Some “What Ifs” of Gay Marriage

Some “What Ifs” of Gay Marriage

Gay marriage

Rachel Allison

All four of my sons are Eagle Scouts.  I helped all four of them prepare for any situation as they packed for those monthly campouts and annual scout camps.  I watched them think through the “what ifs” of all the situations for which the scouting program is famous. Our sons learned to analyze the possible problems and prepare accordingly for each eventuality. By the time they earned their Eagle status they got pretty good at it.  Fifteen years’ involvement in the scouting program taught me the importance of being prepared.  I learned to analyze and mentally document the “what ifs” of my own life and that of my family.  I also learned that I can’t just hope for a positive outcome.  I have to analyze, work, study and sacrifice so the outcomes or consequences of my decisions are best for my family.

Enter the Gay marriage movement.  I have to admit that much of the pro-Gay rhetoric is convincing.  “Two people love each other.”  “They are responsible adults.”  “They deserve to be happily married under the law.”

Where should I stand on this issue?   Let me analyze from a mother/grandmother’s perspective.

We are a family who believes in God and the Bible.  I can’t force others, nor do I want to force others to believe as we do.  But if I accept gay marriage, the “what ifs” tell me that my Pastor might be prosecuted and even jailed if he preaches against the gay lifestyle. …or if he refuses to perform a marriage ceremony.  It has happened in other parts of the world.  It could happen here.  Could the Gay movement then become so emboldened as to shut the doors of my church, which would infringe on my families’ weekly devotionals?  As I watch the Constitution being violated on several fronts already, I must stand by principles that protect my religion and my right to worship.  My faith is too dear to not seriously analyze that “what if.”

Do I want my grandchildren reading about “Prince Ferdinand” and “Prince Edmond” who marry and live happily ever after? No I do not.  But it is already happening, in many of the elementary schools across our nation.  If gay marriage is legalized, the advancement of that type of propaganda will increase more and more blatantly as the years pass. Why?  Because there are many leaders in the Gay community who want to indoctrinate.  These leaders will not be content with just getting the right to marry. As I have done my research, I have seen it.  This indoctrination is blatant. And I don’t want my grandchildren confused by this in-your-face rhetoric from the gay advocates with a proselyting agenda. Again, I have done my homework.  I have been to their meetings.  There are Gays who are openly proselyting.

The Gay movement is well-organized.  There are battles being fought on all sides. They now appear to be gaining major ground with respect to the Boy Scouts of America.  I know there are Gays whose only purpose is to become a part of the scouting movement. But when one defines himself by his sexual practices, innocent boys will too quickly become not so innocent.  Nope.  I would not be willing to expose my sons to that education at the young age of 11 and 12.

I don’t pretend to be all knowing on this subject.  But I have studied and observed.  Gay marriage is just one major step of their agenda, but there are many more steps waiting to be implemented when the Gay-marriage laws are in place. I hope that we aren’t so naïve as to think this gay movement is just about the love of two responsible adults being given the right to marry.   For many Gays, the agenda is much more far-reaching.  If you don’t believe me, do your homework and you will begin to recognize all the “what ifs.”

  • Meagan
    Posted at 14:56h, 29 January

    The good news is that religions/troops in BSA that don’t want to hire them don’t have to, so that doesn’t mean your son’s troop will become that way–it’s not going to have the low morals of GSA overnight especially with so many people committed to faith in their leadership. Plus they may reverse this if they see problems come from it. I’m not saying this was a good move, just that the media is making it sound like they are now officially a different organization–I wouldn’t count on it yet, wait for more evidence of decay before pulling out. Some parents won’t free themselves of the public schools despite obviously corrupt teachings, yet they will totally abandon a church or a faith-based organization like BSA just because of one policy change because it “could” mean they’re taking a new direction.

  • Meagan
    Posted at 16:22h, 29 January

    Still I sympathize, it’s hard knowing that a good organization will cave when the heat is on them–they are definitely putting some troops at risk even if it’s unlikely to be your own. It’s just the last 5 years they have been moving in such a good direction that it’s hard to believe they’re toast and it’s over–I still think they’re a good organization that fell for an old trick.

  • mary jane fritzen
    Posted at 10:20h, 30 January

    Social acceptance nor legality does not mean morally right. Same-sex marriage as well as social acceptance of the intimate homosexual lifestyle are goals of the gay rights movement as I understand it. As UFI wrote previously, these so-called “same sex marriages” would not really be marriages at all. Marriage is an essential social institution defined as between a man and a woman.

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