: No matter the stated theme, abortion and gender ideology get top billing at the United Nations. To gain access to $100 billion in UN annual funding, an advocacy group or effort must establish that their cause has a direct connection to climate change. The abortion and LGBT activist achieve success by - [No, You Aren't Stuck in a Bad Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/no-you-arent-stuck-in-a-bad-marriage/) - March 23, 2022 In our culture, there’s always a lot of talk about the state of marriage. Is marriage in decline? Is divorce in everyone’s future? Melissa Rappleye provides a frank discussion of some of the characteristics that can lead to the divorce and probes the question: Will you be better off divorced? Don’t miss - [Good News for those Pushing Back Against Gender Ideology](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/good-news-for-those-pushing-back-against-gender-ideology/) - March 8, 2022 March is upon us, the UN Commission on the Status of Women begins next week, and we are watching the various U.S. State Legislatures enter the final stretch of their sessions. In the midst of all the craziness, there are some promising signs! Our issue update for today should be encouraging on - [Gender Dysphoria, the Latest Threat to Parental Rights](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/gender-dysphoria-the-latest-threat-to-parental-rights/) - February 23, 2022 Back in December, the UN General Assembly for the first time ever adopted a resolution that contained language on sexual orientation and gender identity (SOGI). But now for some good news! During the recently concluded UN Commission on Social Development, the pro-family delegations regained lost ground by standing together to prevent sexual orientation - [Mother-Infant Attachment: Should We Care?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/mother-infant-attachment-should-we-care/) - We share an article on a somewhat sensitive topic. Because of circumstances beyond their control, many mothers, particularly those with young children, are required to enter the workforce. It’s crucial, however, that consideration be given to all the information and research available when making important decisions that can impact our children. Jenet Erickson, who served - [In Vitro Gametogenesis: The Dystopian Technology Designed to Dismantle Reproduction and Heterosexuality](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/in-vitro-gametogenesis-the-dystopian-technology-designed-to-dismantle-reproduction-and-heterosexuality/) - Today’s article feels like the script of a futuristic science fiction screenplay where doctors and scientists scheme to create an outlandish plot to demolish the traditional family. Their strategy - to change the way the world and policy makers view the parent-child connection by eliminating the need for men and women in order to produce - [Finding the Truth in a World of Fiction](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/finding-the-truth-in-a-world-of-fiction/) - For centuries philosophers and theologians have debated the question of “what is truth.” We now live in a time where truth – and what constitutes reality – is not considered that important. A legitimate search for truth has been sidelined as feelings and individual attitudes reign supreme. In today’s article, Kari McEvoy provides insight into - [Protecting Religious Liberty at the United Nations and How You Can Help](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/protecting-religious-liberty-at-the-united-nations-and-how-you-can-help/) - Hello friends! I had a conversation with my daughter a few years ago. She was telling me that young people hear “the family is under attack,” or “religious freedom is under assault,” but it seems the conversation ends there. She wanted to understand the “how” and “why.” As a result, a great conversation ensued. Unfortunately, - [“Cuties: Teaching - or Titillating?”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/cuties-teaching-or-titillating/) - There are days when I find myself walking into the kitchen while cleaning the house and without really thinking about it, I grab a handful of whatever snack is on the counter. A few minutes later I might again, unconsciously, grab another handful. As the day goes on, I realize I have spent the day - [Gender Ideology and Your Child](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/gender-ideology-and-your-child/) - Parents strive to love their children and help them make decisions that will aid in them in becoming happy and healthy adults. Yet, today, the question looms, “What does that love look like?” Does it mean to condone, accept or even celebrate everything your child thinks or does? Or does love sometimes involve the more - [Lessons from a pandemic: A letter to my children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/lessons-from-a-pandemic-a-letter-to-my-children/) - I have long heard the word “remember” referred to as one of the most important words – remember to be grateful, remember, so you can learn from the past. As we look back five, ten or twenty plus years from now, what will we remember from our experiences of 2020? What were the good, the - [The Amy Coney Barrett Confirmation: A Bright Spot of News in Challenging Times](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-amy-coney-barrett-confirmation-a-bright-spot-of-news-in-challenging-times/) - Children often look at adults to find one who has accomplished what they hope to become. They may choose one person they admire for their success in their career, another for their profound results of dedicated effort in developing a talent and yet another for their values or beliefs. Once found, they strive to replicate - [Defending Life at Home and Abroad – The Geneva Consensus Declaration](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/defending-life-at-home-and-abroad-the-geneva-consensus-declaration/) - This Thanksgiving, while pondering my list of things for which I am grateful, I realized my top items always seem to contain people. These individuals, however imperfect, have strengthened me, brought me joy, sometimes even heartache. Yet through it all, they have taught me how to be a better person. I am eternally grateful for their - [Why Do We Do it?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/why-do-we-do-it/) - December 1, 2020 Our neighborhood has been planning and preparing for our annual Sub for Santa to help less fortunate families. As I have pondered the project this year, I have realized what we need, more than dolls and puzzles, is stronger families. As Michael Novak, former ambassador to the UN Commission on Human Rights - [Twenty-seven Year-Old Babies: The Promise and Perils of Embryo Adoption](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/twenty-seven-year-old-babies-the-promise-and-perils-of-embryo-adoption/) - One day I was getting my hair done when my hairdresser asked, “Do you want to hear the craziness that has transpired since I last saw you?” Her husband had done a DNA test. When his DNA test arrived, he learned he was adopted. Within weeks a biological sister, who had been notified of her - [Canceling Cancel Culture – A Goal for 2021 We Can All Embrace](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/canceling-cancel-culture-a-goal-for-2021-we-can-all-embrace/) - Happy New Year, Friends! 2020 was a crazy year. We saw natural disasters, a world-wide pandemic and needed discourse escalating into looting and violence. 2020 left many feeling insecure or even fearful, for a variety of reasons, to participate in what had previously been known as routine – grocery shopping, attending religious services, school, gathering with - [Perpetuating Disunity: The Executive Order on Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/perpetuating-disunity-the-executive-order-on-gender-identity-and-sexual-orientation/) - Though on the outside President Biden’s Executive Order on “Preventing and Combating Discrimination on the Basis of Gender Identity or Sexual Orientation” may sound fair and reasonable, it’s the brutal reality of how it uniquely harms women and girls where we need to be concerned. In today’s article by Tori Black, we learn how this - [The Contempt at the Heart of "Family Planning" Policies](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-contempt-at-the-heart-of-family-planning-policies/) - Mildred Fay Jefferson was the first black women to graduate from Harvard Medical school. Not only did she graduate, she had 28 honorary degrees. She said, “I became a physician in order to help save lives… I am not willing to stand aside and allow the concept of expendable human lives to turn this great land - [How Redefining Marriage Has Undermined the Rights and Wellbeing of Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/how-redefining-marriage-has-undermined-the-rights-and-wellbeing-of-children/) - A landmark custody case has resurfaced as Lisa Miller has returned to the United States and turned herself in to face charges for kidnapping. Her daughter, Isabella, who is now 18 remains in Nicaragua. Even years later there is controversy about who is the victim in these events. As stated in today's article by Katie - [Video Games: Healthy Pastime or Pathway to Addiction?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/video-games-healthy-pastime-or-pathway-to-addiction/) - This past year brought changes into our lives that we never anticipated. Many parents are now feeling overloaded and short on time as they need to spend more time taking care of their family and overseeing their children’s education. On the other hand, some adults and children are discovering they have more time than - [Equality and Fairness: Re-establishing the Common Good Through the Principle of Compromise](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/equality-and-fairness-re-establishing-the-common-good-through-the-principle-of-compromise/) - The Equality Act, once again, looms large in the political and cultural debates - threatening religious freedom, women's rights and our way of understanding marriage, family and humanity as it relates to discrimination in the public square. To some, the Fairness for All Act (FFA) presents a viable alternative to the Equality Act. But is - [Standing Up to UN Overreach at the Commission on the Status of Women](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/standing-up-to-un-overreach-at-the-commission-on-the-status-of-women/) - Each year, prior to the beginning of the UN Commission on the Status of Women (CSW), UFI is engaged in training and preparing college students and other adults to engage in this two-week-long annual event centered on women's rights. Part of the UFI team follows the negotiations of the CSW Outcome Document, while others engage - [Putting an End to Critical Race Theory – We Need Your Help!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/putting-an-end-to-critical-race-theory/) - It’s becoming more and more common to hear things that sound good, yet after taking a deeper look into the words, message, or policy, you realize it’s not what it first seems. The new rule, proposed in mid-April by the Biden administration to address racism, certainly fits in that category. Yes, properly teaching our children - [Making the Right Choice](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/casting-stones-in-abortion-debate-is-wrong-but-so-is-accepting-abortions-necessity/) - Making decisions can be hard – often really hard. It seems those “really hard” decisions, for the most part, are easier to make when we are making them for someone else. Sometimes, being in the middle of difficult decision-making moments or determining how to face the consequences of previous decisions, we may need someone to - [The Importance of Language in Defending Women's Sports](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-importance-of-language-in-defending-womens-sports/) - There is increasing pressure, today, to succumb to and even celebrate certain narratives and behaviors. When beliefs are in conflict, people are often shamed through name-calling. As parents and adults, it is our responsibility to teach children how to respond to each other, even when we disagree, with kindness and respect. Niceness, love or respect - [Equality Act Survey](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/equality-act-survey/) - United Families International is pleased to announce our sponsorship and release of a new national survey! The findings are revealing and encouraging to those who value the right of women and girls to privacy, safety and opportunity. The survey also shows that citizens, on both sides of the political aisle, value free speech and the right to - [Demographic Decline – What’s Causing It, and How We Can Reverse It](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/demographic-decline-whats-causing-it-and-how-we-can-reverse-it/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ admin_label=”section” _builder_version=”3.22″ global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row admin_label=”row” _builder_version=”3.25″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” global_colors_info=”{}” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text” _builder_version=”4.12.0″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” sticky_enabled=”0″] “Sustainability” has become an often-used word with many individuals and groups touting fertility reduction as a necessary goal for achieving sustainability. As a result of their efforts – and a host of - [The Precarious State of Parental Rights](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-precarious-state-of-parental-rights/) - Several years ago, a prominent U.S. media personality sparked heated controversy by arguing that if we are going to start investing adequately in public education, “we have to break through our kind of private idea that kids belong to their parents or kids belong to their families and recognize that kids belong to whole communities.” It is - [The Tenacity of the Pro-family Movement](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-tenacity-of-the-pro-family-movement/) - Contributed by Tori Black - August 3, 2021 In the Old Testament story of David and Goliath, Goliath was a giant of a man. The record says he was six cubits tall – about nine feet. He was a Philistine soldier outfitted with a bronze helmet and a coat of scale armor. Bronze greaves - [The Untold Story of Gender Detransitioners](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-untold-story-of-gender-detransitioners/) - Contributed by Brittney Jones - August 17, 2021 “A gender specialist told me to give it more time. Eight years seemed like an awfully long time to me. Nothing made sense. Why hadn’t the recommended hormones and surgery worked? Why was I still distressed about my gender identity? Why wasn’t I happy being Laura? - [What do People of Color think about Gender Identity Policies?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/what-do-people-of-color-think-about-gender-identity-policies/) - When United Families had the chance to be involved in the sponsorship of another survey, we jumped at the opportunity. We felt it was important to understand the thinking of a less-examined demographic (People of Color) on one of the most polarizing issues of our day – the transgender/gender identity movement. We found some things - [It's Long Past Time for a Reckoning with Roe](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/its-long-past-time-for-a-reckoning-with-roe/) - The current U.S. administration took office on January 20, 2021. Eight days later, January 28, Pres. Biden signed an executive order removing the signature of the United States from the Geneva Consensus Declaration, a declaration of 35 countries stating abortion is not an international human right. The Executive Order also restored funding to the UN - [Adult Desires Above Children's Needs?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/adult-desires-above-childrens-needs/) - Much of today’s cultural narrative centers on “me” and “what I want.” While a what-I-want focus might have utility when we consider goal setting and choosing a path forward in life, it can also have a dark side. How often do we stop to consider the impact of “what I want” on others? In today’s - [In Unity, Our Great Strength Lies](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/which-34-countries-support-life/) - Within the international community, many push abortion as an international human right. We see that appalling policy goal pushed forward in virtually every United Nations document negotiation each year. However, despite their intense effort, abortion has never been agreed upon as an international human right. In today’s article, Shannon Wixom explains a document that brought - [A Harvest of Demographic Decline](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-harvest-of-demographic-decline/) - What happens when a country decides to stop having children? That is a question that is becoming more pertinent each day as demographers, economists, and national leaders struggle to answer the question. Global fertility has been declining over the past half century, from almost five live births per woman (1970-1975) to 2.5 births (2015-2020.) In - [Who Controls My Child’s Education – The Government or Me?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/who-controls-my-childs-education-the-government-or-me/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ admin_label=”section” _builder_version=”3.22″ global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row admin_label=”row” _builder_version=”3.25″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” global_colors_info=”{}” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text” _builder_version=”4.12.0″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” sticky_enabled=”0″] Last week’s elections (November 2021) proved to be a watershed moment for parents and for parental rights. Many political analysts point to the “parent factor” when referencing the number of politicians - [Driven by Fear](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/driven-by-fear/) - There is much hope in the pro-life community as the U.S. Supreme Court, on December 1, 2021, heard oral arguments regarding the Mississippi state law that bans abortion after 15 weeks of pregnancy (Dobbs v. Jackson Women’s Health Organization). With a legitimate chance to end Roe v. Wade before us, it’s appropriate to consider factors - [Are Religious Freedom Protections Obsolete?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/are-religious-freedom-protections-obsolete/) - With legislative sessions beginning around the United States, we wanted to let you know of some great tools on UFI's website! Go to the Your State page, (under "Get Involved") where you will find links to your state's current bills, create a bill watchlist, watch live streaming of legislative hearings, including state school board meetings. - [The Year to Teach, Empower and Enjoy Your Children!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-year-to-teach-empower-and-enjoy-your-children/) - The Year to Teach, Empower and Enjoy Your Children! - January 7, 2022 A recent commentary reflecting on the dramatic change our society and culture have seen in the last few years listed “13 Happenings in 2021 That I Never Would Have Believed 5 Years Ago.” Among the interesting, but disturbing, things listed were: Men - [Gender Identity Ideology – The Political Religion Distorting the Meaning of Sex and Gender](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/gender-identity-ideology-the-political-religion-distorting-the-meaning-of-sex-and-gender/) - This alert makes the adage “Politics makes strange bedfellows” very relevant. United Families International has found common cause with the self-described radical feminist group Women’s Liberation Front (WoLF). We share WoLF’s concern regarding the effort of the UN Human Rights Commission, particularly the efforts of the “Independent Expert on Sexual Orientation & Gender Identity." We appreciate the - [Hungary's efforts to support the Family includes you!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/hungarys-efforts-to-support-the-family-includes-you/) - An invitation to support the family and Hungary at the "Demography and the Culture of Relationship Between Couples" Conference. Dear United Families International Supporters, We would like to invite you to participate in a free virtual conference being held in Hungary May 27-29, 2021, titled, "Demography and the Culture of Relationship Between Couples." This event is being sponsored by the Family - [The Equal Rights Amendment: Still a Bad Idea for Women and Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-equal-rights-amendment-still-a-bad-idea-for-women-and-families/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, In 1972 the Equal Rights Amendment (ERA) passed the US Senate and was sent to the states for ratification. It was first proposed in 1923 but didn’t gain any traction until following the feminist revolution that began in the 1960s. While the proposed amendment appeared to be - [A New Year: Resolve to Protect Religious Freedom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/new-year-resolve-protect-religious-freedom/) - A New Year: Resolve to Protect Religious Freedom “Houston, we have a problem.” A line made famous by the movie, Apollo 13, is one of the top movie quotes of all time. It was a monumental understatement for a perilous emergency that threatened the lives of the three men aboard the tiny craft hurtling through - [For Sale: One Child, Excellent Genes](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ellsworth-sale-one-child-excellent-genes/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: From the light bulb to jet engines to smart phones, the expansion of technology has been a great benefit to humankind. But can it go too far? Science fiction movies are filled with spine-chilling examples, but today’s truth may be even stranger than fiction. Today’s Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) - [The Best Gift Under the Tree](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/best-gift-tree/) - As I look out my window of twinkling lights to the house across the street similarly clad, I smile. I remember my good neighbor who would say to me every Christmas: "The best gift under the tree is the family all wrapped up in each other!" And you know, he was absolutely right. There is - [Your Gift to Your Children and the World](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/gift-children-world/) - September 15, 2016 Can you guess the single most searched-for topic on ourUFI website? Our most frequently viewed Guide to Family Issues? If you guessed “Divorce,” you would be right. If you are searching for answers regarding your marriage, you are not alone. Today’s insightful alert by Michael and Jenet Erickson provides some answers — - [FATHERS, BE GOOD TO YOUR DAUGHTERS](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/fathers-be-good-to-your-daughters/) - “Katy Perry, a pop icon in the United States, said, ‘I don’t need a dude to have children. We are living in the future. I’m not anti-men. I love men. But there is an option if someone doesn’t present himself.’ . . . I’m going to spend the next little while addressing this statement, and - [Concerned about issues?  We can help.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/concerned-about-issues-we-can-help/) - Hello Friends: United Families International has been hard at work! This week we want to introduce you to two new opportunities to become better acquainted with the issues and challenges impacting the family, parenting, religious freedom and more. Gaining Clarity and Communication Tools The first is the HomeFront Project. HomeFront is a project years in - [2020 – A Blessing of Thin Times and Places](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/2020-a-blessing-of-thin-times-and-places/) - From the Desk of Wendy Wixom: “Over the river and through the woods to grandmother’s house we go,” may not be the scene for many this holiday season. What a change this year has been. Often during December our to-do lists grow and the holiday season gets busy as we run from the stores to - [Sexual Integrity: The Key to a Happy Life](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/sexual-integrity-the-key-to-a-happy-life/) - From the desk of Wendy Wixom: When I was young my father often shared a story about my paternal grandfather. He had gone to the small-town market. When checking out, he realized he had forgotten his wallet. The grocer told him, “Milton, you are a man of your word. Pay me the next time you - [The Personhood of the Fetus: Reframing the Abortion Debate](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-personhood-of-the-fetus-reframing-the-abortion-debate/) - From the Desk of Wendy Wixom: Recently there have been numerous discussions surrounding the value of people. Human beings are of great value regardless of their age, race, sex, nationality, income status or religious beliefs. That might seem a logical statement. But, at what point is one’s value activated? During our years of development, we - [Help UFI Stop the United Nations Efforts to Undermine Religious Freedom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/help-ufi-stop-the-united-nations-efforts-to-undermine-religious-freedom/) - From the Desk of Wendy Wixom: Sunday, I gathered with others in my community for our Sabbath religious service. Due to Covid-19 restrictions there were some noticeable differences from what Church was like four months ago. Not only were there fewer attendees, but it was also shorter than normal. The building and pews were sanitized - [A Texas Victory for Parents and Children We Can All Celebrate](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-texas-victory-for-parents-and-children-we-can-all-celebrate/) - From the Desk: With increasing frequency, the legal rights of fit parents are being challenged. However, June 26th was a big win for parental rights and for all children. The Texas Supreme Court delivered an opinion reinforcing the constitutional underpinning of a fit “parents’ fundamental right to make decisions concerning the care, custody, and control of their children.” Today’s - [Preserving Freedom and Women’s Sports](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/preserving-freedom-and-womens-sports/) - From the Desk: During the past few months of COVID isolation one thing many have missed is watching or participating in sports – whether it’s professional, college or the local High School competition. Lately, we have also heard an increase in conversations regarding equality and freedom. Yet, how often do you put sports, freedom and - [Supreme Court Co-opts Legislative Power and Redefines Womanhood](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/supreme-court-co-opts-legislative-power-and-redefines-womanhood/) - From the Desk: Monday, June 15, 2020, will be remembered as a very dark day for women’s rights. United Families Board member, Camille Williams, gives her analysis of yesterday’s U.S. Supreme Court ruling regarding three different cases involving LGBT rights. Does discrimination because of sexual orientation or gender identity constitute discrimination because of sex? The court ruled - [A World Without Women](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-world-without-women/) - From the Desk of Wendy Wixom: Oscar Wilde, an Irish playwright and poet once wrote, “Nowadays people know the price of everything but the value of nothing.” In many cultures, a daughter comes at a high price. She is considered a “drain on family resources” because she will not become the bread winner who will - [Polyamory and the Domino Effect](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/polyamory-and-the-domino-effect/) - From the Desk of Wendy Wixom: Today, we often hear the phrase “love just love” or “love don’t judge.” But, is using judgment to determine the consequences (short or long term) of a behavior judgmental or common sense? Actually, might sharing the information to help protect people and society from those negative consequences be more - [Homeschooling: is it as bad as some say?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/homeschooling-is-it-as-bad-as-some-say/) - Hello Friends! With the closure of schools due to the coronavirus, some parents have had to increase their attention to the education of their children. While some parents are overwhelmed by the added responsibilities, others are enjoying the opportunity to spend more time as a family and find new ways to teach their children at - [One blessing of coronavirus quarantine: Enforced family time](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/one-blessing-of-coronavirus-quarantine-enforced-family-time/) - Dear Friends, The coronavirus has impacted families in multiple ways. There have been challenges and blessings. One thing we are reminded is that “family has always been the central source of influence, whether or not we have treated it that way.” Among the discussion in our featured article, Jenet Erickson shares: Policies and programs have - [Sacrificing the Wellbeing of Children: New York’s Legalization of Commercial Surrogacy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/sacrificing-the-wellbeing-of-children-new-yorks-legalization-of-commercial-surrogacy/) - Hello Friends, How are you doing? Is your family holding up under the pressure of Covid-19 illness and disruption? This is a stressful time for everyone, we know. Our thoughts and prayers are with and for you all. It has been said that politicians should never let a crisis go to waste. With that in - [Emerging from the Crucible of the Coronavirus as a Stronger Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/emerging-from-the-crucible-of-the-coronavirus-as-a-stronger-family/) - Hello Friends, Well, it has been quite a month, hasn’t it? My prayers and thoughts are for you, your families, and especially for all those in the healthcare field and government who are working overtime to help others and to craft policy that will affect all of us. I hope that despite how challenging the - [RIP women’s sports? You can help, but you need to act quickly!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/rip-womens-sports-you-can-help-but-you-need-to-act-quickly/) - The state of Idaho has accomplished something very important – the legislature has passed House Bill 500 the “Fairness in Women’s Sports Act.” The bill now sits on the Governor of Idaho’s desk – and he is getting lots of pressure and misinformation from LGBT lobby groups and needs to be encouraged to sign this - [How Extended Family Builds Resiliency](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/how-extended-family-builds-resiliency/) - Hello Friends, It is not uncommon for policymakers and governments to see the family in terms of a set of needs and a consumer of resources. There is no doubt that families need strengthening and support. In viewing the family through this paradigm, however, we fail to appreciate the contributions strong families make to their - [Governmental Religious Bias](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/governmental-religious-bias/) - December 1, 2011 Governmental Religious Bias Efforts to squash religion into the strictly private sphere appear to be on the rise around the world. We report today, however, on some events that show attacks on religious freedom that are taking a somewhat different path - governmental bias in favor of particular "religions" and directed discrimination - [Rape, Incest and Faulty Logic](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-rape-incest-and-faulty-logic/) - December 16, 2011 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg While this season of year typically celebrates the life of a new born in Bethlehem, we cannot ignore the ongoing threat to new life today in the form of abortion. In this week's alert, our Life Issues expert, Melissa Anderson, makes a comparison for us that - [A Season for Giving...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-season-for-giving/) - December 21, 2011 A Season of Giving...: Christmas joy comes in many forms. Two of my favorites are Christmas stories and Nativities. I have a wonderful collection of both which include world-wide evidences of the love and service that is inspired by the tiny baby born two millennial ago. One of my favorite stories is - [No-Fault. No Way... (Part I of a series on Divorce)](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/no-fault-no-way-part-i-of-a-series-on-divorce/) - January 11, 2012 No-Fault. No Way... (1st in a Two-Part Series on Divorce) Over the holidays, my friend Jane spent her time packing up what remained of her perfectly-detailed home of the last 23 years. Thirty year's worth of furniture and personal possessions had already been put out on the street to be sold at - [Religions Marked as Racists](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/religions-marked-as-racists/) - January, 18 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: Today, we want to make sure that all have seen the extremely important letter penned by religious leaders from "Anglican, Baptist, Catholic Evangelical, Jewish, Lutheran, Mormon and Pentecostal communities in the United States." The letter is entitled: "Marriage and Religious Freedoms: Fundamental Goods that Stand or - [A Chance to Look Back and to Look Forward](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-chance-to-look-back-and-to-look-forward/) - December 28, 2011 A Chance to Look Back and to Look Forward: The end of the year is the perfect time to reflect on where we've been and where we're going. The cause of families is so crucial and so important that each of us needs to evaluate what we're willing to do this next - [The Pain of the Unborn](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-pain-of-the-unborn/) - January 23, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg:: Each year, on the anniversary of the Supreme Court decision, Roe v. Wade, the U.S. joins with many in the international pro-life community in celebrating life and recommitting to the effort to save the lives of the unborn who are threatened by abortion. Anyone who saw - [20 Seconds to Protect Life](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/20-seconds-to-protect-life/) - February 1, 2012 Komen Foundation Can Now Run a Stronger Race Against Breast Cancer In a decision that has sparked outrage among the pro-abortion community and jubilation among those committed to life, the Susan G. Komen Foundation has announced that they will no longer be providing funds to Planned Parenthood. Komen announced a new policy - [Changing the World](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-changing-the-world/) - February 7, 2012 Changing the World! From the desk of Carol Soelberg: We have much to report on today. Prop 8 Deemed Unconstitutional First, the 9th Circuit Court of appeals has over-ridden the vote of the citizens of California and overturned California's Prop 8 - the amendment that defined marriage as between one man - [Seeing is Believing! Ultrasound and Abortion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/andersen-seeing-is-believing-ultrasound-and-abortion/) - February 15, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: There is a reason pro-abortion advocates don't want pregnant women to have the life-changing experience of viewing an ultra-sound of their unborn child! This week, our life issues expert , Melissa Anderson, shares her personal experience in realizing the realness of life. We suggest it is - [A Pro-Life Manifesto](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-a-pro-life-manifesto/) - March 28, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: Melissa Anderson, our Life Issues expert, is presently unavoidably away from her family. In moments such as these reflections bring to the surface our innermost thoughts and feelings clarifying our positions on the passions that drive our efforts. Melissa asks some pertinent questions and draws some - [Hand Over Your Freedom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-hand-over-your-freedom/) - April 3, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: A number of years ago, I flew to Kosovo with a small group of pro-family leaders who wanted to influence the constitution of that new land with laws that would protect their long standing tradition of family values and solidarity. As we met with the leaders - [An Unfortunate First](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/an-unfortunate-first/) - April 12, 2012 "An Unfortunate First" They're mad! Yes, they're really mad. So mad that over the last few weeks they've been collecting signatures on a statement that they're going to present to "UN Member States, CSW and other relevant UN human rights and development entities." They've been busy sending out emails full of passionate - [The Most Influential Role](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-the-most-influential-role/) - May 10, 2012 From the desk of Carol Soelberg: Happy Mother's Day! United Families International sends warm wishes to women around the world who are honored this week as "Mothers". The single most influential role in the world is that of a mother. Civilizations are created and conquered through the teaching and training of mothers. - [Not Just Problems - But Solutions!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-not-just-problems-but-solutions/) - May 17, 2012 Not Just Problems - But Solutions! How do you solve the problem of poverty and hunger without considering the role of the family? How do you achieve education of all the world's children without considering the involvement of parents? How do you reduce child mortality without recognizing the crucial role of mothers, - [Eight Hours of Life](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-eight-hours-of-life/) - May 23, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: Many people today have fallen into the trap of thinking that a life is disposable -- that if it doesn't fit a certain mold, or norm or age it is of no value. At United Families International we believe that life, especially human life has its - [Supporters of "Family" Gather in Madrid](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-supporters-of-family-gather-in-madrid/) - June 1, 2012 Supporters of "Family" Gather in Madrid What happens when you take the magical city of Madrid and add almost 3000 people, including some 100+ experts on family issues, hundreds of volunteers, several nights of world-class entertainment and all the passion and excitement of the people of Spain? You get an incredibly successful - [Of Forests and Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-of-forests-and-families/) - June 7, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: "The demise of two-parent families in the U.S. has been an economic catastrophe for society." So begins an important article entitled "The Single Mother Catastrophe." Perhaps no other indicator so readily describes the breakdown of the family as the meteoric rise of the number of unwed - [Fathers - A Powerful Influence for Good](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/fathers-a-powerful-influence-for-good/) - June 13, 2012 Fathers - A Powerful Influence for Good I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection. -Sigmund Freud The greatest thing a FATHER can do to his children, is to love their mother. -Anjaneth Garcia Untalan "A good father is one of the most - [Secret Abortions for Teens](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-secret-abortions-for-teens/) - June 29, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: We're all still reeling from the U.S. Supreme Court decision to uphold "Obamacare." This piece of legislation is an affront to individual liberty and to religious freedom and must be repealed. We will be putting our influence behind those efforts. We wanted, today, to draw your - [Exaggerated Costs of Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-exaggerated-costs-of-children/) - July 3, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: In response to a recent article in the Wall Street Journal, United Families International used as its poll question: "Do you believe that it costs a middle-income family $234,900 to raise a child through age 17?" Here's how our readers responded: "No Way" 63 Percent - [China One Child Policy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-china-one-child-policy/) - July 18, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: This week we received distressing news of the election of Nkosazana Dlamini-Zuma as head of the African Union. This is particularly unfortunate news for unborn children. Dlamini-Zuma is the former Health Minister of South Africa and authored the Choice on Termination of Pregnancy Bill (1996) - - [Marriage, the Anti-Poverty Weapon](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-marriage-the-anti-poverty-weapon/) - July 27, 2012 Marriage: The Anti-Poverty Weapon It's been all over the news this week: "U.S. poverty heads toward highest level in 50 years." Other countries around the world, notably Greece and Spain, continue to struggle with insolvency and surging rates of poverty. Economists and other experts point to all sorts of reasons: unemployment, the - [Where Do You Stand?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-where-do-you-stand/) - UFI Alert: Where Do You Stand? Aug 1, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: It's a good thing I'm an optimist! Each week as I review the worldwide threats to the family I am amazed that the anti-family agenda just keeps chipping away at the only sure source of societal prosperity and peace - - [Feet and Mouths and Media](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-feet-and-mouths-and-media/) - UFI: Feet and Mouths and Media Aug 23, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: Abortion is in the media spotlight this week as a controversy brews in the U.S. over a political candidate's misstep and misstatement. United Families International does not wish to get involved in the politics swirling around this candidate, but we - [Doing the Rights Things](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/leadership-doing-the-rights-things/) - September 6, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: UFI is all about preserving a future for the family! We work hard to be a voice for people around the world from every religion, culture, and political background who are fighting, as we are, to strengthen the family as the basic unit of society. As - [Are the kids really going to be alright?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-are-the-kids-really-going-to-be-alright/) - Sept 14, 2012 Are the kids really going to be alright? You may not even know who Mark Regnerus is but to United Families International, he is a hero. We have waited almost two weeks to write about the vindication of Mark Regnerus, in the hope that we would be able to report that the major - [Fight the Entire Battle](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-fight-the-entire-battle/) - September 20, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: "... I feel that the greatest destroyer of peace today is abortion, because it is a war against the child - a direct killing of the innocent child - murder by the mother herself. And if we accept that a mother can kill even her own - [Don't Leave Us to Fight Alone](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-dont-leave-us-to-fight-alone/) - September 27, 2012 Don't Leave Us to Fight Alone A pre-born life saved... A marriage strengthened... A child's future safeguarded.... These are the objectives of UFI as we donate untold hours of volunteer effort to educate, advocate and unite the pro-family voice around the world. We know that not only your happiness but civilization itself - [The Secret to a Happy Life](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-the-secret-to-a-happy-life/) - Oct 4, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: I typically start my day with a quick view of World Family News. I like to keep up on the threats and strengths families face around the world. It never ceases to amaze me that the news so often reported is like the tail that wags - [Teach Your Children to Work!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/teach-your-children-to-work/) - Oct 9, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: This week's alert comes to us from our Vice President of Family Strengthening. She is a clinical social worker who has been married for 22 years and has four children. She is well-positioned both personally and professionally to share important insights into ways we can build - [Citizens Decide the Fate of Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/citizens-decide-the-fate-of-marriage/) - Oct 17, 2012 We Need a Shutout! US Marriage Score today: 0-32 Citizens Decide the Fate of Marriage To say it is a pivotal time for marriage would be quite an understatement! Supporters of same-sex marriage are energized by recent developments such as the extreme support of so-called "gay rights" by a sitting U.S. President, - [Fundamental Right or Fundamental Wrong](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-fundamental-right-or-fundamental-wrong/) - October 24, 2012 From The Desk of Carol Soelberg: One of the deceptive tools frequently used by the folks who would like to see our traditional family culture rewritten is to take well meaning words or phrases that appealed to the basic goodness of most people and attach unsuspecting and unappealing meanings to them. For - [Stop the Radical Anti-Family Agenda](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/stop-the-radical-anti-family-agenda/) - October 30, 2012 What Will You Do to Stop the Anti-Family Agenda? While UFI is a non-partisan organization, we recognized that unless caring, concerned, and committed people involve themselves in the electoral political system of the nation in which they live, the radical, anti-family agenda may prevail. Succeeding in the cultural war is everybody's responsibility - [A World Tipped Upside Down](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-world-tipped-upside-down/) - November 15, 2012 From The Desk of Carol Soelberg: When one considers the factors that have contributed to the on-going effort to dismantle traditional marriage, there are many "culprits" to consider. Not the least of which is the 1970's advent of so-called "no-fault divorce." Add to that the normalization and now validation of pre-marital sex - [Trading Sovereignty for Symbolism](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/trading-sovereignty-for-symbolism/) - November 29, 2012 Trading Sovereignty for Symbolism Those who favor turning our sovereignty over to the United Nations system are at it again. This week the U.S. Senate voted on a motion to move the U.N. Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities to the floor for a ratification vote - a vote that - [I Remember Darkness](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-i-remember-darkness/) - December 12, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: The article you are about to read is both graphic and heart wrenching. It is also true. I know personally the author and invite you to get acquainted with her. If you are a regular - [The Best Gift under the Tree](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-the-best-gift-under-the-tree/) - Dec. 22, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: As I look out my window of twinkling lights to the house across the street similarly clad, I smile. I remember my good neighbor who would say to me every Christmas, "The best gift under the tree is the family all wrapped up in each other!" - [What are the Anti-Family Forces Up To?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-what-are-the-anti-family-forces-up-to/) - Dec. 28, 2012 What are the Anti-Family Forces Up To? Years ago, a wise teacher offered some good advice on New Year's Resolutions: Make only one; just one - preferably a simple-to-do one. Break a goal down into parts to be accomplished on multiple years if necessary, but choose one thing you can give - [What is Your Business?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-what-is-your-business/) - January 3, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg United Families International wishes you a very Happy and Prosperous New Year. We are exited and concerned for the prospects of the New Year! Excited because we know families CAN be strengthened and protected. Concerned because we have not yet realized the resources from our - [What Do You Value Most?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-what-do-you-value-most/) - January 10, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg I love the number 13! I was born on the 13th, (as was my husband) have (coincidentally) thirteen children and so I look forward to the year 2013 as my lucky year! I'm also smart enough to know that good things rarely happen without effort so - [Religious Freedom Day, Really?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-religious-freedom-day-really/) - January 16, 2013 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg Have you ever wondered why the first pillar of respect for United Families International is "to promote laws, political structures, and religious and cultural norms that preserve and protect the family?" We have centuries of historical evidence to prove that those cultures that have a religious - [A Life or Death Situation](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-a-life-or-death-situation/) - January 23, 2013 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg "This is a life or death situation!" These words strike terror in hearts of all who hear them spoken. We go to great lengths to protect, sustain, and preserve the lives of those near to us--even if they are complete strangers. In a society that prides - [UPDATE Boy Scouts](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-update-boy-scouts/) - February 1, 2013 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: Hopefully you have given some thought to the communication that we sent on Tuesday regarding the possible change to the long-standing Boy Scouts of America policy of maintaining their values and keeping Scouts safe by restricting openly homosexual individuals from holding leadership positions. Those of you - [In Search of "Common Good"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/hinton-in-search-of-common-good/) - February 15, 2013 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: Parental Rights is one family "respect" that we rarely have to explain. Common sense clearly attests to the fact stated in our UN Negotiating Guide: "The nurturing, care of a loving mother and father can be the most significant contribution toward building a world of peace. - [Keeping Women Safe](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-keeping-women-safe/) - February 26, 2013 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: We are excited to bring to your attention a very important event that we have posted on WorldFamilyNews.com! Every year, United Families International partners with Howard Center in sponsoring a World Congress of Families. This year it will be held in Sydney, Australia, on May 15-18, 2013. - [Financial Security is born in the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-financial-security-is-born-in-the-family/) - March 7, 2013 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: The manipulations and untruths have already begun. Monday marked the beginning of a two-week session of the UN Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) and United Families International has a team at the UN working almost around the clock to protect the family. Two international-reach - [Parental Rights Matter](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/hinton-parental-rights-matter/) - March 14, 2013 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: It has been a very exciting week at the United Nation's Commission on the Status of Women (CSW). Because a consensus document was not reached last year, the opposition has pulled all stops to make sure all their anti-family language is included in this year's outcome - [Countries Manipulated by Media](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-countries-manipulated-by-media/) - March 20, 2013 Countries Manipulated by the Media Late on Friday, the UN negotiating room erupted in cheers as anti-family activists welcomed the adoption of the "Agreed Conclusions" for the Commission on Status of Women (CSW) 57th session. Two weeks of intense negotiations had produced a document that was less than favorable to the cause - [Marriage Hangs in the Balance](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-marriage-hangs-in-the-balance/) - March 26, 2013 Marriage hangs in the balance It is a pivotal time for marriage. On Tuesday, March 26, the Supreme Court listened to Oral Arguments on the future of Proposition 8 - California's Constitutional Amendment defining marriage as being between one man and one woman. On Wednesday, March 27, the Supreme Court will listen to - ["Common" Children - Common Core](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/hinton-common-children-common-core/) - April 3, 2013 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg Don't you hate to sink your teeth into a wonderfully juicy looking apple only find the core distastefully rotten? In a very big and disappointing way that appears to be the case for most of us in the Common Core State Standard (CCSS) school curriculum. And, - [Do Kids belong to their Parents?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/hinton-do-kids-belong-to-their-parents/) - April 10, 2013 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg Four years ago I left a commission at the United Nations with the stark realization that Parent Rights would be the next BIG battle ground. We started immediately honing in on the social science that supported the myriad of reasons parental rights are imperative to a - [Big Wins for the Unborn](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/bailey-big-wins-for-the-unborn/) - April 17, 2013 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg United Families International is proud to co-sponsor World Congress of Families VII in Sydney, Australia May 15-18. This global gathering of individuals and organizations is a powerful force for good in the pro-family movement. Educating, networking, and inspiring exhibits by experts and layman a like offer - [Family Structure & Education Success](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-family-structure-education-success/) - February 6, 2013 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: There have been many emotions these last 10 days as we have all watched and many of us contributed to the discussion of whether BSA should revoke their long-standing (and long-defended) policy against having openly homosexuals leaders and scouts. Today the Boy Scout Executive Board announced - [New Meaning for "Morally Straight"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-new-meaning-for-morally-straight/) - January 29, 2013 New Meaning for "Morally Straight" The Boy Scouts of America (BSA) will announce next week whether they will retain a long-standing policy of not allowing homosexuals to serve as volunteer leaders or whether they will now allow individuals who are openly homosexual to participate in the scouting program. The Boy Scouts of - [The Pies that Bind](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/soelberg-the-pies-that-bind/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Golden-brown turkey, soft buttery rolls, spicy pumpkin pies. . . what are your family’s favorite Thanksgiving traditions? Family traditions are more than just familiar routines. They are powerful sources of strength to families. Research shows that traditions give structure and rhythm to family life, and bring predictability, cohesion, and - [More women are in the workforce than men. Should we celebrate or be concerned?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/more-women-are-in-the-workforce-than-men-should-we-celebrate-or-be-concerned/) - Hello Friends, Because of historical discrimination against girls and women in education and careers, females have benefited from efforts to advance their opportunities and expectations. For instance, studies show that young boys’ and girls’ brains process math in similar ways. Yet, as they get older, girls fall behind boys in science and math at school. - [The Equal Rights Amendment – Symbolism vs. Substance](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/25615/) - Hello Friends, Virginia has ratified the Equal Rights Amendment decades after the deadline for ratification and states from both sides of the debate have filed suit in court. Virginia, Nevada and Illinois, the last three states to ratify the ERA, argue that the national archivist is required by law to certify the amendment. Alabama, Louisiana - [Bella Thorne Became Bella Porn? A Research Response to an ex-Disney Princess](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/bella-thorne-became-bella-porn-a-research-response-to-an-ex-disney-princess/) - Hello Friends, The evidence is so strong that pornography has a detrimental effect on individuals and relationships that it is almost hard to believe that there are still people who think its influence is benign, even beneficial. But that is the attitude of one-time Disney star Bella Thorne. The 22-year-old made her directorial debut filming - [Lessons from Dumbledore: Standing Up to Anti-Science Activism](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/lessons-from-dumbledore-standing-up-to-anti-science-activism/) - Hello Friends, I have a confession. I did not especially like the Harry Potter books when they first came out. My children loved them, and as one who loves books and who wanted to instill a similar love of literature in my children, I encouraged their enthusiasm for the series, but stuck to Tolkien for - [Bethlehem and the Gift of the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/bethlehem-and-the-gift-of-the-family/) - Hello Friends, I will be frank. We need your help. Every year UFI brings university students with us to the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women (CSW). We and their faculty advisors spend weeks preparing them to share their knowledge that the family is fundamental to thriving communities and nations. This experience for - [The Equal Rights Amendment – Not Dead and Still Dangerous](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-equal-rights-amendment-not-dead-and-still-dangerous/) - Hello Friends, The issue that spurred the creation of United Families International is back in the news because the legislature in the state of Virginia has flipped and is poised to pass the Equal Rights Amendment. The passage of the proposed amendment is a matter of principle for many women who want the constitution to - [Preparing Children to Guard Their Hearts and Minds](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/preparing-children-to-guard-their-hearts-and-minds/) - Hello Friends, Have you ever had a child come home with an assignment that she just couldn’t bring herself to read? Not because she didn’t want to do the work, but because the book selection was just so full of objectionable material, it made her eyes burn? Schools increasingly assign explicit material to students. You - [Injuring the Innocent: The Pernicious Effect of Pornography on Home and Society](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/injuring-the-innocent-the-pernicious-effect-of-pornography-on-home-and-society/) - In 1624, John Donne, metaphysical poet and cleric in the Church of England, wrote: No man is an island entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main; if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, - [A Double-Header of Good News](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/double-header-good-news/) - April 14, 2017 A Double-Header of Good News: "Family" Language Back on Track at the UN! After years of not being able to substantively address “family” in UN documents, the dry spell has ended and “family” is back in a Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) Agreed Conclusions document! Even though there are numerous - [Am I an over-indulgent Parent?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/am-i-an-over-indulgent-parent/) - They say parenting is the hardest, yet most rewarding job – and I definitely agree! As a mom, I am grateful for guidance and information that can help me navigate the most important job I will ever do. So, do I over-indulge my children? That’s the question I’ve been asking myself after reading this week’s - [World Congress of Families - UFI was there!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-world-congress-of-families-ufi-was-there/) - From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: “Families are the rampart against tyranny!” is as true today as it was six years ago when I first heard it at the beginning of the first World Congress of Families I ever attended in Warsaw Poland. Working to preserve families for international and personal peace is the object - [Who Has Your Back?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/who-has-your-back/) - From the desk of Tori Black: Here at UFI, we are in the thick of preparations for attending the UN during the Commission on the Status of Women. We have been busy facilitating participation in side events by pro-family organizations and setting up appointments to share our pro-family message with representatives from around the world. - [If You want to Help Children, then Help Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/want-help-children-help-marriage/) - We continually hear from media, popular culture, and even courts that a married mother and father doesn’t matter for children. “Any four hands will do” is a common refrain when it comes to raising children, but the information Jenet Erickson shares with us tells a very different story. It seems at times even those who - [The Highest Arts](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-highest-arts/) - In the U.S., Mother’s Day is celebrated each year on the 2nd Sunday of May. It is a day of sweetness for most mothers yet can tear at the heart strings of women who have had less than ideal experiences or haven’t had the chance to be a mother themselves. No matter your circumstances, United - [Good News and Challenges on the Religious Liberty Front](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/good-news-challenges-religious-liberty-front/) - In the United States, the month of July is known for its celebration of freedom. One of the most important freedoms involves religion and rights of personal conscience and belief. Many people aren’t aware, however, of the commitment to religious liberty that exist in the international community. Let me share a few great examples: "Everyone - [Truth from an Unlikely Source](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/truth-unlikely-source/) - You already know you can’t always believe what you read or hear from the media, but one of the biggest violators of truth telling is your local Planned Parenthood affiliate. In collusion with media and leftist politicians, Planned Parenthood regularly disseminates misinformation and distortions about their business model and what really happens in their clinics. - [Fighting for Families with UFI's New President](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/fighting-families-ufis-new-president/) - From the Desk of Bob Spiel: Since its very beginning, over 30 years ago, United Families International has been led by the most capable and committed volunteers that can be found anywhere. Their commitment to the cause of the family is deep and constant, and the effort they spend in promoting and defending this most - [The Free Speech Bus, Truth, and Violence](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-bus/) - As we celebrated Father’s Day this past week, United Families International hopes that it was a special day for you and your family. It is a day when we honor the unique attributes that men bring into our lives and into society. With the increased dialogue in regards to sexual orientation and gender, it is - [An Awkward but Important Talk](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/awkward-important-talk/) - Parents, now that the school year is underway, we need to have a talk about sex education. While this may be an awkward subject for some parents, it is more important than ever that we and our children become comfortable talking about this together. If your children are in Jr. High or High School, - [The "Why" of Abortion Decline](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-the-why-of-abortion-decline/) - The Real Reasons Abortions are Declining This month the media reported that the rate of abortions in the United States has declined by 12% since 2010. The latest U.S. abortion rate of 16.9 was the lowest recorded rate since 1973. In some states such as Indiana, Missouri, Ohio, and Oklahoma, abortions even fell more than - [Why Shame a Mother for Wanting to be a Mother?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/25543/) - Hello Friends, I can’t tell you the number of women I know who, while pregnant, said they intend to return to work as soon as their maternity leave is over, and then found it far more difficult to leave their infant in another’s care than they thought it would be. Some have no choice, and - [The Major Forces We Are Up Against...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-major-forces-we-are-up-against/) - The Major Forces We Are Up Against… Borrowing a phrase from a prominent US city, the perspective of the vast majority of Americans is, “What Happens at the UN, stays at the UN.” Sadly, however, this isn’t the case. On the contrary, to a large degree the UN can be a cauldron of political - [A Record-Breaking Year Because of You.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/record-breaking-year/) - Dear UFI family and friends, Merry Christmas! As we celebrate this season of giving, I’m writing to let you know your support this past year was instrumental in providing many of the resources needed for 2017 to be a record-breaking year for UFI. We cannot thank you enough! Miracles are happening – yet we can - [You can help the unborn - and it's easy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/can-help-unborn-easy/) - An effort is underway to define away the humanity of unborn children. The U.N. Human Rights Committee, one of the oldest U.N. treaty bodies, is about to use its power to attack the right to life of unborn babies. This committee is preparing to give legal commentary on Article 6 of the International Covenant on - [UN Conference on Women: A Mixed Bag](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/un-conference-on-women-a-mixed-bag/) - March 15, 2012 UN Conference on Women: A Mixed Bag What do phrases like "gender transformers," "comprehensive sex education," or endless references to "contraceptive commodities" have to do with a priority theme of: "The empowerment of rural women and their role in poverty and hunger eradication?" Those are the questions that our UFI team asked - [What You Don't Know Can Hurt You](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/houghton-what-you-dont-know-can-hurt-you/) - Dec. 19, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: What a tragedy! United Families International mourns with the rest of the world the senseless loss of 28 precious lives in the recent Connecticut school shooting. While we don't pretend to have explanations or answers for such a tragedy, we are energized in our plea to - [Successes and Concerns at Habitat III](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/successes-concerns-habitat-iii/) - November 10, 2016 As my three-year term as President of United Families International draws to a close in a few weeks, I am pleased to announce that the UFI Board of Directors has unanimously approved as our new President-Elect. She has been an active member of UFI for 16 years, and currently serves as a member - [2016 - A Banner Year Made Possible Because of You](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/2016-banner-year-made-possible/) - December 23, 2016 Looking back on the past 12 months, 2016 was a headline year for UFI – and your generosity made it happen. Many don’t realize we are a completely volunteer run organization. The entire executive team volunteers thousands of hours because they believe in the pro-family cause to the core of their souls. - [Hold On! Things May Get Interesting.](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/hold-things-may-get-interesting/) - February 2, 2017 Where has the time gone? We have entered into 2017 and it is proving already that it could be an interesting year. The U.S. has a new President and Ambassador to theUnited Nations (U.N.), while the U.N. has a new Secretariat General – not to mention the fluid shifting of political parties. The - [A New UN Threat to the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/new-un-threat-family/) - March 9, 2017 A New Threat to the UN Family Last month, the pro-familycommunity was united in endorsing a letter that was sent to 152 United Nations (UN) Delegates during the Commission for Social Development (CSocD). With the International Organization for the Family taking the lead, this letter reminded UN delegations of the language from The Universal Declaration of Human Rights - the family is “the - [UFI Special Alert - UN AIDS Report](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-special-alert-un-aids-report/) - UFI Special Alert - UN AIDS Report Special Report - Urgent! photo_orphaned_grave.jpg FACT: "As of December 2007, an estimated 33.2 million people worldwide were living with HIV. In 2007, an estimated 2.5 million people were newly infected." Many of them helpless children. The UNAIDS High-Level report says, "the breadth and severity of the [AIDS/HIV] epidemic - [Stay Alive Attracts Church Involvement to Teach Values to Children in Africa](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/stay-alive-attracts-church-involvement-to-teach-values-to-children-in-africa/) - Stay Alive Attracts Church Involvement to Teach Values to Children in Africa May 5, 2008 Dear Friend of the Family,Carol Soleberg, President of UFI Stay Alive, the HIV-AIDS prevention program of United Families International, has changed the lives of children and families throughout the continent of Africa, but that is not enough. Even though Stay - [Toward a Healthy Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/houghton-kearl-toward-a-healthy-marriage/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: With the assault on marriage sweeping across the United States faster than we can keep up, marriage between a man and a woman needs our support more than ever. Our legal options may be limited, but we can help build a “marriage culture,” as the pro-life movement has done, - [Largest Pro-Family Gathering in the World](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-largest-pro-family-gathering-in-the-world/) - It’s the largest pro-family gathering in the world—and for the first time in history, it is coming to the United States! Please join us at the World Congress of Families IX, in Salt Lake City, Utah, October 27-30, 2015. This is the “premier global gathering of parents, youth, lawmakers, scholars, religious leaders, and advocates united - [Go Home and Change the World](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-go-home-change-world/) - November 12, 2015 From the Desk of Laura Bunker: I haven't been to a conference as big and slick and rich with content as this World Congress of Families.” (Australia) “This is phenomenal! Now I know we're not fighting alone!” (Alabama) “This was life-transforming. I will go home and never be - [What we've been doing...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/spiel-what-weve-been-doing/) - 2015: Reflecting in Gratitude for One Significant Year It has been my unique opportunity to serve as the Chairman of the Board for UFI for the past two years. The mission, history and talent within UFI are unlike any organization I have witnessed. The selfless dedication that consistently comes from every UFI volunteer is - [UFI Advocating at Habitat III](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-advocating-habitat-iii/) - October 11, 2016 Next week, the United Nations conference Habitat III will be held in Quito, Ecuador. Habitat III is the third in a series of major global summits that began in 1976, and its outcome document, “The New Urban Agenda” is expected to influence policies in many countries. We invite you to read today’s stirring alert - [The Sexual Ideologies Competing for the Hearts of Your Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-sexual-ideologies-competing-for-the-hearts-of-your-children/) - Hello Friends, Do you ever wonder “how did we get here?” I do. All. The. Time. Many people don’t realize the outsized influence just one person can have on society. Alfred Kinsey was one of those people. Until fairly recently, the public did not know both how much impact his studies had, nor how flawed - [Comprehensive Sexuality and Gender Identity Education: Do You Know What Your Children Are Being Taught?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/comprehensive-sexuality-and-gender-identity-education-do-you-know-what-your-children-are-being-taught/) - Hello Friends, As the new school year has gotten off the ground, we have spent the last few weeks focusing on the things we can do as families to help our kids have the best educational outcomes possible. We’ve also warned parents of the potential problems they could encounter as their children interact with schools - [Same-Sex Attraction and The Truth About Change Therapy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/same-sex-attraction-and-the-truth-about-change-therapy/) - Dr. Dovid Schwartz is an Orthodox Jew and licensed psychotherapist in Brooklyn, New York. With the help of Alliance Defending Freedom, he filed a lawsuit against the city of New York because the city had censored his speech and made it illegal for him to provide therapy to fellow members of his faith that came - [How Publishers and Librarians Are Pushing Gender Identity Politics on Your Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/how-publishers-and-librarians-are-pushing-gender-identity-politics-on-your-children/) - Times change. People change. Organizations change. Not always for the better. Such is the case with Scholastic, the world’s largest publisher of children’s books, and the American Library Association, the oldest and largest library association in the world. Both organizations have embraced gender identity activism to the detriment of our children. It pains me that - [The Biggest Predictor of Student Success? Home and Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-biggest-predictor-of-student-success-home-and-family/) - There is a lot that we do as parents to provide our children the best education possible. We may choose the home we live in based on school districts and neighborhoods and associated schools. We may enroll our children in charter or private schools. We may have our children take special classes and courses that - [Family-friendly Corporate Culture – A Win for All](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/family-friendly-corporate-culture-a-win-for-all/) - As you read this, we are in the midst of the United Nations Civil Society Conference in Salt Lake City. Our road to this conference was a little rocky. When I announced the conference coming to Salt Lake City, I admitted that, even though the conference was about building sustainable and inclusive communities, we wondered - [Don't believe what you hear — money isn't the leading cause of divorce](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/dont-believe-what-you-hear-money-isnt-the-leading-cause-of-divorce/) - The financial news this week got a lot of people nervous. That’s understandable. The last economic downturn was painful. My husband is in the airline industry which was badly affected starting with 9/11. We call it the “lost decade.” For a workforce that is already known for high levels of divorce, the financial strain was - [Sex Selective Abortion: Where Have All the Girls Gone?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/sex-selective-abortion-where-have-all-the-girls-gone/) - Hello Friends, In much of the world, women outnumber men in terms of population. This is usually attributable to greater life expectancy among women. War, disease and substance abuse impact males more than females and affect the ratios between men and women, with women coming out slightly ahead in most countries. Except China and India. - [UN Women – Redefining Gender and Erasing Women](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/un-women-redefining-gender-and-erasing-women/) - Hello Friends, I suppose we should get over being shocked, but just when you think you’ve seen, and heard, it all, the powers that be at the UN say something that leaves you just dumbfounded. This time around it was the director of UN Women that had us shaking our heads in disbelief at the - [A New Way to Celebrate Mothers](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-a-new-way-to-celebrate-mothers/) - A New Way to Celebrate Mothers United Families International has been a defender of the family for over thirty years! We believe firmly that the traditional family has a unique and irreplaceable role in transmitting cultural values, instilling personal morality, and strengthening the interpersonal bonds that make civilization possible. We further recognize that the family - [A "Peace" of Truth](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/hinton-a-peace-of-truth/) - From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: I LOVE truth! I love how it lightens my mind and feels my being with peace! And today we offer you that experience! I just read through this week’s article and each time I have read it I have experienced that feeling of light and peace. I am struck - [Fighting for "Happily Ever After"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-fighting-for-happily-ever-after/) - From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: Graduation exercises all around us signal the coming of June. It is traditionally a bright and cheery month with weddings, vacations, and relaxation. This year however, June has hovering over it a potentially dark cloud. It is the time of the expected United States Supreme Court decision concerning the - [The Russian Renewal](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-the-russian-renewal/) - “Inevitability” and the Pro-Family Russian Renewal The headlines have been blaring the news: “Majorities Say Same-Sex Marriage is inevitable.” People who opposed same-sex marriage are “on the wrong side of history,” they claim. I’ve heard claims of “inevitability” before; history is laced with them. But I can think of no other more profound rebuttal to - [Can't do without Dad](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-cant-do-without-dad/) - Few influences in the world are as impactful as that of a father! United Families International wishes to bring society as a whole back to the recognition of the importance of the role of fathers, for it is critical to our civilization’s success! Dads are indispensable to the upbringing of children and it is up - [Gender Confusion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/hinton-gender-confusion/) - From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: “The war is over and we won!” continues to be the refrain from the gay lobby regarding the recent U. S. Supreme Court decisions on marriage. Contrary to what we’re hearing plenty of, the U.S. Supreme Court said nothing that indicates there is a “right” to same-sex “marriage.” Although - [Speaking for Those Who Can't](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/cooper-speaking-for-those-who-cant/) - From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: “’It’s a girl’ The three deadliest words in the world” was the title of an article that attracted my attention this week on WorldFamilyNews.com Maybe it is because I have nine beautiful daughters myself that is was so devastating for me to read further that 200 MILLION girls are - [The Coming Chaos](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-the-coming-chaos/) - From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: United Families International deeply appreciates Tom Christensen’s role as our expert of Marriage and Family issues. He has written numerous articles defining the principles on which strong marriages and families are built and pointed consistently to the necessity of these institutions in maintaining strong societies. While this week’s alert - [Parenting 101](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/hinton-parenting-101/) - From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: The contemporary dialogue on parenting never ceases to amaze me. Hilary Clinton’s famed phrase, “It takes a Village to raise a child” has opened a Pandora’s box of confusion regarding the responsibility and privilege of parenting. Common sense seems to have gone out the window and “anything goes” in - [Forward for Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-forward-for-families/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Since 1978, United Families International volunteers have been dedicated to protecting and strengthening the Natural Family. From humble beginnings, we have grown into an global organization with members, friends, and affiliate groups on nearly every continent of the world. Who are we? We are people like you--mothers, fathers, community - [Coming to a City Near You?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-coming-to-a-city-near-you/) - Coming to a City Near You? “Choose your religious conviction or choose your livelihood. But, you can’t choose both.” That, in effect, is what the New Mexico Supreme Court has told the owners of Elane Photography. Jonathan and Elaine Huguenin now face over $7,000 fine and court costs because they held to their religious - [Some Good News for Families!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-some-good-news-for-families/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Even though threats to religious liberty surface almost daily, the media and popular culture continue their incessant efforts to promote same-sex behavior and marriage, and abortion is still the law of the land, there is much reason for hope. Here are some of the good things that are occurring - [Stealth Threat to Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-stealth-threat-to-families/) - The Stealth Threat to Families Some threats to the family are overt, and are trumpeted in daily news headlines. Others are more subtle and insidious, as in this true story: After two years of marriage, Lynn realized that her husband was addicted to pornography. He was often on the computer most of the night, and - [The Genesis of Judicial Activism](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-the-genesis-of-judicial-activism/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Three months ago the U.S. Supreme Court ruled in U.S. v. Windsor that same-sex marriages are entitled to receive federal benefits if they live in a state where same-sex marriage is recognized. This sweeping ruling opened up storm clouds of litigation across the country. In the words of one - [Emotion vs. Truth](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/duncan-emotion-vs-truth/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Recently I was sitting in a state Legislative Committee Hearing, listening to the debate over whether or not to grant same-sex couples certain legal benefits, when a news reporter hurried into the room and sat in the empty seat beside me. He turned to the reporter sitting behind us, - [Schooled on Education](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/hinton-schooled-on-education/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker On my first day of Jr. High, the principal’s deep voice boomed over the loudspeaker, “Vos Involvitor.” My eyes grew big. Nobody told me I had to learn Latin here! The deep voice continued, “That is our school motto, it means ‘Get Involved.’ If you don’t, who will?” It - [Breast Cancer's Most Preventable Risk Factor](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/bunker-breast-cancers-most-preventable-risk-factor/) - Breast Cancer’s Most Preventable Risk Factor In the United States, October is the month for pumpkins and trick-or-treaters. It also National Breast-Cancer Awareness Month, a nationwide campaign “dedicated to educating and empowering women to take charge of their own breast health.” Judging by the multitude of pink ribbons from sea to shining sea, it is quite - [Are Children "Scary"?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-are-children-scary/) - Are Children "Scary"? Attempting to scare people is part and parcel of the Halloween season, but the “zero-population growth” folks have really kicked it into gear the last few weeks. “Scary stories” abound especially since the new report from the UN Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change (IPCC) was released in late September. The report claims - [Religious Freedom Our Heritage: Action Needed](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/robertson-religious-freedom-our-heritage-action-needed/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: This week the U.S. government is making two major decisions that could greatly harm Religious Freedom in the United States: 1) TODAY the U.S. Senate is voting on ENDA (Employment Non-Discrimination Act). ENDA is the nationwide version of city and state nondiscrimination laws. These nondiscrimination laws may seem reasonable - [Power of Religion and Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-power-of-religion-and-family/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: The family and religion are “the double helix of society, each dependent on the strength of the other for successful reproduction,” according to author Mary Eberstadt. In fact, religious observance and family bonds are connected in almost every measurable way. The important relationship between religion and family was reaffirmed - [The 'Nuclear Option' Hits Home](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/duncan-the-nuclear-option-hits-home/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Three weeks ago, the U.S. Senate invoked a “nuclear option” that changed the way judges can be nominated. As UFI Board member and legal expert Bill Duncan explains in this week’s alert, “A change in Senate rules is just a way of easing the way to presidential and judicial - [We Exist Because of Your Generosity!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/spiel-we-exist-because-of-your-generosity/) - We Exist Because of Your Generosity! As the history books close the pages on 2013, we see that the coming year is stacking up as one of the most critical years in defense the family in our lifetime. Numerous issues are surfacing constantly – – almost to the point of wondering what could happen next. - [No Court Ruling Can Change the Truth](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-no-court-ruling-can-change-the-truth/) - No Court Ruling Can Change the Truth “Steady as she goes.” That was the advice given to our family a few years ago when we experienced a sudden tragic death, and that’s the advice we share with all who are grieving over the sudden loss of Utah’s Marriage amendment. Judge Robert Shelby’s ruling striking down - ["Wins" and "Worries"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/spiel-wins-and-worries/) - "Wins" and "Worries" of 2013 “I need your help” is one of the greatest phrases in English language. It enlists others in doing good and serving others. And UFI needs your help right now. Wherever you live, please click here to sign the petition in support of Natural Marriage. Signing this petition shows your support - [Good News & Conquering Fear](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/newell-good-news-conquering-fear/) - Good News & Conquering Fear After a rather bleak picture at the close of 2013, we are grateful to report that New Year has begun with some good news for the Family and Religious Liberties: • The U.S. Supreme Court granted a “stay”that places a hold on same-sex marriages in Utah. • The U.S. Supreme - [Power of Work](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/grover-power-of-work/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: After the holiday festivities, it can be daunting to buckle down to the work facing us in the New Year. A friend confessed to me this morning, “It’s the middle of January and I still can’t face the big job of putting my Christmas decorations away.” Another friend told - [They "get it"!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-they-get-it/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Yesterday, hundreds of thousands of pro-life advocates marched up Constitution Avenue to the Supreme Court Building in Washington DC, as they have done every year since 1974. It was the annual “March for Life” on the anniversary of Roe v Wade. Last year, approximately 650,000 people attended the 2013 - [3 Ways to Stand for Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/bunker-3-ways-to-stand-for-marriage/) - January 27, 2014 From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Both marriage between a man and a woman and Religious Freedom hang in the balance in many states and countries! Right now, some of the battlegrounds include: Utah (Ground Zero in the battle for marriage and religious freedom) Oklahoma (Marriage amendment overturned by an activist judge) - [Divorce : 100 Reasons Not To...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/wright-divorce-100-reasons-not-to/) - February 7, 2014 From the Desk of Laura Bunker: \Over the years, the most frequently viewed page on our UFI website is our Family Issues Guide on divorce. It would seem there is hardly a family in our world today that has been untouched by the tragedy of divorce in some way. While divorce can - [The Perfect Day to Begin](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-the-perfect-day-to-begin/) - Celebrate, Strengthen, and Defend Marriage! It is not only Valentine’s Day today throughout the world, it is National Marriage Week in the United States. At United Families International, we believe Natural Marriage is something to celebrate, strengthen, and defend! Celebrate Marriage: We celebrate the importance of marriage between a man and a woman, because it - [Lessons from Home](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-lessons-from-home/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: From January through April, the lives of our pro-family volunteers and staff are particularly busy! From working with state legislatures on pro-family policy, to a hectic series of UN meetings where we labor to protect the family, to releasing our new publication: "Divorce: 100 Reasons Not To...", to presentation - [World Family Declaration](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-world-family-declaration/) - Sign the World Family Declaration! The natural family based upon marriage between a man and a woman is “the bedrock of society, the strength of our nations, and the hope of humanity.” We are excited to introduce the recently launched “World Family Declaration.” An initiative of the World Congress of Families, and endorsed by United - [A Mother's Education Wasted?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/erickson-a-mothers-education-wasted/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Three days before I began my service as President of United Families International in August 2013, I completed my Bachelors of Science in Family Studies. On graduation day, I marched in the processional line and re-lived flashbacks of the past 3 1/2 years. I remembered the day my husband - [Lawlessnes of the UN](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/stone-lawlessnes-of-the-un/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Last week, members of United Families International attended a week-long gathering with few protocols, little structure, and no accountability. It was an event where power-games were played all week, then finally on the last day, secret deliberations went on behind closed doors all night long! No, it was not - [The Root of Good Mothering](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-the-root-of-good-mothering/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Former U.S. First Lady Barbara Bush once said, “Whatever the era, whatever the times, one thing will never change: fathers and mothers, if you have children they must come first. Your success as a family, our success as a society depends not on what happens at the White House, - [To the Fathers](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-to-the-fathers/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Former U.S. President Ronald Reagan once said, “With regard to the freedom of the individual for choice with regard to abortion, there's one individual who's not being considered at all. That's the one who is being aborted. And I've noticed that everybody that is for abortion has already been - [Victories for Religious Freedom!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/johnson-victories-for-religious-freedom/) - Two Victories for Religious Freedom With troubling news happening across the globe, it is encouraging to recognize two pivotal U.S. court decisions that became great victories for Religious Freedom. Before we go any further, we want to remind you what Freedom of Religion is. Freedom of Religion is much more than its government-restrictive-impostor, “freedom of - [5 Wrongs Don't Make a Right](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-5-wrongs-dont-make-a-right/) - Five Wrongs Don't Make a Right If you’re having a hard time keeping up with the rash of marriage rulings in the U.S., you’re not alone. Just within the last two weeks, there have been five troubling rulings: 1. Tues. May 13 A federal judge declared Idaho’s marriage amendment unconstitutional. The 9th Circuit Court of Appeals - [Preschool V. Mom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/frandsen-preschool-v-mom/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: It’s the end of the school year, with class parties, awards programs--and signups for next year’s kindergarten and preschool. But before you rush to sign your young children up for preschool, we invite you to read today’s alert by Dawn Frandson, who expertly uncovers the true motives and problems - [Raising the Standard for Fathers](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/rarick-raising-the-standard-for-fathers/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: People everywhere seem to know deep down that Fathers really matter. This became clear to us during a UFI parallel event at the recent UN Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) where Dr. Timothy Rarick, Professor in the Department of Home and Family at BYU-Idaho gave a presentation - [Don't Let Go of the Wheel](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-dont-let-go-of-the-wheel/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Thank you for your positive feedback on our May 21 alert, “Five Wrongs Don’t Make a Right.” We received many responses and many more signatures to the UFI Marriage Petition. If you have not signed yet, please sign the UFI Marriage Petition today, and forward this email to your - [The Wrong Side of Biology](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/bailey-the-wrong-side-of-biology/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Today’s gender issues can leave your head spinning. As you try to navigate media headlines, it may be helpful to know that science has documented that there are hardwired differences between men and women. For example, researchers found that for men, most of the nerve connections in the brain - [The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-the-good-the-bad-and-the-ugly/) - Family Issues Today: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly The Good: Before the U.S. Supreme Court’s season ended on Monday, they unanimously struck down the 35-foot “buffer zone” around abortion clinics, restoring free speech to pro-life advocates. The Supreme Court also granted a landmark victory for religious liberty in the Hobby Lobby case, ruling - [I Now Pronounce You Married Persons](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-i-now-pronounce-you-married-persons/) - I Now Pronounce You Married Persons On Monday, Governor Jerry Brown signed a new law recognizing same sex marriage in the state of California. SB 1306 erases the words that were approved by millions of California voters, "Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California. The new law also - [Do Try This at Home](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-do-try-this-at-home/) - Good Critical Thinking: Do Try This at Home “A good critical thinker always asks where the author is coming from, and why.” That was good advice from one of my recent “Family Studies”professors, as he urged us to carefully examine the research studies we were analyzing. Did the researchers use a random sample? Who were - [They aren't relaxing...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/mosher-morse-they-arent-relaxing/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: It may be the sultry “dog days of summer,” but some lawmakers don’t seem to be relaxing in their efforts to pass legislation that could have a negative impact on the families of the world. There are two issues that we’d like to make you aware of and encourage - [Joyriding into Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/walker-joyriding-into-marriage/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: “We don’t feel the need to rush to the altar. This is the real world and marriage isn’t a necessity.” This was the statement of one mother who is ironically waiting to be “more financially prepared” before she gets married--yet she and her partner are having children together. She - ["Ruling: It's All About Me"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/duncan-ruling-its-all-about-me/) - The Ruling Heard Round The World United Families International is deeply disappointed by today’s Supreme Court ruling making same-sex marriage legal the United States. This ruling by 5 out of 9 unelected judges not only robs Americans of the “freedom to govern themselves,” it is “so dangerous for religious liberty and free speech.” In 1775, - [Family: The Key to Thriving Communities and Economies](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/family-the-key-to-thriving-communities-and-economies/) - Hello Friends, One of the best presentations at a recent UN event about families that I attended was given by Joseph Price, an economics professor at Brigham Young University. His presentation was titled “Household Family Structure and the Macroeconomic Welfare of Nations.” (You can view his presentation here starting at about 1:54:10.) Professor Price makes - [Contempt is Keeping Us from Becoming 'a More Perfect Union'](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/contempt-is-keeping-us-from-becoming-a-more-perfect-union/) - Many years ago, Neal A. Maxwell, who had served as a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, likened the spread of sin to spilled milk. He said, “Young parents know how a mere half cup of spilled milk seems to cover half a kitchen - [Same-sex Politics and the Lie of “Inclusivity”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/same-sex-politics-and-the-lie-of-inclusivity/) - Hello Friends, Where would our world be without dissenters – those individuals who are willing to stick their necks out (sometimes literally) for what they believe? Well, the United States would be a part of the British Commonwealth, for one. We learn of and honor the brave men and women who have dissented and made - [To Change the Future, Children Need History](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/to-change-the-future-children-need-history/) - Hello Friends, When I was young, my grandmothers told me stories about my family – about my grandfather who died before I was born who made his living as a professional musician and my great-grandfather who was a teacher and school administrator in the Hawaiian islands, and, on the other side of the family, my - [Current Culture Sabotages the Capacity for Happiness](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/current-culture-sabotages-the-capacity-for-happiness/) - Hello Friends, Despite the fact that family is most frequently mentioned as the greatest source of meaning and fulfillment in life, young people are having difficulty forming families. It turns out that modern society and modern values make it hard to establish meaningful relationships that lead to marriage and family. The habits that will lead - [Our Modern Culture War: LGBTQ Rights vs. Religious Liberty](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/our-modern-culture-war-lgbtq-rights-vs-religious-liberty/) - Hello Friends, The term “culture war” is not one I use lightly. The first time I heard it used, I was still fairly young and striving to make sense of the political climate of the times. The term comes from the German Kulturkampf, or culture struggle, and was first used to describe the conflict between - [No, Religious Women are not Brainwashed](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/no-religious-women-are-not-brainwashed/) - Hello Friends, Despite the fact that 83% of the country identifies as Christian, many journalists and legendary media outlets are illiterate at best when it comes to religion, and antagonistic at worst. So their response shouldn’t shock us when studies reveal opinions and trends that just don’t fit their worldview. Timothy P. Carney of The - [Dad – A Girl’s First and Most Influential Love](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/25423/) - Hello Friends, It almost seems counterintuitive… When we think of helping girls to grow up to be strong, confident women, we naturally give her examples of good women who have gone places and accomplished much. There are magazine articles, books, and websites dedicated to sharing the lives of remarkable women. And those things are good! - [The Struggle Against Abortion – A “Herculean Endeavor”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-struggle-against-abortion-a-herculean-endeavor/) - Hello Friends, Harvard constitutional law professor, Laurence Tribe, once called abortion the “clash of absolutes.” The issue and the people on either side of it are often described as irreconcilable and intractable, leading Tribe to claim that “the debate is unending.” But the truth is, most people want it to end. With a “conservative majority” - [The Equality Act – Harming Children and Hijacking the Rights of Parents](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-equality-act-harming-children-and-hijacking-the-rights-of-parents/) - HR5, the Equality Act, has moved out of committee and will come up for a vote in the full house. We have been highlighting how devastating this deceptively named legislation will be for women, children, parents, religious adherents, and freedom of speech. It is dangerous and it is backed by powerful lobbies. Lost in the - [Gather the Women and Pray for Peace](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/gather-the-women-and-pray-for-peace/) - Hello Friends, Buddhist philosopher, Daisaku Ikeda, once said: "Women are, in my view, natural peacemakers. As givers and nurturers of life, through their focus on human relationships and their engagement with the demanding work of raising children and protecting family life, they develop a deep sense of empathy that cuts through to underlying human realities." - [We Need Children Even More than They Need Us](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/we-need-children-even-more-than-they-need-us/) - In February 2019, Representative Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez (D., N.Y.) made the following comment on a video posted to her Instagram account: “There’s scientific consensus that the lives of children are going to be very difficult. And it does lead young people to have a legitimate question: is it okay to still have children?” Challenging circumstances are - [We Need Children Even More than They Need Us: Part 2](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/we-need-children-even-more-than-they-need-us-part-2/) - Hello Friends, Do you remember what it was like for you when your first baby became a part of your home; how caring for this little person was all-consuming mentally and physically? It is almost as if there are two births – the birth of the child and the birth of the parent. It is - [Faceoff with Radical Feminists](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-faceoff-with-radical-feminists/) - Feminism & "Fundamentalism" at the UN The United Nations process provides a startling contrast to anyone familiar with the legislative process at the state or federal level. There are no elected officials or constituents, there is no constitution, little accountability, and everyone seems to be doing whatever they want. One of our UFI team members - [Gov't in Your Love Life?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-govt-in-your-love-life/) - Why is Government in the Marriage Business? One of our favorite things at United Families is working with students from universities across United States. Contrary to rumors that the younger generation is “waiting for the older generation to die” so they can redefine marriage and family, many young adults understand the critical importance of marriage - [No Good Document Goes Unpunished](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-no-good-document-goes-unpunished/) - No Good Document Goes Unpunished Wouldn’t it be great if the United Nations would adopt a resolution recognizing that “the family is the natural and fundamental group unit of society?” That is exactly what happened a few weeks ago in Geneva. In observance of the 20th anniversary of the International Year of the Family, the - [Pro-Life or just Pro-Birth?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/addams-pro-life-or-just-pro-birth/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: One glance at United Families International’s World Family News page tells us that the “Sanctity of Life” encompasses much more than the issue of abortion. It also includes such issues as surrogacy, adoption, and euthanasia. Life is a precious gift, and all stages of life from conception to natural - [Family Reunion - What's that?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-family-reunion-whats-that/) - Family Reunion - What's that? My family and I recently attended a family reunion on a small academic campus that hosts students from all over the world. During breakfast we shared a table with several teenage students, and struck up a conversation with three young men. Finally one of them hesitated before biting into a - [We are Writing History](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-we-are-writing-history/) - We Are Writing History American pioneer author Laura Ingalls Wilder once told a journalist, “At the time, I didn’t know I was writing history.” Whether we know it or not, today we too are writing history--a history that will greatly impact generations to come. History is not a spectator sport. As our friend Ryan T. - [The Irony of Feminism and Abortion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-irony-of-feminism-and-abortion/) - The Irony of Feminism and Abortion The radical feminists we confronted at the UN Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) last March donned paper masks calling our pro-life coalition “religious extremists”--in other words, “terrorists.” They insisted that abortion on demand was the answer to empowering women and girls across the globe. They flooded the - [Inevitable? Not So Fast...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/duncaninevitable-not-so-fast/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker On September 29, the U.S. Supreme Court justices will privately convene to start considering cases for their upcoming term, which begins in October. One case we hope they will accept is Utah’s petition defending the state’s ability to define marriage between a man and a woman. The Supreme Court - [What Young People Want](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-what-young-people-want/) - What Young People Want Movie screens, computer screens, tablet screens, and cell phone screens—they’re everywhere and do just about everything—except “screen” out harmful content. Today’s young people are saturated in destructive messages about body image, sexual behavior, abortion, relationships, marriage, and family. They are as pervasive as the air they breathe, and as close as - [What Happened?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/duncan-what-happened/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker United Families is greatly disappointed that the U.S. Supreme Court refused to hear the marriage petition of Utah and four other states. Our world may have changed, but it has not ended. If ever there was a time to "keep calm and carry on," this is it. As United - [Addressing a "social and spiritual crisis"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/frandsen-addressing-a-social-and-spiritual-crisis/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: In a time when so many things are conspiring to fracture families, it is such a breath of fresh air to find Catholic leadership gathering to discuss how to strengthen them. While much misinformation has circulated about the Catholic Church’s “Synod on the Family,” Dawn Frandsen shares some thoughts - [Something Wicked this Way Comes](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-something-wicked-this-way-comes/) - Something Wicked this Way Comes... A 1962 fantasy novel, later made into a Disney movie, borrowed its title from Shakespeare’s Macbeth: “Something Wicked This Way Comes.” It was the story of a traveling carnival who arrived at idyllic, unsuspecting “Green Town,” offering promises of restored youth and dreams. But it wasn’t too long before the - [Millennial Madness](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/maguire-millennial-madness/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Some of the most powerful voices for marriage and family are young adults -- the “millennials.” That is why we enthusiastically post articles written by our UFI Interns and other college students on our UFI Blog and Facebook page, along with pieces of interest from other media outlets. Just - [Gratitude is power in the home](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-gratitude-is-power-in-the-home/) - Thank you, Gracias, Merci, Danke, Hvala, Dhanyavaad, Kamsahamnida! As we approach the Thanksgiving season in America, we express heartfelt gratitude for your part in the work of United Families International over the past year. We sincerely thank our wonderful donors -- we simply could not do this without you! “All the king’s horses” and - [Worried about the Future?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/frandsen-worried-about-the-future/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: December 25, 1877, Southeastern Nevada: As the first year of settlement ended in the little town of Bunkerville, twenty-three people made up the community. It had been a struggling year, with no time for fun or recreation in the face of a serious effort for sheer survival. But the - [A Sound Marital House](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/kearl-a-sound-marital-house/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: An unprecedented conference of world religious leaders was recently convened at the Vatican to discuss the importance of marriage and family. Entitled “Humanum: An International Interreligious Colloquium on the Complementarity of Man and Woman,” it gathered together many world faith leaders including Catholic, Evangelical, Mormon, Pentecostal, Jewish, Muslim, Buddhist, - [Adding Fuel to the Flame](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/spiel-adding-fuel-to-the-flame/) - A Message from Bob Spiel, UFI Chairman of the Board: Last year at this time your generosity overwhelmed us. I expressed to you our need for the financial resources to take on the challenges of 2014 – and donations came from around the globe large and small. The combined giving of so many put enough - [Christmas = Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-christmas-families/) - Families are what Christmas is all about! It was the formation of a new family on that Christmas Eve some two thousand years ago that literally changed the world. We at United Families International wish you a Merry Christmas and hope that you are each enveloped in the warmth of this very special time of - [Building a Bridge into 2015](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/spiel-building-a-bridge-into-2015/) - Help us Build a Bridge into 2015 With Christmas 2014 behind us, our attention now turns fully to the coming year. Two weeks ago I asked for your financial support as United Families International looks to the challenges and opportunities of 2015. Some of our most loyal supporters responded, and for that we are so - [Maybe. But, maybe not](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/frandsen-maybe-but-maybe-not/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Welcome to 2015! United Families International also extends a special welcome to our new UFI Chapter in the Republic of Korea (South Korea). We are very glad to have them join our team, and we look forward to working together to strengthen and protect families throughout the world. Today’s - [Great Expectations or Low Expectations](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/walker-great-expectations-or-low-expectations/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: We teach them to wash their hands take their vitamins. But how do we protect them against the “sexual toxins” in the air? Today’s awesome alert by UFI Intern Erika Walker reminds us that parents have a powerful protective influence on their children’s choices. We join with Erika’s “call - [What do I say?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-what-do-i-say/) - Do You Know What to Say? With the U.S. Supreme Court deciding to rule on the Marriage issue, same-sex marriage is sure to be a robust topic of discussion around water coolers, kitchen tables, and Facebook pages. Likewise, so will nondiscrimination laws. State Legislatures are convening as we speak, and many of them will be - [Solving the World's Problems](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-solving-the-worlds-problems/) - Solving the World's Problems If you were asked, “What are the most pressing problems that the world faces?” what would be your response? Then this question: “How would you recommend solving those problems?” Those are exactly the questions that are before the diplomats of the Economic and Social Division of the United Nations. Hundreds of - [A Right to Discriminate?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/duncan-a-right-to-discriminate/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Many people think that Religious Freedom is the ability to join the faith denomination of their choice. While that is an important aspect of it, Religious Freedom is more than just choosing a church. It is the freedom to live according to one’s religious beliefs in all aspects of - ["Religious" or "Spiritual"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/frandsen-religious-or-spiritual/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Throughout the history of the world, religion has played an essential role in civilization. In fact some say that “religion is older than civilization,” because “before the first cities, before the first writing or the first state systems, religion shaped human experience.” Religion is just as critical to society - ["What's for Dinner?"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/walker-whats-for-dinner/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: “Hi Mom, what’s for dinner?” used to be the most common question children hollered as they came through the door. Sometimes, hearing these words would induce a fair amount of stress on the busy parent who hadn’t yet thawed out the ground beef. Yet we might be disappointed to - [Too many children?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/perez-too-many-children/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: The United Nations “Commission on the Status of Women” (CSW) began on Monday March 9, and will run for two weeks. United Families International has a team on the ground in New York, with additional members attending next week, including several young adult Interns from BYU-Idaho. One reason we - ["The kitchen is a torture chamber"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-the-kitchen-is-a-torture-chamber/) - "The Kitchen is a Torture Chamber?" The annual UN Commission on the Status of women is winding to a close and we wish you’d been there with us to experience some of the high moments and some outrageous and unnerving, yet revealing moments. Close to 7,000 women from around the world gathered for the two-week - [Television Takeover](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/walker-television-takeover/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Television has always been good at instant messaging--instantly putting messages into viewers minds, and shaping cultural attitudes along the way. In today’s eye-opening alert, Erika Walker discusses the powerful influence of TV, and reveals the deliberate, behind-the-scenes effort to “[bring] LGBT characters and plotlines to movie theaters, television sets and - [Disappearing Religious Freedom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-disappearing-religious-freedom/) - Disappearing Religious Freedom Like many of you, we at United Families International have been concerned at how quickly our Constitutionally-guaranteed religious freedoms seem to be crumbling in the United States. For example: The state of Washington recently ruled that a 70-year-old florist “may not only lose her business, but also her home and savings because - [Good News - Good Example](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/gennarini-good-news-good-example/) - Good News - Good Example! With discouraging news blasting from every media outlet, it is refreshing to hear about someone standing up for family and truth, and having a powerful impact. The setting was the recent UN Commission on Population and Development (CPD), where African nations stood up to the more economically powerful countries and - ["60's, Drugs & Rock 'n' Roll"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-60s-drugs-rock-n-roll/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: As you know, two weeks ago the U.S. Supreme Court listened to oral arguments on whether or not to allow states to define marriage as a man and a woman. Many Americans are numb with disbelief. How did we come to this point? This did not happen overnight. It - [Divorce Hits Home](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-divorce-hits-home/) - Divorce Hits Home One of the major cultural revolutions discussed in last week’s alert was the “divorce revolution” that began in 1969 in California, with Governor Ronald Reagan making “what he later admitted was one of the biggest mistakes of his political life,” by signing the first no-fault divorce law. By the early 1980’s almost - [Coming to America](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-coming-to-america/) - Come to the World Congress of Families! “I’m so glad I came to this conference! It’s so encouraging to see I’m not alone.” That’s the sentiment we heard over and over as we talked with people at the 2013 World Congress of Families (WCF) in Sydney, Australia. It was an amazing gathering of people from - ["A tectonic social shift"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/frandsen-a-tectonic-social-shift/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: If you are like us, you are concerned about the growing number of cases undermining freedom of religion in the United States. But the trend against religion is not unique to America; it is happening all over the world. For example, the Observatory on Intolerance and Discrimination of Christians - [Why We Need Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/erickson-why-we-need-children/) - June 3, 2015 From the Desk of Laura Bunker: In the U.S., we are right between Mother’s Day and Father’s Day. So today, we offer an encouraging message for mothers and fathers everywhere. We often speak of the many ways children need mothers and fathers, but we sometimes forget it goes both ways. Marriage and parenthood - ["Good Men -- Going, Going, Gone?"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/frandsen-good-men-going-going-gone/) - With Father’s Day approaching in the U.S., we gratefully acknowledge the critical contribution of good fathers. We also acknowledge the many ways marriage and family is beneficial to men. Today’s thought-provoking alert by Dawn Frandsen reveals how the disintegration of marriage and family structure is actually hurting young men, who sometimes flounder on the road - [A Mighty Blow to the Foundation of Liberty](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-a-mighty-blow-to-the-foundation-of-liberty/) - A Mighty Blow to the Foundation of Liberty On Saturday we will celebrate the 239th anniversary of the adoption of the Declaration of Independence, when the American forefathers began to build a foundation of liberty for the newly forming United States. However, last week’s Supreme Court ruling legalizing same-sex "marriage" struck a mighty blow to - [We'd about given up hope...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-wed-about-given-up-hope/) - Victories for Family! After a few weeks of devastating blows to rule of law, marriage, and family, there is some good news coming to us from a world that increasingly seems turned upside down. First, on Wednesday, a draft of the final outcome document on the United Nation’s “Post 2015 Development Agenda” was released. And - [Have you seen it?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-have-you-seen-it/) - Unthinkable Reality of Abortion If you haven’t seen it already, you need to know about it. It has received over 100,000 views every hour since its release two days ago. It is the undercover video where Dr. Deborah Nucatola, Planned Parenthood’s senior director of medical services, casually describes the unthinkable process of aborting a baby - [The New "Sliver Spoon"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/frandsen-the-new-sliver-spoon/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Since the U.S. Supreme Court redefined marriage to include same-sex marriage, some people want to “take the government out of marriage.” However, this would harm marriage and family even more. Even with the recent legal redefinition of marriage, it is important for society that civil marriage and religious marriage - ["#WomenBetrayed"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-womenbetrayed/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Everywhere we go, people ask us “What can I do to support the family?” Today we have two good suggestions -- but please act quickly because time is of the essence! Tomorrow: On Tuesday, July 28, Pro-life citizens in more than 50 cities will be rallying to defund Planned - ["What Videos?"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-what-videos/) - "What Videos?" The fifth undercover video exposing Planned Parenthood was released this week. Five different videos*, five different members of Planned Parenthood leadership, all casually discussing the unthinkable practice of harvesting and selling aborted baby parts. When I mentioned these videos to a friend, she cocked her head and asked, “what videos?” She had not - [Behind the Curtain of the Teacher's Union](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/frandsen-behind-the-curtain-of-the-teachers-union/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Here in the U.S., the end of August means the beginning of the school year. One school principal described it as her favorite time of year, when a hush settles through the halls, as teachers and students become acquainted and begin their first lessons together. We acknowledge the many - [Students Speak Out about Porn](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-students-speak-out-about-porn/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: One of the greatest threats to families across the world is pornography. It is addictive as crack cocaine, and as attested in today’s UFI articles by young adult college students, is devastating to marriages and families. At United Families International, we welcome the news that the Hilton Worldwide hotel - [Where in the world is UFI? - New Chapter in South Korea](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-where-in-the-world-is-ufi/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: If you are concerned about the rapidly crumbling family values in your country, you are not alone! The critical issues of Life, Marriage, Family and Religious Freedom know no international boundaries, and are being undermined in every culture. The good news is that there are everyday heroes throughout the - [Does Your Child Need Kindergarten?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/mann-does-your-child-need-kindergarten/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: “Do not kiss your children so they will kiss you back, but so they will kiss their children, and their children's children.” This quote by poet-philosopher, Noah benShea, describes one way to be an “Intentional Parent.” Intentional parents look for opportunities to show affection, such as kissing their child - [A Unique and Irreplaceable Contribution](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-a-unique-and-irreplaceable-contribution/) - Africa's Unique and Irreplaceable Contribution Protecting the family at the United Nations can be a roller-coaster ride with high points and heart-dropping lows. One high point happened a few months ago in Geneva, where the UN Human Rights Council approved a family resolution calling for countries to take concrete steps to protect “the family” as - [What We Take For Granted](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/frandsen-what-we-take-for-granted/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: In the wake of the shooting in Oregon where a gunman asked his victims about their faith before shooting them, many Americans are examining the issue of religious freedom. What is religious freedom? What is is worth? In today’s UFI alert, Dawn Frandsen reviews the integral role that Religious - [Best Job Ever: A Millennial Mother's Response to the New York Times](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/best-job-ever-millennial-mothers-response-new-york-times/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, When I was young, Erma Bombeck was the definitive voice on motherhood. With wit and wisdom she managed to balance the absurd and sublime that distinguishes the life of a mother. She was one of the greatest humorists of her day, yet capable of great sentimentality as - ["Family: The Promise Begins With Me"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/family-promise-begins/) - "Family: The Promise Begins With Me" When was the last time you had a once-in-a-lifetime experience? Too long ago? Well, you have another chance in two weeks! It’s not too late to register for the World Congress of Families IX on Oct 27 - 30 in Salt Lake City. Day-passes are still available for $30, - [Manipulating Science & You](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/mann-manipulating-science/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: We at United Families International are regularly astonished by the oft-heard statement: “There is no difference in children raised by two married biological parents and two same-sex parents.” When that way of thinking found its way into the court rooms as part of the debate on legalization of same-sex - [Guard your Marriage with Gratitude](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/guard-marriage-gratitude/) - Guard your Marriage with Gratitude Whether you have been married for fifty minutes or fifty years, you may have discovered that your spouse is not perfect. You and your spouse may even be noticing a “demand-withdrawal” communication pattern starting to develop. It happens. One spouse tends to criticize, nag, or - [UFI: Many Hands Making a Difference](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/23114/) - Many Hands Making a Difference! At United Families International, we are so grateful for our volunteers and college interns. They help carry the load of researching social science for our Family Issues Guides, writing articles for our UFI Blog, and posting daily current news articles to World Family News, as well as advocating at the - [It Takes Heart, Sweat, Tears and Time](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/takes-heart-sweat-tears-time/) - It Takes Heart, Sweat, Tears and Time Recently a group of college students was asked, “How many of you are planning to go home for the holidays?”Virtually every hand flew into the air. Then they were asked, “Why? Why do you want to go home?” After a thoughtful pause, some answered, “That’s where I have - [UFI: Without Our Traditions](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-without-traditions/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker Thanksgiving dinner, Christmas decorations, New Year’s fireworks -- the holidays are filled with much-anticipated traditions. Family traditions are more than just fun, they are powerful sources of family strength and unity. Even simple, everyday family traditions such as good-bye hugs or bedtime stories give important structure and rhythm to - [Be a Transitional Character](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/be-a-transitional-character/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker It’s no secret that substance abuse is devastating to individuals, marriages, and families. But you may be surprised to learn that “today, one in every seven people, age twelve or older is facing some type of a substance abuse problem.” What can be done? Today’s inspiring alert by Kari - ["Largest Movement of Social Reform Since the Civil Rights Movement"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/23068/) - "Largest Movement of Social Reform Since the Civil Rights Movement" - Be a Part! Since Roe v. Wade, over 58 million abortions have been performed in the United States. Planned Parenthood alone has been responsible for over 7 million abortions - more than any other abortion provider in the U.S. In 2015, they performed 323,999 - [Are Parents Really Necessary?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/23049/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: Parents, the beginning of a new year is a good time to recommit to being an “intentional parent.” Commit to holding firmly to the steering wheel of your parental rights and responsibilities. “The parental rights battlefield is by no means new,” explains Dawn Frandsen in today’s alert, “it has - [Our Best Kept Secret!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/best-kept-secret/) - January 29, 2016 Our Best Kept Secret! One of the most important things we do at United Families International is to help citizens and policymakers become better educated and informed. Most people enjoy learning about something positive and hopeful, but even negative news can bring about something good by motivating people to get involved, or - [The New Public Health Crisis](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/new-public-health-crisis/) - History was made last Friday. The first ever Resolution in the U.S. (possibly the world!) that declares Pornography as a Public Health Crisis passed a Utah Senate Committee -- without a single word of opposition -- and in the words of the committee chair, “more than unanimously!” This is a resolution, not a bill, so - [A Natural Death is a Dignified Death](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/natural-death-dignified-death/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker: It’s that time of year again, when many state legislatures and parliaments are in session, grappling with thousands of issues from Abortion to Zoning. This year a relatively new issue is making its way into governing bodies across the globe: Physician Assisted Suicide (PAS). Ever since Brittany Maynard’s highly - [What others may be thinking of you](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/bailey-others-may-thinking/) - March 4, 2016 Religion: What Others Are Thinking By Ann Bailey Most of us rightly care what our neighbors think of us. We value our civic relationships and want to be seen as responsible, caring citizens. Barna Group, a highly-regarded survey and research organization, recently released a study of how Americans think about their - [Talking about "gender" with your children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/talking-gender-children/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker There are some things we just plain dread. We put them off, dance around them, do anything to avoid them. Such as having to write this alert about the confusing world of multiple genders. And such as parents having try to explain that confusing world to their children. - [Why did we come to UN this week?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/come-un-week/) - March 18, 2016 Why Did We Come to the UN this Week? Squishing into crowded subways and dodging honking taxis, 21 members of our United Families International team have been in New York at the United Nations “Commission on the Status of Women” (CSW) this week. Under the umbrella of the UN Economic - [A Tale of Two UN Side Events](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/tale-two-un-side-events/) - March 31, 2016 Have Courage and Be Kind: A Tale of Two UN Side Events We hit the floor running last week, as the second week of the UN Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) began. We were getting ready for a three-hour Side Event presentation co-sponsored by United Families International, Universal Peace - [German Speaking Countries Supporting Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/german-speaking-countries-supporting-families/) - April 7, 2016 “Herzlich Willkommen!" Welcome to UFI in Germany-Austria - Switzerland! Last year we were honored to introduce you to Hubert Huh and the UFI-Korea chapter, and today we are happy to introduce you to Markus and Caroline Gappmaier of Bern, Switzerland, who are forming a UFI chapter in the German-speaking countries of - [Imperfect Mothers, Take Heart!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-imperfect-mothers-take-heart/) - Imperfect Mothers, Take Heart! A few days ago, my 82-year-old mother and I were sitting on a little bench near two large lilac bushes. The sky was blue, and the air sweetly-scented. We held hands in silence, and then she leaned her head against mine and said, " I am so happy to - [How One Person Got the World Talking](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/one-person-got-world-talking/) - From the Desk of Laura Bunker Jennifer Brown from Utah is a mother of five boys who was concerned when she realized how accessible pornography was through the free internet at a local restaurant. Jen contacted her State Senator Todd Weiler and asked, "What can we do to protect our children from pornography?" - [Oh What Tangled Webs We weave, when we first purchase to concieve](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/oh-tangled-webs-weave-first-purchase-concieve/) - May 19, 2016 Oh What a Tangled Web We Weave, When First We Purchase to Conceive In today’s polarized society, is there anything we can agree on? Perhaps there is. The commercial surrogacy industry appears to be one of the few issues that people on all sides of the spectrum share concerns about. In fact, - [The Letter Heard Round the World](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/letter-heard-round-world/) - Having trouble viewing this email? Click here The Letter Heard Round the World It has been two weeks since the Obama administration sent out the letter heard round the world - the stunning “Dear Colleague Letter” requiring schools to allow students to use restrooms and locker rooms "consistent with their gender identity,” defined as “an - [Welcome to our New Home](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/welcome-new-home/) - We listened to your suggestions, and we are excited to announce that United Families International (UFI) has a new Home! Home-page, that is, and it comes with an entirely new website jam-packed with helpful resources and information on family issues. We invite you to visit our new UFI website today! It is brighter, cleaner, and - [The Most Powerful Back-to-School Supplies](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/powerful-back-school-supplies/) - For many families a new school year brings excitement and new challenges - including the tug and pull of “what Teacher says” versus what Mom or Dad says - or the even stronger riptide of what friends may say or do. Take a deep breath parents, YOU are still the #1 influence on your children! As UFI - [Abortion distortion at the supreme court](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/abortion-distortion-supreme-court/) - It was a little over one year ago that we learned the unthinkable reality of abortion, as several undercover videos by the Center for Medical Progress (CMP) began to be released. One by one, these videos unveiled Planned Parenthood’s gruesome practice of harvesting and selling aborted baby body parts. In response to the videos, a - [Good News about School Restrooms](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/good-news-school-restrooms/) - Parents, students, and teachers across the United States expressed concern about the “Dear Colleague Letter” sent out earlier this year by the Obama administration, requiring schools to allow students to use restrooms and locker rooms “consistent with their gender identity.” We at United Families shared your concerns. We were relieved to learn that this week’s injunction - [Your Voice is Needed on Human-Animal Research](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/voice-needed-human-animal-research/) - The human-animal cross-species are called “chimeras,” after the Greek mythology creature that was part lion, part goat, and part snake. Last September the NIH abruptly suspended support of chimera research while they reviewed the ethical implications. The agency itself expressed concern that “the animals’ cognitive state could be altered if they ended up with human brain cells.”Now they are - [It's a Matter of Life and Death](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/matter-life-death/) - November 3, 2016 Next Tuesday, Colorado citizens will be voting on a matter of life and death, as the question of legalizing assisted suicide will be on the ballot. Many other states will face this issue in their upcoming legislative sessions. We invite you to forward this email to your friends and family in - [Give Thanks for Dirty Dishes](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/give-thanks-dirty-dishes/) - November 22, 2016 “Gratitude is the most pleasant of virtues and the most virtuous of pleasures.” (French philosopher Andre Comte Sponville) As we celebrate Thanksgiving in the United States this week, we invite all our friends throughout the world to join us in giving thanks - not only for the great blessings of faith, - [Using a Label as a Weapon](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/using-label-weapon/) - Silencing Your Ideological Opponent with a Label Hate. Feelings of prejudice filling people with such animus and loathing that they are motivated to hurt, to harm, and to kill. With good reason we recoil from hate when we see it. Martin Luther King, Jr. changed the heart of a complacent country by exposing the hate - [Euthanasia: "Ending Suffering by Ending the Sufferer"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/euthanasia-ending-suffering-ending-sufferer/) - Hello Friends: We’re in the last few days of collecting signatures to present to a United Nations body that is setting up to issue legal commentary on an international treaty that excludes unborn children from a “right to life.” United Families International has joined with other groups to collect signatures that are going to be - [What does the World Owe You? The Human Rights Question](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/world-owe-human-rights-question/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Some of you may not be familiar with the United Nations Human Rights Council (HRC). This international council meets three times a year in Geneva, Switzerland, to discuss and craft policy on a wide array of issues. In September, a United Families International team was in attendance to monitor - [How do you talk about the issues?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/how-do-you-talk-about-the-issues/) - November 29, 2017 Hello Friends: After living in Texas for 26 years, I recently moved to a new state to be closer to family. When I am asked the proverbial “get-to-know-you” questions, I get to tell people that I have the privilege of working with a non-governmental organization that is part of a larger coalition - [Counting Religious Freedom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/counting-religious-freedom/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Included in the landmark ruling of Obergefell v. Hodges, which legalized same-sex marriage in the United States, were following words: “Finally, it must be emphasized that religions, and those who adhere to religious doctrines, may continue to advocate with utmost, sincere conviction that, by divine precepts, same-sex marriage should - [Surrogacy: The Unintended Consequences](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/surrogacy-unintended-consequences/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, For those like us, who value the family, the inability to have a child is a heavy burden. Infertility is a very real challenge for many couples. In the US alone, one in eight couples have difficulty conceiving or sustaining a pregnancy. Many of you reading this - [Simple is Best - even at the UN](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/simple-best-even-un/) - Sometimes the simple approach ends up being the best thing! The 56th Session of the Commission for Social Development (CSocD) concluded this week and although there was some not-so-good language that ended up in the Commission’s outcome document, there were some really great things happening in the halls of the UN. For three days pro-family - [Protecting Families at CSW 62](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/protecting-families-csw-62/) - Hello Friends, The UFI team had a very successful experience at this year’s Commission on the Status of Women (CSW). We had eight university students and four faculty join us in visiting representatives from over 50 countries, as well as attending and reporting on side and parallel events that covered a wide range of topics - [Inconvenient truths](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/inconvenient-truths/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Dear Friends, I recently had a conversation with some friends who tend to see things through a pair of liberal lenses. We happened upon the subject of children who think they are trapped in the body of the opposite sex. When I mentioned my alarm at the rush to - [Surrogacy: Babies on Demand and Motherhood in Pieces](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/surrogacy-babies-on-demand-and-motherhood-in-pieces/) - Hello Friends, Surrogacy…We periodically circle back to this difficult topic. It is one that I honestly hesitate to address because if we haven’t lived with infertility ourselves, we know people who have. We sympathize with their pain, and don’t want to contribute to it, but the collateral damage that comes from the practice of surrogacy - [Scouting Without a Compass](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/scouting-without-compass/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, For many years my husband and I were volunteers with Boy Scouts of America. We served in packs, troops, crews and districts in a variety of positions. We helped youth develop virtues embodied in the Scout oath, law and motto as they worked on goals, performed service, - [Jack and Religious Freedom Win!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/jack-and-religious-freedom-win/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Dear Friends, This week’s Supreme Court ruling in the case of the Masterpiece Cakeshop is welcome news. The heart of the dispute was about a religious business owner’s right to refuse service, not to an individual or minority group, but for an event that conflicted with his sincerely held - [No "Pause" Button on the Assault on the Family and Religious Freedom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/no-pause-button-on-the-assault-on-the-family-and-religious-freedom/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello friends, I hope you are enjoying this first week of summer! I love the longer days, the warmer weather and the chance to spend some extended time with my kids and grandkids. I hope your summer is likewise filled with the things and people you love. As much - [Some Supreme News, Court Ruling](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/some-supreme-news-court-ruling/) - Some Supreme News! Wins all around! June has been a very good month for rights of conscience, religious liberty, free speech, and protection of life. The U.S. Supreme Court has been very busy this last month and we at UFI have been very pleased, and not a little relieved, about how the court has been - [Embracing the Binary: Rejecting the Genderless Society](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/embracing-the-binary-rejecting-the-genderless-society/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Dear Friends, When my youngest grandson was born, my daughter and son-in-law planned a gender-reveal party. Her sister, an excellent quilter, was told the soon-to-be-born baby’s sex. She made a beautiful baby blanket that was boyish in browns and greens and covered with woodland creatures. At the appropriate - [Curiosity Kills the Cat](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/curiosity-kills-the-cat/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, August is upon us and soon our children will be returning to the classroom. Are your kids ready? Are you ready? These days preparation for school is about more than new shoes and backpacks. You need to arm your children with the knowledge and tools that will - [Drag Kids: Creating a Precedent for the Acceptance of Child Sexual Exploitation](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/drag-kids-creating-a-precedent-for-the-acceptance-of-child-sexual-exploitation/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, I did some research this week to try to understand what makes a parent think it is okay to enable his or her son dressing in suggestive female clothing, complete with wig and make-up, and dance for grown men. The parents say they just want their children - [China’s One-Child Policy and the Law of Unintended Consequences](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/chinas-one-child-policy-and-the-law-of-unintended-consequences/) - Hello Friends, There is a law of unintended consequences in this world. The worst of unintended consequences are those that arise from the idea that people, humans, are a burden on society and on resources instead of a valuable asset that contributes to and benefits communities and nations. For decades China restricted the number of - [Medical Marijuana Done Right](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/medical-marijuana-done-right/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Dear Friends, A few years ago I went to my first legislative committee hearing about medical marijuana. It was eye-opening in a way that surprised me because it fundamentally changed the way I looked at cannabis and those seeking to legalize it. I will admit that I questioned the - [Abortion and Assisted Suicide: The New “Universal Human Right”](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/abortion-and-assisted-suicide-the-new-universal-human-right/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, You know that something is seriously wrong in the world when death through abortion and assisted suicide is peddled as a “right to life.” I kid you not. At a recently concluded United Nations meeting regarding human rights, a general comment on the “right to life” affirmed - [What A Firefighter’s Victory Means for Religious Liberty & Free Speech](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/what-a-firefighters-victory-means-for-religious-liberty-free-speech/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, In June, we expressed our gratitude for the steps the US Supreme Court took to protect religious freedom. When they issued their ruling in Masterpiece Cakeshop v. Colorado Civil Rights Commission, it set a precedent in favor of religious freedom and, we hoped, marked a potential cultural - [The Real Bullies in America’s Schools: State and National Teachers’ Unions](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-real-bullies-in-americas-schools-state-and-national-teachers-unions/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, The recent campaign to inspire more Americans to vote in the mid-term elections has had positive results. My daughter's voting district in Michigan ran out of ballots during the primaries because the voter-turnout far exceeded expectations, and her district was not the only one to face this - [Intimacy with a Robot: Stop the Push for a Dangerous New Norm](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/intimacy-with-a-robot-stop-the-push-for-a-dangerous-new-norm/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, A couple weeks ago, I sent one of my colleagues a text with a link to the topic we are sharing with you today. In it I said, “This is gross. It’s also a problem.” I wondered if we had an obligation to share it with you. - [Gosnell: The Story America Tried to Hide](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/gosnell-the-story-america-tried-to-hide/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, In 1984, former abortionist, Dr. Bernard Nathanson, released a groundbreaking film called The Silent Scream. The film took advantage of ultrasound technology to reveal the human reality of the fetus. When preparing women for abortion, abortion providers routinely refer to the fetus as a “glob of cells” - [Assisted Suicide: Society’s Dangerous Embrace of Legalized Killing](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/assisted-suicide-societys-dangerous-embrace-of-legalized-killing/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, With your help, Gosnell: The Trial of America’s Biggest Serial Killer, broke into the top 10 movies at the box office on its opening weekend. Thank you! And if you haven’t gone to see the film yet, please do. You can find a local theater here. Those - [The New Comprehensive Sexuality Education that has Teachers Horrified and Parents Fighting Back](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-new-comprehensive-sexuality-education-that-has-teachers-horrified-and-parents-fighting-back/) - From the desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, You deserve another thank you for keeping Gosnell: The Trial of America’s Biggest Serial Killer in the top ten at the box office for a second weekend! That encouraging news means the movie will open in additional theaters across the U.S. If you haven’t had a chance - [Gender Identity Wars: How Redefining Gender Hurts Women](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/gender-identity-wars-how-redefining-gender-hurts-women/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, There has been a lot in the news lately regarding the Trump administration and gender identity. It is a difficult subject. The American people are, by and large, a fair-minded people. We want to treat all people with dignity and compassion. On the other hand, we know - [Parental Rights: Who controls the education of your child?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/parental-rights-who-controls-the-education-of-your-child/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, I was a homeschool mom for 18 years. I did not choose to homeschool because of dissatisfaction with public schooling in general or our local schools in particular, but because of the persistent feeling that our home was becoming increasingly school-centered instead of family-centered. Political commentator Dennis - [A Heartbreaker of a Lie](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-heartbreaker-of-a-lie/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, Sometimes the sheer volume of malevolence in society can be overwhelming. We are surrounded, saturated at times, by a sea of anti-family propaganda. The onslaught is relentless, and what makes it worse is that this evil intent masquerades as enlightenment and progress. It follows us everywhere – - [The Transgender Agenda Threatening Your Children](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-transgender-agenda-threatening-your-children/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, I write to you from the safety of the home of some good friends of mine. This is not the first time these good and kind people have offered me shelter. Their protection, this time, comes as a result of a wildfire burning out of control on - [Religion’s Profound Influence on Families and Society](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/religions-profound-influence-on-families-and-society/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, In his farewell address of September 1796, George Washington called religion and morality “great pillars of human happiness.” He knew that national morality cannot exist without “religious principal.” Freedom of religion is our first liberty. Without the ability to live in accordance with our deepest held beliefs, - [With Liberty for All: The Religious Liberty Task Force](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/with-liberty-for-all-the-religious-liberty-task-force/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Dear Friends, In February 2014, R. Albert Mohler, Jr., president of The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, spoke at Brigham Young University on the threats to religious liberty. For a leader in evangelical Christianity to visit and speak at a Mormon university, indicates just how serious a time in our - [The Protect Life Rule: Standing Up for the Unborn](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-protect-life-rule-standing-up-for-the-unborn/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, Planned Parenthood. Choice. Reproductive healthcare. If there were an award given for the best euphemisms to emerge from the 20th century, it would be those that were created to mask the reality of abortion and the abortion industry. So many millions of lives destroyed. So many women - [Abortion's Culture is Antithetical to Women's Equality](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/abortions-culture-is-antithetical-to-womens-equality/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, Many years ago I became familiar with the arguments of pro-life feminists, and they resonated with me. For many, putting those two words, “pro-life” and “feminist” together is oxymoronic. Feminism took a terrible turn in the post WWII years, and the costs to society have been heavy, - [A Successful Year Ended, An Important Year Beginning](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-successful-year-ended-an-important-year-beginning/) - A Successful Year Ended, An Important Year Beginning January 10, 2008 Dear Friend of the Family, As we begin a new year, we are thankful for our families, our greater UFI family of supporters and friends, and for the year's accomplishments behind us. Our team has taken a brief respite for the Christmas holiday and - [Kenyan Stay Alive Friends Need Emergency Help in Midst of Civil Unrest](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/kenyan-stay-alive-friends-need-emergency-help-in-midst-of-civil-unrest/) - Kenyan Stay Alive Friends Need Emergency Help in Midst of Civil Unrest Dear Friend of the Family, Recent tragic events in Kenya have not only stifled our work in the Stay Alive aids prevention program, but have caused us much concern for the friends and families we work with in that African nation. Stay Alive - [Pro-Life Message is Winning, but War is Not Over](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/pro-life-message-is-winning-but-war-is-not-over/) - Pro-Life Message is Winning, but War is Not Over Dear Friend of the Family, On the 35th anniversary of the Roe v. Wade decision by the U.S. Supreme Court, we are greatly encouraged by the recent news that the number of abortions in the United States fell to the lowest level in 18 years. According - [Significant Efforts Underway to Defend Marriage on State Level](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/significant-efforts-underway-to-defend-marriage-on-state-level/) - Significant Efforts Underway to Defend Marriage on State Level Dear Friend of the Family, An election year gives citizens a wonderful opportunity to have a voice in the laws and people who govern our land. It behooves us all to research those candidates and issues that will promote the family cause. The defense of marriage - [AIDS Relief Program Could be Transformed into Abortion on Demand Funding Source](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/aids-relief-program-could-be-transformed-into-abortion-on-demand-funding-source/) - AIDS Relief Program Could be Transformed into Abortion on Demand Funding Source Dear Friend of the Family, Congressman Tom Lantos (Democrat, California), chairman of the U.S. House Committee on Foreign Affairs, is circulating draft legislation to reauthorize President George W. Bush's Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief (PEPFAR). The program has been highly successful in fighting - [Gay Straight Alliances Take Aim at Parents' Values, Confuse Students](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/gay-straight-alliances-take-aim-at-parents-values-confuse-students/) - Gay Straight Alliances Take Aim at Parents' Values, Confuse Students February 14 , 2008 "Every fall, millions of parents drop their children off at taxpayer-funded public schools, assuming that their children's education will provide what they need to be successful in life: strong academics, civility and responsibility. Unfortunately, many of these same parents have little - [All Eyes on California Supreme Court's Deliberation over Marriage Law](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/all-eyes-on-california-supreme-courts-deliberation-over-marriage-law/) - All Eyes on California Supreme Court's Deliberation over Marriage Law February 25, 2008 Dear Friend of the Family, We all remember the 2003 Goodridge decision in which the Supreme Judicial Court of Massachusetts uprooted state marriage law. Four unelected individuals overthrew the democratic process and ordered the legislature to legalize same-sex “marriage” law. Now we - [UFI Marks 30 Years of Defending Marriage and Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-marks-30-years-of-defending-marriage-and-family/) - UFI Marks 30 Years of Defending Marriage and Family March 5, 2008 Dear Friend of the Family, United Families International has reached a most noteworthy milestone in its defense of marriage and family – our 30-year anniversary. With a legacy that goes back to 1978, we have developed a long run of major contributions to - [United Families International, Pro-Family Coalition Split EU, Defeat Abortion Rights Movement](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/united-families-international-pro-family-coalition-split-eu-defeat-abortion-rights-movement/) - United Families International, Pro-Family Coalition Split EU, Defeat Abortion Rights Movement March 11, 2008 The Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) is a functional commission of the United Nations Economic and Social Council (ECOSOC), one that is dedicated exclusively to gender equality and advancement of women. Every year, representatives of member states gather at - [Anti-Family Forces Target Pro-Family Coalition at Commission on Status of Women](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anti-family-forces-target-pro-family-coalition-at-commission-on-status-of-women/) - Anti-Family Forces Target Pro-Family Coalition at Commission on Status of Women March 17, 2008 Dear Friend of the Family, Our opponents at the United Nations are getting more and more frustrated with the presence of and the success of our pro-family coalition at major social conventions. Due to the dogged determination and the effectiveness of - [The Despair of Children in an Unstable Home](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-despair-of-children-in-an-unstable-home/) - The Despair of Children in an Unstable Home April 9, 2008 From a young age, I was exposed to explicit sexual speech, self-indulgent lifestyles, varied GLBT subcultures and gay vacation spots. Sex looked gratuitous to me as a child. I was exposed to all-inclusive manifestations of sexuality, including bathhouse sex, cross-dressing, sodomy, pornography, gay nudity, - [UFI, Allies Urge Kosovo to Constitutionally Assure Freedoms for Citizens](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-allies-urge-kosovo-to-constitutionally-assure-freedoms-for-citizens/) - UFI, Allies Urge Kosovo to Constitutionally Assure Freedoms for Citizens Dear Friend of the Family, Carol Soleberg, President of UFIThe newspaper headline -- “Don’t Let Our Nation Be Destroyed!” – confirmed my hope that our pro-family coalition team’s efforts in Kosovo last week were bearing fruits! Our message was getting through! At United Families International, - [Truth or Silence? Confronting Homosexual Activism in Schools](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/truth-or-silence-confronting-homosexual-activism-in-schools/) - Truth or Silence? Confronting Homosexual Activism in Schools April 28, 2008 Dear Friend of the Family,Carol Soleberg, President of UFI In Illinois, teachers threatened students with suspension and called the Day of Truth a “hazing” incident. A North Carolina school told a student he could not wear a Day of Truth shirt or hand out - [Mothers Matter](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/mothers-matter/) - Mothers Do Matter May 13, 2008 Dear Friend of the Family,Carol Soleberg, President of UFI United Families International spends much time and resources defending the family and protecting motherhood around the world. We understand and value the importance of families and the role of the mother in the family. As a mother of 13 children, - [California Supreme Court Decision will Result in Unintended Consequences](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/california-supreme-court-decision-will-result-in-unintended-consequences/) - California Supreme Court Decision will Result in Unintended Consequences May 19, 2008 The State of California is known for its earthquakes, and Thursday’s re-definition of marriage by the California Supreme Court delivereda social “jolt” on the magnitude of 8.0. A mere four Supreme Court justices did the unthinkable by declaring one-man/one-woman marriage unconstitutional. The decision - [Marriage Protection Amendment Would Solve the Problem of Judicial Activism](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/marriage-protection-amendment-would-solve-the-problem-of-judicial-activism/) - Marriage Protection Amendment Would Solve the Problem of Judicial Activism May 29 , 2008 Dear Friend of the Family,Carol Soleberg, President of UFI We have analyzed the recent 172-page decision by the California Supreme Court which ruled marriage as we know it “unconstitutional.” That decision is unjustifiable on so many levels. If anything, the decision - [Judges Rule Against Stay and the Democratic Process](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/judges-rule-against-stay-and-the-democratic-process/) - Judges Rule Against Stay and the Democratic Process June 6, 2008 Dear Friend of the Family, The arrogance expressed yesterday by the California Supreme Court, which refused to stay its May 15 legalization of same-sex “marriage,” should come as no surprise. The court’s original decision last month was an over-step that defied the separation of - [Dad, You Give Your Children a 50 Percent Better Chance of Getting A's In School and Staying Out of Jail](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/dad-you-give-your-children-a-50-percent-better-chance-of-getting-as-in-school-and-staying-out-of-jail/) - Dad, You Give Your Children a 50 Percent Better Chance of Getting A's In School and Staying Out of Jail "One father is more than a hundred schoolmasters." --17th Century English Proverb Dear Friend of the Family, Today, I've got a special message just for dads...Carol Soleberg, President of UFI Thank you for being there - [Courage of few who stand for life should be recognized](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/courage-of-few-who-stand-for-life-should-be-recognized/) - October 1, 2008 Courage of few who stand for life should be recognized un.jpgDear ~Contact.FirstName~, Work protecting families and the sanctity of life at the United Nations is never easy and never ending. Opposing forces have infiltrated the UN system and comprise majorities in decision making bodies, including oversight committees like the Human Rights Committee - [Combined Voices Speak Loud!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/combined-voices-speak-loud/) - October 7, 2008 Combined Voices Speak Loud! Carol.JPGDear Aaryn, This year marks the 60th anniversary of the United Nations Universal Declaration of Human Rights approved in the halls of the UN on 10 December 1948. The Declaration clearly lays out the rights of all human beings around the world and is used by pro-family NGOs - [Your Money Pays For Abortions](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/you-money-pays-for-abortions/) - October 14, 2008 $300 Million In Government Grants Supplies Abortions! Carol.JPGDear ~Contact.FirstName~, Dear Friend of the Family, Thirty years ago, United Families International was organized. Today one of its main purposes is that of fighting the negative, anti-family movement at the United Nations. We have succeeded, for the time being, in holding off the pervasive - [Marriage: Elect To Protect It](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/marriage-elect-to-protect-it/) - Marriage Elect To Protect It Dear Friend of the Family, Tomorrow is an important day for pro-family voters. In the United States, voters will not only be voting for a president, they will be determining the future of the family. Please read the guest article from Bill Duncan, Director of the prestigious Marriage Law Foundation. - [Good and Bad News](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/good-and-bad-news/) - November 10, 2008 Good and Bad News Carol.JPGDear ~Contact.FirstName~, Election night results brought good and bad news. The good news of course is the noteworthy passage of all three state constitutional marriage amendments. Our friends in California, Florida and Arizona rallied to ensure a meaningful win for marriage and the family. Congratulations to the thousands - [UFI Joins with Prop 8 Coalition Leaders to Denounce Attacks by Opponents](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-joins-with-prop-8-coalition-leaders-to-denounce-attacks-by-opponents/) - November 18, 2008 UFI Joins with Prop 8 Coalition Leaders to Denounce Attacks by Opponents Bev Rice.jpgDear ~Contact.FirstName~, Last Friday, Proposition 8 Coalition Leaders held a press conference to denounce the vicious attacks against individuals, churches and businesses who supported the California marriage amendment. United Families was proud to stand with other leaders to show - [UFI AND PROP 8 SUPPORTERS GIVE THANKS](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-and-prop-8-supporters-give-thanks/) - November 25, 2008 UFI AND PROP 8 SUPPORTERS GIVE THANKS Bev Rice.jpgDear ~Contact.FirstName~, Supporters of Prop 8 have much to be thankful for this week. Besides achieving victory at the polls, we have been successful in achieving a victory with the California Supreme Court. Last week the CA State Supreme Court agreed to hear cases - [Solving the Economic Crisis by Strengthening the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/solving-the-economic-crisis-by-strengthening-the-family-2/) - December 2, 2008 Solving the Economic Crisis by Strengthening the Family Bev Rice.jpgDear ~Contact.FirstName~, The economic crisis is affecting families all over the world. Governments are struggling to find ways to solve the problems. Each day's headlines detail a new attempt to boost the struggling economies. The plans have included: bailouts, stimulus packages, mortgage buy-backs, - [Tomorrow](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/tomorrow-2/) - December 8, 2008 Tomorrow Bev Rice.jpgDear ~Contact.FirstName~, Tomorrow is the 60th Anniversary of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights (UNDHR). As we sit comfortably in our homes throughout the world, we may wonder "Why should I care about that? What effect does this have on me? " Sixty years ago, after the conclusion of World - [Media and Governments Seek to Curtail Religious Liberty](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/media-and-governments-seek-to-curtail-religious-liberty-2/) - December 16, 2008 Media and Governments Seek to Curtail Religious Liberty Bev Rice.jpgDear ~Contact.FirstName~, Please read our revised and corrected version of the December 16th alert. Due to a computer glitch we are resending you this alert. Merry Christmas!! Happy Hanukkah! Isn't it wonderful to be able to say that to each other? As much - [An Important Message To Our Readers](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/an-important-message-to-our-readers/) - December 18, 2008 An Important Message To Our Readers Fighting against abortion is not free. Fighting against the gay-rights agenda is not free. Fighting to preserve the rights of the family is not free. At United Families International we depend completely on individual donors - like you. We are planning our strategy for the coming - [A Special Message for Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-special-message-for-families/) - December 22, 2008 A Special Message for Families This is the time of year when families around the world gather together and share memories, traditions and holidays of faith. We at United Families are grateful for seasons and traditions which bring families together. We hope that regardless of what your traditions at this time of - [Happy New Year!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/happy-new-year/) - December 30, 2008 Happy New Year! Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, As we come to the end of another year, we at United Families International wish to thank all of you for your support during our 30th Anniversary year! What a year it has been! We have been successful on many fronts thanks to your willingness to support - [US President-Elect Plans to Revoke All Anti-Abortion Laws](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/us-president-elect-plans-to-revoke-all-anti-abortion-laws-2/) - Janaury 6, 2009 US President-Elect Plans to Revoke All Anti-Abortion Laws Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, A new year has begun and in a short time the United States will have a new president. As all new years bring changes, this New Year may bring devastating changes that will affect our families. One of those devastating changes may - [Demographic Winter](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/demographic-winter-2/) - The following is a special message from our friends at Demographic Winter. This video has had a profound effect on everyone I have shown it to. Please consider watching the preview of the video, and if you like it, order a copy for yourself and anyone else who you think might benefit from learning about - [It Is A Solemn Day](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/it-is-a-solemn-day-2/) - Janaury 20, 2009 It Is A Solemn Day Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, The air is crisp and cold. Flags are waving. People are cheering. The military salutes. Another President is inaugurated. And people who care about families, marriage between a man and a woman, the sanctity of life and religious liberty stand by the side and wait - [Doma Really Does Protect Marriage!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/doma-really-does-protect-marriage-2/) - Janaury 28, 2009 Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Beverly Rice' weekly President's Message has been suspended this week due to her attendance at the World Congress of Families (V) planning meeting in Amsterdam. Please be sure to read the article below on what will happen if the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) is repealed. You won't want to - [World Congress of Families Comes to Amsterdam](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/world-congress-of-families-comes-to-amsterdam/) - February 3, 2009 World Congress of Families Comes to Amsterdam Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Every afternoon the streets of Amsterdam are filled with bicycles. Atop the bicycles are mothers and fathers bringing their children home from school. Mothers ride with a child on the back, one riding on the front and a baby closely nestled in a - [The Feminist Movement Hurts Families!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-feminist-movement-hurts-families-2/) - February 10, 2009 The Feminist Movement Hurts Families! Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, The feminist movement has done more damage to the family than any other cultural movement in recent memory. Because of the feminist movement, we have legalized and subsidized abortions all over the world. Because of the feminist movement, mothers have been encouraged to leave their - [Obama Administration Declares War On Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/obama-administration-declares-war-on-families-2/) - February 17, 2009 Obama Administration Declares War On Families Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, The Obama Administration has declared war on parents and children. In the last few weeks, they have approved and voted for people or groups who would like to promote pornography, pedophilia, and destroy parental rights. They have appointed or voted for people or groups - [UFI Heads to CSW to Protect Families!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-heads-to-csw-to-protect-families/) - February 24, 2009 UFI Heads to CSW to Protect Families! Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, It was 3:00 a.m. A small group of pro-family activists, including several from United Families International, were sitting in the basement of the United Nations. Behind the closed doors of the adjacent conference room were dozens of delegates who were trying to finalize - [CRC Wants to Tell You How To Raise Your Children!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/crc-wants-to-tell-you-how-to-raise-your-children-2/) - March 3, 2009 CRC Wants to Tell You How To Raise Your Children! Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Being a parent is one of the greatest joys we have in this world. Being able to guide, direct, encourage and support your child is what being a parent is all about. That could all come to an end for - [U.N. Delegates Leave Family Out of CSW Documents](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/u-n-delegates-leave-family-out-of-csw-documents/) - March 10, 2009 U.N. Delegates Leave Family Out of CSW Documents Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, United Families International is at the United Nations this week. This is the second week of the 53rd Commission on the Status of Women. Men and women from all over the world have gathered here to debate the issues they feel are - [United Families Report Success at CSW 2009!!!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/united-families-report-success-at-csw-2009-2/) - March 17, 2009 United Families Report Success at CSW 2009!!! Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, We were successful!!! Two weeks of concentrated negotiating, cajoling, writing, lobbying, and supporting have come to an end. At the conclusion of the 53rd Commission on the Status of Women (CSW), many in the pro-family coalition had slept less than four hours during - [Obama Administration Proposing To Rescind Laws That Protect Health Care Providers](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/obama-administration-proposing-to-rescind-laws-that-protect-health-care-providers-2/) - March 10, 2009 Obama Administration Proposing To Rescind Laws That Protect Health Care Providers Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, The sanctity of life is being attacked from all sides. From the United Nations to your doctor's office, treaties, money, and new regulations are forcing unwilling participants to participate in the act of abortion. As you know, tax dollars - [Radical View of Womanhood GEARs Up](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/radical-view-of-womanhood-gears-up-2/) - March 31, 2009 Radical View of Womanhood GEARs Up Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, The organization of the United Nations began in 1945 by nations that were predominantly democratic. Membership to the UN has never come with a democratic prerequisite; however, some 60 years later, the majority of the United Nations member states are not developed or full-fledged - [Another Miracle At The United Nations!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/another-miracle-at-the-united-nations/) - April 7, 2009 Another Miracle At The United Nations! Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Do you believe in miracles? We do. At United Families International we have been privileged to watch miracles occur over and over. In March, we wrote about the miracle that occurred at the Commission on the Status of Women (CSW). This week we are - [HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS SUPPORT LIFE IN SPAIN](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/hundreds-of-millions-support-life-in-spain/) - April 16, 2009 HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS SUPPORT LIFE IN SPAIN Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, SPAIN - March, 2009 The forces of life stood together in support of an amazing movement called Rallies for the Right to Live, which was held in the country of Spain on Sunday, March 29th. Momentously, over 800 world wide organizations representing over - [Is The Marriage Battle Lost?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/is-the-marriage-battle-lost/) - April 21, 2009 Is The Marriage Battle Lost? Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, How are you feeling about the battle over same sex marriage these days? Do you feel like the battle is over? Do you feel like we should just give up? Are you sensing that the other side has won? If these feelings describe how you - [YOU are a "Rightwing Extremist" and a "Threat to our Nation's Security"!!!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/you-are-a-rightwing-extremistand-a-threat-to-our-nations-security/) - April 28, 2009 YOU are a "Rightwing Extremist" and a "Threat to our Nation's Security"!!! In a new report from the US Department of Homeland Security, conservatives, not terrorists, are named as the #1 threat to the nation's security. Citizens standing for conservative values including those who are pro-life are named as right winged extremists - [Gender Discrimination Acheived Through Sex-Selection Abortions](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/gender-discrimination-acheived-through-sex-selection-abortions/) - May 5, 2009 Gender Discrimination Achieved Through Sex-selection Abortions Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, One of the most discussed topics over the last 50 years is gender discrimination, formerly known as sexism or chauvinism. Whatever term used, the meaning is the same; one gender or sex is viewed as more valuable than the other. Throughout most cultures, women - [DON'T BE ALARMED](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/dont-be-alarmed/) - Demographic Winter is a strong wake up call to most people. It dispels common misconceptions that overpopulation is a viable concern. Only by educating ourselves as to the seriousness of Demographic Winter can we raise our voice of warning to others. Take the time to watch and learn from this incredibly well done documentary. When - [Abstinence Education In Schools](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/abstinence-education-in-schools-2/) - May 12, 2009 Abstinence Education in Schools Dealing With a Sexualized Culture Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, The world we live in has been sexualized in just about every way. Our children can't turn on the television without being inundated with racy images and messages. How do children growing up in this environment learn about respecting themselves and - [Fathers, may you continue to build your families and the nation...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/fathers-may-you-continue-to-build-your-families-and-the-nation/) - June 16, 2009 Fathers, may you continue to build your families and the nation... Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Roughly 100 years ago, the first fathers' day celebration in the United States began. During a Mothers' Day sermon in 1909, Sonora Smart Dodd felt inspired to similarly honor her own father, William Jackson Smart, an American Civil War - [OBAMA'S HEALTH CARE REFORM ENDANGERS FAMILIES AND LIFE AROUND THE GLOBE](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/obamas-health-care-reform-endangers-families-and-life-around-the-globe-2/) - June 23, 2009 OBAMA'S HEALTH CARE REFORM ENDANGERS FAMILIES AND LIFE AROUND THE GLOBE Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Your family and friends are in grave danger! UFI keeps vigilant watch of those issues around the world that affect the family. One such issue is developing in the United States. If President Obama and the liberal majority in - [Marriage Update - The Battle Continues](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/marriage-update-the-battle-continues/) - May 26, 2009 California Stands For Marriage!!! - Click HERE For More Info MARRIAGE UPDATE: THE BATTLE CONTINUES "I do not believe that defending traditional marriage between one man and one woman excludes anybody or usurps anybody's civil rights and denies anybody their civil rights." - Alan Autry, Former mayor, actor and professional football player - [Internet Pornography Harms Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/internet-pornography-harms-families/) - June 2, 2009 Internet Pornography Harms Families "[Online pornography] is a serious national problem that is causing irreparable injury to our most important resource -- our children." - Solicitor General Theodore Olson, in oral arguments to the U.S. Supreme Courtviews Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, The Internet is a wonderful and amazing invention that truly gives us the - [Uncle Sam in the Nursery? How the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child May Soon be Disciplining Your Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/uncle-sam-in-the-nursery-how-the-un-convention-on-the-rights-of-the-child-may-soon-be-disciplining-your-family/) - June 30, 2009 Uncle Sam in the Nursery? How the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child May Soon be Disciplining Your Family Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Last week over 80,000 families in Great Britain received demoralizing news. Concerned about the legitimacy of homeschooling, government ministers disclosed plans to control and monitor homeschooling families by requiring - [The Marriage Battle Continues](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-marriage-battle-continues/) - July 7, 2009 The Marriage Battle Continues Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, In an effort to keep you informed on the current status of the same-sex marriage battle within the United States, today we wanted to let you know of the latest developments in that arena. As mentioned last month, there are new disturbing developments within New England - [Developments in California, Massachusetts and Maine](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/developments-in-california-massachusetts-and-maine/) - July 14, 2009 Developments in California, Massachusetts and Maine By William C. Duncan, Marriage Law Foundation Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, The approval of Proposition 8, California's marriage amendment, was a great victory for marriage and the idea that children deserve a mother and father. Proposition 8, however, infuriated those who wanted to use marriage to obtain government - [FAMILY ACTION ALERT!!!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/family-action-alert/) - July 21, 2009 FAMILY ACTION ALERT!!!! Anti-Family Healthcare Reform Bill Continues to Be Pushed Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Today the pro-life movement stands at a crossroad. If Congress cannot stop the Obama healthcare train, and our nation turns toward nationalized health care, the battle to protect the family will be damaged beyond measure. Currently, HB 3200: Healthcare - [Health Care Costs Could Cost Lives](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/health-care-costs-could-cost-lives/) - June 28, 2009 Health Care Costs Could Cost Lives Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, The debate that surrounds euthanasia and assisted suicide has been going on for centuries. Beginning in ancient Greece, it has played out in various forms over the years with proponents and opponents giving voice to their views on this sensitive and emotional subject. Today - [YOU MADE A DIFFERENCE](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/you-made-a-difference/) - August 4, 2009 YOUR VOICE MADE A DIFFERENCE Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Thanks to your responses and the involvement of the Bluedogs, the Obamacare momentum has waned; giving time for additional analysis and debate over what UFI sees as an all out attack on the family by way of limiting provider choice, turning abortion into a right - [Intact Families Make Good Fiscal Policy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/intact-families-make-good-fiscal-policy/) - August 11, 2009 Intact Families Make Good Fiscal Policy Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, It faces us at every turn: the economy. Whether it is from our own current financial casualties or from the media's barrage of messages on the subject; as citizens we are consumed with our nation's fiscal future. Answers to our economic woes range from - [World Congress of Families V A Success!!!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/world-congress-of-families-v-a-success-2/) - August 18, 2009 World Congress of Families V A Success!!! Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, August 10th-12th United Families International participated in the fifth edition of World Congress of Families (WCF) in Amsterdam, the Netherlands. WCF is a gathering of individuals and organizations from all over the world whose focus is the preservation of the natural family. Academics, researchers, religious - [UN Disability Treaty: National Soverignty at Risk](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/un-disability-treaty-national-soverignty-at-risk/) - August 25, 2009 UN Disability Treaty: National Soverignty at Risk Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, On July 30, 2009 the United States became the 142nd country to sign the United Nations Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities. Susan Rice, the United States' ambassador to the United Nations, signed the document in New York at the UN - [Parental Rights Under Attack in the United States and Around the Globe](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/parental-rights-under-attack-in-the-united-states-and-around-the-globe-2/) - September 1, 2009 Parental Rights Under Attack in the United States and Around the Globe Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Uncle Sam Wants You!!! This familiar pre-World War I slogan has been used to encourage American citizens to sign up for active duty in order to protect their country from outside intruders. In a recent twist, modern time - [Your Support Is Needed](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/your-support-is-needed-2/) - June 2, 2009 Your Support Is Needed Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, As the season ends, it is apparent that the work of defending families has never been so relevant. The blatant attempt at the United Nations and around the world to promote the pervasive and expansive use of abortion has kept us very busy, as has the - [What's At Stake In The Attack On DOMA?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/whats-at-stake-in-the-attack-on-doma-2/) - September 15, 2009 Look for President's Message Below WHAT'S AT STAKE IN THE ATTACK ON DOMA? by William C. Duncan, Marriage Law Foundation Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Those who are pushing a redefinition of marriage in the United States promote an ideology that says when it comes to marriage, all adult relationships are the same and that - [US Radification of CEDAW: Worldwide Impact](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/us-radification-of-cedaw-worldwide-impact-2/) - September 29, 2009 Look for President's Message Below US Ratification of CEDAW: Worldwide Impact Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Earlier this year, we sent you an update on the United Nations treaty for women - called the Convention on the Elimination of all forms of Discrimination Against Women (CEDAW) and why we oppose its ratification. The United States - [Women and Unborn Victims of Feminist Agenda](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/women-and-unborn-victims-of-feminist-agenda/) - October 6, 2009 *The following are highlights of an article on the mass genocide of entire female populations. Women and Unborn Victims of Feminist Agenda Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Choices have consequences! Yet, in today's global culture, we are taught the mistaken selfish notion of "Do your own thing." The message being sent, to youth and adults - [UN Human Rights Council Votes in Favor of Traditional Values](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/un-human-rights-council-votes-in-favor-of-traditional-values-2/) - October 13, 2009 UN Human Rights Council Votes in Favor of Traditional Values Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, The United Nations (UN) Human Rights Council (HRC) concluded its twelfth session last week by passing a resolution in favor of traditional values. The Resolution The resolution, introduced by the Russian Federation, is entitled "Promoting human rights and fundamental - ["Death With Dignity" Threatens Sanctity of Life!!!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/death-with-dignity-threatens-sanctity-of-life/) - October 20, 2009 "Death With Dignity" Threatens Sanctity of Life!!! Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, This summer we sent you an alert on the dangers of euthanasia, physician assisted suicide and the threat they present to the elderly, disabled, and terminally ill. Now the threat is even greater as hospice care in many places is beginning to - [Copenhagen Protocol: UN's New Attempt to Override National Sovereignty](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/copenhagen-protocol-uns-new-attempt-to-override-national-sovereignty/) - November 3, 2009 Copenhagen Protocol: UN's New Attempt to Override National Sovereignty Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Many of you may have recently seen a popular YouTube video of Lord Christopher Monckton, a former science advisor to Margaret Thatcher, discussing the dangers of President Obama's possible signing of the Copenhagen Protocol. The four minute speech addressed to an - [Stupak Amendment Protects The Unborn](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/stupak-amendment-protects-the-unborn-2/) - November 10, 2009 Stupak Amendment Protects The Unborn Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, As many of you know, the U.S. House of Representatives passed the "Affordable Health Care for America Act" (H.R. 3962) late Saturday night by a slim two-vote margin. What was less noted in all the clamor was the important addition on November 7 of the - ["Just Trust Us"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/just-trust-us/) - November 17, 2009 "Just Trust Us" Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, We live in such a specialized society that everyone, of necessity, learns to trust the "experts"! What we must also learn is that the experts have motives and agendas that may or may not match our own values and beliefs. In recent years, the United Nations has - [United Nations Population Fund Uses Climate Change to Promote Abortion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/united-nations-population-fund-uses-climate-change-to-promote-abortion-2/) - December 8, 2009 United Nations Population Fund Uses Climate Change to Promote Abortion Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Eliminating future populations is the key to controlling climate change. Or at least that is the underlying logic of the State of the World Population 2009 report released last month by the United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA). Population and Climate - [Media Promotes Homosexual Parenting Without Evidence](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/media-promotes-homosexual-parenting-without-evidence/) - December 1, 2009 Media Promotes Homosexual Parenting Without Evidence Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, Last week's UFI Daily ran a rather uncharacteristic headline: "Study says lesbians make better parents." The article it referred to, "Lesbian Parents Better at Raising Children" in The Times of London, has made the rounds not only in our daily but throughout the - [The Battle for the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-battle-for-the-family/) - December 15, 2009 The Battle for the Family Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, It is difficult to advocate for the family in today's political environment without using military terminology. We often describe politics as a "battleground." We speak of "defending" the family and "battling" the opposition. We speak of "attacks" and "strategies" and "enemies." We use these terms - [The Blessings of the Family for Nations and Homes](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-blessings-of-the-family-for-nations-and-homes/) - December 22, 2009 The Blessings of the Family for Nations and Homes Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, It is a difficult and dangerous time for the family. Yet during this Holiday Season, as so many turn their thoughts towards family and loved ones, it is important to step back from the fight and remind ourselves why the family - [The Top 10 of 2009](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-top-10-of-2009/) - December 29, 2009 The Top 10 of 2009 Dear ~Contact.FirstName~, As 2009 comes to a close, we at United Families International have much for which to be grateful. Although those who would see the family dismantled, the culture of death cultivated, parental rights diminished, and religion abolished from society continue their destructive work, this year - [Preparing for Another Successful Year at the UN](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/preparing-for-another-successful-year-at-the-un/) - January 6, 2010 Preparing for Another Successful Year at the UN As we begin a new year supporting the family as a vital concept and principle of law and society, we are grateful for our own families, for the support we receive from all of you, and for the accomplishments of past years. United Families - [Is the "Gay Rights" Movement a Civil Rights Movement?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/is-the-gay-rights-movement-a-civil-rights-movement/) - January 12, 2010 Is the "Gay Rights" Movement a Civil Rights Movement? You've heard the arguments. "Homosexuals are an oppressed minority just like racial minorities or women." "The gay rights movement is the new civil rights movement." "Homophobia isequivalent to racism and sexism." Renditions of this argument are everywhere, particularly in the debate over same-sex - [Feminist Claim Legalizing Prostitution Will Eliminate Sex Trafficking](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/feminist-claim-legalizing-prostitution-will-eliminate-sex-trafficking-2/) - January 19, 2010 Feminist Claim Legalizing Prostitution Will Eliminate Sex Trafficking US President Barack Obama declared January 2010 National Slavery and Human Trafficking Prevention Month and asked everyone to recommit themselves to ending the modern practice of slavery in the world. Human trafficking is an international problem where men, women, and children are victimized through - [The Tragedy of "Bare Branches"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-tragedy-of-bare-branches-2/) - January 26, 2010 The Tragedy of "Bare Branches" China's economy may be booming, but there's a shortage looming...not enough females. A new study conducted by the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences warns that China will have a bride shortage of 24 million by the year 2050. To put it in perspective, that's the equivalent - [CULTURAL AND LEGAL CONFUSION SURROUND HOMOSEXUALITY](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/cultural-and-legal-confusion-surround-homosexuality-2/) - February 2, 2010 CULTURAL AND LEGAL CONFUSION SURROUND HOMOSEXUALITY Many nations of the world find themselves struggling with the consequences of having instituted same-sex marriage or are mired in the debate over this controversial assault on family and marriage. The ongoing trial in U.S. Federal District Court in San Francisco, California illustrates the increasing cultural - [Living a Nightmare](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/living-a-nightmare/) - February 9, 2010 Living a Nightmare The worst nightmare for any parent is the thought of losing a child. For Isaac and Rebecca May this nightmare has become a reality. After complications with their son, Isaiah's, birth the May family has experienced one trial after another. For Isaiah's grandmother and grandfather, Kathy and Bob - [The Media's "Big Lie"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-medias-big-lie/) - February 16, 2010 The Media's "Big Lie" Over the years, the public has grown increasingly skeptical of the media, and for good reason. Surveys over the past 30 years have consistently found that journalists - especially those at the highest ranks of their profession - are much more liberal than the rest of - [What happens in New York, doesn't stay in New York](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/what-happens-in-new-york-doesnt-stay-in-new-york/) - February 22, 2010 What happens in New York, doesn't stay in New York Did you know that in March there are prestigious meetings at the UN that will attempt, among other things, to implement policies that willlegalize prostitution, make abortion--at all stages--legal around the world, negate parental rights, promote explicit sex education to children, - [Your Eyes Inside CSW](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/your-eyes-inside-csw/) - March 2, 2010 Your Eyes Inside CSW The 54th Commission on the Status of Women (CSW), one of the biggest events of the UN year, is going on right now and members of the UFI media team are there blogging to keep you up to date. They are working hard to be your eyes and - [Commission on the Status of Women Organizers Have Declared "Open Season" on Religion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/commission-on-the-status-of-women-organizers-have-declared-open-season-on-religion/) - March 10, 2010 Commission on the Status of Women Organizers Have Declared "Open Season" on Religion The battle ground is being redefined. United Families International has been involved in pro-family, pro-life work for over 30 years""about 18 of those years have been at the UN and international level. But during these past 12 days, - [UFI Stands For Proper Care For Mothers Around The World](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-stands-for-proper-care-for-mothers-around-the-world-2/) - March 17, 2010 UFI Stands For Proper Care For Mothers Around The World After two weeks of intense work in the halls of the United Nations our UFI delegation has returned home. Although we are a bit beaten and bruised, our efforts helped ensure that the policies coming out of the Commission on the - [Adult Stem Cells Could Save Your Life](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/adult-stem-cells-could-save-your-life/) - March 30, 2010 Adult Stem Cells Could Save Your Life Being pro-life is much more than being opposed to abortion. We at United Families International enjoy sharing with you other pro-life news"”some good news too. We just learned that a new cord blood bank and stem-cell lab is opening near our headquarters in Arizona. It - [Kenya's "Choice"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/kenyas-choice-2/) - April 6, 2010 Kenya's "Choice" On April 1 the Parliament of Kenya approved a Draft Constitution that, with approval by popular vote, will become the new highest law of the land, giving more power to the people, protecting more rights, and limiting the power of the government. All together it would promise greater peace and security - [The Future Belongs to Stable Married Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-future-belongs-to-stable-married-families-2/) - April 13, 2010 The Future Belongs to Stable Married Families First, the good news The teen birth rate in the United States fell two percent between 2007 and 2008, after rising for the two years prior. The birth rate for the year 2007, however, was an all-time high. This report from the Centers for Disease - [MOTHERHOOD SAFER AROUND THE WORLD](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/motherhood-safer-around-the-world/) - April 20, 2010 MOTHERHOOD SAFER AROUND THE WORLD We are pleased to bring to your attention a study issued by the prestigious medical journal, The Lancet. The Lancet is reporting that worldwide maternal mortality rates (women dying from conditions related to pregnancy and child birth) have fallen. According to the journal, the number of women - [What is a human right?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/what-is-a-human-right/) - April 28, 2010 What is a human right? What is a human right? What qualifies something as a universal, fundamental right of all humans? The answer is not as obvious as one would assume. Is it divine declaration? Natural law? Customary law? International consensus? Or is it merely political maneuvering? The Center for Reproductive Rights - [Mothers Are The Bottom Line!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/mothers-are-the-bottom-line/) - May 4, 2010 Mothers are the bottom line! There are loud voices around us expounding upon the role of women. Often those loud voices seek to eliminate motherhood as a viable option for contemporary women. Some even go so far as to call motherhood a "negative stereotype" calling for the elimination of such things as - [Domestic Partner Registries: A Stepping Stone to Same-sex Marriage](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/domestic-partner-registries-a-stepping-stone-to-same-sex-marriage/) - May 11, 2010 Domestic Partner Registries: A Stepping Stone to Same-sex Marriage Vice is a monster of so frightful mien, as to be hated, needs but to be seen; yet seen too oft, familiar with her face, we first endure, then pity, then embrace. -ALEXANDER POPE Britain is on the verge of instituting same-sex marriage. - [Your child's school, Sex Education, and You](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/your-childs-school-sex-education-and-you/) - May 18, 2010 Your child's school, Sex Education, and You In a recent victory for parents of Canadian school children, it was the parents that decided what their children would be taught, not teachers, not "educational experts," not politicians, and definitely not the bureaucrats that run the Ontario education system. Some - [Texas Textbooks: Why the International Community Should Care](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/texas-textbooks-why-the-international-community-should-care-2/) - May 25, 2010 Texas Textbooks: Why the International Community Should Care An article on Texas textbooks may not appear to be of interest to our international community. However, the world movement toward secularism and one world government may have just met its match. The great state of Texas, in a bold move, is taking on - [Is the Employment Non-Discrimination Act the end of discrimination or just the beginning?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/is-the-employment-non-discrimination-act-the-end-of-discrimination-or-just-the-beginning-2/) - June 1, 2010 Is the Employment Non-Discrimination Act the end of discrimination or just the beginning? Earlier this year the concerns over religious freedom for citizens around the world was renewed when London street-preacher Dale McAlpine was arrested in his hometown after he mentioned that homosexuality is a sin in the Bible. While homosexuality was - ["Tolerance" of the Homosexual Lifestyle has become "Forced Acceptance."](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/tolerance-of-the-homosexual-lifestyle-has-become-forced-acceptance-2/) - June 9, 2010 "Tolerance" of the Homosexual Lifestyle has become "Forced Acceptance." It's International Gay Pride month around the world. From Rio to Rome, Madrid to Moscow the streets of major cities will be flying rainbow flags as men, dressed in drag, parade down the streets. We were going to provide a link to a video - [Fathers: Crucial To Society](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/fathers-crucial-to-society-2/) - June 15, 2010 Fathers: Crucial to Society "One father is more than a hundred schoolmasters." - 17th Century English Proverb Teenage delinquents were killing their neighbors. A few years ago, the TV news program "60 Minutes" first reported on this story. But they weren't talking about humans; they were talking about elephants. It seems this - ["My Daddy's Name is Donor"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/my-daddys-name-is-donor-2/) - June 22, 2010 "My Daddy's Name is Donor" The scene was a playground at a small charter school in a suburb of Phoenix. When asked by a classmate about his parents, the young kindergartner looked perplexed. "I have two moms, a mommy and a momma." "But what about your dad," asked a persistent classmate. "Oh, - [Love of Country has to be Taught](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/love-of-country-has-to-be-taught-2/) - June 29, 2010 Love of Country has to be Taught A UFI reader recently shared her thoughts with us and we wanted to pass them on in commemoration of the upcoming United States 4th of July Independence Day Celebration and to highlight a worldwide threat to national sovereignty. As a docent at a large metropolitan - [Teen Pregnancy Impacts Society](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/teen-pregnancy-impacts-society/) - July 7, 2010 Teen Pregnancy Impacts Society The percentage of children born out of wedlock grows annually. This global phenomenon is especially prevalent in economically developed countries. Fueled by the popular cultural ethic that mocks the importance of marriage and advocates premature sexual experiences, one segment of society is disproportionately burdened by the consequences. This - [United Families Is Working For You!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/united-families-is-working-for-you/) - July 12, 2010 United Families Is Working For You! In a previous "President's Spotlight"I outlined a new vision for the future of United Families International. Today, I wanted to explain how that vision has succeeded in impacting you and your family. But first, I must tell you that our efforts to support and defend the - [Is Marriage Dead? - The Case Against "The Case Against Marriage."](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/is-marriage-dead-the-case-against-the-case-against-marriage/) - July 20, 2010 Is Marriage Dead? The Case Against "The Case Against Marriage." "Marriage is dead," . . . or, at least, no longer necessary was the Nietzschean-like declaration of two young, female writers in Newsweek last month. In an article entitled "The Case Against Marriage," Jessica Bennett and Jesse Ellison lay-out with dismissive nonchalance, - [Education Establishment is Not a Friend of the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/education-establishment-is-not-a-friend-of-the-family-2/) - Education Establishment is Not a Friend of the Family Summertime means the annual National Education Association Convention. The National Education Association (NEA) is the largest professional organization and labor union in the U.S. and its influence on education reaches around the world. Their power and influence extends from the walls of the school room to - [Stop Secular Humanism from Becoming the Foundation of Education](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/stop-secular-humanism-from-becoming-the-foundation-of-education-2/) - The moral, legal, and cultural assault against the institutions UFI defends and the principles that support them are comprehensive. This weeks alert deals with secular humanism and the attempts to supplant parental guidance, religious freedom, and important institutions like marriage and family by instituting educational protocols indoctrinating the youth of the world into accepting that - [Perry v. Schwarzenegger: The Beginning of the End of Religious Freedom in America](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/perry-v-schwarzenegger-the-beginning-of-the-end-of-religious-freedom-in-america-2/) - Perry v. Schwarzenegger: The Beginning of the End of Religious Freedom in America Laura Bunker I love “The Golden State.” I was raised in Santa Rosa, the all-American town where the movie Pollyanna was filmed. Like Pollyanna, most of our neighbors attended church every Sunday (albeit different churches) and flew the flag every 4th of - [The Age of the Uncivilized](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-age-of-the-uncivilized-2/) - August 17, 2010 The Age of the Uncivilized The family is the source of our greatest joys and some of our keenest sorrows. It is where our most basic need to love and be loved is nurtured. In the family men and women learn to sacrifice, love, and serve. Children learn to value work, respect, - [Violent Video Games vs. Free Speech: How serious are we about protecting children?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/violent-video-games-vs-free-speech-how-serious-are-we-about-protecting-children-2/) - August 25, 2010 Yesterday, members of United Families International joined with other pro-family organizations and Utah state legislators in a press conference to encourage Utah's Attorney General not to oppose the California law prohibiting minors from purchasing ultra-violent and sexually explicit video games. This press conference was in response to a recent Salt Lake Tribune - [Feeling the Failure of Feminism: Did women get what they bargained for?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/feeling-the-failure-of-feminism-did-women-get-what-they-bargained-for/) - September 2, 2010 Feeling the Failure of Feminism Did women get what they bargained for? With the passage of 19th Amendment, 90 years ago this month, women in the U.S. were given the right to vote. The media has been full of stories of the numerous celebratory events and pundits have been eager to give - [History's Staunchest Human Rights Defender Now a Self-proclaimed Human Rights Violator](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/historys-staunchest-human-rights-defender-now-a-self-proclaimed-human-rights-violator/) - History's Staunchest Human Rights Advocate Now a Self-Proclaimed Human Rights Violator According to the August 20, 2010 Report of the United States of America submitted to the UN High Commissioner for Human Rights, it appears that the U.S. is a human rights violator and its societal short comings have now been reported to the appropriate - [When did it become socially acceptable to hate children?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/when-did-it-become-socially-acceptable-to-hate-children-2/) - When Did It Become Socially Acceptable to Hate Children? When did it become socially acceptable to hate children? That's the question we at UFI seem to have asked ourselves regularly over the last few weeks. It used to be that lashing out at children was the domain of the occasional neighborhood curmudgeon. Now it appears - [Preservation of National Sovereignty Protects Your Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/preservation-of-national-sovereignty-protects-your-family/) - Preservation of National Sovereignty Protects Your Family Much of my adult life has been spent studying issues and policies with the intent to contribute to positive outcomes for the institutions and ideals that I hold dear. Now, as President of United Families International (UFI), the ideals I promote are found in what we call our - [Family Policy Rejected at the UN](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/family-policy-rejected-at-the-un-2/) - Last week in New York, the UN hosted leaders from around the globe to talk about the most pressing problems that face nations, but nothing was mentioned about families. These world leaders were presented with a document that had been negotiated for months prior, a document that didn't include one phrase about family. During this - [Your money to be used to promote abortion Worldwide](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/your-money-to-be-used-to-promote-abortion-worldwide/) - Over the past several months, astute readers have recognized an underlying theme to our varied "UFI alerts". This theme is summarized quite simply: When the government of the United States of America stands firmly on behalf of the family, the impact is felt globally. In contrast, when the US government equivocates, or, as in present - [More Trick than Treat: UNICEF Loses Sight of Their Mission](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/more-trick-than-treat-unicef-loses-sight-of-their-mission-2/) - "More Trick than Treat:" UNICEF Loses Sight of Their Mission It was 60 years ago this month when the United Nations Children's Education Fund""UNICEF""began their highly successful "Trick or Treat for UNICEF" campaign. Several generations of Halloween-costumed children have carried the orange donation boxes door to door to help children in countries around the world - [Agressive Homosexual Advocacy Impacts Military Families](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/agressive-homosexual-advocacy-impacts-military-families/) - UFI: Aggressive Homosexual Advocacy Impacts Military Families October 19, 2010 Aggressive Homosexual Advocacy Impacts Military Families It's been an interesting few weeks and months. There are many things that have occurred in the social policy world that should give all of us cause for great optimism. Such things as the state of Nebraska's new - [Your Children and Their "Right to Comprehensive Sex Education"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/your-children-and-theirright-to-comprehensive-sex-education/) - Your children and their "Right to Comprehensive Sex Ed" The UN ideologues are at it again! This week a special UN Rapporteur or "expert" will be presenting to the UN General Assembly (GA) a report promoting yet another fabricated human-right - the "right to comprehensive sexual education." Comprehensive sex education is a movement promoting a - [A Key to Preserving the Family: Get Out and Vote!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-key-to-preserving-the-family-get-out-and-vote/) - A Key to Preserving the Family: Get out and vote! I have been involved in the trenches of popular electoral politics for my entire adult life. Experiences gained in these years led me into involvement with United Families International. And while UFI is a non-partisan organization, I recognized that unless caring, concerned, and committed people - [Good News for Parents!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/good-news-for-parents/) - Good News for Parents "The family is the cornerstone of our society. More than any other force it shapes the attitude, the hopes, the ambitions, and the values of the child. And when the family collapses it is the children that are usually damaged. When it happens on a massive scale the community itself is crippled. So, unless - [Protecting the Family Comes at a Price](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/protecting-the-family-comes-at-a-price/) - Protecting the family comes at a price! United Families International has been protecting and strengthening families since 1978. After successfully battling the anti-life, anti-traditional family agenda of the Equal Rights Amendment (ERA) in the USA, UFI followed the major proponents of ERA to the United Nations where radical feminists gathered for their next attack on - [Giving Thanks to You and Your Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/giving-thanks-toyou-and-your-family/) - In the U.S., it is the week that we'll be celebrating the Thanksgiving holiday, but you may not know that it is also the time that the nation celebrates National Family Week. Our United Families Utah chapter sent out a wonderful note of thanks to all their members. It so expresses our sentiments, we decided - [Marriage and Traditional Family the Target of Agressive Activists](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/marriage-and-traditional-family-thetarget-of-agressive-activists/) - Marriage and Traditional Families the Target of Aggressive Activists The last few weeks have seen United Families staff extremely busy. The UN Third Committee Meetings in New York always generate lots of resolutions that need to be monitored and language inserted or modified in order to protect family and the sanctity of life. We appreciate - [Stay Alive (HIV/Aids Program) is Saving Lives!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/stay-alive-hivaids-program-is-saving-lives/) - Hello Friends: United Families International is the proud sponsor of Stay Alive, the highly successful HIV/AIDs prevention program. Today, we wanted to bring you an update on this outstanding program. Since 2001, the Stay Alive Program has been taught in nine different African countries to over a million and a half African children and their - [Merry Christmas from UFI](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/merry-christmas-from-ufi/) - Christmas waves a magic wand over this world, and behold, everything is softer and more beautiful. ~Norman Vincent Peale Dear Friends: We wanted to commemorate this special time with a few of our favorite quotes: Christmas is a necessity. There has to be at least one day of the year to remind us that we're - [UFI's Top Ten for 2010](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufis-top-ten-for-2010/) - Hello Friends: As 2010 comes to a close, we at United Families International have much for which to be grateful. It has been a year of challenges and blessings. Although those who would see the family dismantled, the culture of death cultivated, parental rights diminished, and religion abolished from society continue their destructive work, this - [Gifts That Endure](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/gifts-that-endure-2/) - In O'Henry's Christmas story The Gift of the Magi, a newlywed husband and wife each gives up something dear to bring to the other a surprise gift of unique value. In case you haven't yet read this moving tale, I will say only that in the end, the gifts given dramatically teach us about the - [The Equality Act – An Atrocity Against Women](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-equality-act-an-atrocity-against-women/) - Hello Friends, Last week the House Judicial Committee conducted a hearing regarding HR5. This incredibly dangerous piece of legislation, innocuously named the Equality Act – after all, who doesn’t like equality – has the potential to inflict terrible harm on women, children and families. We can agree on general goals regarding equality because Americans believe - [The UN: Transforming Society by Restructuring the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-un-transforming-society-by-restructuring-the-family/) - Hello Friends, This last weekend I was in Verona, Italy at the World Congress of Families VIII. The World Congress of Families (WCF) is an event that brings together people from around the world who want to strengthen and defend the family. It is attended by leaders, organizations, and families that believe in the natural - [URGENT! STOP HR5. CALL REPRESENTATIVES NOW!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/urgent-stop-hr5-call-representatives-now/) - Hello Friends, The House Judiciary Committee is holding a hearing April 2 on HR5, the Equality Act. This bill would amend the Civil Rights Act to include sexual orientation and gender identity. This act poses a serious threat to religious freedom, state independence and women’s rights. The vague wording of this bill could be interpreted - [Loopholes: Closing One and the Exploitation of Another](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/loopholes-closing-one-and-the-exploitation-of-another/) - It’s been quite a week for the pro-family/pro-life effort. In the international arena, there has been some great news and some rather stunning shenanigans. First, the good news. The Closing of a Loophole On Tuesday, U.S. Secretary of State Mike Pompeo announced the Trump administration would be expanding the Mexico City Policy in an effort - [UFI: Promoting a Better Vision for Women and the Family at the UN](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/25338/) - From the desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, UFI board member, Jenet Erickson, accompanied our team at the UN’s Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) this year. She reports today on what she saw and the impact it had on her. We wish you all could come with us! We will report on the - [Gender Identity Politics: Erasing Womanhood at the United Nations and How that Will Affect You](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/gender-identity-politics-erasing-womanhood-at-the-united-nations-and-how-that-will-affect-you/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, As we planned for the Commission on the Status of Women this year, we felt strongly that we needed to address two aspects of the current trends in transgender activism: the participation of transwomen in women’s sports competition, and the push to medically transition young children. It - [Masterpiece Cakeshop: Successfully defends religious liberty – again!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/masterpiece-cakeshop-successfully-defends-religious-liberty-again/) - From the desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, Jack Phillips of Masterpiece Cakeshop was in the news again. We’ve shared his story with you before. He is one of an increasing number of business owners who find themselves caught in a battle between First Amendment rights and the redefinition of marriage and gender. They are - [The United Nations and the Family: What does it have to do with you?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-united-nations-and-the-family-what-does-it-have-to-do-with-you/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, Most people don’t realize the pervasive influence that the United Nations has on our everyday lives and the way it can affect our families. UN deliberations affect our laws, the curriculum in our schools and the policies governments enact. Two pro-family colleagues, Angela Fallentine and Ryan Koch, - [The Countercultural Institution on the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-countercultural-institution-on-the-family/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, Author and researcher Jennifer Marshall has said “Marriage is a promise. Not just between one man and one woman, but to the community at large, to generations past and to those yet to be born. Wedding vows set apart this lifelong, life-giving relationship from all others.” That - [The Reality of Abortion: Sacrificing the Future](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-reality-of-abortion-sacrificing-the-future/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, On the anniversary of Roe v. Wade, the New York legislature passed a law that would protect the most radical of abortion procedures. The state has defined abortion as a fundamental right. Doing so may infringe on rights of conscience for health care providers who do not - [UN Civil Society Comes to Utah](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/un-civil-society-comes-to-utah/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, Goal number 11 of the UN Sustainable Development Goals is to “make cities and human settlements inclusive, safe, resilient and sustainable.” Using that goal as the basis for the theme of the upcoming UN Civil Society Conference held in Salt Lake City August 26 – 28, the - [The Enduring Nature of the March for Life](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-enduring-nature-of-the-march-for-life/) - Hello Friends, Dr. Bernard Nathanson was an influential proponent of legalized abortion. He performed, by his own admission, 60,000 abortions during his career. He admitted to lying about how many abortions were performed before legalization and about how many women died from abortion. In his biography, he admits to having performed an abortion on his - [China: Punishing the Faithful and Making Churches an Arm of the State](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/china-punishing-the-faithful-and-making-churches-an-arm-of-the-state/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, It is hard to know for certain, but the best estimates from internal surveys indicate that there are approximately 31 million Christians living in China today and close to 22 million Muslims. While Islam has been present in China for 1400 years and Christianity as early as - [Family - When Less May Not Be More](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/family-when-less-may-not-be-more/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Russell M. Nelson, president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, has said, “The home is the laboratory of love, and in it resides the most important unit of the Church and of society—the family.” We live, however, in a day and age where people, while extolling - [Parents: The First and Best Defense Against Pornography in Schools](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/parents-the-first-and-best-defense-against-pornography-in-schools/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: Hello Friends, Just a couple of thoughts…questions really. How familiar are you with everything that is going on at your children’s school (or your grandchildren’s)? And if something happened at school that was harmful to your kids, would you know about it? How transparent is your school’s administration? Consider - [Happy Thanksgiving](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/happy-thanksgiving/) - From the Desk of Tori Black: For the beauty of the earth, For the beauty of the skies, For the love which from our birth Over and around us lies, For the beauty of each hour Of the day and of the night, Hill and vale, and tree and flow'r, Sun and moon, and - [Join the Race for Virtue!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/join-race-virtue/) - Join the Race for Virtue! One benefit of working with United Families is the opportunity we have to partner with other pro-family organizations. For instance, while at the United Nations, UFI has collaborated with Fight the New Drug to educate individuals and community leaders about the dangers of pornography, and last March we teamed up - [Respect for Life and the Tucson Tragedy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/respect-for-life-and-the-tucson-tragedy-2/) - Respect for Life and the Tucson Tragedy We, at United Families International, have been greatly saddened by what occurred in Tucson, Arizona, where six people were killed and more than a dozen injured. The tragedy in Tucson is a tragedy for us all. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the victims and their families. - [Economic Realities, the Family, and You](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/economic-realities-the-family-and-you/) - Economic Realities, the Family, and You Many families around the world find themselves struggling these days in the face of global economic recession. Struggling to meet the daily requirements of feeding spouses and children, providing a safe and comfortable dwelling, and ensuring an education more likely to provide the younger generation with the tools necessary - [Do Mothers and Fathers Matter?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/do-mothers-and-fathers-matter/) - February 3, 2011 Dear Friend of the Family: With state legislative sessions beginning or in process all over the United States and the UN "conference season" kicking into gear, it is indeed a very busy time for United Families International. We're happy to report that your voices have already been heard and positive pro-life/pro-family legislative - [National Marriage Week - "Marriage pays huge dividends!"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/national-marriage-week-marriage-pays-huge-dividends/) - "Marriage pays huge dividends!" Strengthen Yours. The truth is, marriage is beneficial for both personal and national economic stability and is critical for raising well-adjusted children. Such is the sentiment of Chuck Stetson, CEO of National Marriage Week USA which is appropriately proclaimed the week before Valentine's Day This annual event is a great time - [Your Values are being threatened](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/your-values-are-being-threatened-2/) - Your Values Are Being Threatened UFI's core principles or "Five Respects:" * Respect for Family and Marriage * Respect for Life * Respect for Parental Rights * Respect for Religion * Respect for Sovereignty Dear Friend of the Family: Over the past several months we have discussed many issues related to the United Families International - [Training your child to be a gender and sexual rights activist](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/training-your-child-to-be-a-gender-and-sexual-rights-activist/) - Training Your Child to be a Gender and Sexual Rights Activist A gathering at the UN's Commission on the Status of Women was the perfect venue to introduce International Planned Parenthood's new Comprehensive Sex Education Curriculum. The room was filled with NGOs from around the world - groups with the capability of helping organizations - [You asked for it: How to stop harmful sex education](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/you-asked-for-it-how-to-stop-harmful-sex-education-2/) - You Asked For It: How to stop harmful sex education Dear Friend of the Family: United Families International received a large response and many questions regarding our last email communication telling you about the new sex education curriculum entitled "It's All One: Guidelines and Activities for a Unified Approach to Sexuality, Gender HIV, and Human - [A "New" Role for Men](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-new-role-for-men-2/) - A "New" Role for Men: UN Releases Publication on the Role of Fathers In a somewhat surprising deviation from its usual habit of focusing almost exclusively on "women and the girl child," the UN recently released its publication Men in Families and Family Policy in a Changing World. Written by a team of "experts"on family - [A Change for UFI; Times and Seasons...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-change-for-ufi-times-and-seasons/) - United Families International wishes to express gratitude to Mike Duff for his wonderful leadership as President of United Families International the past two years. He has enabled UFI to continue its worldwide influence for good in the pro-family movement. Mike has now consented to turn his attention to the domestic affairs in the United States - [The Problem is Population Decline!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-problem-is-population-decline/) - The Problem is Population Decline Once again, I have accepted the responsibilities of being president of United Families International. While my life as a full time wife, mother, educator, and citizen offer plenty of personal fulfillment, I find myself compelled to contribute my resources to protecting family life for countries and individuals around the world - [You might be a religious fundamentalist...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/you-might-be-a-religious-fundamentalist-2/) - May 25, 2011 You might be a religious fundamentalist... 'Religious freedom under attack' has become a common refrain. Regular news updates remind us of such things as the "candy cane" case currently being heard before the U.S. 5th Circuit Court of Appeals, the removal of crosses on Utah highways, or whether or not prayer should - [Courageous Youth Needed](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/courageous-youth-needed/) - June 1, 2011 Courageous Youth Needed This July the UN will be bustling with young people as the International Year of Youth (IYY) is formally celebrated in New York City. According to United Nations Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon, this event will be the culmination of a year-long effort to "give youth an active part in the - [Mainstreaming Gender Confusion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/mainstreaming-gender-confusion-2/) - June 15, 2011 Mainstreaming Gender Confusion Everybody I know finds it very easy to mark "Male" or "Female" in the appropriate box. So, a few years ago when I was at the United Nations and I was told that there are actually seven genders, I was dumbfounded if not irritated. At the time, - [Religious Freedom on Trial](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/religious-freedom-on-trial-2/) - June 22, 2011 Religious Freedom on Trial Religious freedom issues have been brought to the forefront this year in the suburbs of San Antonio, Texas. There, a self-described agnostic couple filed a suit in federal district court claiming their son, a soon to graduate senior at a local public high school, would be irreparably harmed - [Large Families are Treasures](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-large-families-are-treasures/) - July 6, 2011 "Without exaggeration, the central problem of contemporary Russia is demography, strengthening the family, increasing the birth rate..." ~ Vladimir Putin, Prime Minister of the Russian Federation The recently completed Moscow Demographic Summit brought to the forefront the consequences of falling birthrates and subsequent economic decline as well as the dilemma associated with - [Sexual Rights at Youth Conference](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/sexual-rights-at-youth-conference/) - July 13, 2011 Sexual Rights at the Forefront of World Youth Conference Camps, internships, and youth conferences - they're the stuff of summer for many young people. Few are aware, however, that youth are gathering July 25-26 in New York to celebrate the 25th anniversary of the International Year of Youth (1985). This promises to - [Getting Away with Murder](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/getting-away-with-murder/) - July 19, 2011 Dear Friend of the Family, We want to thank our United Families Utah Chapter and Laura Bunker for today's enlightening review of the recent U.S. Supreme Court's decision to overturn California's law banning the sale of violent video games to minors. Because this is pertinent information for all parents and grandparents, we - [Unmasking Goliath](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-unmasking-goliath/) - August 3, 2011 We are often asked what motivates the anti-family movement so prevalent at the UN. Why do they do what they do? UN expert, Tom Christensen, sheds some light on this important question. As always, you will benefit from Tom's perspective and we invite you to share this information with all who might - [The UN Lets Down the Youth of the World](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/the-un-lets-down-the-youth-of-the-world/) - August 10, 2011 The UN lets down the youth of the world "The youth of the world were invited, but not allowed to speak" best characterizes what occurred at the UN High Level Meeting on Youth on July 25-26. United Families International and other pro-family groups showed up with well-trained young adults ready to - ["Thank You" to a Courageous Leader](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/thank-you-to-a-courageous-leader/) - August 26, 2011 "Stronger families. Stronger Communities. A Stronger Society" A Courageous Leader Speaks Out! Finally, a political leader has been willing to state the obvious. May the committed parents of this generation rise up against the darkness of our generation and set a standard for their children that will give their children legs to - [Standing Up to Goliath](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-standing-up-to-goliath/) - August 31, 2011 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: Gratefully, many of you have responded to the invitation we extended last week to express thanks to Britain's Prime Minister David Cameron for his valiant stand on strengthening the family as a means to alleviate societal ills. If you have not yet added your name - [Schools Days: What are your children being taught?](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/schools-days-what-are-your-children-being-taught/) - September 8, 2011 School Days: What are your children being taught? You carefully monitor the television shows your children watch. Your internet has the best filters and is in a public place in your home. You restrict the movies your children view and you are vigilant about the types of reading material they bring into - [Exposing Modern Day Slavery](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/exposing-modern-day-slavery/) - September 15, 2011 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: Today we give a brief report on the tragic and disconcerting topic of prostitution and sex trafficking -not a topic that most of us want to go anywhere near. Unfortunately, it is a topic and a concern that desperately needs and deserves our attention. Is - [Every Child Deserves a Father and Mother](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/every-child-deserves-a-father-and-mother/) - September 28, 2011 Every Child Deserves a Mother and a Father A colleague in the pro-family effort has alerted us to another effort underway in Europe to allow children to be stripped of their right to have both a mother and a father. The Council of Europe, in their desire "to promote the progressive - [Cultivating Productive Citizens](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-cultivating-productive-citizens/) - From the Desk of Carol Soelberg United Families International uses as its motto, "Securing a Future for Families". We dedicate untold hours attending conferences and commissions affecting positive outcomes where issues threatening the family are discussed and decided. We also research and write volumes of educational articles informing and encouraging citizens to advocate in behalf - [Punching Back at Pro-abortion Advocates](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/punching-back-at-pro-abortion-advocates-2/) - October 13, 2011 "If you tell a lie loud enough, long enough, people will believe it." So goes the adage that exemplifies the approach that the pro-abortion and anti-family advocates at the UN and in the international arena are using to promote worldwide abortion. The notion that "Abortion is an International Human Right!" is continually - [What Population Control Advocates Don't Say](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/what-population-control-advocates-dont-say/) - October 20, 2011 What Population Control Advocates Aren't Telling You IInternational population advocates and their allies in the media have decided that October 31, 2011 is the day that the world’s population will reach 7 billion. How convenient for them; they get to play off the day dedicated to spooky tales with a spooky tale - ["What tuition should we charge for learning humanity?"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/what-tuition-should-we-charge-for-learning-humanity/) - October 25, 2011 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: We welcome Amy Day as a new contributor to our weekly articles and alerts. This week we begin a series related to a topic that probably few of us give much thought - that topic being the "Modern-Day Eugenics Movement." In addition to the scourge of - [Living without Regrets](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-living-without-regrets/) - November 1, 2011 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: I am FIRST a wife and mother, a sister, daughter, aunt, and a Grandma! In these relationships the critical value of the family in a healthy society comes to greatest recognition. These relationships provide the fire behind my vigilant role as protector of family issues while - [A Chance to Reduce Divorce](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/a-chance-to-reduce-divorce/) - November 10, 2011 A Chance to Reduce Divorce "Rather than a teacher, most days I feel like I'm a janitor cleaning up the mess left behind by broken families and divorce," lamented my friend who is long-time elementary school teacher. She went on to explain how so many children in her class suffer from being - [Anderson: A Perfect Candidate for Abortion](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-a-perfect-candidate-for-abortion/) - November 16, 2011 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg:: In our efforts to protect and strengthen the family, we have found that the battle field is found on five major fronts which we call our "Five Respects". They include a respect for the family, marriage, life, parents and religious liberty. We dedicate countless hours to - [Different Forms of the Family](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-different-forms-of-the-family/) - December 7, 2011 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg These are perilous times for families and for cultures around the world. Those who would redefine the family and normalize deviancy are relentless. The newest outrage comes in the form of a statement by U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton speaking at UN meetings in Geneva, - [Laws Put Religious Freedom in Jeopardy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/laws-put-religious-freedom-in-jeopardy-2/) - February 23, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: Around the world, traditional marriage is on the chopping block. Those advocating for same-sex "marriage" are trying to take the "fight" out of the discussion by adding to laws some meaningless phrases they hope will put us all to sleep. Don't be fooled. There is no - [We're Back!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-were-back/) - May 4, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: WE'RE BACK!!! Actually, we never left, but you may have thought so because you haven't heard from us in a couple of weeks. We are very sorry that our email delivery system has been experiencing difficulties and hope you have missed us as much as we - ["The Longest Suicide Note in History..."](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-the-longest-suicide-note-in-history/) - Rio+20: “the Longest Suicide Note in History” June 21, 2012 The media will tell you that the Rio +20 Sustainable Environment Conference began on Wednesday, June 20, with world leaders converging on Rio de Rio de Janeiro, but for the pro-family world the drama ended in the days prior. It ended with the completion of - [Onward to a Better Tomorrow!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-onward-to-a-better-tomorrow/) - November 8, 2012 Onward to a Better Tomorrow! Election day in the United States was a day of disappointments for the pro-family community. The leadership of the country was given again to the most pro-gay, pro-abortion President the country has ever known. In addition, the four states that voted on traditional marriage ballot issues - [Memories of a Pro-Family Giant](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/anderson-i-remember-darkness-2/) - December 4, 2012 From the desk of Carol Soelberg: In the family arena, it seems we often deal with extremes. This week is no exception. We have some wonderful news to share but some very sad news as well. Good news first! The Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities which we reported on - [The Battle for Family Continues at the UN](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-the-battle-for-family-continues-at-the-un/) - The battle for family continues this week in New York at the UN Commission on Population and Development. As we write, the commission is going into the final hours. The commission draft document, as it stands is, packed with language - both good and bad -for families. The pro-family coalition, United Families International included, is - ["We the Families"](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-we-the-familiesq/) - May 10, 2011 "We the Families" "We the People" or should the U.S. Constitution more aptly read: "We the Families"? It's an interesting question. Tom Christensen once again shares his wisdom and his insights on the importance of family. Although Tom's commentary is directed at the U.S. and its constitution, his insights have application to - [Father's Day: A Time to Recommit](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-fathers-day-a-time-to-recommit/) - June 8, 2011 Father's Day: A Time to Recommit It's June and in my corner of the world, that means warmer weather, summer vacations, kids out of school and Father's Day! In just over a week we will be celebrating the influence of dads in our lives. United Families International has researched the critical place - [Unheralded Heroes](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/christensen-unheralded-heroes/) - March 6, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg: Our weekly alerts are provided to educate about issues relating to the family, inform of current threats, and inspire with proven principles. Tom Christensen is our expert in defining unchanging principles that inspire us to continue to fight the sources that relentlessly try to disguise the - ["Sexual Orientation" 101](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/ufi-sexual-orientation-101/) - May 3, 2013 Sexual Orientation & Gender Identity 101 The controversial term “sexual orientation” has been receiving much attention recently as the Boy Scouts of America (BSA) released their proposed resolution that will receive an up or down vote at a gathering of BSA representatives in Texas on May 22-23. On that date, some 1400 - [Mothers at the UN](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/mothers-at-the-un-2/) - Mothers at the UN Dear Friend of the Family: The Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) begins today in New York and United Families International has four representatives attending: Jean Bentley, Anne Stewart, Margy Barker and Marcia Barlow. To give you a flavor of what these women might encounter, we share a short experience - [Inside the UN: The "West" is Obsessed with Sex](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/inside-the-un-the-west-is-obsessed-with-sex-2/) - April 21,2011 Inside the UN: The Commission on Population and Development 2011 "The West is Obsessed with Sex" read the bold caption on a flyer handed out to UN delegates by our pro-family coalition back in 2000. As this year's Commission on Population and Development (CPD) unfolded, the need to resurrect that flyer became ever - [Judges Run Amok](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/judges-run-amok/) - April 26, 2011 As we see the legal struggles around the world over such things as the definition of marriage, the challenges to religious freedom and rights of conscience, and the never-ending battle to protect unborn life, we come face to face with the reality that the court systems hold a particular power that is - [Mother: The Keeper of the Springs](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/mother-the-keeper-of-the-springs/) - May 3, 2011 Mother: The Keeper of the Springs Some fifty years ago Dr. Peter Marshall, former chaplain to the U.S. Senate, told a story of a small town nestled at the foot of a mountain range which was known far and wide for it wonderful pure spring water. People came from all around to - [Hollywood Wrong Again...](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/hollywood-wrong-again-2/) - May 17, 2011 Hollywood wrong...again Remember last summer and the controversy surrounding actress Jennifer Aniston? While promoting her new movie "The Switch," Aniston had commented: "Women are realizing it more and more that you don't have to settle. They don't have to fiddle with a man to have that child." Bill O'Reilly, Fox News commentator, - [Schools and "Gay" Clubs](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/schools-and-gay-clubs/) - January 4, 2012 From the Desk of Carol Soelberg United Families International wishes you a very happy and successful New Year! Entrenched though we are in the battles that abound to protect your family, we are optimistic about the New Year and all that is being done to promote and protect the family. We feel - [UN General Assembly We Can't Ignore the UN!](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/un-general-assembly-we-cant-ignore-the-un/) - February 29, 2012 UN General Assembly We Can't Ignore the UN! It was at the UN Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) that we first met Layla Alkhafaii. After Layla finished college in Iraq she was targeted by the Ba'ath party and told she had to join. 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I live in Colorado with my husband and three children. I enjoy reading, baking, cooking, and spending time with my family. I am passionate about advocating for families and its importance role in society. - [Christal Taggart](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/rebecca-tingey/) - Christal is a senior at BYU–Idaho, graduating in July 2026 with a Bachelor’s degree in Marriage and Family Studies with an emphasis in parent education. She also holds an Associate’s degree in Family History Research, reflecting her strong commitment to family across generations. Christal is passionate about strengthening and preserving the family and is excited - [Becky Osmond](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/mayet-black/) - I am a senior at Brigham Young University-Idaho and will be graduating with a degree in Marriage and Family Studies with an emphasis in Parent Education in April 2027. I have been married for 23 years and have four creative children. My favorite thing in the world is watching my children doing the things they - [Allysann Holder](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/crystal-garcia/) - Allysann Holder is a senior at Brigham Young University-Idaho, graduating in July 2026 with a degree in Marriage and Family Studies. She recently got married in the St. George temple in early April! She loves water parks, snorkeling, hiking, and traveling. Allysann loves working with and protecting children and families in any way she can. - [Heidi Darrington](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/sarah-speer/) - Heidi Darrington is completing her Bachelor of Science in Marriage and Family through Brigham Young University- Idaho and will graduate in July 2026. She lives in Southeast Idaho with her husband and two little girls. She loves to take long walks in rainy weather, read mystery novels, and make goodies with her kids. Her children - [Kortnie Kunz](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/claudia-schmitt/) - Kortnie Kunz is a senior at Brigham Young University Idaho and will be graduating December 2026 with a degree in Marriage and Family Studies. She lives in Rexburg, Idaho and loves spending time with her roommates, being outdoors, fishing, and camping. She loves advocating for children and families and is excited to be part of - [Rebecca Heiner](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/rebecca-heiner/) - Rebecca is a recent graduate of BYU-Idaho, earning a bachelor's degree in Marriage and Family Studies with an emphasis on family advocacy. Rebecca is passionate about the importance of families within communities and is especially dedicated to reinforcing this within society. She believes it is important to pass this knowledge along to the next generation and - [Wendy Wixom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/wendy-wixom/) - Before her appointment as President of United Families International (UFI), Wendy served as the United Nations Policy and Projects Coordinator for the International Organization for the Family. In these roles, she has traveled the world collaborating with UN Ambassadors, delegates, and civic and religious leaders to advocate for the family unit. Under her leadership, UFI - [Rachel Tucker](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/ellie-wilson/) - Rachel Tucker is a HomeFront Developer and Intern Supervisor with United Families International. She first joined UFI as an intern, working on the HomeFront team, and continued with the organization following the completion of her internship due to her strong commitment to its mission and programs. Rachel graduated from Brigham Young University - Idaho 2025 - [Kristen Hackett](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/kristen-hackett/) - Kristen Hackett serves as the Educational Outreach Director for United Families International. She first became involved with UFI while studying at BYU–Idaho, where she earned a Bachelor of Science in Marriage and Family. After completing an internship with UFI, Kristen continued her work with the organization, driven by a deep commitment to its mission. Kristen - [Cristina Cevallos Calle](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/cristina-cevallos-calle/) - Cristina is a Peruvian lawyer with a master's degree in Human Rights. She combines political experience with her work as a writer and researcher, focusing on bioethics, family, religious freedom, and cultural heritage. - [Camille Williams](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/camille-williams/) - Camille Stilson Williams (J.D., M.A., Brigham Young University) worked as part of the Family Law Research Project at the J. Reuben Clark Law School at Brigham Young University, and has taught family law for undergraduates. Her research interests are related to women’s and family issues. Her publications have supported the sanctity of human life and - [Olivia Neufeld](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/olivia-neufeld/) - Olivia is a BYU-Idaho graduate with a degree in Marriage and Family Studies. After eighteen years of avoiding political and controversial discussions, and upon arriving at BYUI, she came to realize that avoidance was not the answer to her problems. Olivia has since then become a passionate and vocal family advocate, with hopes of making - [Sydnee Smith](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/sydnee-smith/) - “Sydnee graduated with her bachelor’s degree in Marriage and Family studies at Brigham Young University Idaho. She enjoys spending time with her husband and twin boys. Some of her favorite hobbies include, chess, going on walks, and thrifting. She is excited to be involved advocating for families, and creating content for UFI!” - [Jenet Erickson](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/liz-gillespie/) - [Rachel Cannon](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/rachel-cannon/) - Rachel Cannon graduated from Brigham Young University - Idaho in Marriage and Family Studies. She loves to learn new things and spend time in nature. She comes from a family of eight and married her best friend. She says family is her greatest joy in life and is excited about the opportunity to strengthen other - [Marcia Barlow](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/marcia-barlow/) - Marcia Barlow, Vice President of Policy and Senior Advisor, oversees “all things UN” for United Families International. She directs the development and updating of the UN Negotiating Guide and oversees research and policy analysis on domestic, as well as international issues. Some of Marcia’s favorite UFI projects are the Guide to Family Issues series and - [LeeAnn Riddle](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/leeann-riddle/) - Because I have spent the last 25 years raising a family with my husband, I have been quick to find interest in the defense of the family. Promoting and assisting this defense has become a new passion. I also enjoy reading, working as a family, hiking, long walks, and learning to cook healthy meals. - [Alexis Tarkalson](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/alexis-tarkalson/) - Alexis Goodman Tarkalson is a senior at Brigham Young University-Idaho studying Political Science with an emphasis in American Government and a cluster in Spanish Fluent Speakers. She became interested in the field of government and allocation of power within the structure as a teenager in high school. In 2022, she did her internship with United - [Emily Judkins](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/emily-judkins/) - Emily Judkins graduated from Brigham Young University of Idaho with a bachelors degree in Marriage and Family Studies. She is passionate about finding ways to build a strong family and with helping others do the same. Emily lives in Southern California with her husband. She works full time and likes to spend her free time - [Yalaina Griffin](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/yalaina-griffin/) - Yalaina Griffin graduated from Brigham Young University - Idaho in 2019 with a bachelor's degree in marriage and Family Studies. She is passionate about strengthening and defending families, and began volunteering for United Families shortly after graduating. She was raised in Utah and now lives in Missouri with her husband and two children. Her hobbies - [Sandy Howard](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/sandy-howard/) - Sandy Howard's involvement with United Families International (UFI) has grown from her initial role as the Facebook Coordinator to her current volunteer roles as the HomeFront Director and a member of the UN Missions Team. She is dedicated to the promotion and defense of traditional family values and constitutional freedoms. Holding a Bachelor of Arts - [Sarah Sabin](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/sarah-sabin/) - Sarah Sabin graduated from BYU-Idaho with a degree in Marriage and Family Studies, She is married to her best friend and is a homeschooling mom of seven beautiful children. She spends her time wrangling kids and animals at their family's hobby farm. - [Kim McCloy](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/april-gallart/) - Kimberly McCloy is a recent graduate from Brigham Young University-Idaho, with a Bachelor's degree in Marriage and Family Studies. Kimberly and her husband, an active duty Air Force pilot, have been married for 19 years and are proud parents to three wonderful children. As a dedicated military spouse for the past 18 years, she has - [Tori Black](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/tori-black/) - [Heather Sandstrom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/heather-sandstrom/) - [Susan Roylance](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/susan-roylance/) - Susan Roylance, Director of International Policy and Social Development, is the author/compiler of several books on international family policy, including the UN Negotiating Guide, The Family and the MDGs – Using Family Capital to Achieve the Millennium Development Goals and Family Capital and the SDGs – Implementing the 17 Sustainable Development Goals. Susan participated in - [Esme Weathers](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/esme-weathers/) - Esme Weathers, Director of Finance, is in charge of UFI’s administration affairs and oversees the organization’s finances. She graduated from Brigham Young University Hawaii with a B.S. in Accounting and minor in Organizational Behavior. Esme has been with UFI ever since she was an accounting intern. She was able to join the team in action - [Jessie Keller](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/jessie-keller/) - Jessie Keller, Social Media Coordinator, grew up on Colorado’s Western Slope where she played softball, rode horses, and learned life skills from the strong women in her family. Later she moved to Utah where she started her family, ran her own business, and immersed herself in volunteer and advocacy work for the East Millcreek community - [Phil Marriott](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/phil-marriott/) - Phil Marriott has served on United Families International’s Board of Directors since 2007. Phil has been involved in many entrepreneurial activities, including real estate development in Texas and Utah. He has worked primarily as a securities financial advisor and has provided insurance solutions as well. Mr. Marriott has served on numerous boards and commissions and - [Greg Barlow](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/greg-barlow/) - Greg's professional career has focused on institutional and private real estate investing, development and management. He has been an active supporter of United Families International for 25 years. An eternal optimist, Greg believes that society and culture will ultimately return to a traditional view of family and life. - [Carol Soelberg](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/carol-soelberg/) - Carol Soelberg, UFI Board Member and Vice President of Organization Development, oversees UFI’s volunteers, internship program, and development of chapters. She has been with United Families International for over ten years lobbying at the UN, attending and speaking at World Congress of Families, organizing chapters, serving as state chapter leader, and as past President of - [Brad Wixom](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/brad-wixom/) - Brad Wixom holds a Masters of Business Administration from the Marriott School of Business at Brigham Young University. Brad has worked in the computer industry, and as CEO/President of a start-up company with sales worldwide. Brad moved into the Energy Industry to work more closely with his family serving as a Director and co-owner of - [Bob Spiel](https://www.unitedfamilies.org/teams/bob-spiel/) - Bob Spiel, UFI Chairman of the Board, acts as a catalyst for the organization to help facilitate the energy and creativity of the UFI leadership team, as well as help guide its strategic direction. 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